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IbileIfe:
Taking your iPhone back is childish. I don't take back gifts. Past tense is past tense. Learn how to love someone in spite of their imperfections (including cheating).
Those who don't know how to forgive, don't know how to love. Those who don't know how to love don't know how to live.

He will be taken for a fool if he lets her keep the phone.

BigBashiru:
Ur theory only applies if u chasing one girl at a time. But if u chasing 100-200 at a time the power dynamic flips. Ur the prize bro.

I get your point. For a Hot Cake guy (money, fine boy, big d.ic.k, humour etc), they will flock around him as the prize and it could have been limited to just that. However, my emphasis is on who Agrees to open legs for entry.

BigBashiru:
Men have the power to agree too actually.

Men Agree how? A man only makes advances. The woman holds greater power to either accept or reject and render his advances useless.

pocohantas:
Wetin concern Naija men and redpill? Naija men wey fit sell their future for woman. As them take wicked, naso them take dey mumu for woman kwa.

Dey there make pant dey wear you. 5years from now, the IT'S JUST YOUR TURN movement go take over very well and we will know which gender will suffer it. As una nor wan dey advise unaself. That time, men will not spend shishi on your gender or buy anything and still f.uck. your gender. Just be patient.

Continue refusing to condemn wrongdoings by your gender and defending your gender to make matters worse you hear?

Men show commitment but your own gender take yourselves to be available to anybody as long as any of dem neva marry you, NO COMMITMENT.

Let me not even go into cheating by married women. And yes we will continue to blame only your gender because na una get the power to Agree.

obembet:
Poor boy

Rich or poor, a correct guy will collect his phone back for the fact that he will be taken as a fool if he leaves it for her.

Jennyclay:
Another thread to insult ladies.

I don't know why nairaland moderators keep pushing irrelevant news to front page.

You are supposed to be advising your gender to amend your ways instead of making matters worse by feeling bad that your gender is attacked for wrongdoings

obembet:
So she don die since u collect your stupid phone... Or u think Someone else will no do beta than that? Is she the only lady u are dating.... She be fool for giving u that phone.

You are sooo stupid sha. She should refuse to give him his phone bawo? Because he fu.c.ked her ba? She did not enjoy getting f.uc.ked, too ba?

Olubee22:
I have had similar experience except no IPhone was involved. We weren't talking, so uncle decided to be petty as usual.
She could have done it to make you jealous or for some petty reasons. If the relationship is worth it, talk to her and make her understand that you neither approve nor appreciate posts like such. Goodluck!

These manipulations will continue to get your gender into problem. Advise your manipulative gender to stop them. To make him jealous so that he should love her more or what exactly? Chicken brain.

l0uie:
First of, you don't go about buying stuff for girls these days unless she's proven otherwise. Listen my guy, this is a ball game and in oder not to lose, you've gotta play it my nigga!

I be at mama's crib who sometimes be having no bra nor panties on, and they niggas still be calling and I'm right there minding my business and not giving a Bleep.

Ain't mad about that nor feel any type of way about that. Shit happens. But look, always be the nigga that a girl cheats with not the nigga that gets cheated on..

My nig.ga, you gotta be the realest ni.gga in your hood keeping it one hundred. Good looking out to you.

mediainc:
Women na for everybody o, no take am personal

My brother, women take themselves to be for everybody. I wonder why men nor dey see am laidat. Abi na because dem dey spend on woman ni. I no fit spend on woman (girlfriend) sha but I go still Bleep her.

ahnie:
Sensible mention....amongst the empty lots throwing rapping like a decorated lunatic,I find your mention mature and apt.

Maybe the father abandoned them and dealt with her seriously.some pains can never be erased or forgotten.

What is the boy's business with all of that? Try and be sensible and stop showing your chicken sense in public with what you support and say in public.

Faber:
Congrats dude
That's the only people qualified to kneel down and propose to, at least you know it's their culture and secondly you're proposing for something that will likely change your life or
Status.


But for you to kneel down in the name of proposing to a negro, smelling kvnt, broke Nija bitch....Omoh your head no correct.
That's not our culture and thatbof her forefathers. You're proposing to be cheated on, broke shamed in the nearest future when she deplete your resources. You're proposing to emotional trauma. You're likely proposing for unending drama that will keep you running here kitikiti katakata for our advice.

Guys make Una wise up o. That babe u day kneel down for don dey kneel for boys them crib they give them bjs.

Bros be calming down o

Will there be no voter apathy as usual in the south?

Someone like me, Buhari don vex me finish sotey I've made it a major goal to get my PVC, I think many southerners are determined to vote next year too. I never cared about elections before.

lwisee:
I took my time to check your profile and all your post is about Yoruba Muslim.

To be candid, it seems some individuals are hell bent on destroying this country by creating a sort of hatred among the major tribes in Nigeria.
I don't know if they get paid to do this or they are just been controlled by the devil.

How can a sane human being create a new account on Nairalander and all he could think of is to make hateful post, more than 300 since November 2021.
You mean you log in to Nairaland daily just to show your hatred for Yoruba Muslims.

Before I made this post, I could see only few sensible post ahead of mine, others were just pure hate speech.

This is the more reason I hardly visit Nairaland these days, when you open a topic all you see is 2 or 3 people derailing the topic, quoting thereselves with insult and the thread becomes unnecessarily long.

At times I wonder if these people are Nigerians...

Let me tell you the ugly truth about the situation with the southwest and your people on this ritual killing despite your people being the most educated. The ritual killing is so rampant and even includes the sale of body parts in your region among you people because you are very familiar with Knife via the killing/butchering of goat.

Na only goatmeat una like. I've lived in the southwest for a long time now so I know what I am saying. The ritualists among your people therefore have the heart/boldness to handle humans like no big deal without shaking or fear at all just like the goats being killed/butchered very well in your region.

In other regions, na beef killed/sold by the Hausa's be the only meat. Chicken is not even killed anyhow too. Moreover, supermarkets sell frozen chicken meat. So, mere holding of knife is seriously frowned at by people in these other regions.

This is the more reason I hardly visit Nairaland these days, when you open a topic all you see is 2 or 3 people derailing the topic, quoting thereselves with insult and the thread becomes unnecessarily long.

At times I wonder if these people are Nigerians...
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[/quote]Let me tell you the ugly truth about the situation with the southwest and your people on this ritual killing. It is so rampant and even extends to sale of body parts in your region among you people because you are very familiar with the killing/butchering of goat. Na only goatmeat una like. I've lived in the southwest for a long time now so I know what I am saying. The ritualists among your people therefore handle humans like no big deal like the goat being killed/butchered without shaking or fear at all.

Sonnobax15:

I rather buy don-baby put for house than date any banny wey go dey reply me like say na interview we dey do

For all my social media platforms,once I notice say na that kind leg you dey carry,na immediately I dey press my block and delete button ontop your head

Rubbish and AFCON VAR

Hahaha...
Weyrey say na rubbish and AFCON VAR

Oh my God! (in the background voice in Nosa Rex's skits). Devil don finish dis boy.

Mason is a very skillful player I admired a lot even as a Chelsea fan. His only playing shortcoming is refusal to pass and he was benched a lot for it.

Asides his refusal to pass, he is very very good on the ball and goal-oriented too. He seems very stubborn. Ronaldo hinted it in a post.

Devil don use woman destroy this boy. So sad.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Keep crying..

I kinda like you though. You've got vibes shawty. I can't lie, you even got the nig.ga trippin' at one point but f.uck it! I only like how you put your lines together, not what you write.

Jeromejnr:
Having the experience that wealth does not in the long run satisfy you or give you fulfillment. You feel more empty and you see the world as empty and lacking the depth your soul needs.

You are not happy.. what you need you discover that this world cannot give.

When you get wealth, sure you will be happy for some years, but then you get used to it. The happiness has depleted.

You need something more.

Only those who have this can really understand what I just said. But the poor won't understand. Thinking when they have money, they will be fulfilled and be happy forever.

For instance, see the other guy that quoted you below
He is ignorant.

The irony of life.

Naahhh...I don't think you are correct. A rich man gets depressed and his mental health is affected mainly by things like: The fear that people want to harm him, jealousy, fake friends, fake love etc

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Then my life not yours.. stop f**king around my mention like some pony..
You do that again then I am gonna whoop your little self hard..

I checked your profile. You joined NL newly. I've seen you tackling men on virtually every thread. You are making a terrible mistake.

This place, we go drive you into depression in no distant time. You think you can stand up and defend what you consider women bashing on here. Many have tried what you are doing now and have regretted it.

You were not informed. This place go teach you bitter lesson very soon. You will shut up very soon.

Mané is a big name. The commentator in their quarter-final game said the way he dissected the defense to pass to his attacker colleague to score was soooo sleek!

Firstcitizen:
Stop it. Betrayal by both parties is a painful thing. Hoe? no problem but friend? Naaa

This is the angle I have been looking for. His friend wickedly betrayed him.

Simran94:
A lot is happening in marriages of these centuries.
Many of our Grandmothers and mothers were full housewives, many of them endured domestic violence and had to endure it because they had nowhere to go or money to take care of themselves and kids. Many of our fathers and grandfathers would have affairs outside their marriages with their wives knowing about it and there’s nothing they can do about it, some of those men went as far as bringing children they had outside into their homes and forcing their wives to accept them as one of their own or they could as well leave the marriage. But nowadays, women are no longer trying to be full housewives with no source of income, women are no longer trying to endure domestic violence(well some), you try that and they walk away (Marriage is not a do or die affair). Women are no longer trying to be cheated on or walked all over like some slave according to the way African tradition sees women.

Some men don’t like it when their wives earn more than them, it makes them feel less of a man so they would rather ask their wives to quit their jobs and no woman would do that.

That’s for the women aspect according to personal surveys I made with some old women and young women.

For the men, I don’t really know. I tried asking a few men and they just laughed.

This wrong feminism practised by you Nigerian females go destroy una las las. Feminism is limited to equal rights in the society and workplace only.

Una dey drag am into marriage. The man came to carry you from your Father's house to marry you into his house for God's sake. You both cannot be equal.

He is superior and you have to let him have the final say in the family. Even God approves it that way.

Even if you are working, it doesn't mean you should not let your husband the Head of your home or make you become toxic towards men in the society/workplace.

okorosblog:
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The game has delivered already

The phone number is incomplete.

okorosblog:
Touching.. but still we need to read a statement from the accused...

Play this game if you can

62ZDGWG

How many odds pls? Bet9ja?
I have been looking for someone who can be giving me games like this. I wish to establish contact with you Sir. Thanks.

wifeesnatcher:
Anyone is free to abuse Yoruba on this crime, I'm currently ashamed right now



the rise of this ritualism in southwest is becoming alarming, I can't be deceiving myself on that, not quite long I saw a small boy and I just look at him he can't be older than 17years drove muscle Camry passed my place with a lady that I believe older than her sitting beside her then I shake my head



it is quite unfortunate, parents in southwest should sit tight and go back to their drawing board, currently they've failed in their wards upbringings



this is why I oppose to banning of SARS, if not for their extra judicial killing, SARs reduce these idiots menace in southwest

Why have your monarchs kept quiet? Are they involved in some form of rituals too? This is a very good opportunity for them to unanimously declare curses upon ritualists and ritual. The traditional institution is there for things like this. I am not a Yoruba but I live in the southwest (Ogun). The extent your people are taking this to is terrifying and far more than any other part of Nigeria.

lwisee:
I took my time to check your profile and all your post is about Yoruba Muslim.

To be candid, it seems some individuals are hell bent on destroying this country by creating a sort of hatred among the major tribes in Nigeria.
I don't know if they get paid to do this or they are just been controlled by the devil.

How can a sane human being create a new account on Nairalander and all he could think of is to make hateful post, more than 300 since November 2021.
You mean you log in to Nairaland daily just to show your hatred for Yoruba Muslims.

Before I made this post, I could see only few sensible post ahead of mine, others were just pure hate speech.

This is the more reason I hardly visit Nairaland these days, when you open a topic all you see is 2 or 3 people derailing the topic, quoting thereselves with insult and the thread becomes unnecessarily long.

At times I wonder if these people are Nigerians...

You are sounding like this because you don't know how terrified people that are not from the southwest are about these things done by your people. The level it is going in the southwest will shock everyone normally (you included) but it will terrify others who are not southwesterners.

I live in the southwest too (Ogun precisely) and I am not a Yoruba. My brother, your people are terrible at this thing. It has gone beyond an alarming rate in your region far more than other places. My love for Yoruba's died instantly since they started taking this rubbish too far. Imagine teenagers.

Your kings don't want to do anything? Is it because they do certain rituals too? Why can't they unanimously go traditional and declare curses on rituals/ritualists? It is happening everywhere but the southwest own don cross the line.

DoctorDree:
There is always sense in nonsense they say
Which of the angle are you looking if from?
That will determine your view about what she said

She is encouraging more ladies to become side-chicks and justifying it for already existing side-chicks, and you think it makes sense? What of suggesting ways to resolve the issues between the husband and wife?

Bola146:
God have mercy on some stupid ladies of nowadays in the name of looking for what No wonder it's very easy for Yahoo boys using them for rituals in the name of having sex like dogs Let me keep quiet!

Before, guys are committed and want exclusive right to the pus.sy. This OP belongs to the few remaining guys who have refused to modernize. Not me and many other guys out there. Since you and your gender have refused to be wise and totally don't want to be committed, a vast majority of guys out there will continue to blend with that mentality of yours. There is already a motto out there that: The Pu.s.sy Is Not Yours; It's Just Your Turn.

VenusGod:
See me see wahala.

Six month into the relationship, she says that i am to gentle for her liking.

Met her at a friend's place. And that my friend is very rugged. He smokes and drinks alot. I don't smoke but i drink too.

She taught i am rugged like my friend. Anytime she visits me in my house. She would be speaking all those stupid gangster/Cultism language too me. I warned her several time to stop speaking those nonsense to me.

Yesterday, we had a little misunderstanding, omo, come see the para wey this babe dey para for me. I told her i am no longer interested again with the relationship. She said over her dead body. She sey if i no bet her she go put am for my body woto woto.

I just kuku close my mouth. I pretended that every thing was okay until she left. Now she dey call me since for phone and refuse to pick her calls or reply her messages.

See me se wahala.

But there is something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian females generally fa.

That was how an African from another country commented and asked with surprise in a Facebook group why Nigerian women are aggressive and raise their voice from 90% of the Nigerian skit videos he has watched. He asked if our women over here are wired differently like that.

Davido may be too loqacious and a busybody but Wizkid get him own for body too - Pride. Davido is easygoing and had wanted to make friends for a while now. He was close with Burna before too and was seen in an old video climbing cars to go meet Wizkid. But you see Wizkid, he feels himself too much and keeps to himself a lot like he is antisocial.

Tokskob2008:
Her offence is not too bad

Her husband constantly warns her of doing a particular thing but she keeps doing it anyway so what is not too bad in that?

If you can't understand, learn and do what your partner likes and want in marriage then you don't have any business being married in the first place.

Don't mind that guy. Some women can be very stubborn...trying very hard to climb on top everybody in the family she was married into. The wife of my friend's brother seriously warned his wife to never ever try controlling him to a location again when she herself had not reached there first and lied that she has.

Men can try to respect and coordinate themselves with their wives. But you see women, very stubborn gender.