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Princedapace:
Aswear, marrying a virgin is sweet.. The thought that no man penetrated her gives u that sweet feeling..

But i no see virgin marry

I sincerely hope you are a virgin too.

Mizzara:
I understand what the OP is trying to say and I quite agree with him. As we all know not all relationship lead to marriage and sometimes its not like u date them and not have marriage in view but shit happens!!...so how many people will u date before you eventually marry the one" and how many people will you keep revealing your past to in the name of being "Honest"?. Most of the times its not even d details of your past that break up the relationship. It could be something else. So how long will u keep sharing your story to " Supposed husband to be?" You can share some information. OK I did so and so so.... You don't need to go into details. A mature guy will understand that that's not necessary
Your past is your past leave it where it belong PAST!!

BTW? What is "body count?"

You are right. One has to be mature in the things that are revealed to others.

@bolded, it means the number of people you have slept with.

sirBLUNT:
and you actually did from a thousand mile....

i'm so tired right now just got back from a meeting of about 6hours straight...
btw i've a learnt an additional five C,i will soon cover all 54 asin i dey vex!

how have you been?

Yay you! I trust you on that. I have absolute faith in you. I can't wait for us to have them as TP (talking points).

I also have work to do myself. Just hope my brain starts keeping those dates.

Just got back too. So tired also. Went to visit my folks.

Pogah:
Sure did!

Sure did!

Wonderful!

I will try them one day. I have never made them before. Hope it comes out this great.

sirBLUNT:
oh i miss "G" benachin something....

I know right! I wanted to mention you to come eat with your eyes. But I decided not to stir up benachin and afra memories.

How you?

Breakfast: white rice and chicken pepper soup.

amaniro:
Kastry this your thread is talking about someone here on NL which moniker starts with E and ends with a number. I think. Your drift you guys should settle abeg

Hmmmm....this table you are shaking.
But anyway, I'd suggest you forget that one. That moniker might actually be operated by a female or a male troll. If not, then I concur with your observation.

sirBLUNT:
hahahaha@rabat

oh how i love soweto...so i guess it's a pass mark for me out of 5 right?

Pass mark? More than pass mark dearie.
4 & a half out of 5 is a landslide....

So, chop knuckle again!

loveymom:
I no cook am oo but I wack am

Chai! Sharwama! Is it beef, chicken, vegetable or goat?

sirBLUNT:
me that was looking for you in RAMAT,TUNIS and even in LUSAKA where do you want me to peek again?

lol bring it on@commonwealth lets go back 1945..

I was actually in RABAT but I see you were lost in RAMAT
@no peeking, great! Chop knuckle!

Will be waiting for you in 1993 in Soweto.

Pogah:
Pancakes anyone?

Yes please. So appetising!
You made it?

sirBLUNT:
1472 is boring joor! na dhakar,harare and jakarta sweet pass jor....iswear you're damn fast like bolt...

I'm faster than bolt.
Even faster than Gowon's' Kampala' comeback to jail.

@bolded, it isn't complete o. What about M.....o, T......a & Z.....a?
Remember, no peeking.

That reminds me, commonwealth is ready for us

Babatundebaabs:
Hmmmm..... if u ain't married yet, I wud suggest u sud tolerate him. Thr is a adage dat says "respect who get but fear who never collect" lols. And yoruba use to say.... ojo ti'o su... ole ro lojiji. Meaning, rain can start falling all of a sudden witout givn a sign. We av seen rain falling in a very sunny day. It's a norms for guys.
Let me share a story wit u. I have a friend in institution days after school, after sch I had issues wit my parent so I left home. My dear friend was a banker at gtb in oyo state. I went to his family house in Ibadan. So he said I sud come live wit him in oyo. I dint have one naira. Jst me and my laptop. He feed me for a month, took me out and all. I later returned to lagos. Tins got better. Settle issues wit fams. Few years later, my dear friend called me. Told me he has been sacked for years but tins was pretty bad. He asked if he can come to lagos. I dint feel comfortable at first cos of his life style. Fake like and all. But I always flashed back to that a month love he showed me. Before I knew it he was in my family house. So I took him to my house. I told him, I dont have any job but I so much believe in computer. After few months I bort a small apartment . I left d rented 2 bed for him. Before a year he rented an apartment. Before I knew it he called me he wanted to marry. Not up to 2 years now.... he is d bread winning of d family. If I go to his house, bros e go use faaji kill me. And he's always thankful. My point is... if I dint accomote and tolerate him, he will still make it whc is very certain. But will I be able to go to his house? And thr was a day he was telling me his own elder bro he was staying wit bfor, always chase him out of d house if he wanted to go out dat he cant leave d key for him. Today d broda dey call him beg for money. He always cry wen telling his bro stories. And very sure ur friend life style cant be as worst as my paddy own. We rise by lifting each other bro. Ti o'ba wu Olorun, o'le so Oba ko' di eru... and if He wish again...O'le so eru ko di oba.

Nice story. I also don't believe in burning bridges because you never know who you will need their help tomorrow.

But according to the op, the visitor isn't straightforward with him. That's the only problem I have here. Like someone said somewhere here, what if he's hiding in your house for a crime? It's not usual for someone to come to your place pre-planning to stay for a while with no change of clothes, toiletries and he is not offering a reasonable explanation. It's suspicious abeg.

Again, if the op isn't buoyant enough, that's a huge inconvenience. Your friend was able to accommodate you for a month comfortably then cos he had the resources. You too were able to cos you had the resources. It might not be same with the op. If he has been managing, he knows how & it might not be easy to feed another person. Although, it doesn't seem like he's managing cos they feed 3 times a day.

But all I'm saying is, the guy should have laid his cards on the table earlier on. Come out plain. The OP can then decide to help him or not (it's his choice)

sirBLUNT:
see temptation...

i think i prefer the other side as a matter of fact i had mad fun...thanks!

Naaa...I ain't tempting you.

I have changed my mind too. 1472 is definitely better
Thanks too. Sleep well.

Dinner: indomie and fried eggs. The rgg is a cross between scrambled and omelette. Lol.

I miss having dinner even though it's for my good. Will soon go back to my vegetable routine or no dinner at all.

Cc: sirBLUNT. Here is better for me cos I don't understand you there.

politician

Oh my God!

CosmicJames:
Sorry that you didn't understand.
The explanation isn't about myself.
It is about how men are wired.
That's why I used the word (We) meaning (Men)

Except you mean to say men are childish, and that they should grow up.
Which of course is out of place.

Try to read and understand

Well done Sir. We need more people like this here especially on this section.

Davico:
Mature!

Very very mature of him.

The fact that he didn't talk back with an insult even though the girl is clearly childish, rude, lacks manners, doesn't know how to argue fairly & pass opinions correctly & even cannot read & comprehend the sensible thing he wrote there is a big plus to him.

RexTramadol1:
In any case, Na lady worst pass for that level oh


Some guys sef get dia own sha.......



But best thing Na........ Think like a liberal, expect nothing special from nobody.

Both sexes worse pass for the level o. Enough wickedness, immorality, selfishness, evil to last for a lifetime that's exhibited by this generation.

@bolded, that's how I roll. I expect nothing from people most of the time no matter how close we are. This reduces my heartbreak level.

The kind of fake love this generation is professing today is disheartening: love today, hate/backstab/set up and even kill tomorrow.
God help us!

RexTramadol1:
I tell you! Man don suffer before man wise up!.

I understand. It's everywhere.
That's why a lot of the ladies here think they too have "wised" up due to bad experiences. So I get

RexTramadol1:
Baby, she's just a friend......lies



Baby, she's not my type......lies


Baby, you're better than her.....lies



Baby, she has a boyfriend m jus a friend to her......lies




Darling, it's just a gift.......lies


Darling, he just gave me a lift.....lies


Darling, that guy is disturbing me but I don't have his time.....lies


Darling, he's trolling me buh I'll always turn him down lies



King of lies

*** Boo, I have many male/female friends that I play with, you will even think we're dating each other cos we are always free and close to each other...we even see n talk frequently.....we hug, peck and all but no strings attached, I can't be that cheap



That thing up there.......is the biggest lie of the century


That ur partner is knacking all/ some of those akpakos God knows.

Wow. It's like you have heard a lot of those lines up cos you are spot on.

So a friend asked for the recipe of my famous assorted vegetable sauce I shared here days ago. Now, even though he didn't use all the complete vegetables I used & he also used lamb chops instead of goat that I used, the food turned out superb!

Introducing, white rice and assorted vegetable sauce.

Wilfredpat22:
1. DON’T DATE THE EX

One of the most important Girl Code Book rules is " Thou shall not date a friend’s boyfriend/ex." It is one of the biggest sins a girl can commit according to the Girl Code. Your friend might still have feelings for her ex and the last thing she wants is her best friend going after her leftovers. Think about it; there are so many fish in the sea and for some odd reason you choose your friend’s ex? However, one exception to this rule is when your friend is completely over her ex and gives you permission to date. But let’s be real, this situation should just be avoided at all costs.


2. HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY

Friends trust other friends to be honest with them and spare them the embarrassment, which is why you should always be straightforward with them. Tell your friend if you see flaky patches on her skin, if her skirt is too short or if there is something between her teeth. Don’t let her walk around the whole day unaware of what is going on. It might be awkward at first but you should always have her back.


3. ANY PICTURES ON SOCIAL MEDIA THAT ARE NOT MUTUALLY LIKED SHOULD BE REMOVED

If you happen to post a picture of you and your friends without their permission that they are not happy with, you should immediately remove it from social media. If you like how you came out on the picture, you can always crop them out but don’t force them to go through the embarrassment or discomfort. You wouldn’t want the same thing done to you.



4. FRIENDS MUST DEFEND THE REPUTATION OF A FRIEND NO MATTER WHAT

As a friend you are obligated to defend your friend to others. If you hear other people accuse or judge your friend based on her mistakes, make it your mission to tell them otherwise. Even if they are saying the truth, don’t sit there letting them stain her reputation and take it upon yourself to stop the negative talk!



5. THOU SHALL NOT FIGHT OVER A GUY

There is no worse a reason to fight with a friend than a guy. If your friend has proven that she is trustworthy and loyal over the years, both of you should choose each other over him. Boyfriends come and go but true friends are truly hard to find. Unless of course your ‘close’ friend committed the sin of dating your boyfriend, then of course she should be evicted from Womanhood since closing her legs is a problem to herself



6. DON’T DITCH YOUR FRIENDS FOR A GUY

No matter how in love you are with your boyfriend, don’t let him consume your life and don’t lose contact with your friends over your relationship. Couples need time apart and girls need some special girl time! Avoiding your friends and leaving your friendships behind might leave you all alone when your relationship is going through a rough patch.



7. DATING A BROTHER REQUIRES PERMISSION

Under no circumstances should you date your friend’s brother in secret. It’s shady and plain rude to your friend. Getting permission from your friend will make you feel better about yourself and really show you if this relationship is even worth it!
However be careful of dating the brother of your best friend because sometimes things can get messy, hearts may be broken and friends may be lost.



My sisters add yours..

8 Don't go behind your friend & start spreading lies to her guy in order to snatch him for yourself.

9) Don't be suspiciously too close to your friends guy. Your friend might just be pretending she's cool with it meanwhile she's plotting something for you. Go ask my roommates when one pushed the other down from the top bunk bed in the middle of the night & the victim spent weeks in the hospital fixing broken arms cos of overcloseness to a friends guy.

10) Never sleep with peoples' husbands so you don't start binding & casting when your own husband starts misbehaving.

11) Never lure a friend out to be defiled/abused sexually by people for any form of gains.

Easzy96:
copy copy... you copied my trend 10 Guy code every man must know.... nairalanders and stealing of ideas https://www.nairaland.com/4654150/10-guy-code-every-man

Why don't you see it as a counter thread instead of saying, "copy copy".
Btw, how do we even know who copied who?

Cheap talks!

Prepare ko, paper ni!

robotix:
Lol are you surprise? Well, his writing depends on what clients need. You have to decide a sector that you would like to serve. Some write for parenting, some for businesses, some for startup, press releases and so on. just visit his website and see.

I'm definitely surprised.

I will check him out. Thanks

Elder001:
This sounds funny.. You ladies are the ones making this up.

Some men want dependent ladies doesn't mean they want liabilities. I think the mean semi-dependent and not fully dependent.

Secondly, I'm not them. I don't deal with dependent women.

Come and see someone with sense? What's the meaning of that statement?

Lady, the fact that you're anonymous doesn't mean you should say shït to people online

Your life, your choice I only corrected your notion of you want to be treated with fairness like a man.

You can't be treated with fairness with a man as long as you continue to assume that the should do more (meaning he's going to wield more power).

@bolded, I never meant that as an insult to you. I apologise if you see it that way. The fact I said she has sense doesn't mean you don't. I was only referring to the fact that she has same views as me on the topic at hand which you don't have & which is why we are arguing. That's all.

You corrected me on fairness? No you didn't. What's there to be corrected? We should all treat each other with fairness in all our dealings. What's the harm in that? This extends to the fact that even though a man is supposed to provide more cos that's his primary role as a man to his family & even though a woman is supposed to be domesticated more cos that's her primary role, the two parties are still allowed to help out or even swap roles. That's fairness. What's bad in that?

I know a lady whose husband is seen as a maid in his house by others cos he helps her out in house chores and stuffs. There's no big deal in doing that. A real man does that & such men earn my biggest respect & admiration. But where I fault the woman is how she handles finances in their home. She's of the notion that the husband's money is theirs while hers is well, hers alone. You will hear comments I interpreted to be, "I can't buy foodstuffs with MY money for the house o. What will my husband be doing then" from her. Now, that's not fairness. Her hubby has crossed his role & helped her out in hers. What stops her from doing same to him?

You grab? Or you still wanna twist & turn this table?

Elder001:
Check my posts on this forum and you'll know that you're the one who doesn't mean well for women.

I'm a feminist and yes I'm a man.
I'm suddenly biased because I told you to spend equally?
Interesting.

The bolded just proves to show that you have selective understanding. You just choose to understand what you want from any writeup you see & use the rest to troll.

If that's what you got from my comments, then there's a problem.
But then again, I understand you perfectly & wouldn't wanna waste my time explaining things away to you when you clearly know what you are doing.
So........




























...bye.

Sansa143:
Thanks dear

You are welcome.

noob03saibot:
don't mind me, was desperate to get through to her. Am a guy that believes so much in communication, she was aware of this and tried using it to hurt me. Haven't called her since and will never ever call her again. And if she calls best believe I will never pick up.

It's alright dear. I totally understand.
Some days are not like that.

Sorry for the hurt.

noob03saibot:
meant to say I have since forgotten about her, moved on for good.

Ok...I get.

But almost 128 missed calls?!!!!!!