₦airaland Forum

30k....in Abuja

nedekid:
There are women for every man.
If this man can have 8 kids from several women, it means you are good to go.

Damn! This is real?

Tonero5200:
Not one not two...I have never see a man like my father who likes talking about widow women, befriending them while he has a wife at home.
Sometimes he be dashing them money, talking out of sympathy, like wondering how they are able to survive with their husbands gone... meanwhile ask him for money, he complain he don't have.

It's good to be kind, but why widow women discussion in the house all the time..I think that man has an ulterior motive.

Maybe that's his calling...

Wisdomkosi:
BREAKING!!! CBN Office On Fire (Photos)

The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) Makurdi cash office, covering the North Central States, is currently on fire, Igbere TV has learnt.

The cause of the fire is not known and firefighters were yet to arrive at the building located in old GRA in Makurdi as of press time.

The CBN building in Makurdi is located close to Government House and opposite the United Bank of Africa UBA Makurdi branch.

Source : https://igberetvnews.com/1418563/breaking-cbn-office-fire-photos/

I understand that's it's the Generator house that's in flames...no casualty....Thank God

Johnnycastro18:
Congratulations to our brother, and to all of us still searching for ours....................
may we find our younger version of oyinbo woman,

pretydiva:
So tosin story don enter Nairaland . Both of them were my colleagues at work. The story long no be small. It's well

Are you serious? I know someone (lady) personally who went thru same experience with a guy as she did...SMH, don't know why somebody would keep lieing to another that you want to go spend the rest of lives with about the things they don't have. Pity

Godblessyou4321:
how do I tell my boss I want to quit, not that she's a bad person, she's kind and appreciative of how I do her work, and she doesn't hide it
she would be sad I'm leaving because she's been making some plans along with me in it and all.....i 've been postponing telling her,now i have to tell soon......I'm kind of a short of words quite person though I know when to take my stand on my part and interests....i really don't what to say to her, how to table it down...blablaba...help me please nairalanders

Pls move if that's what is best for you. I can tell you from a personal experience that considering them (bosses) and staying back just cause you believe they will feel some type of way or that they making 'plans' with you in need is something you might come to regret later

SPTruth:
Deuteronomy 8:10-17
10 When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the LORD your God for the good land he has given you.

11 Be careful that you do not forget the LORD your God, failing to observe his commands, his laws and his decrees that I am giving you this day.

12 Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down,

13 and when your herds and flocks grow large and your silver and gold increase and all you have is multiplied,

14 then your heart will become proud and you will forget the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.

15 He led you through the vast and dreadful wilderness, that thirsty and waterless land, with its venomous snakes and scorpions. He brought you water out of hard rock.

16 He gave you manna to eat in the wilderness, something your ancestors had never known, to humble and test you so that in the end it might go well with you.

17 You may say to yourself, “My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.”

18 But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today.

It is human(fleshly) to forget God when He has answered our prayers and Divine to remain faithful to Him when He has answered our Prayers.
We attend church twice a week just to pray to God for a Visa, when He answers us we stop going to Church "because we got bills to pay".

We join the choir and sing just to pray to God that we need a job, when He gives is the we get too carried away with work to sing in tbe choir again.

We go to church every Sunday to pray for a husband, when He gives us the husband, we no longer remember the address of the Church after honeymoon.

O what about kids, after He gives us kids, sundays will be the time to watch cartoon with them instead of going to church.

You were faithful in your midnight prayers and giving to the poor, because you wanted God to bless you financially, when your business begins to boom, you get so busy to wake up at night, and you laugh at those still giving to the church.

You used to sweep the church every Saturday because you were seeking admission, but when He gave you the course you yearned for, you stopped going to church.

Remember to go back to your First Love and be faithful to Him. May God help us all.

Amen!

tishbite41:
Bleep y'all
Bleep APC
Bleep PDP
Bleep Nigeria
And if you're angry with my post, Bleep u too.

Damn, you on some pac mood..

She a cutie...

All shades of wrong inside a church...

You are just fond of the man because of the way you believe he cares or checks for you. Maybe ur husband is lacking in that department/or not hence your mind is playing tricks on you. Don't feel guilty...it's just a temptation phase that happens to the best of us. However, don't feed that temptation further. Harderned ur heart and believe u can triumph over that silly feeling. Avoid stuff that will bring close to the Rev also...God help u

RuddyFusion:
I know someone who's still a virgin at 35.....

It's well

I actually know one @ 31. Stunningly beautiful too.

Wow! Agbani....still remember my whole family watching that Miss world contest just like yesterday.

Happy wedding anniversary to them

Kingpele:
Pride goes before a fall ,but victor ikpeba was right, when u are in a crucial match like that ,you must utilise your chances of scoring goals ,we didn't need beautiful display of skills ,we needed a simple goal to qualify but he was too immature to see the point..now he is back in his club and will watch the world Cup like the rest of us ,he tried sha but that his useless bicycle kick was not appropriate at that material moments

You have sense..I am not sure alot of people commenting on here read and understood the point Victor Ikpeba was making.

E be like this woman will be one of the entertainers in our political space going forward...Kai naija

First, pls forgive yourself about your decision of marrying the man. You can't turn back the hand of time now. Don't feel bad about ur past choices just look towards the future.

Be kind to yourself. Focus on your current reality. Calm down and try to find a reasonable solution to the issues raised ok..

A good write up and point you made. The thing is, women are being advised to marry who loves them more and so also men are advised to marry who loves them more.

For me, I would really prefer to marry who I love, but like you stated, most times there is always an inbalance. Personally the problem I have with marrying who loves you more is that one ends up 'settling' with who think is safer for. But is this really fair on the other person?

jneutron4000:
Gid bless her. We are proud of her mama Africa. Wombo Wombo will forever be a hit.

Ahh..such a parry jam back in the day...

ExAngel007:
Things Most Of Us Think Are The Same But Actually
Aren't

leggo!



https://www.buzzfeed.com/audreyworboys/words-same-but-different

Enlightening...

The question I always poised to people is, how would you geneuinely feel if your partner does or is doing same thing that you are doing in secret? The answer will help one to think deep over the consequey of their actions...

Psady:
Mine is BretHart hit man vs Shawn Micheal, that match lasted hours it was so entertaining and full of intrigues, imagine when your two most favorite wrestlers are fighting to death, that feeling was out of this world.

Iron Man match ..

Noticed also...it says they are carrying out maintenance...

onthehill:
https://fb.watch/cbuQyKJwHb/

Who da heck are these people sef?

Ademola47:
Amaju singlehandedly destroyed the NFF...

This man is just traveling up and down different counties and attending different social events with his fine wife.....met with him @ the airport twice before

Iyaebe:
Still Very strong, stronger than our modern generation men

I tell you. Make Osho baba enjoy himself abeg

You are leading the single girl ON. That's not nice. Tell her the truth about your marital status now pls..

cutecommend:
Different people have one or two fears they consider when thinking of marriage. It may be.

(1) Lack of finance.
(2) Fear of Infidelity.
(3) Fear of wedding Process.
(4) DNA fears.
(5) Fear of marrying the wrong person..

Etc..

What are your fears?

1
2

InTheCloudySky:
Male golddiggers/leeches are a shameless bunch, probably worse than females. I dated one briefly before: always demanded money from me like he was the one making it (and mind you we were just dating), acted like he had money and drove a fast car but was actually broke as hell, blamed his ex-wife in Nigeria for putting him in debt but knowing how flashy he was - that was a lie, 10-years older than me but behaved like a child. I'll never put myself in that situation again. Good riddance.

Broke men who have the audacity to date and worse, mooch off women's money, should be imprisoned.

Ooh oh...sorry about that

joshmaster487:
That's a typical Nigerian occurrence.

Was it Tafawa balewa that said "Nigeria will be better when the son of nobody becomes somebody without knowing anybody"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvGQnboCNOw

I enjoyed the movie story line ....

Betboss:
I don't feel cheated anymore.

Hehehe.... na so ooh. It's a serious matter

Betboss:
Hi Nairalanders!

How much do you spend monthly on electricity bill?

I need answers from family men/women who use meter and have air conditioners, freezers and other heavy appliances.

I'm asking because it seems I'm being cheated. While waiting for my own prepaid meter, I'm using my neighbours meter. So we share the bill. But in march when the light was so bad I spent 14.5k.

Could meter be faulty?

Around 42k per month....well mine is a dwelling house. Although this is even with proper control of air condition, heater, etc usage ooh!