₦airaland Forum

Sirmuel1:
I love Pineapples too but it affect my tongue/taste bud. How do you cope with it?

By not eating what you want to eat after it immediately. Give the pineapple taste in your mouth enough time to die off.

YourWriter:
I'm currently 5 feet 10 inches tall. I'd like to reach my goal height of 6 feet 2 inches tall. Can I still grow taller at 21 or it's over for me? If you've once increased your height at 21 or you know someone who did, please share your experience here.

I am a wonder to even myself on this height matter. I vividly remember how in SS3 I was fondly called Smallie when I changed school. But fast forward to just a couple of years later now, e be like say na me come tall pass anybody wey I stand beside. I don't know what happened.

akpunda86:
U love pineapple flavoured ..........

Juice? I have not really taken its juice to know if I will enjoy it as much as I relish chewing its natural slices while enjoying its sticky liquids along. Maybe I will, especially if it is squeezed naturally without preservatives and packaged.

Slynation:
I don't think the serpent spent so many hours convincing Eve just to eat only apple, some other things they secretly discussed is what Men are currently experiencing right now...

For you to know how terrible they are, they don't like themselves because they know and understand their own ways. Hence they want to avoid suffering problems and troubles they can cause for each other. So they hate each other and would rather make friends with men.

Very mischievous and in recent times, they have become very shameless too. They are adult-children. The Bible groups them with children so the best way to be dealing with them is to play with them and be stern with them respectively.

PINEAPPLE - The only fruit I can't get enough of. I am an addict of this fruit. To understand how seriously addicted I am, I actually enjoy the scent of it when it's being sliced. It is the No.1 scent I like very much. I can stand in an area for minutes just to perceive it. I love love its taste too. I can go on and on with as many slices as possible until somebody stops me. The taste of the overripe ones...oh my.

VandalSavage:
Venezuela

The only country I Know of that is more corrupt than naija

We still dey learn work ooo

Oh really?

The male gender is an endangered specie in the hands of this gender, even from their children form. I've heard some people complain that God could have not created the gender with all the wahala that comes with them.

This is not misogyny. The troubles of this gender will definitely make you agree that the gender's Biblical link with the devil is not just mere story but what we must live with. They are capable of destroying a man in various ways, manipulations and plans.

Animegirl:


No child can do this, let alone two children.

Like why paint girls and women in such a bad way. Of course gullible Nigerians would believe this nonsense.

Why do you think you and your gender hate each other and would rather be friends with a male than a fellow female? You know your ways (drama, senselessness, mischief etc).

Besides, a nairalander has mentioned that something similar happened around him and the man cursed his wife and daughters.

There is virtually nothing your gender cannot do.

emmanuelbrown26:
Girls of nowadays are just something else. Was it not the other somebody posted something here, that a man is flirting with her 15year old daughter, I told them that d said girl has some questions to answer but they all came on me

The more we abandon working hard on the girl-child in this area, the more the problem will become worse. That was how the other day a lady was saying a man somewhere must have been teaching a very small girl and doing bad things with her for her to be playing naughty with a male adult and even opening her private part according to an experience by the uncle there gisting us.

Usually, they either blame men or don't want to take responsibility. This Chrisland girl's mother even said her daughter was being raped in that video I watched which her daughter was obviously doing wonderful things by her own self. Some very few mothers are tackling the situation anyway. I know a lady who forbids her little girl from playing with adult males. She said if you don't stop her at tender age, she will grow up to start liking and following boys apart from the risk of leaving her for such wicked adult males to start doing and teaching her bad things. She said she watched a video of a very small girl skillfully sucking the d.ic.k of an adult somewhere.

We4all:
I read that but you insinuated that wasn’t bad enough.

No. I dwelled more on sex according to the emphasis of the thread. Boys are terrible too in ritual killings, fraud etc but the law is considerably curtailing and parenting should be applied to. But you see this sexual corruption and females, hmmmmmm that one is such a very complex situation because the law is not expected to handle it and parenting can fail as well too.

We4all:
Why should more attention be focused on the girl child and not the boy? Is sex related matters the only problem we have in the society?

How about the little boys who have become cultists and are now beheading people as if it’s nothing? And the ritualist teenagers plucking eyes as if it’s fruit they’re plucking.

So, the problems they’re creating are not grievous enough for the parents and the society to focus on? I won’t be surprised if you have killed before. This could be the reason you don’t consider these incessant killings as a problem.

I highlighted that when I said "fraud and other associated things."

lightskinnigga:
It’s only in south west that I know people aspire to be touts..

Their kids are trained to be toutish from an early age.

Look at their comments here and understand what I mean

Someone said AGBERO is an arm of government in Lagos; it really cracked me up. Na Tinubu cause am. I'm very certain he was an Agbero himself before. With his grip on Lagos and through Oluomo, he has established thuggery as a norm in Lagos and by extension the whole southwest. Criminality and lawlessness has taken over with the law doing little or nothing.

How come Okwudili's own nickname is ONE NIGERIA? I thought the cause they're fighting for is for Biafra to break away from Nigeria, abi shey na my eyes dey pain me.

emmanuelbrown26:
I don't know why I am always scared of going for female child dedication.
I keep saying it that what hv we this day as females are just daughters of eve. Then we hv rascals as male.
From d very day we accepted some nonsensical as norms all in d name of "Mind Your Business" was d day we all got it wrong. Look at a 15year old boy and look at those small girls going to d hotel. If care is not taken it was d girls that brought d ideal of going to d hotel bcs I believe d boy did not force them to follow him to d hotel.
Imagine teenagers that was suppose to be reading their books or using their free time to add one value or d other in their lives.
Should we blame civilization?
Should we blame technology?
Should we blame d society that has accepted rubbish as a way of life?
Who and what should we blame?
Personally, we all hv to share in d blame, bcs we frown/ look away when a child or teenager is wrong or doing somethings wrongly,all in d name of "mind your business"
Another angle could be ritual, yes ritual could be another angle. This day, Street no dey smile again, all these small boys can do anything for d money. Was it not sometime last 2 or 3 months ago that 17, 18 and 20years wanted to use their girlfriend for ritual. I watched d video several times, d boy's face was not pure, his face showed somebody that's on a mission and missed d target of that mission.

I will keep saying this. More attention should be paid to raising the girl-child. A woman holds the power to allow what happens happen in these things.

They may be both wrong but we can't blame a male APPROACHING and the female ALLOWING equally because Disallowing renders everything useless altogether. The focus on boys can be in the direction of fraud and all other associated things. But on sex education, na the girl-child.

Even parenting may fail too. Many have lost the battle to the child's own convictions e.g. children of pastors/imam. Na to just pray to God to put his fear in the child be the only solution.

I will relate this with what I find very annoying with the yorubas here in the west. I strongly expressed my displeasure to my Yoruba friend about barbing saloons, eateries etc freely and loudly blasting very vulgar songs of their Yoruba artists with lyrics mentioning such things such as sex, pu.s.sy, dick and very sexually explicit lines to the hearing of children and the aged. I felt ashamed that children and the aged were hearing such things. We are not perfect. We may be hypocrites but we are trying to make the society better also. Curiosity is actually the major reason why those interested in watching such things like me would want to. If you nor want watch am to use form holy-holy when you do worse, that's HYPOCRISY.

[quote author=JovialJune post=112084547]If men give their wives peace of mind, do you think there will be an insults or disagreement from any of them? Or you think women just wake up one day and start insulting their husband's? What triggered it? Or you think men don't verbally insult their wives too?

The actual problem and female nagging stems from your gender's refusal to admit that the man is the head and should have the final say in a home even when the holy books and society make it so. Your gender loves to see it as enslavement. All these men insult women too and all whatnot you are talking about are not the point.

JovialJune:
Do you walk away from your boss when he/she verbally abuse you or you go physical? When verbally abused by people on the streets, do you go physical or you walk away?

Continue...
What are you saying? People fight their bosses and also fight on the streets. And who told you that walking away to return will solve the problem. Walking away from the marriage (Divorce) solves the problem permanently but it's not very easy to divorce. Keep defending your gender, you hear? Let the nagging continue and don't hold meetings to iron out issues, you hear? The more your mouth run, the more beating to correct una, as divorce no easy. You want him to be walking away until he walks into the arms of another woman...right? GIVE YOUR MAN PEACE OF MIND & QUIETNESS FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO THINK.

Prettygirl200:
okay fine let me just agree with what u just said but u know very well that verbal abuse does not kill like physical abuse. Physically Abuse can damage a human or better still kill but verbal abuse does not that is what the op what trying to say. Knowing fully well that when it comes to physical abuse men are stronger and can hurt or even kill their partner. Is it not just better to walk away?

Mr. Man, for how long will you continue walking away? From your own house? Oh, so that she will get used to it abi? When there is a problem, you look at the root-cause. Verbal/emotional abuse initiate physical abuse. Why did your thread not focus on how to tackle the cause of the problem -Woman? You are still busy looking for who to blame when it's very clear that it is the Woman. Or do you think an unprovoked man will just start beating a woman just like that? Verbal/emotional abuse are capable of making a man suicidal if you don't know how serious it is.

posty56:
Kai, women, if we start to talk now them go call us woman haters, anyways no trust any girl for this life if you want to live long

They are weaker in all ramifications. Their brain no hold enough power hence dem no too get sense. This isn't insult but fact.

donleo92:
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

You have spoken very well. I don't think a man can just start beating a woman unprovoked. Verbal abuse (and emotional abuse) initiate physical abuse. When there is a problem, you look at the root-cause.

dominique:
Afamails rest ijn

Twitter afamails are going extra lengths to demarket women ever since all these domestic violence stories started popping out. Will all these tales by moonlight change the fact that a lot of women are enduring toxic abusive in the hands of you redpillers? If any gender is evil, it's the one that beat up their partners to death, set their partner ablaze and scalded their partner badly with hot water. Different alfamails did all these to their wives all within the space of two weeks and these were the cases that were reported o.

Once again afamails rest in the name of whatever you hold sacred.

But you know that your gender can be (very) toxic to the point of making even a good man become violent. Your gender understand yourselves and that is why you hate yourselves, so why should a man even be disturbed about trying to understand your gender? You this gender have serious work to do on yourselves.

Apply original honey. I was in your shoes and almost lost my mind. The pain was excruciating! I had to avoid sugar. To replace sugar, I went for honey. I applied the honey to the tooth down to its gum area and the pains stopped permanently.

BRATISLAVA:
Everyday you tell us a woman is more wicked than any man, yet statistics that show evil meted on humanity daily is by men who are the wicked ones with unfettered capacity for evil. Have a look at headlines and visit any police station. Men are DESPERATELY wicked!

The sooner you accept that, the less you will have to type.

Your gender is the most wicked and smartly carries out concealed wickedness. That is why much attention is not on your gender in that regard

Naija is one of a kind country. These kidnappings, killings, attacks of this magnitude are not happening anywhere else globally. Even Ukraine war situation nor serious reach wetyn dey happen for 9ja.

BRATISLAVA:
Do you think these dumb guys care about evidence? All they care about are the demonizations of women in their heads. All that matters is their indoctrination. Statistics and facts don't matter to them. What is surprising is that they are young and single and have such dirty thoughts about women. They are already going to fail at relationships from their refusal to learn, but they will always blame the woman for it.

Poverty is dangerous to a society, see the mentality of the men it breeds. Being illiterate isn't an excuse for the sorts of rubbish they post daily, because some will post with correct tenses but the amount of trash and bigotry is illiterate. It must be poverty, the drink of misogynists.

But in your heart of heart, you yourself know that your gender na wahala gender. Why do women hate women? You understand yourselves and your ways, that is why.

A woman is more wicked than a man. Women, childish mentality, very stubborn and mischievous too and woman will not even be able to control her own misbehavior by her own self.

Mostly, the abuse is not really meant to kill the woman but to correct and discipline her. So, you see, a woman has serious work to do on herself. Control her misbehaviors by herself (an impossible thing for your gender).

Many of your gender have killed their husbands for misbehaving too (either secretly, directly or indirectly) as women do not mostly have the strength to beat and physically abuse the man. But what I have highlighted concerning your gender above is the perspective of this whole issue that we keep ignoring.

I ask you another question: As going back to her father's house will be a shameful thing to any woman, is it not better for a woman to control herself and avoid misbehaviours and make the marriage work?

Seredebe:
Reminds me of "The Warning"

Carey replied with her own song OBSESSED, denying having anything to do with Eminem.

Naija one-of-a-kind country. Even Ukraine at war is not recording casualties like Naija. Globally even, no kidnappings, killings happening anywhere else like in Naija.

I Go Dye is unarguably the No.1 the champion of Naija comedy wey don pay his dues. No cap, he is very good. E go hard to see person to argue say I Go Dye nor good. Only Bovi comes close.

I remember back in the day the love I have for a particular skit of his on the conversation between a policeman in a moving car with an arrested driver about his dog in the car. Till today, that skit is unbeatable. His other works are top-notch too.

Dorwadora:
I don't understand your point sir .... But the girl's attitude is what any average Nigerian around 20-30 that wants to belong to "Dem big gang" would portray to feel among....

And like I said earlier.... Irrespective of the situation it's our responsibility to be our brothers keeper....

Condemn misbehaviors by your gender and stop defending and making things worse. Your gender is noted for misbehaviors as if sense is far from you all. Or maybe it's natural.

Men are logical in their dealings and interactions, your gender is not. Unfortunately, many men like this Uber driver are softhearted towards your gender and take their time trying to understand your gender.

Your gender understand each other and hate each other, why then should a man be even trying to understand your gender.

When this first made headlines, someone said and I quote: Na cow we elect as president.

yanabasee:
Op...

You should first of all admit that you tried to rape her .. and it wasn't successful.... And you should apologize to her....


Also, you have yourself to blame for whatever that will befall you.

You were bored, and you needed a random girl to sex for free... Why didn't you ask her out properly and then know that you're in a relationship with her ..


All the signals and greenlight she gave to you was for you to ask her out first... Not to try raping her...


I will ask you to control the situation and call or text her.. tell her you've always been I love with her and you didn't know how to express it. And that all what happened was because you had already seen her as your girlfriend and you are sorry for it and would love to ask her out if she will forgive you and give you a second chance.


You claimed that she's not in your level... But her puna is in your level to smash... Without going through the right means...

You claim you're handsome and you don't even have a girlfriend..

Being handsome isn't a ticket to sleep with women who shows you breast and discuss sex with you...

Get sense...

What is/are the right means?

rollandben:
I couldn't just say why God created women beside Men!!
Mine provoke me very many times a day, its only when I tried hard to resist her trouble by leaving the house for her, then she reduce it to like 2-3 times a day.

I'm just looking for where to hide after work so I can be coming home by weekends to reduces her provocation to a minimal.

Hmmmmmmm...my brother, you just have to find a way to live with her ignoring her. It's like a natural thing to their gender. Even in mere interactions apart from relationship/marriage, they always have that urge to provoke. I've heard some people say women are just adults with the brain of a child. Never accepting to be wrong which is a major problem.