₦airaland Forum

kkins25:
Like, I saw some dog parents communities "pulling their hairs" over the matter. Are they daft to the long-standing tradition of dog meals in the country? Even in Northern Nigeria, there are dog eaters.

Fineman2:
My name is Dora.
I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.
My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.
My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.
The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.
From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.
He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.
He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.
I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.
Are these not red flags I should run from?
I am confused, please advise me.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
yet one werey has been arguing with me that a man on 230k / month can live lavishly witg 4 kids and a wife, house maid, personal cook, maid and driver and eat out anytime he desires . MrBrownJay1 Come and give me your break down o.

MrAmbrose:
You honestly don't know how to manage, can you pls, find me that job too, I earn 120k monthly with my wife and kids.Kindly reach out to me I'll teach you how to manage.

gonkin:
Let's swap. My own wen useless people sidon press to 97k I still dey manage. I have a car too
So let's swap I'll show u how to manage

Powersurge:
I am currently earning 300k net (360k with pension). I stay in a face2face. I will be moving to a 350k per annum house by December.

valentineuwakwe:
Na you be your own problem...how can a single guy like you on this salary be complaining of not meeting up? There are people with mere 100k monthly even with family doing managing and doing well, e come be you ......

yahoodetector:
If I was earning 400k a month, I will never complain. You said you aren't married and don't have kids yet some people are earning 85k a month with a wife and 2 children and are still doing fine.

Steveoo042:
Hola me let me help you reduce your budget. I earn 300k and I save 100k per month.

LandMann:
My advice is that you should go and look for an apartment that is not more than 250-400k per year...even if it's far from your office...

Wodu89:
I make between 400 and 900k per month. My housing cost is just 130k per annum. Use your sense

crows2ravens:
Most people in Lagos earn between 80-150k.
200-300k is lucky. Anything above 300k God has really blessed you!
You need to give yourself brain reset. Because even if you earn 800k today, it won't be enough cos you would be paying 3m for rent.

LandMann:
Some people earn 45k monthly and they still survive...

highoctane:
Are you aware Teachers been paid 60k per month care for their children, pay school fees, pay rent , and you are here babbling about.Your living a life that is not yours.

Bakrabas:
I earn very very very far below your monthly salary but Alhamdulillah you'll think I earn millions in a month. Sometimes, life doesn't depend on the gigantic figure you earn in a month if you don't apply sense someone earning 45k will be far better than someone earning 450k. I've seen people with low income yet they're landlord. There are lot of liabilities on the items listed by the OP
Identify those liabilities cut them off and move one

Blue86:
Where are you living? I mean which part of the city in Nigeria?Look your expenses should not be above 300k per month.Reduce all those unnecessary expenses...That's why I asked where you stay.There is a lot you can cut off from your expenses.But where do you live and first?

PHIPEX:
If some families live on 200k monthly expenses, why wouldn't he save the remaining 200k and build? Are you saying families can't live on 200k? If this guy reduces his fuelling alone, do you know how much he will save from fuel alone?

Ofemmanu1:
Meanwhile, I'm surviving well in Dangote @Kogi state on a 100k salary tho, if I see that 400k/mnt?! mehnnnn. Meanwhile, ive got a wifey, kid, Honda DC, also flex.Lastly, Lagos hard sha.

Sirchiboy:
What kind of rubbish is this

Sirchiboy:
.I don't know what you are saying mr man

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Sirchiboy:
.Daddy migwo you wan pursue my helper

Sirchiboy:
I am 40 and still living with my parents. No.job

Sirchiboy:
Just started small barbing saloon last month but had no experience.
Just put someone to be managing it for me

Sirchiboy:
..Where do you reside?
I have barbibg saloon looking for someone to manage it in Delta

Sirchiboy:
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Tell the old papa to transfer the money to my account on Saturday.
I have 10 sure odd I need to bet.

Sirchiboy:
How do I survive this regime?
This is suicide mission for a married man.
How do I filll my car I used to manage?

Enemyofpeace:
I for tell una the place, but most of you are so arrogant, you don't respect nor greet me on nairaland, so I won't tell any of you the address of the place

sirjamesjnr:
. The bride price is not a form of reward to any father. It is a symbol of African tradition that a man wants to take a wife and as such he has to pledge to take responsibility of that woman. Are they no Elders in your village ?

Tourist123:
I landed Nigeria yesterday from the US after 2years of Japing. Nothing seems to have gotten better, things have become very worse! How exactly do people live here in Nigeria? So many people begging you for money. Gosh, I can stay in this country for longer than 3 weeks. I can’t! I just cant!!!
The cab i took from the Airport to my apartment charged my 13k for a 35 mins drive It got me wondering how civil servants with families survive in this country considering how expensive things have become and salaries are constant.

DyshApp:
So true, the revelation was quite shocking though I never imagined that she dated Drake

mmadu5:
Guys I always get jealous and upset anytime my neighbor have sex my room is very close to theirs so when ever they make love I hear the woman moaning and it gets me upset and jealous and the same time wishing it me on top of her she is so sexy and pretty hmmmm how can I get this thought out of my mind please

donkelvin10:
Good day fellow nairalanders.
I am not here to beg for money.

The whole of my family abandoned my mother who is constantly on medication for me alone to help. And I don't have a reliable job I am doing as the both of us can barely feed.

I just have an ND in electrical and electronics engineering and I can also fix computers.

Please help me with a good job.
I base in Lagos. God bless you all.

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INDUSTRIALFAN:
on the contrary, you are the one who needs a reality check because I have no idea what state in Nigeria a man earning 230k will be able to get his OWN apartment, his OWN maid, his OWN cook, his own cleaner, his own driver, and still eat out everyday if he wishes to do so. Keep dreaming o Boda Bernard na those wey wan read ur quotes get ginger I de pity.