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Martinez39:
Lol. My dad has black eyes. Most people I have come across have black eyes. Maybe I am not observant enough and I have read much on eye colour and races.

They are dark brown and not black

So you're saying that you have pale brown eyes?

babythug:
If it does happen it’ll likely be during a heated argument/disagreement. The culprit will also be one who doesn’t have a grip of his emotions and is very quick with words and anger!

right...it will be very awkward afterwards

Martinez39:
Brown.

Okay

Martinez39:
>I inherited my mum's eye colour, skin colour, and posture.

What colour are your eyes?

chukxie:
The Chinese folks I know don't "put all sorts of shiet in their mouths", and neither do they eat raw fish.

You're right, they don't really like raw stuff. Even their salad is cooked

But Japanese have a whole delicacy revolving around raw fish

Skseries:
looking like I might just have this from the description of it I have some symptoms

It's common with people who have experienced any sort of early childhood trauma.

The idea of loving somebody one minute and then suddenly hating them is what reminded me of it in this thread

inspitation:
What if her womb is already damaged? after marriage no child she will now say didnt i tell you i had an abortion before?
did i force you to marry me? bla bla bla...

That can be easily solved by testing both of them for fertility

khiaa:
If that's true you should find your own writing boring.

I dont expect anything intelligent to come from somebody as backward and vulgar as you.

I hope somebody also comes to insult you on your own wedding day since insults are like kisses to you. No decorum whatsoever but youre quick to label other people ignorant. Tueh

khiaa:
No, it's not my attention span I just find your writing boring.

Why wouldn't you find it boring, since it's not full of insults and invectives like you're used to

Ignorant people always find logic boring. Shior

khiaa:
To much venting, I only read the first paragraph. I do know that you have never interacted with whites before, if you had you would know who they are and know there is no reason for you to worship them.

Thank you for showing us that you do not have the attention span to read through more than one paragraph! You just proved my point about how backward you are. Don't go and check something, just keep formulating nonsensical theories in your imagination

As if you have ever interacted with anybody outside of your village! People will be watching low budget documentaries on YouTube with dubious source material and reading crazy leaflets full of conspiracy theories and suddenly become an authority on white people smh.

Continue in your ignorant bitterness! You need serious help. You're just the corollary of racist white supremacists, forming woke without any evidence to back your claims

khiaa:
I know white people and you are ignorant about them, that's why I can speak about them. You see them as something to be worshipped and I see them for the demons they are.

A wedding do not have to be extravagant to be beautiful. He will get tired of that dark meat and long for his white counter part. I didn't say the wedding was disgraceful and shameful, the marriage is.

So you think you're the only person here who has ever met a white person before? You are suffering from both a superiority and inferiority complex.

You don't know me so how can you tell me how I see them? You're actually ignorant yourself and you're showing it right now. So everybody who doesn't nurse an automatic hatred towards white people is "worshipping" them according to you smh.

You sound like those haggard people who stand on street corners handing out tracts about "white devils" and use pseudo-science and crackpot race theories to blame everybody else for their problems

A wedding does not have to be extravagant to be beautiful, but extravagant weddings are still beautiful! People are free to celebrate their marriage any way they like so you don't have any point here. Not everybody wants to have a low key or simple wedding, stop forcing your opinions on others. They can't dull their wedding just to please people like you

You said "disgraceful and shameful" without qualifying what you meant so the fault is yours for being unclear.

There are plenty of mixed heritage marriages that are waxing stronger every day; stop forming woke over people you don't even know.

You haven't given one single example or situation of the evil of the so-called white people you know so well, all you know how to do is spill unfounded suppositions randomly on somebody's wedding. As if you know every white person on the planet smh

khiaa:
Some of you put value on the cost of the wedding which means absolutely NOTHING. The value is in the marriage and believe me that pale face will not stick with her through thick and thin. She will reap what she has sown.

How can you say that the cost of the wedding means nothing when the topic is about the wedding?

We are commenting on the wedding which you said is disgraceful and shameful for no real reason, and now youre casting doubt about their marriage which nobody can confirm either way

You really dont have the license to predict whether a marriage will work on the basis of race. You shouldnt project your own bitterness or negative experience onto innocent people on an unrelated topic

Organs:
What are you saying? I read all you wrote and responded accordingly. I called you out on your bias as well, cos YES we all have our biases but this one is so deep and you hear Igbos calling the Yoruba lady names and all forms of slurs and insults and you, too now came up and called a bias statement "balanced" That is just like Trump's there are good people on both sides when white supremacist campaigned in Philly some years back.

LOL. You just cant be reasoned with. I bid you good night sir. Or "asun ji"

Organs:
You just made my point. You believe the bolded. That is my point exactly. Cos of your bias you believe it and of course we both knew of the war, back and forth that went on when he wanted to marry her.

You are very funny.

Why are you bolding half of my statement? I told you that it may have been too heavy handed but it was still reasonable.

Why do you bother quoting me when you don't even want to read what I say

Organs:
I should be asking you if youre Ok or if youre the one misdirecting emotions.


Nobody from Okoye's family has ever complain about the woman ethnicity rather she was accused of being divisdivisive manipulative.

Some ethnic bigots are trying so hard to change the narrative that she was being victimised because she's not Igbo.

Unfortunately a lot of family are facing same marital challenge, even those that married their own village woman, if you are a bad woman you are a bad woman, it doesn't matter where you come from, though this is not to say that Lola is a bad woman because I don't her personally....

Now put the bolded together, juxtapose that with the fact that Igbos have this superiority complex towards others, then put it all into perspective and tell me how her tribe will not be the object of insult and ridicule, in all of this. You might not see it, but even your own unconscious bias is evident.

Your own biases are extremely evident, maybe you should check them!

If you put the bolded together you get a perfectly reasonable statement. Unless you can find where the family has complained about her being Yoruba and show it to me. I admit that the"ever" used there was too conclusive, but not farfetched

Igbos have a superiority complex towards others but Yorubas don't Not minding the slurs and insults that I have heard from plenty of Yoruba people even in my presence about other tribes.

And plenty of Yoruba parents swearing that their child could never marry Igbo

Oh perfect Yoruba species, we are not worthy... Please, humour us!

Biased person calling somebody biased, that's the joke of the day

khiaa:
Money, Money, Money is all some of you care about. Shameless bunch.

Well obviously having high standard materials and a nice wedding venue would make them look good, personally I don't understand your grouse.

For him to come back and marry her according to her tradition shows the respect he has for her. You don't know there are guys in Nigeria who won't bother coming

Khaleell001:
If I start replying you about why you shouldn't be fixated on this certificate thing you will think I am being stubborn.
I will let this fly.

But always know that certificate do not define knowledge but your ability to know what's right and wrong.
And mind you, the greatest world leaders in human history were not certificate holders.

You're talking besides the point. There are different types of knowledge, some of which are more necessary for certain jobs than others.

Having a knowledge of right and wrong doesn't preclude needing certain specialist skills in order to undertake a task.

And which great world leaders are you taking about? Can you comfortably compare the societies they were leading to that of Bayelsa?

As in that place needs a serious overhaul

Octopusssy:
I wonder what his JAMB score was

Lol let us be asking him o

madjune:
With the average Nigerian fatty diet., most guys have untended cholesterol issues without knowing it.

And when you try to reduce the salt/oil in the food it's enough for him to pack you back to your parents smh

SouthSouth1914:
Too much stress is not good for the heart especially jogging.. Brisk walking is the way to go! Too many people have died from jogging recently.. Can’t we get the message?

Well there's nothing wrong with jogging as long as you are healthy. I guess even brisk walking could cause problems for you if you are sick already