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tpia:
@ Mpele
Mpele, I have told you many times that your head is not correct.

If you hate your black blood then too bad for your life.

You don't even seem to realize that you look like the product of inbreeding. Unnaturally long face and all. Like a walking cricket.

Not to mention you also find it difficult to comprehend simple things like where to put a thread.

Don't mind that boy oh. He is addicted to West Africans thats why he will tell you he is leaving this forum and then next thing you know he is back again like a troll hoping to stare up mischief.

I really do pity him a whole lot more than I am angry at him seeing that he is a confused man caught up between two worlds constantly tugging on how to come to piece with his existence. I can't imagine what it feels like being caught between two opposing worlds. Must be tormenting.

Mpele sorry oh, If you ever need someone to talk to I am hear for you.

[quote author=Jakumo link=topic=155525.msg2624349#msg2624349 date=1218135220

I have personally used my trusty 12-bore shotgun to fragment quite a few "bulllet proof" talismans to the utter dismay of the witch-doctors and OPC juju meisters who brought those items for ballistics tests, brimming with confidence about the efficacy of those animal parts, yet none of those demonstrations served to change any slowpoke minds about the concept of magic.
[quote][/quote]hehehehehe!. I would much like to use bulletproof people for target practice. Just to get my aim accurate you know. lol

folahann:
You posted as if you are a South African, but you are a faker!

Prove you are not

You sef posted as if you are a ghanaian. how can you tell. You want me to prove what to you? Prove to me first you are not a South African or keep quiet and talk about what the thread is about.

folahann:
Hey! stop faking, that camouflage of yours won't get you anywhere

My friend what are you yarning. You well so!

RSA:
That is the spirit brothers.
I have also opened a thread on the latest development of stadiums construction on nairaland sports section.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-151426.0.html

We will welcome you with open hands,regarding woman, I will say bring your own woman.Because woman here are irresistable.AIDS will be the last thing in your mind when you see them
Your under 23 played well this afternoon and wish the all the best.

Don't mind these nigerians. You are even taking their comments seriously. When they reach there their body will be shaking ojigbi jibi. However I cannot deny the statistics so to be forewarned is to be forearmed. It is your choice.

Dr Kitaun:
anyone that feels Juju doesnt exist is only being foolish and adamantly ignorant . . . .OR WHAT EXPLAINS WHY ANYONE HASNT COME BACK HERE TO SAY HERE IS THE RESEARCH I HAVE MADE INTO THIS ISSUE . . .

HEARSAY MY ARSE

what explains someone telling u that he's got some funny objects crawling in his body ? any takers to explain that scientifically ?

mental illness, hypnosis, power of persuasion. Haven't you seen people being hypnotized before or do you think that is Oyinbo juju.

When I was quite young and Yes this happened in my village. A so called witch doctor had proclaimed that the reason one of a certain familie's member was mentally retarded was because of something someone had done in the family to bring such misfortune to them . He made this poor people poor out their life savings into fighting and warding of this evil so it would not afflict any more of their generations to come. I believed it then because I was ignorant, come to find out it was only part of their genetics that caused this and no such curse so need to ward anything off.

Please document this proof for us so we can all be on the same page and our naivety can be put to shame seeing that we have no idea what you are talking about.

omowhyou:
There are things that happen in this world that you can not explain but, that does mean they do not exist. The problem with u guys is that i think u all grow up in the city. Go to your root and ask question about there ways, i have seen things with my eyes which can make u believe in there ways. way is it that some do not ever go to there village? u people should be careful because not knowing the unknown is bad.

omowhyou:
There are things that happen in this world that you can not explain but, that does mean they do not exist. The problem with u guys is that i think u all grow up in the city. Go to your root and ask question about there ways, i have seen things with my eyes which can make u believe in there ways. way is it that some do not ever go to there village? u people should be careful because not knowing the unknown is bad.

I have been chasing these myths for a while now and for some reason can't seem to put my hands on any concrete evidence of any sort, Don't you think thats strange?. About going back to my village. In fact my father made sure we did that every year of my life and despite all the stories I hear I have never witnessed one myself. Maybe I am immuned to this cause I am a city boy, don't know but when you show me some evidence I will shout and scream to the whole world about this. Until then!

Feministic:
My sister was diagnosed with Autism around the age of 4 and i was diagnosed with ADD around the age of 12.
I have always noticed that people, especially Nigerians, do not and are not willing to put aside their little knowledge on this subject in order to really understand and accept it, but what used to be anger in me has now turned to pity

I have a relative who while growing up I was conviced back then was possesed as so I was told. I was afraid of him and kept away, thinking he truly was possessed. It wasn't until after my studies and close experience with patients that suffer from this ailment did I realize what it really was and I felt very guilty for not understanding what was going. Because of the wild superstitious beliefs in African culture the stigma for people who suffer from mental illnesses is exacerbated. I too used to get very upset at the ignorance of the vast majority of nigerians on this subject matter and have made it a point to correct such stupidity where ever I encounter it. Why

Cause Ignorance truly is the worst disease that exists!

The renaissance is coming so the days of these men are numbered.

omowhyou:
I asked a question in my earlier post can any of u tell me how people in the village build hanging bridge over valley with just ropes. have any of u guys seen such a bridge before? have u ever wonder how it was done? please try and find out.

Go and document it with camera and come show us here on Nairaland so we can agree with you. The burden of proof is on you.

lucabrasi:
the reason is because like any black/african invention,they don't believe it and so will dismiss it offhand,doesnt mean it doesnt exist

The next time this magical event of bullet not penetrating the body.Someone should document it. I mean with all the cell phone camras today I wonder why I haven't seen any video of this till today. All those who say it is real please investigate and document it for us skeptics who just think that concept is ludacris and even if for any reason it was real. Why should I be afraid of it. There has to be a weak point somewhere on the body. Maybe shoot them close range in the head. You know like the highlanders in the movies who you have to cut their heads of to kill them.

Please people open your eyes.

Dr Kitaun:
is it time to turn this all into a joke ? lets get serious . . . Juju is for real !!!

need anyone tell u that most of our political leaders are well enarmoured with well-laced charms and amulets ?

what explains the mysterious way Pa Adesanya escaped death at the hands of 'em Sgt Rogers ? na child's play una call am ?

what explains how Adedibu held sway in Oyo state ? u think say na mind games hun dey play with them ?

what explains Okija shrine ? is that folklore too ?

what explains even mysterious plane disasters as postulated by Fani KAYODE to be caused by witchcraft ? are most of u as half learned as he is ?

what explains the fact that even the Bible recogizes that there are powers and principalities ? abi do we need Science to explain that . . .the same SCIENCE that will tell that GOD DOESNT EXIST ?

I wonder why the US army hasn't visited one of these jujumen who make bullet so impenetrable. Them boys in Iraq sure do need them. The juju man should sell his technology to them and get rich.

ha Myths are a powerful thing!

An overly illiterate nation that still believes in jujus and superstition will stigmatise the diseases as some sort ot spiritual attack by the families enemies or something like that. There are many people in developed countries who are suffering from this ailments and are able to leave relatively productive and happy lives with aid of medicatin and other forms of management.

I wonder how the medication drives away the spirit that is attacking them? Hmmmm

Anyways this ailment attacks about 1% of the nigerian population which means about 14 million naijas do suffer from this ailment in many forms from acute to chronic. Their recovery is based on viogourous rehabilitation once the onset of the illness is detected, otherwise the individual becomes worse as time goes on.

THe illness is a result of a combination of genetic and enviromental factors. Most occurences in developing countries and linked to drug abuse and trauma from childhood. Your job is to pass the knowledge on to people because the worst disease any one of us can suffer from is IGNORANCE.

da ACE man:
I bet that if someone told some of you people that they smoked weed,you will now look as if u c them hittin a crack pipe!, marijuana is only social stigma because those in "higher power" have painted the picture this way,their can be no other explanation.

I never seen a person go crazy after smokin weed,I never seen or heard of anyone dyin from it so what is the excuse of not welcoming it, na if I sit for your livin room and light up a joint,u go c me like I dey craze,but if I light a toxic tobacco cigarette u will probably join me in the sucide.(not to even mention alchahol)

My 2 cents

Because you've never seen it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. GO and visit psychiatric wards all round the world if you have the courage and see if there is no correlation with marijuana and psychosis.

BE WARNED!!!

wirinet:
But one problem the homo species have had from time immemorial is the inability to accept an end to its existence (death).
We love the idea of existing forever, ancient societies went to great lengths and ceremonies to preserve the dead. Egyptians built great pyramids and got buried with lots of valuables and slaves, so that kings can live as kings in the "after Life", so it was with all ancient civilization.
So societies say you would come back as another person or another animal.

But science tells us that anything that is created will eventually be destroyed. The Sun and the earth will be destroyed when the fuel driving the sun burns out in the next 5 billion or so years. Our Galaxy will eventually be destroyed. The universe also will one day be destroyed. So nothing and i say nothing can last forever and homo sapiens sapiens better come to terms with that reality, the sooner the better for us.

But let me add that the material for making a living thing is not destroyed with the death of the individual, it is only recycled. The body of a person is eaten byplants, bacteria, ants, worms, which in turn is eaten by goats,birds, fish, etc, which is eventually eaten back by man.

Wirinet

But why see this as a problem in the species rather than an attribute that has differentiated us from all other living things. This same "inability" has been the driving force that has sustained us so long. Religion is accepting an end to this existence in an effort to participate in a new one. Science has answered many questions that have been able to allow us not to meet that inevitable end prematurely in many instances.

Many peoples lives have been prolonged because science has refused to accept the notion that our destiny is the hands of a divine plan. The evolution of our minds has been a remarkable step in just a short span of time and the abilities of the brain have barely been tapped into or studied.

I understand the obsession of many societies in trying to deal with Life and death but I am curious to know why this very attribute or "mutation" or what ever you want to call it is a problem.  If all humans simply believe death is the end then what? What incentive is there to want to discover more. What purpose would there be to want to do this if not mere curiousity.The very "problem" that is inherent in our species is what is taking us to greater heights  and religion for better or worse is an ingredient that makes up that mutation of the mind or so i call it.

wirinet:
About the meaning and purpose of life.
Science does not tell us what life is, much less the purpose. Biology only tries to describe the properties of Life, and is very silent on the purpose. Religion comes in and tries to fill the Gap, but does a horrible Job of it, By telling you that the purpose of life is to go to heaven and worship God forever (torture to me, i would say). It is only a concise and deep understanding of evolution that can answer the ultimate question.

Wirinet

In my own research and continued search. I have discovered that the most powerful attribute as well as what can be defined as the purpose of life is the instinct to survive, to live, if not for longer then forever. Almost all living matter strive to survive in one way shape or form. be it replication, reproduction, faith in an everlasting afterlife. Life always wants to breed new life from the HIV virus that replicates in its host body to the drive for human or animal to want to reproduce itself. Its a unifying constant that prevails in every living form.

Which is why I cannot rule out the possibilty of life after death though not scientifically verifiable yet still plausible because of the above statement. In an earlier post I stated that energy can never be destroyed but "transcends" its form in ways we are barely discovering today. I believe the purpose of life is not to extinguish itself and I still hold out to the possibilty that when one dies, his life force is not distinguished. I am not for certain what happens but I do know the complexity of life leads me to believe in the notion that what ever mechanism created us be it the elements of evolution, chance, choice or divine is pushing us to the path of continued existence. What form that takes well its left to us to define as we go along.

wirinet:
Huxley,
I still believe firmly, that other people's views, ideas and culture should be respected. And i say if you do not then you are making the same religious fundamentalists are doing, putting yourself on a higher moral, social or intellectual pedestal than your audience. It does not work that way.

Even in the biblical story of Jesus, he did not confront the people or the establishment, he worked within it. He only brough together people of like minds to propagate his views. Same goes for Mohammad, he did not confront Christianity and Judaism that was already establish, he worked within it.

They way to achieve anything is not through your confrontational attitude, you will only breed only anger, resistance and resentment. To make any impact you will need to institutionalize your methods.
By attacking other people's beliefs You are not impacting any knowledge, and you will not gain anything.

As i always say, you should concentrate more educating people about your beliefs and views than concentrating on attacking that of others. Those that would listen would listen and there is nothing you can do for those that will not listen. Even in the scientific community attacking the views of others without expounding your own is frowned at.

Also, it is not possible for people to throw away what they believe from childhood just like that, because Huxley said so. Their lives/ thoughts/dress code/food revolves around their religion, if you take that away without substituting it with an alternative, they would become disoriented, which would be a worse position than when they were a religious fanatic, you might as well kill the person.

Religion is like a very addictive drug, if you suddenly withdraw a drug from someone who has been addicted since childhood, you will kill the individual. You can only withdraw the drug by substituting it with a less harmful drug, before gradually withdrawing it altogether. It takes time, patience and perseverance.

Let me give you an example.

Instead of attacking Pataki, Correct the wrong impression he has about moses writing the book of Genesis, and encourage him to read biblical history. The Author of the book of Genesis (or any other book for that matter is UNKNOWN). Furthermore according to critical analysis, the book of genesis could not have been written by one author due to at least three different writing styles contained in genesis. Also if moses was the author of Genesis, he could not have recorded his own death and post death events.

So you try to educate

wirinet

He still don't get it. However I am aware Huxley is intelligent enough to know controversy sparks more responses and is using that to his advantage.

DeepZone:
City cleansing. they know that when you move a mentally deranged person 200 miles from home, he/she may not find his/her way back.

A mentally ill person is not mentally retarded. Unless you are talking about people who are far gone into their situations 9about 5% of cases) how many of such can you round up at a go and simply displace them and even if you did. 95% of them would be able to find their way back to wherever the came from.

DeepZone:
True!!!! But, do you know that sometimes these mentally ill patients in nigeria are moved from one location to another at night maybe by local govt officials? Don't be surprised that over half of the mentally ill in Osogbo are not even from Osun state or it's environs.

What is the reason for moving them around?

olabowale:
@JeSoul:
Aburo, I wo papa. What happens to the "proof," that the bible lacks itself, about anything?




Sisi, if raising a person up makes the person qualifies as "god," then we are still having Gods around before Jesus and up till now; Moses raised a man so that he can be reveal his killer. Even the rotten bones of Elisha raised a person up. Could Jesus raise himself up? Think about it babe. Ori eniyan ti o ti ku, to gbera e dide ri, afi pe Olorun Oba lo je ki o dide. My bride was telling a story of her friend who visited Nigeria and got into an accident in Lagos. She was presumed dead and was left in the Morgue, while they are hoping that her family will come for her.

After sometime, maybe a day, longer or shorter, the woman began to talk whereby the morgue workers were attracted enough see what was going on. They took her and rushed her for medical treatment. The pictures of her in a bodybag was seen to show it. Now tell me who is this woman, a Yoruba pharmacist in DC. Is she god too?

Did you like my advise not to die for ayone?

Cheers!

This boy you are truly brainwashed. Islamic propaganda at its best.

DeepZone:
What will you do if you walk into a hospital and discover that you have HIV? Go on a sex spree? Dedicate the remaining part of your life in creating AIDS awareness?, take the next available flight to TB Joshua/Chris Oyakhilome's church or Jump inside the atlantic ocean?

I will live until the day I stop breathing. TB Joshua should go and cure multitudes of people with this ailment if he has the power

DeepZone:
Is it the fake orthodox medicine in our markets that will make them more deranged? I wonder why we completely dumped traditional or homoepathic medicine in Nigeria because they seem to be the only authentic source of medication in Nigeria.

Studies do show there are alternate treatments for mental ailments as it is all the mind and not really a disease per say but a disorder. I advocate any therapy that has been tested as evident in helping individuals with this illness including medications that exist in the western world.

Huxley's approach is wrong in that he is trying to convince people of his view point in the wrong forum. While his threads do spark conversations and deep thought based on certain provable facts and logic, the underlying problem is that he is facing a crowd who base most of their reasoning on the subject matter on "faith"

Its like going to the famous white supremacist website stormfront and trying to convinve them that they are the same as black people. It just is not going to work. You might spark the curiousity of one or two people but eventually if that is not the goal, then the effort is pointless.

My advice to Huxley, argue the logic and bring people to the understanding.

I would love to be left in a room with one of this so called witch doctors with an ak 47 or grenade. Let me see what mystcal power they have to escape that one.

What has genetical mutation got to do with ritual money!. CHEI AFRICA!!

When they stop embezzling the ones they are collecting then they can enforce payment of taxes by any means necessary

Does anyone know about Virgin Nigeria. This will be my first time flying them. London- Lagos route. Any advice please!!

tpia:
yes, the government needs to provide free treatment for mentally ill people. There's obviously no philanthropist bold enough to take on the task.

They at least need the drugs to stabilize their condition so they do not get worse. If i had the money I would do it.

chewy21:
I really sympathize with your situation here.

Count your lucky stars that your wife is willing to seek help and treatment, however. Mine is not so cooperative.

In response to an earlier post about the cause of schizophrenia, yes, the vulnerability to it is genetic, but not directly genetic. There is usually a time of severe stress, trauma, or emotional abuse that triggers the disorder in early adulthood. Mood swings are the hallmark symptom, and can be the most severe. Hallucinations and delusions are also common symptoms, and can be just as destructive to a relationship. The best way I've found so far to deal with my personal situation is to allow her to take control of the situation. Let her help herself, and only intervene if it's absolutely necessary. Those low mood swings tend to get worse if she feels she can't deal with this on her own; it kills her self-esteem. But medication seems to be the common antidote, as long as it's taken regularly. Most importantly, if a medication is prescribed that works, make sure she stays on it. In many cases, patients will feel like they've "beaten" the disorder and will begin to ween themselves off of their medication after a long period without symptoms, but the truth is that no cure has been found yet, and the reason for the lack of symptoms is the medication.

In response to everyone telling you to trust in God, I would advise against it. While a religion can provide comfort in many areas of life, depending on it to magically fix this situation would be ridiculous. Place your faith in science and medicine, where it belongs.

@Poster. Please take the advice of the above Nairalander. He is at most knowledegable concerning this conditin. 95% of mentally ill patients are not violent however they can becoem very aggrevated and irritable.

Please do not listen to these Nairalanders that keep telling you to take her for deliverance, pray hundred times a day and so on. They are simple minded people and do not understand the complexity of this predicament.

Learn more about the illness and educate yourself on the symptoms and medications and you will be able to manage your wife or at least have a full understanding of her illness. People with this condition if treated properly, live fairly normal lifes as others. The final decison is yours, stop looking for justifications by others to make your decisions

That woman you married is a human being like you and using your "Naija" sense in this situation will only come back to hunt you later on in life, Pay your pernitance. As for having children. She is well and capable of doing so and the children are not going to come out abnormal in any fashion. Please do not listen to people who simply coin this ailment as madness and ill advice you. They themselves are suffering from the worst disease known to man

IGNORANCE!!!!

I am very curious to know how much knowledge my fellow nigerians know about mental illness both in Nigeria and outside of it. I have coemt o understand that there are lot of ignorant people out there who are misinformed about this subject matter and many attribute it to Demon possession and so on.

Do you know anyone who is suffering from such ailment and do you believe it is a brain disorder or some sort of which craft or possession?

Nigerian public are very miseducated about individuals who suffer from mental illnesses. They simply lump the mentally ill with the homeless and destitute.

The people you see walking aroung naked on the streets of nigeria, talking to themselves are individuals suffering from severe mental illnesses such as shizophrenia or dementia that have been left untreated for several years and the individuals are far gone.

Drug abuse and sociaetal pressures are major contirbuting factors to this predicament as no one is born in this state of mind but are able to develop the disorder.

The continues attribute of withcraft or demonic possession as causes of this sickness are simply sillly ways to understand something that you are miseducated on which is why a pastor cannot heal someone by simple laying of the hands. The governments duty is to at least provide minimal treatment for these individuals in the form of communites for individuals with this ailment in an effort to protect them from the the ignorant public.

To let you know how ignorant Nigerians are of this subject matter watch how many people respond to this thread.

THey need to stop the "entitlement" mentality and connect with the world at large. THe upper class/middle class GDP of blacks in America is equal to the budget of some nations in the world, yet they do not know how to galvanize that power for regional and global success. Brainwashed consumerism is another terrible effect of the experience in America. While the average immigrant/Nigerian is busy re- investing his money to quadruple it they are ride in big body benzs and stunting.

Go figure

And if China man hate black man nko. I should stop breeding,  eh excuse my english that is I should stop breathing.

Look as long as I am alive and can see my loved ones everyday and take care of those around me. This doesn't concern me much only when any set of people try to hinder me from  enjoying this basic human right and threathen my very existence.

If it comes to that then I'll just have to do what I have to do, no mercy . You know what I mean!!!