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dikeigbo2:
Its better your wife steal from you cos it still remains in the family,.than the other way round..try to understand

i totally disagree, any form of stealing is wrong, however you want to look at it.
how is stealing gonna solve the problem at hand?! who is wifey gonna defraud when hubby's wallet is empty or when hubby is absent?!

omoharry:
And you, stop been a dick and a slave at heart..first the op wrote that they do no grant thier employee leave off work but becos of your slave minded mind you refuse to read that part

what has that got to do with "doing the RIGHT thing, and abiding by work procedures?" the slave mentality is people like you who want to do something WRONG and are quick to try to blame others as racists etc.

..did you..secondly..there this op answers to a boss and not the lebanese..in every company you inform you immediate boss and do not jump protocols

well then, he asked his direct manager and the man refuse to give him the day off, and instead asked him to talk to the MD directly. there were 2 choices here: A) accept that the request for a day off was refused or B) talk to the MD. the foolish OP decided to take the day off while disregarding his manager's request... who does that?! if not a very disrespectful and insubordinate employee.
yet here you all are talking about slavery mentality but the hard fact in this matter is that the OP made a grave error, and should subsequently pay for that. go cry a river all you want, and blame whoever you desire, but WRONG is WRONG

...i have worked in a company where even if write for a leave you wont be granted that leave and they will tell you how grateful you are to land yourself in the job you have..

BWAAAAAAAH!!!! who forced you to stay in such miserable jobs?! the reason why such employers dont respect people like you is because YOU dont respect yourself. when someone tells you such nonsense (and obviously treats you like a modern slave) then it is YOUR duty to leave such disrespectful place of work. but the minute you decide to STAY in that job, is the minute YOU would have gladly accepted to become a slave (and i dont give a damn what your "excuse" is)

you are here supporting these Stupid and uncultured people when even you cannot understand that an employee take instructions from his immediate boss..now the immediate now is incapactated becos of the way these people are..and the answer will still remain No...you are here speaking grammer

you either listen to your immediate manager or you dont and go take the matter with his superior, but lets be clear on something...the immediate manager's answer was: NO days off unless the OP asked the MD, how difficult is it for you to understand that?! in what language do you want me to write it for you to understand this very straight forward answer?

...the worse the stupid monster could do was to terminate his employment

he DID, and the OP decided in lowering himself by begging instead of gladly accepting to never work for the people he regards as monsters.

and not to assult him in his own country..can he try this nonsense with your belove one and you will smile over it...why wont you say that when you are not the in his shoe...na people like you ,dey lick lebanese asses....all Nigerians are wrong where the lebanese is concerned ...Please emaniciapte yourself from this mental slavery that you have..you irritate me and your fellow Nigeriand with you way of are thinking.

here we see the true slave mentality: whether the man is Lebanese or not, whether he is in his country or not, WRONG is WRONG. do you believe that a Nigerian boss can therefore assault their Nigerian staff? i think not, and therefore bringing this man's nationality to this discussion is a joke!
we can clearly understand that many people on this thread are deluded, and simply against the bosses because he is Lebanese. even if the boss is Nigerian, this employee MUST be dismissed! and even if the boss is Nigerian, they should be guilty of assault!

here you all are talking about this man as if his nationality has ANYTHING to do with the subject of assault?! this is the real slave mentality here, the person who is quick to talk trash and point fingers at Indians/Arabs/Asians employers in Nigeria but yet are quick to accept jobs from these same employers. if you dont like the way these people treat black workers then DONT WORK FOR THEM, but if you do then i suggest you do your job according to the contract you signed, and subsequently STFU! but trying to bring their nationality "now" as if it has any relevance to the case of DISMISSAL and/or ASSAULT is today's biggest joke on NL!

regardless of their nationality the boss is guilty of assault while this employee should be dismissed, end of story!

TechGuyTee:
True bro. Only thing is you won't get to hit it anymore. Thanks.

it depends... but where is the joy in fukcing some lady that takes you for a mugu anyway?

dikeigbo2:
I still maintain, the lady did not steal,hence the money is used for the general purpose of the whole family, the man inclusive...
Some men are .... Okanma N'ezii ( Goodman outside)

how can you wrongly assume that the money in the man's wallet is the family's?! what if the money was meant to pay something very important the next morning? what if the money was borrowed to him to pay for an errant?

if the wifey needs money then COMMUNICATING with her husband about her needs is THE only way.

misspicy:
who communicating don help

BTW stealing is bad

sneaking at the dead of night to substract money from his wallet surely aint the solution, and i hate to see what she does when the wallet now becomes every night empty.

also, lets think about the audacity/disrespect/arrogance of women who do such thing.

TechGuyTee:
Lmao no be only father Xmas. You can't be blunt with Nigerian girls and not end up getting insulted at the end that's the problem.

would you rather be insulted by some broke aass hungry babes because you are honest OR taken for a ride as some cheerful giving mugu?!
you are not the problem, they are.

greenhulk:
That's why I said only someone ignorant. A fake iPhone will not run iOS, it will most certainly run android. So the easiest way to know is to launch app store, in a fake iPhone it will take u to play store instead of app store.

got you... but you making it sound easy and straight forward, and thats because you know what to look for. it wasnt that straight forward for me. at 1st, some of the different features made me think that "maybe" thats the difference between the 6 and 6S.

dikeigbo2:
Some men are the cause, they are philanthropist out side their home, but are wicked and stingy to their very households, so there is no condemnation to any woman who took from her hubbys wallet to prepare food for the family.

whether the man is a philanthropist or not, stealing certainly aint the solution... and instead, communicating with that person is the key!

Charlieubochi:
God bless you my brother. I'm shocked at some people's Comments. People saying I was at fault for not asking for permission even after I stated that I did are not very smart.

you are the one who is not very smart.... your manager tells you that he cannot grant you the day off on such a short notice, and that you have to take the issue with the MD, and YOU decided not to listen to your manager and instead "disappear". how difficult is this to understand?!
who granted you the right to not come to work? it sure wasnt your workshop manager.

How can you say anybody created by God deserves to be beaten just because he didn't come to work on Saturday which isn't even compulsory because it's calculated as overtime. The people accusing me have zero self esteem and don't understand basic human rights.

whether it is calculated as overtime or not is irrelevant here. if your contract stipulates that you have to work on saturdays, then thats it. blame only yourself for signing that contract. why do you change your story as you go along? wasnt it you who wrote the following:

I am a BSc degree holder in accounting and I am being paid #30,000 plus I have to work on Saturdays too.

greenhulk:
Actually only an ignorant person would buy a fake iPhone. It is very easy to spot a fake iPhone than android phones. Iphones are the only phones that run iOS, so just launch the app store and if it takes u to play store it is fake, if it takes u to apple app store its genuine. Very simple.

bro, i have been using Iphones exclusively for the last +5yrs, and even me i had to search for the fail (the absence of Siri gave it out also), so i certainly can understand how someone who never had an Iphone could be fooled.

a friend bought an Iphone6s yesterday and the thing looked really genuine... it was so cheap so she asked me to check it, and the minute i plugged it on a computer, i realise it was a fake Iphone.

watch out, these fake Iphones are very hard to detect!

@Charlieubochi
A) what has your salary got to do with anything?! this is your job, and in that job description you are suppose to work on saturdays.... end of story!

B) if i was your boss i wouldnt have given you the day off.... NONSENSE! did you get to know about that wedding on that friday?! you have a job that needs to be taken care of, and if you dont have common sense to understand that your bosses cant find a replacement in such short notice (less than 24hrs), then thats the moment i will let you decide between going to your friend wedding OR keeping your job.... the other option would be for you to find someone in the office "qualified" to do your job, willing to take over your duty on that saturday.

C) who granted you the day off?! NOBODY. the person you asked, told you to take the issue with the MD, which "you" decided not to do. again, thats your fault. this is not some big company where you are in a different world from your MD, and therefore you should have talked to him. the only reason you didnt is because you knew he was going to deny you.

D) at the end of the day, whatever happens at the police station and however you may want to shift the issue at hand, you've lost your job due to your own doing... and thats a fact!

finally, here you are talking about how your bosses mistreat people bla bla bla, but funny enough, you had absolutely no issues with that (for God knows how long) until YOU fukced up. stop being an hypocrite!

TechGuyTee:
Just last week after successfully setting p with this babe on Twitter, we finally agreed to see and I asked her to meet me at a shawarma joint only for her to come along with Two of her friends. After crying internally for a moment I sha composed myself, formed big boy and bought for all three of them

next time, be very honest with these babes and tell them, i aint paying for the 3 of you... who do you think i am? father xmas?!

Then yesterday again, I and another babe were scheduled to meet but this one was nice enough to tell me before hand that she was bringing Someone else. I refused and she said she wasn't coming again since she can't come with her friend.
Guys what would you do if you were in such a position??

why didnt you simply ask her:"why do you need to come with your friend?! we are meeting in a public place so you will be safe, isnt it?"

absolute NONSENSE story!!!!!

beautylaurel:
Every lady wants tall and handsome guys for a date,what becomes of d short and ugly ones

the short ugly guys will settle with the short ugly women out there... when these women realise that tall handsome men are not attracted to them.

@Thewidemouth
if she doesnt do it again, you should forget about this issue.

10

thats a dude!

point #1 is VERY VERY weak

28th of Feb or 1st of march

bro, you are making it look like the issue of having money is a problem that started today?! or better yet that this is a MEN issue?!
since the day that we were born MONEY/WORK has always been an issue... in order to eat/drink, clothe ourselves, have a roof over our heads etc, money/work was needed... even Dangote goes to work in the morning, its called LIFE. and just because some women decide to sell themselves to the highest bidders, in order to have a free ride and become "slaves", shouldnt be a reason to think that they have a better ride in life than us men.

you need money for everything in this world, and having a JOB is the answer to that, as there are NO FREE RIDES in this world (whether for men or women), dont let these broke aassss hungry begging ashewos tell you otherwise. the difference between us and these broke aasss begging lazy hungry women (who are enticing men with their fine bodies and face), is that men will eventually have what these lazy women desire (aka money) and when we do, we will ALWAYS make the rules because we all know that there will always be a younger/sexier/finer lazy woman out there seeking for a free ride. so if broke aasss hungry begging babe doesnt do exactly what you "order" her to do (yep, she is your slave/servant) then you just dismiss her broke lazy aasss and move to the next one.

so you see, at 1st it may look like an easier road for these broke aasss hungry babes, but the reality is that it certainly aint.... and we ALL must work hard to make our own money, and be INDEPENDENT!

actually, the best thing in life is to disregard these lazy women looking for a free ride, and instead seek for a hardworking/enterprising woman with the same mindset as yours, in order to build a fantastic LIFE/FAMILY together.

people should stop having sex when they BOTH dont want it any longer.... if 1 wants it and the other doesnt then divorce is the only way forward... and therefore i fully understand this 63yr old man.

@Dammed93

isnt it obvious?! your husband can ONLY start this land/building project "if" and/or "when" HIS money pays for it. that man's ego is in the way and you will never find happiness unless that ego is surgically removed from his brain. you can even bring the land + house built on it and he will still reject it. that man doesnt have your family's wellbeing in mind when he does all his nonsense, he only has himself and his low self esteem bs EGO in mind.

i can already hear that man:"how dare his wife will pay for the house where his family will live"

sadly, you are also to be blamed for this nonsense... how come you have 1milla (thrice) that your struggling husband doesnt know about?! what kind of family unit is this?!

Tallestt:
Guys?? You peeps should help me coz I cannot stand the chance of losing him to another,I can't. If I did lose him,I don't know what would become of me. Am not a bad girl,I dropped every other guy just for this guy. Why do bad things happen to good pple. The love I have for this guy is real. Forget about everything, I want him by my side. I hate it when something this precious is about leaving me. I hate it when am about losing someone so dear to my heart coz I cannot help it. See,I don't know how am gonna explain this but am not a bad girl,am not the material type,things of the world don't freak/move me no matter what. As an average Nigerian girl that would want everything for herself,am totally far from being one. Please guys help me,I don't want to loose him....Biko nu help me outta this

everything you said made sense until you wrote the above.... and then you sadly showed your real face. what we can understand from the above:
- your real issue is not really losing him but its losing him "to another", therefore you havent learned anything!
- the fact that you mentioned you dropped all other guys for him, as if it is some achievement (while it should be the "RIGHT" thing to do), further proves you havent learned anything here!
- what do you really know about "real love"? if you really did love the guy then you would have never said what you did, EVER.
- it seems that your only problem here is... continuing to be fake at all cost. i mean, here you are not willing to accept defeat, wanting "everything for yourself", that you obviously do NOT deserve.

i suggest you grow up and accept the consequences of your poor actions, and hopefully learn from them.

Mindfulness:
Do you love anyone unconditionally?

YES i do... I love myself unconditionally, and will always do!

maybe what that man was trying to tell her was that, as much money/success she will ever make, she can NEVER buy CLASS!

this deluded guy has the right to his own opinion but, to insinuate that this is how each and every men out there should function, is utterly rubbish. the majority of marriages MUST be 50/50 for the sanity of each participants.

what is important to note in this issue is that, it is also wrong because:
A) such men pay for everything at home therefore OWN everything (house, car etc) and therefore in time of divorce, these dumbass women will be left with old Louboutin pair of shoes, while these men will get the house/car they paid for.

B) since they pay for the important family needs, such men call the shots when it comes to important family matters, while these deluded women can decide what Louboutin pair they can buy.

C) the deluded women who will agree with such nonsense probably dont have a cent to their name and EXPECT such man to buy the Louboutin shoes for them anyway, because any smart woman would know better and invest her money wisely.

D) paying for the important family's needs is a must for all wifeys unless they wanna be SLAVES to their union. sadly, we all know that many deluded women bring absolutely NOTHING to their union and have no choice but to be slaves anyway.

come on thats VERY easy, the answer is 60mins....

he will take the 5th tablet in exactly 1hr (1st tablet now, 2nd @ 15mins, 3rd @ 30mins, 4th @ 45mins and 5th @ 60mins duh!!!!)

NONSENSE PHOTOSHOP!!!!
here is the original with more photoshop for gullible NLers

ronald4lif:
Very apt. Surprisingly it's mainly the black race that always lament about racism and have cultivated the habit of wincing about racial attacks. Were this letter scripted by a black dad about his daughter not dating a white dude it won't have made headlines on any blogs.

I'm particularly bemused why we are always lamenting about being victimised by racial scathing remarks when we think less of anyone whose tribe isn't same as ours. For anyone who doesn't share similar religion/tribe or perception to life they are pariahs and must be excluded from our clique and associates.

More worrisome is the fact that Westerners who have proven to more receptive, and indiscriminating to people of all races, gender, religion, disability etc are the ones who are continually being accused of racism.

The West are no saints, no one is, but one thing I'm certain about is that they are the most compassionate, tolerating and hospitable race among all races.

Were the black dominated countries as productive, resourceful and wealthy we wouldn't have tolerated and receptive to non black races like they are to us. I'm fed up with the black man always claiming victimisation of racial abuse, really.

well said bro... there is discrimination everywhere and we Africans are equally discriminating others left, right and center. i will even say that Africans in Africa are the worst as they will voice their narrow minded tribalistic/religious views openly. one simply has to read a few threads on NL to understand how mentally damaged many are.

in the west, since 9/11, we have more and more racists voice their ignorance by calling/viewing all muslims as terrorists.... but thats a tiny minority, and the majority of people know better.

many will be foolish to think that the popularity of Donald Trump (and his very narrow minded views) today has anything to do with the US nation being racist.... while they forget that a black man was elected twice in a row as the US president. that would have been IMPOSSIBLE if the majority of americans were racists.

how is this any different than parents who are against their kids marrying from a different tribe? Africans are no better, there is racism/tribalism everywhere