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AngelicBeing:
l think there is a mix up

Eketem:
Human beings sha, this is his wife, how is she ugly? Some people have jobs that requires some level of privacy hence even when married to a celebrity they stay out of the spotlight

ready2learn:
Op won 'broke' 16yrs marriage.

AngelicBeing:
I thought as much

myners007:
You are right she is. Ramsey's wife is not presentable and that's is why he doesn't attend events with her.

PreciousBro:
You seem like a fan of TVseries. Which one are you on to now?

I'm not really feeling good. I feel heartbroken.

PreciousBro:
My Joy. What's happening, I hope you're good ?

makydebbie:
You're an amazing teacher.

sirBLUNT:
cc: missjoy29

Mizzara:
Yea baby....thnx

Mizzara:
No oooo

romenna:
u untillegently got hooked on the word feminism while ignoring the crux of the matter as analysed. Ur friend is a hoe my dear.
Just so u know, persons b4 u have tried to engage me but failed woefully. Cos I decide who to engage. I make d decisions here so run along kid.

romenna:
Feminism will not kill u my sister.
I was even very mild wit d op.
She is actually an irresponsible girl for the following reasons;
1. Indecent dressing in public
2. Exchanging numbers with a randy man knowing fully well he was lusting after her
3. She is a materialiatic gold digger who was obviously moved by wat she was told.
4. In preparing for her date, she placed so much emphasis on d money she spent. It's a date not an investment forum.
5. She wasn't really interested in the man but wats in it for her.
6. I see a hoe
NO HARD FEELINGS MY DEAR

nanauju:
My dear I specifically told this man that we should hang out on that Saturday, he said no problem, that he even knew lots of hangout spots in area. My mind was fixed on us going out not knowing he had something else in mind. Maybe I gave in too quickly in agreeing to go out with him and that why he decided to change plan on to test the waters hehe

Sexonmomma:
I think that guy was too quick to judge. He didn't read the story from the lady's perspective which I really don't see anything wrong if she decides not to go.

romenna:
u hav a funny personality aftèrall.
As a psychologist, I tink ur a lil too quick in decision making.
Temperamental.
Judgemental.
A little bit of bitterness n negative minded.
Poor in human relations n not so intelligent.
Work on these my dear. Cheers

DonroxyII:
U lack
Attention to Details
Scenario based analysis
Decision Efficiency/Effectiveness skills
Human relations

You are :
Temperamental
Judgemental
Generalising
Bittered
and Dumb

Learn how to correct civilly, if it doesn't go your way, don't profile the other person .... Why must she adopt ur view .... u dey there

Princedapace:
Now u are talking sweetheart..
Happy Sunday

Princedapace:
This babe, your prayer no go work. I must find my own virgin. As long as I didn't use gun on any babe, they gladly open their legs. I'm not guilty.

Princedapace:
I have never slept with a virgin.. So I'm qualified to seek to marry a virgin.

PreciousBro:
MissJoy29. What's up?

QuinieR:
You guys shld go nd create a thread instead of discussing on here...... does it make sense at all
Cook and post pix nd not a discussion forum.
Yes you nd sirBLUNT

QuinieR:
You guys shld go nd create a thread instead of discussing on here...... does it make sense at all
Cook and post pix nd not a discussion forum.
Yes you nd sirBLUNT

Princedapace:
lol..none of the above! u dont know that I need not to be a virgin so that I can teach my virgin wife?

sirBLUNT:
We sure will(TP) when am out of my strange mode lol...

about does date you're damn fast remember mapherson 1951? when we were finding AWO and you nailed it now thats whats up,i believe you die...

just finish watching odyssey old memories...

Princedapace:
Hahahahaha

This babe... Where is the rule? Biko, no rule.. I am the one paying the wedding bills, so I choose to marry a virgin or not..

Mizzara:
Jisos!! ........

Princedapace:
Is there a rule that states orderwise?

churchkilo:
As far back as I know,I have always been plumy. I got big bones and I got used to being got the fatty and all kinds of names kids used to bully me when I was growing up. I developed low self esteem because of this. Even my family members teased the heck out of me.

As I got older,maybe in the university,I began to use the mockery I got for being fat to be funny and make jokes about myself. Some how that seemed to work and I felt a little better that I was already mocking myself before other people even had the chance to mock me. But being fat was unattractive to guys. They were cool with sleeping with me but they didn’t want to be seen with me as their girlfriends.

I work in the media industry and I get to meet a lot of artists and that is how I met Jude,he is a promoter and has been divorced. he was also very broke.I think he married me because of the opportunities he could get through me: you know,connection in the industry and of course,I was more financially buoyant.

Did I care,not really? I was 36 and its not like I was getting suitors whom I could choose from. Jude is not a bad guy either but I knew we were not together for strictly love. I knew he had side chicks. I mean,even on our wedding night,I know he hung out with someone.I didn’t care. I was married and not going to die alone. I would have a child legally too from this marriage.

However,our challenge started when Jude stopped touching me like four months after the marriage. He said he was not into me. In order words,he was not attracted to me s*xually. He would touch me like once in a month and it would be two sloppy seconds!.I was unhappy cos it would be hard to get pregnant this way. Even when I try to let him know I am ovulating so we could try,he would say he was tired.

This continued for two years. It became obvious that I was in a prison. I was not getting love or support or financial assistance or even s*x from my husband. I ran the home by myself. We were living like room mates or flat mates. My friend Oge,who was the only one I confided in asked me to file for divorce but I told her I was not ready to be single. It is not easy being single at all.

In my frustration and pain,I planned my vacation to Abu Dhabi to get out and have some fun. Away from my troubles. It was a well needed vacation. I was away for a whole month. But in that time,I met a man from Cameroon. We hung out a few times and were intimate actually. I didn’t plan it but I was in a very vulnerable place. He took interest in me and I just wanted to be happy for once. We both knew it was a fling.

That vacation was in June. And this month,I just discovered that I am pregnant. Obviously pregnant from my fling in the middle east. I am so happy about this pregnancy even if it was not planned. I told my husband when I discovered and he was like,ok,so you finally got what you wanted. He thinks the child is his. But his behavior has not even changed towards me.

I know some people might think I was crazy for thinking that having a baby would change a man. But really,I have been thinking,if I am going to remain in this loveless marriage just to have a baby,I might as well leave this marriage since I have gotten this baby now and its not even from this ungrateful man I call my husband.

I also sometimes wonder what will happen when Jude finds out anytime in the future that this child is not his? Would it not be better to tell him now so that he can decide if he wants to stay or not?

I cannot tell anyone this secret of mine. What do you think I should do? Do I keep quiet and have the baby in my marriage or what is the point of remaining in such a loveless marriage .Should I tell my husband and quit the marriage?

Princedapace:
No o.. I'm not..