Now this will a good sign. If they can get him, Tilemans, Gabriel Jesus (or any other decent striker), another scoring winger then it will be a solid team next season.
ibechris: If u don't have money money,pls don't marry.
Do not listen to anyone who tells u to marry,because the person wouldn't be there to help u out when the heat starts.
I have experienced both poverty and wealth(good living condition) within my 39years of existence but to say the truth. Poverty in marriage may rob u of your sanity and freedom that u are enjoying now.
Before u marry pls,have a job and marry someone that is working and nothing more to add.
I will make it simple and short! Currently, my wife claims she is playing a game with a married man who needs a child! Somehow they met but I'm not aware of how, overtime I noticed the frequent call from the man with my wife, she even saved the number as sweetness, I challenged it but she said its just the game, and short often they both go out for the weekend to a place she told me the man got her a catering job, still I let her go cos she said she needed the gains to meet her financial needs which I could not provide at that time, also often the man is a regular caller, they talk at length and at midnight, so I challenged the height of disrespect then I checked her whatsapp conversation, there she and the man made promises to help each other, she will always call him sweet names on the chat, but whenever I question the act she feels very confident and comfortable that I am pissed at it but no changes and no remorse, the fact that she and the man has been going out for the weekend on 3x, I feel something is going wrong behind me and I am not comfortable with the game idea anymore, upon many other reasons and reaction to feel insecure that I can't mention here! I really need your opinion and advice to heal my insecurities. We are married with two kids and being together for 9 years, this feeling is still fresh cos its just happening this year!
What did I just read?
For God's sake what is going in this generation....kaii
Gareth Bale, career at Real Madrid has come to an end. The Welsh international penned an emotional farewell message on his official Instagram account.
In his farewell speech, Bale thanked all Madrid fans, coaches, the President (Florentino Perez) and his team mates.
Bale joined Real Madrid for an unknown amount in 2013, which was later revealed to be a world record transfer fee of £85.1 million (€100.8 million).
Bale was a member of the BBC trio, which included Cristiano Ronaldo and Karim Benzema, that helped Real Madrid win the Copa del Rey and the UEFA Champions League in 2013–14, scoring in both finals.
The next season, he helped the club win the FIFA Club World Cup by winning the UEFA Super Cup and scoring in a third major final.
He went on to win La Liga titles in 2016–17, 2019–20, and 2021–22, as well as four more Champions League titles, including the 2018 UEFA Champions League Final, which he scored with an overhead kick.
One texted me sometime ago that they will send me 85k for covid- 19 whatever...I text back that they should use the money and feed his family and generation...
These are wonderful parents who should be forever cherished, because I can't imagine myself taking a loan or going into debt for grown children in their 30s & 40s. I may consider it for the ones in their early 20s but........that is a serious may.
That is how one of my childhood friends (Lydia) was bamboozled by a visiting diasporan with sweet talk and promises of a new life in the United States. Only to be left high and dry with a second child out of wedlock.
We lost touch for a long time but reconnected in 2018 or 2019. In catching up with each other via calls and chats, she mentioned she was now married with a second child and had plans to relocate with her hubby and two boys. I was genuinely happy for her because she was a single mother of one when she met diasporan, so my gladness came from the fact that the guy wasn't bothered about that.
However there was something about her update which rang false to me. I thought to myself there's no way Lydia will marry and I wouldn't have heard anything about it from our childhood circle.Moreover Lydia is the type to announce and publicize her affairs, because she likes pepper dem tinz.
Tessy (another childhood friend) and I were chatting one day, when I asked her are you aware Lydia got married, were you in attendance? Tessy responded with - what marriage, where and when? In explaining my conversation with Lydia, Tessy began to laugh, saying, is there no limit to the tales this chic will spin?
Tessy went on to explain that diasporan never married Lydia, he basically took advantage of her. Lydia was housing and feeding him during his long visit to Naija/Abuja, while bamboozling her with marriage and life in the US where he is based. They co-habited throughout his stay until she took in and gave birth to her second child. Afterwards diasporan japa-ed back to his base and that was the end of their relationship.
Lydia on her own has always wanted to japa, she grew up in Aussie, but briefly, before her parents returned to Naija. I guess like the post/slides say, she thought diasporan would be her ticket out of Naija.
Klass99: Hmmm, the part about aged parents going into debt for 20, 30 and 40 year old children doesn't sit well with me. It is just all shades of wrong and no sensible child should be allowing that to happen.
If you want to japa, have a plan, be patient and work your plan. Don't look for short cuts either and most importantly don't let aged parents get into debt because of you. Are your hands broken or is your brain malfunctioning, to a point where you cannot work out your relocation plan? That's all I've got to say! Prima it's been a while, how are you?
Modified to add: Except parents are willingly taking loans and going into debt for their adult children........I cannot deal ooo.
As in your modified: I think some parents are now willingly ready to loan money for that ...all in an attempt to 'play their last card' at giving their chilldren the chance for a "better life"
You were sincere, vulnerable and deeply committed albeit to the wrong person since you have a wife already. But don't beat yourself too much about it, see it as past and a mistake.
Forgive yourself and pray God to forgive you too.
No lie, it will take time for you to forget the last and move on, but that is what you must COMMITTED to do. Start by cutting off all forms phsical seeing, delete her on socials and stop spying or trailing her. Don't look at her pictures and remember old times. Cut off phone communication. You are not enemies, but this part of the way you can help ur mental state no matter how hard it feels or seem.
Lastly, draw closer to be more affectionate with your wife.
It will take time ....but u will get thru u jejely!
paulolee: first manager to win treble simply because others haven't played in Europa and conference and dnt wish to play in those minor competitions.. when mou was very relevant in football during his EPL days n always dishing wenger hot banters, i imagine if mou is asked how he weighs such achievement if wenger wins same Europa n conference mou dt i know would simply say " a lion can never play with rats bcoz he is bigger than such"... now his coaching career ave dwindled, no big clubs want him n he is forming relevance or creating importance for a common conference cup.. if pep shed tears after winning the Almighty EPL for the 4th time in 5 seasons is understandable than a coach shedding tears bcoz he won common conference cup.....save d tears man
Forcefully taking the new born so as to see ii will make her return to your house is not the best way I think. Something deeper is going on with her....u guys should be patient and try to help her pls...
This is a lesson for all of us: Nobody knows tommorow,and things can change anytime.
He once looked down upon Europa League before,now he really fought hard to win a competition even lower than the one he once castigated when he was on the top.
Heeyor: 1. Ryan Giggs scoring 100+goals without a single hat-trick. 2. Sergio Ramos collecting 26 yellow cards in 38 matches. 3. Tottenham not winning the league in 58 years. 4. Lionel Messi scoring 91 goals in a single year. 5. Kanu Nwankwo playing 6 different AFCON tournaments, without scoring a single goal. 6. Lewandowski scoring 5 goals in 9 minutes. 7. Lingard not registering a single shot on target in 25 matches. 8. Eric Bailly’s shot that went outside the stadium. 9. Liverpool reaching 97 points without winning the league. 10. Zlatan Ibrahimovic and Christiano Ronaldo scoring a goal in every minute of a football match during their careers. 11. Sadio Mane scoring a hat-trick in two minutes. 12. Zinedine Zidane not getting caught offside throughout his career. 13. Real Madrid winning 3 consecutive UCL trophies. 14. Harry Kane scoring over 150 goals without winning any trophy. 15. Phillip Lahm not getting a single red card throughout his career. 16. Aaron Sweswe playing the whole 90 minutes of a football match without kicking a ball. Which of these records is harder to break?
16, 11, 10 in that order...
Play 90minutes without touching the ball...even a goal keeper whose team have 99 percent ball possession the opposition half should touch the ball..
elhafeez: Frank Khalid said " Funny story about me and my friend Arsenal & Nigerian legend Kanu Nwankwo. Chelsea Football Club was playing Arsenal at Stamford Bridge in 2000. Kanu scored a 15 minute hattrick to win the game for Arsenal. Following day I was at my Elbrook cash and carry in Mitcham & guess who walked in, Mr Kanu himself to shop at my cash and carry. He saw my Chelsea shirt that I was wearing & burst out laughing. I forgave him for that & the hattrick he scored & remained friends ever since. Our Kanu Nwankwo is a wicked. We Nigerian Chelsea fans forgive him
DeutschJunge: Thank you for your reply. Yes, you are right and I have thought about that, that is why I also try to look for a medical doctor. That way it is easier to explain to her and she would understand (based on her profession), even if she is ignorant, she can always do quick a research and she will understand.
The problem is most women think the can change you when you fall in love with them. They will form understanding at the beginning, down the line they will now start trying to change and tamper with default settings.
Secondly, women like their partner to be someone they can goof around and be all silly with. Basically, laugh and play like kids. That’s what keeps, maintains and in most cases increase their love for a man. I am VERY stiff! So, the thought that a woman will be managing you, rather than love you is just scary!
Thirdly, I was watching a documentary today about “ ghislaine maxwell” (of you don’t know her, google it). It is so obvious that if you are rich, it goes a long way to making a woman(some) love you, even if you are the worst person in the world. I am not yet on the level of buy luxury items for a woman, besides I don’t want that kind of love.
Your brother is a very lucky man to find a very understanding wife.
I understand your points and concerns...believe me, you will be just fine eventually.
It is not all women that have all that goody goofy friendships going on with their spouses...
First, I see a little bit of traits and similaries between you and my senior brother, albeit not as "extreme" as yours (pardon the word).
You will have to evetually end up with a partner that really understands and respect your person. She has to be patient and be more of the extrovert in the relationship.
My brother's wife is the best thing that has happened to him..he had a couple of relationships that didn't work cos the ladies were not understanding or partient...until he found his wife. An amazing woman. They are 7years in
antibullshit: Before I even read this thread I knew many people would say toyota. Toyota lovers won't let us rest! They talk as if toyotas don't need maintenance and forget that toyotas especially their beloved corolla are not high performance cars and are dull to drive ! They are mass produced and cheap compared to mercedes bmw lexus etc. If you can afford a benz or beamer do not buy a toyota because its far less exciting to drive . Im on my 7th bmw and loving it! Nigeria's economy is the main reason why corollas are everywhere but if you can afford to ,enjoy your life as much as possible . The driving experience is not the same with a performance car!
Just what I needed to hear...pls tell me more about them BMW 3series (which is the best year from 2007 - 2010).
I have had had the chance to bug from people who wanted to sell but I often I pass on cos of the whole "hard to maintain talk" by Nigerians. Ahh, e too get wahala with electrical bla bla...pls who do u advice are the basic do's and don't's if I do get the BMW? I love those cars but have never had any experience with it.
paulolee: playing out from UCL isnt the same with starting from Europa...know this and know peace
The simple truth is when teams people support are playing Europa league then it's the best thing since since slice bread...but when they are in the UCL and other rival teams are playing Europa, then they degrade it as a *nothing competition"....know this and know peace!
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