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Romance › Re: Jesse Jagz And Tolu Wedding Pictures by Mryacks: 12:44pm On Sep 06, 2020
paulolee:
nice one, congrats jaga, a very talented rapper that never was...
he was soo good in the rap game and people once agreed dt he was the best and even better than his brother m.i..
still dnt kno what went wrong bt jaga story is a perfect example of "no be who good pass they carry first" sometimes other factors are involved..
whenever i remember his story, i keep praying that my TALENT should never be made SILENT...
its never too late 4 him though, happy new week nairalanders..
Well said...
Sports › Re: Dani Ceballos Rejoins Arsenal On Loan by Mryacks: 12:30pm On Sep 05, 2020
He play very well towards the end of last season after the resumption. I think he will be more balance this season and give us a performance close to that of Cazorla's..
Sports › Re: AFCON Trophy Missing At CAF Headquarters In Egypt by Mryacks: 8:30pm On Sep 04, 2020
kunzyomi:
This is hilarious
Indeed!
Crime › Re: Man Shoots Wife Over Sex, Dumps Body, Opens Fire On Neighbors In U.S (Photos) by Mryacks: 11:51am On Sep 04, 2020
It is not only about sex...the fella is a deranged twisted and evil possed human being....
Celebrities › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo’s Girlfriend Dazzles In Glamorous Slit Gown (photos) by Mryacks: 10:36pm On Sep 03, 2020
CR7 got a good eye....
Politics › Re: Abuja Disco Hikes Electricity Tariff by Mryacks: 1:27pm On Sep 01, 2020
As it is the tariff Imis quite high already. Now this will drain our pockets even more...na waoh
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Reasons Christians Should Share Testimonies In Church - Tunde Korede by Mryacks: 1:59pm On Aug 31, 2020
TundeKorede:
A lot of believers are oblivious to the benefits embedded in sharing testimonies in Church. Although, testimonies are not to be shared in Church alone, they can be shared at home too.

In this article, we shall examine the biblical reasons for sharing testimonies. My belief is that you will join the league of testifiers in Church after reading this blogpost.

Five Reasons Why You Need To Share Your Testimonies In Church
(1) To Strengthen The Faith Of Others


David shared the testimony of how he killed a lion and a bear with King Saul. After sharing the story, Saul’s faith in the God David served was strengthened.

1 Samuel 17:36-37
[36]Thy servant slew both the lion and the bear: and this uncircumcised Philistine shall be as one of them, seeing he hath defied the armies of the living God.

[37]David said moreover, The LORD that delivered me out of the paw of the LION, and out of the PAW OF THE BEAR he will deliver me out of the hand of this Philistine. And Saul said unto David, Go, and the LORD be with thee.
If David didn’t share that testimony with Saul. He would not have allowed him to go and fight the Philistine. Saul knew that if a man could overcome a lion, the king of the jungle. He should be able to overcome any warrior in life.

When we share our testimonies in Church, we strengthen our faith and the faith of others. If you share the testimony of how you labored and gave birth afterwards. There are some pregnant women whose faith will be strengthened.

In other words, we boost the faith of others when we share testimonies in Church. Testimony makes people to foresee possibilities and eradicate every form of impossibilities.

(2) Jesus Expects You To Share Your Testimony
Ten lepers were healed by Jesus and only one out of them came to Jesus to share his testimony. And Jesus responded saying;

Luke 17:16-17
[16]And fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks: and he was a Samaritan.
[17]And Jesus answering said, WERE THERE NOT TEN CLEANSED? BUT WHERE ARE THE NINE?

This statement explains the fact that Jesus expected all the ten healed lepers to share their testimonies. But it was only one person who came back to give thanks.

Till today, Jesus expects us to go to where we have been healed and share our testimony. He expects us to give the testimony of how he saved us. He expects us to share the testimony of how he blessed and protected us.

Do not be an ungrateful believer. When we share testimony, it shows our hearts of gratitude. It enables the Lord to know that we appreciate Him for what He has done. It is not enough to tell you friends. Go to the person God used for you and share your testimony.

After Jesus healed the madman of Gadarenes. He told him to go and testify to his people at home;

Mark 5:19
[19]Howbeit Jesus suffered him not, but saith unto him, Go home to thy friends, and tell them how great things the Lord hath done for thee, and hath had compassion on thee.

Be a testifier! Don’t be an ingrate!

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(3) To Bring Many People To Christ
It was the testimony of Jesus that the Samaritan woman shared with her friends that made many to believe Christ.

John 4:39
[39]And many of the Samaritans of that city believed on him for the saying of the woman, WHICH TESTIFIED, He told me all that ever I did.

The woman was not an ingrate. She didn’t hide under the canopy of being a shy type of a woman. She went around and publicise the ministry of Christ. Her testimony was enough for many Samaritans to believe in Jesus.

Therefore, testimonies bring people to Christ. There are people who will never be captivated by exegesis of the Scriptures. But there are people who will be captivated by true life stories of how Christ librates men. These men need our testimony!

Never hesitate to share the testimony that will bring many to Christ. Your testimony of healing can make an unbeliever to accept Christ.

(4) It’s The Secret Of Victors
Revelation 12:11
[11]And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and BY THE WORD OF THEIR TESTIMONY; and they loved not their lives unto the death.

Victorious believers will always have testimonies to share. When David overcame Lion and a bear, he had a testimony to share. Those who want to ensure consistent dominion over the works of the devil must be consistent testifiers.

The more you share your testimonies, the more God blesses you. The more you appreciate Him before many people. The more He will continue to give you songs of praise and reasons to share testimonies.

To be a victor, you must be a consistent testifier.

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(5) To Make God’s Grace Known To People
1 Corinthians 15:9-10

[9]For I am the least of the apostles, that am not meet to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God.
[10]But by the grace of God I am what I am: and his grace which was bestowed upon me was not in vain; but I laboured more abundantly than they all: yet not I, but the grace of God which was with me.
Paul, the apostle, shared his testimony of how God located him through grace. He maintained that everything he achieved was by the grace of God.

Testimony validates the grace of God upon our lives. We are not ascribing glory to ourselves but to God. When glory is given to God, He blesses us and sees our humility.

Paul was humble enough to ascribe his success to God’s grace. This is exactly what we do, when we share our testimonies.

Warning!!!
• No man of God is to be exalted while sharing testimony. Testimony should be shared in order to return glory to God and strengthen the faith of others.

• We don’t share testimonies to showoff but to recognize God’s grace.

• Believers should desist from sharing fabricated stories in order to stir the faith of men. Be plain and be truthful whenever you share your testimony In Church.

• It is not really polite to share a testimony of a work that is not complete. For example, there is no point sharing a testimony that you have gotten pregnant when you have not given birth. If you want to do that, do it wisely.

Thank you so much for reading. Please, leave a comment after reading.

Also, today is Tunde Korede's birthday, a young Nigerian Christian Blogger. You can take time to encourage me in the comment section below. Thanks!

Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-reasons-why-you-should-share-testimony-in-church/
As always, spritaually enriched with your articles. Happy Birthday soldier of Christ...
Christianity Etc › Re: 3 Ways To Get Your Prayers Answered By God by Mryacks: 1:54pm On Aug 31, 2020
JourneytoEL:
1. Let your intentions be pure
When you make a request to God don't make the reason be about your selfish desires e.g Father, give me a car so I can pepper my friends. Lord, I'm sowing my samsung phone so I can get an iPhone and show my friends I have arrived. Your intentions should be pure, virtuous and genuine. James 4:3, warned against this and said,When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
Remember, God sees your innermost heart. No one can deceive God.

2. Let his Kingdom come through your intentions.
When you make your petitions, it is important to make it serve the purposes of God in earth. A classic example is Hannah.(1 Sàm 1:9-28) Hannah cried and prayed for a child and she got none. But, when she cried and said Father, give me a child and I will dedicate his life to you. God was touched and answered her prayers. Why? God needed a genuine servant to take over Eli since his sons have failed him. Hannah brought an interesting proposition that will make his will to be done and he gave her a son and more children when she fulfilled her promise.
Whenever Jesus prayed he always added sayings like Father, let your kingdom come,let your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Father, perform this miracle for your name to be Glorified. Prayers should always be about the Glory of God not you.
When you want your intention answered, bring up interesting propositions to God e.g Father, give me this contract and I will buy chairs for a church for your children to worship you in comfort. Father, please give me triplets, so I will get done with this stage and start serving my role in the church. Father, give me a job in this company, so I can Evangelise and preach your name to the unbelieving staff, I also promise to act as a good Christian and not partake in fraud. Father, please give me a good phone, so I can setup a YouTube page to proclaim your name. Remember, anything you promise endeavor to fulfill. Never, make the mistake of not fulfilling the promise you made to God.

3. Stand on existing covenants
God made a covenant to Solomon that he would answer the prayer of anyone who prayed facing the temple in Jerusalem. 2 Chron 6:21, I am your servant, and the people of Israel belong to you, and so whenever any of us look toward this temple and pray, answer from your home in heaven and forgive our sins.
Daniel been an intelligent jew, understood the power of this covenant and when he prayed he always faced the temple from faraway Babylon!! Dan 6:10 says, Now when Daniel learned that the decree had been published, he went home to his upstairs room where the windows opened toward Jerusalem. Three times a day he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before.
Whether you believe this or not there are genuine churches whose altars have become a place of covenant for some particular needs. Some churches have a covenant that any barren woman that prays there will carry her child, some have for prosperity, long life etc. Not only churches, there are certain spirit-filled individuals, both clergy and non-clergy, who's covenants with God can open the heavens for your sake. Seek these people and places as the Spirit directs you and pray with faith on their covenants.

Hope this message blessed you? Also remember to pray persistently. Jesus taught this mystery in Luke 18:1-8, with the starting note.Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray for just causes and not give up. Daniel prayed for 21 days before he got his answer, and he would have continued if it was delayed. Keep praying until something happens. Shalom.
Blessed and grateful...
Christianity Etc › Re: How Christians Can Stay Strong During Trying Times - Tunde Korede by Mryacks: 1:15pm On Aug 31, 2020
TundeKorede:
During difficult times, people easily lose their faith in God and do incredulous things. I have heard of people, especially believers who committed suicide during difficult times.

Life isn’t a bed of roses, you know. Jesus did not promise us a life without trouble, tribulations and vicissitudes (John 16:33).

Problems are bound to come. It is how we respond to those problems that reveal our level of maturity in the things of God.

Peruse through this article as we consider how you can stay strong during hard or unfavourable times.

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How To Stay Strong During Hard Times
• Remember What God Has Done For You Before

When David was faced with a challenge which could be describe as ‘impossible’ for him to overcome.

David had to get rid of a man called Goliath — the man who had been fighting from his childhood. It was a very difficult battle for him. But what did he do?

He encouraged himself by recalling how God gave him victory sometime ago.

1 Samuel 17:37
[37]David said moreover, The LORD that DELIVERED ME OUT of the paw of the lion, and out of the paw of the bear, HE WILL DELIVER ME OUT OF THE HAND OF THIS PHILISTINE. And Saul said unto David, Go, and the LORD be with thee.

It was his testimony that he used to encourage himself that He would surely overcome despite all odds.

Stay Strong
Dear friend, anytime you feel there is no hope for you again. Always remember how God has helped you to overcome in the past. God has never changed and He will never change (Mal 3:6).

God is still God because He can visit you miraculously again. Let the past miracles you’ve seen and heard encourage you to believe the unshakable power of God.

Listen to the testimonies of other believers. There are some people who have gone through what you are going through now and they came out victorious.

See, there is nothing new under the sun (Eccl 1:9). Listen to testimonies and let them inspire you.

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Also, let your own testimony of past miracles inspire you to keep believing.

You can stay strong if you will let faith-boosting testimonies inspire you to keep believing.

10 Benefits In Sharing Testimonies

• Encourage Yourself In The Lord
1 Samuel 30:4,6
[4]Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had NO MORE POWER TO WEEP.

[6]And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: BUT DAVID ENCOURAGED HIMSELF IN THE LORD HIS GOD.
In the above cited scriptural verses, we can plainly read how David encouraged himself. His property he toiled to acquire had been burnt down. His wives and children have been taken captives.

More so, not only David’s wives and children were taken captives. David’s men — followers families were taken captives too. It was as difficult as that.

Nevertheless, David and his men wept till they had no power. All of a sudden, the men were talking of stoning him.

Immediately, David encouraged himself in the Lord his God. What does it mean to encourage yourself in the Lord?

It means trusting God despite non-visibility of clear cut solutions to one’s problem. You brace up! You cheer on though you know things are difficult. That was exactly what David did.

Try To Stay Strong
Beloved, anytime you encounter whatever you think is unbearable for you. Encourage yourself in the Lord. Nobody else can do this for you. You are the only one who will make up your mind to do so.

See, it is when you encourage yourself that you will be able to see many opportunities that are available.

Be encouraged and you’ll stay strong, active and lively during hard times.

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[b• Rejoice[/b]
Philippians 4:4
[4]Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice.

Historically, it was believed that Paul wrote this above verse when he was in prison.

So amazing! A man who was in prison wrote to those who had freedom of movement to rejoice! As you can see, he reiterated his point, saying people should rejoice.

Biblically, you don’t rejoice because you have no problem. But you rejoice because you know the Lord is strong enough to help you overcome your challenges.

Rejoice so that you can stay strong. When Joseph was in prison, he was not downhearted.

As a matter of fact, he was the one seeking the way out for those who were downhearted (Gen 40:6-7).

Take a leaf out of Joseph’s book and stay strong.

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• Develop Your Faith
Job 19:25
[25]FOR I KNOW THAT MY REDEEMER LIVETH, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth:

Job was able to utter these faith-boosting words because he had developed his faith in God.

Someone who does not know the God he serves cannot utter such statement.

Truly, whenever you find yourself in any difficult situation. Don’t go about blaming God for the misfortune you have incurred. Just be ready to develop your faith.

Articles like this, tapes and teachings that will make grow spiritually should be consulted by you. Read readable ones and eat the eatable ones.

Grow in faith, so as to stay strong in any situation. I have discovered that it is not really the problem people have that kills them.

But it is lack of faith that kills people. Faith comes by hearing. Some people listen to things that kill their faith. And that’s why troubles overwhelm them.

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• Pray
Matthew 26:38-39

[38]Then saith he unto them, MY SOUL IS EXCEEDING SORROWFUL, even unto death: tarry ye here, and watch with me.
[39]And he went a little further, and fell on his face, AND PRAYED, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.
Obviously, Jesus said he was exceedingly sorrowful. When he was in such position, what did he do? He prayed.

In other words, if Jesus could be exceedingly sorrowful. Who are you to say God is unfair to you because of little problem you have?

Manage your problems by going before the Lord. Pray to Him. Communicate your needs to Him.

I have discovered that whenever I pour out my needs before God, my anxiety goes out. Prayer empties my heart. Do likewise.

Tell God your needs. Let Him know you are not okay with that unfavorable condition. And keep trusting Him as He work things out for you.

Thanks for reading.

Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/six-ways-to-stay-strong-during-difficult-times/
Thanks for sharing..bless you
Romance › Re: Overthinking by Mryacks: 11:15pm On Aug 30, 2020
Humanoid01:
Overthinking is a very dangerous thing to go through. It makes you start assuming things that aren't true. Those assumptions then bring forth other dangerous thoughts which could lead to hatred, malice, strife, bitterness, jealousy, etc.

The best way to avoid this is to nullify those thoughts. Don't try to rationalize the situation. Just "distract" yourself with things that will only make you think positive thoughts. Constantly doing this will make you forget whatever is making you overthink, with time.
Well said...also present whatever situation in prayers to God.
Christianity Etc › Re: Sexual Temptations And The Movie Industry by Mryacks: 10:55pm On Aug 30, 2020
Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni

We know already that God's Will is that all sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution alone, and that anything contrary is a sin that will fetch harmful repercussions (including premarital sex, extramarital sex, masturbation, pornography, homosexuality, etc).

Temptation is defined not only as "something attractive or seductive", but also as "pressure applied to your thinking designed to create wrong emotions which will eventually lead to wrong actions". Hence, sexual temptations are entities (persons, things, places, platforms, initiatives, etc) meant to entice you into committing sexual sins.

A temptation is meant to make you do something you already know is wrong. Sexual temptations are traps put in place by the devil and his agents, with the aim of making people become immoral. The aim is to make people dirty and separated from God their Creator, so he (the devil) will have the chance to steal from them, get them killed, and then destroy them.

Today, there are lots of Agents of Sexual Temptation out there (people, things, places, platforms, initiatives, etc that the devil is utilising to lure people into immorality). But in this short article, I want you to realise that the kingdom of darkness has colonised a large part of the territory of the world's movie industry.

It is necessary to know that the devil is always working on how he can pervert good intentions and inventions, as well as getting them channeled towards populating hell. Hence, while the inventors of the movie industry might have noble motives in the first place, it is unfortunate to note that the kingdom of darkness have invaded the industry and have been utilising it to corrupt millions of people in different parts of the world.

A lot of players and stakeholders in Hollywood, Nollywood, and several others, are doing the biddings of the devil - directly or indirectly, and only a few in the movie industry haven't bowed to the glistering offers of the devil. The hands of many of them have been sorely soiled with impurity.

Today, it is a common sight to see movies that promote indecency and tries to paint immorality in a positive light. Movies with tons of nude and semi nude scenes are all over the place. Unknown to many, these things keeps depositing lust in the hearts of the millions of viewers (including children). The lusts keeps growing in different degrees and forms, and you start seeing people practising what they saw in the movies. Where do you think kids of today are learning their erotic actions and dances from?

When you watch a lot of movies out there, it is difficult to restrain immoral thoughts and urges. These things corrupts people; they are toxic to our inner man; and cause separation between us and God.

What then should be done?

You have the liberty to watch any kind of movie you want. But if you want to be serious with God and want Him to use you for great exploits, then you can't go on watching just anything released in the already corrupted movie industry. There are some types of movies you shouldn't bother going for, as they will influence you negatively, or deposit debris of immorality into your subconsciousness.

We thank God for the rising of the Christian movie industry today. Personally, I'm always pleased with the Mount Zion Ministry (Evangelist Mike Bamiloye and his beautiful family - both immediate and extended). The Christian movie industry is now producing tons of superb movies that will entertain you (you will laugh and enjoy yourself), enlighten you (get you educated on important things you should know in today's world), then, most importantly, edify your spirit and encourage you to seek God the more (which help you grow spiritually).

So, rather than watching (and exposing your children to) movies that invade the mind with darkness, you should give more attention to the Christian movie industry.

"Therefore “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.” 2 Corinthians 6:17

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=3151302368314340&id=100003038222908
Noted...
Celebrities › Re: Michael Jackson's 62nd Posthumous Birthday. What Are Your Top 5 MJ Songs? by Mryacks: 10:29pm On Aug 30, 2020
saaphiere:
The king of pop 'Micheal Jackson' was born on this day 29th August in 1958. He would have been 62 years today. What are your top 5 Micheal Jackson songs?

Mine:
1. Heal the world.
2. Black or White.
3. Billie Jean.
4. Wanna be starting something.
5. Smooth criminal.

What's your top 5 MJ songs?
1. Heal the world
2. Thriller
3. Beat it
4. Human nature
5. Rock my world
Celebrities › Re: Chadwick Boseman Dies At 43 After 4-Year Battle With Cancer by Mryacks: 6:09am On Aug 29, 2020
kukusdot:
There had been concerns about his apparent weight loss in a video he shared earlier in the year. But Boseman had never addressed his health publicly.
Exactly...I remember seeing that pix earlier with concern and someone suggested he was losing weight for a movie role....eyah, may he RIP
Romance › Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Mryacks: 10:31pm On Aug 28, 2020
[quote



Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.



Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.


People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.[/quote]Valid points...
Jokes Etc › Re: Hilarious #NigerianHistory Memes That Will Make You Laugh Hard by Mryacks: 6:52pm On Aug 27, 2020
I don laugh taya.... grin grin
Celebrities › Re: Macaulay Culkin 40th Birthday: Home Alone Star Actor Is Now 40 Years Old! by Mryacks: 2:13pm On Aug 27, 2020
AfroKnight:
All of us don dey old. embarassed
That is ehn....he captured it well grin
Sports › Re: Quim Torra Bids Messi Farewell by Mryacks: 6:45pm On Aug 26, 2020
sammysneh:
It will be strange to see Messi in another jersey, He is Mr Barcelona and I know he wouldn't leave
He is just trying to make the club do the right things, how many times Messi said he would leave Barça but in the end he always remained there..
It is not easy to see a club icon/legend leaves or go to play in another team's shirt especially when such a player is known with that one club Jersey he represented with aplomb for years...Arsenal (thierry Henry), Man Utd (Giggs), Chelsea (Cech/Lampard), Madrid (Casillas), etc are some examples....but hey, the club and player must accept change and move on..
Events › Re: What Was That Thing You Later Realised You Wasted Money On During Your Wedding? by Mryacks: 4:34pm On Aug 26, 2020
Built2last:
Married folks,
What was that thing you later realised you wasted your money on during your wedding ceremony?

For me was Wedding IV. Spent money printing quality IV. I should have just used WhatsApp, Facebook and SMS and people would still have come. My mums friends and associates was enough crowd.

I travelled with my woman to UK to shop for wedding gown, shoe and wrist watch. Spent £2,200 on gown. £800 wristwatch I cant remember the price of the shoe now. That's for madam alone.

Madam now forced me to buy wedding suits for me and my best man.

Looking back, I would have built a bungalow with this stupid expense. Even my madam now regrets spending such money on wedding gown that she wore for 2 hours and that was it. The gown is wasting somewhere now.

I know I wasted money unnecessary. My only joy is the good wife I married.

Share the mistakes you made in expense planning wedding
New wristwatch for wedding day....waste!
Romance › Re: What Is The Marriage Age Limit For Girls by Mryacks: 11:14pm On Aug 25, 2020
meobizy:
People marry at any time and any age. If marrying for child-raising reasons then she’s ripe enough. If marrying for companionship then she can do so even at seventy-five.
Abi ooh..
Romance › Re: Make Your Woman Happy And See How Much Respect You’d Get In Return — Actress Dam by Mryacks: 11:11pm On Aug 25, 2020
Well she is right....but to the right woman who deserves it!
Business › Re: Biggest Amount Of Money You Have Ever Lost In Life And Lessons Learnt From It by Mryacks: 9:06pm On Aug 24, 2020
graciousolo:
I observed that everyone is quick count their losses but, not what they learnt?


This is the most important aspect of losses and failures... What did you learn from them?
Well said.

Lesson learnt: Put any kind of business arrangement (no matter how small) written in a simple agreement or MOU before committing.

Some time ago I was underpaid (short-paid) about 1.2M out of my total earnings for a business arrangement I brought together all because I trusted that my friend was in charge and my interest was covered. News flash, I couldn't hold the other parties to anything since everything was agreed verbally.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Coup: Mali Junta Wants 3-Year Military Rule, Agrees To Free President Keita by Mryacks: 8:43pm On Aug 24, 2020
kingreign:
If military rule will make things work for them, I am totally in support of it. If democratic rule will not work, I'd kick against it. It's high time we stopped copying the Western world and do something that will work well for us by charting a new course in our continent and country's own growth part. Democracy isn't working for most W. African countries truth be told.
Truth be told...as painful as it is
Sports › Re: Moment Neymar Danced Into The CL Final With His Own Speaker, Only To Lose (Video by Mryacks: 8:39pm On Aug 24, 2020
WriterNig:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=af0bBnsXTCU

The PSG superstar arrived at the Estádio da Luz carrying a large speaker and showcased some of his dance moves on his way into the dressing room.

For those who have been watching PSG in the Champions League this season, Neymar carrying a speaker isn’t new. Against Borussia Dortmund in the Round of 16, we saw the Brazil international with a much smaller speaker dancing in front of the Dortmund squad.

https://psgtalk.com/2020/08/video-neymar-strolls-into-the-champions-league-final-with-his-own-speaker/
Show boy...I like the dude grin
Crime › Re: Trader Eating Excreta With Bread In Oyo State Caught And Arrested by Mryacks: 6:31pm On Aug 23, 2020
illicit:
Is it really a crimehuh
Not really...infact he is more of a physcho. But in our climes you know these kinda stuff na juju things grin
Christianity Etc › Re: The World's Pain Is Coming To An End Soon by Mryacks: 6:10pm On Aug 23, 2020
Interesting15:
The intense pain of the world is an indication that the womb of the heavens is pregnant with something spectacular that will imprint true smile on the faces of the people residing in the earth.

God is very much aware of the unpleasant things going on in the world (brought about by sin and disobedience to His loving instructions). In spite of it all, in spite of the rise of sin and sinners with their wicked and evil works, God won't stop loving the earth He created, and He remain eager to install true peace and pleasantness in the earth realm.

God is raising people (His own sons and daughters) from the nations of the world, and He is molding them into divine solution-carriers which He will use to solve some of the myriad of problems the world is facing - talk about poverty, sickness, bad governance, untimely death, unemployment, all manner of negative addictions, and so on. These sons and daughters of YAHWEH (who must have made the genuine decision to surrender their totality to GOD), will be placed in strategic positions, sectors and industries. They will be duly empowered by God, will start operating in an enhanced level of power and intelligence, and their activities and efforts will lessen the pains of the world to an extent - with the aim of bringing more people into the kingdom of God.

However, the ultimate and perfect solution to the world's problems will be experienced when Jesus Christ returns with His Saints, to establish His utopian rule on earth. Until the perfect God will return to establish His perfect Kingdom here, the earth will continue to experience unpleasantness and pain - since it is currently controlled by imperfect and fallen humans.

You should note that before Jesus Christ will return to establish His reign on earth for a season, the Rapture will first take place. The rapture is the next big event that will transport genuine and true children of God (both dead and living) to the presence of Christ in the skies, where we will, among other superb things, participate in a feast known as the Marriage Feast of the Lamb.

Nevertheless, immediately after the rapture, the Great Tribulation will begin, and the Antichrist will be given power to torment those left behind. The Antichrist will force people to receive the mark of the beast (666) either on their forehead or arm. Those that won't receive it would be vehemently tormented: They won't be able to buy and sell, they will suffer violent persecutions with no one to help. And according to the graphic illustration given by the Lord Jesus about the Great Tribulation (Matthew 24:15-28), many won't be able to withstand the torments for long (that is, they can't help but to receive the mark of the beast) BUT: THOSE THAT WILL RECEIVE THE MARK OF THE BEAST WILL BE ETERNALLY DAMNED IN THE LAKE OF FIRE AT THE APPOINTED TIME.

Hence, wisdom demands that everyone of us should understand the signs and know that this is the time to get closer to God and establish a true and sincere individual relationship with Him. This is the time to forsake our sinful ways and start serving God in spirit and in truth. This is the time to embrace the Lordship of Christ, and make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.

If you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, simply do so now. Call upon His Name wherever you are, ask Him to come into Your life, and you will be saved! You will be happier if you forsake your current sinful lifestyle, as your holy relationship with God (your Creator) will empower you to have dominion over everything He has created (which is the Will of God for you).

You only start living and enjoying life only after you make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior.
God bless u...
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Things A Christian Should Never Do - Tunde Korede by Mryacks: 10:21am On Aug 23, 2020
TundeKorede:
The Word “Christian” is not an emblem. It is the name given to the real followers of Jesus Christ. There are many who professed to be Christians today, yet, they are nothing but unbelievers.

Christians are expected to possess Christ-like character. They are supposed to be representatives of Christ on earth. They are supposed to possess certain qualities that set them apart from unbelievers.

However, there are certain qualities that are repugnant to Christ-like character. Also, there are things a good Christian should never do. Come with me as I highlight and expound them one after the other.



Six Things A Good Christian Should Never Do
• Never Hate


1 John 2:9,11
[9]He that saith he is in the light, and hateth his brother, is in darkness even until now.
[11]But he that hateth his brother is in darkness, and walketh in darkness, and knoweth not whither he goeth, because that darkness hath blinded his eyes.

Your Christian living is faulty if you have certain people you hate. If you have developed deep hatred towards certain people whom God created, you are not a good Christian.

More so, the lifeblood of Christianity is love and no true believer should hate any human being. The Bible says you abide in darkness, if you hate people.

No matter what others have done for you, the word, “Hatred” should not be found in you anymore. We are commanded to love everyone. You are not to love believers and hate unbelievers.

God loves the World and He gave us His only begotten son. That’s the kind of love every Christian should possess. God expects us to love all men, irrespective of their belief, lifestyle, exposure, tribe, or nationality.

So, one of the things a Christian should never do is to hate people. Hatred is true mark of our fellowship with the devil – darkness. The true mark of a believer is love.



[/b]• A Good Christian Should Never Hold Grudges Against Anyone[/b]
Ephesians 4:31
[31]LET ALL BITTERNESS, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

Biblically, every believer is to put away every from of malice. How can you call yourself a Christian and find it easier to hold grudges against people?

Grudge is a deep-seated and/or long-term animosity or ill-feeling about something or someone. It may be because of a past bad deed or mistreatment.

Definitely, people will offend us. They will do specific things that will incite us against them. But a good believer will not keep malice with them. We are to love them for who they are.

Candidly, if you are referred to as a Christian. And you love to hold grudges against people, my dear, you are not a true Christian. Because a true Christian is to put away malice.

Today, forgive that person who have offended you. Start greeting him/her if he/she isn’t greeting you. End your dispute today. Who knows when Jesus will come back? Nobody.

Once again, a true Christian will never hold grudges against his fellow. Hence, he forgiven them irrespective of the levity of the sin.

Wrong Reasons For Fasting

• Don’t Use Your Tongue Wrongly
James 1:26
[26]If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man’s religion is vain.

You may be the type who attends Church from Sunday to the next Sunday. But whenever you come back home, you use your tongue wrongly. The Bible says your religion (Christianity) is false.

Hence, a good believer should be able to bring his tongue under subjects. You should be able to keep your mouth shut at times. And you should know when to talk.

People will doubt your testimony of salvation if you speak foul words. Believers should steer clear of corrupt communication such as abusive language, curses are coarse jesting.

Also, if you are able to control your tongue, you are a perfect man (James 3:2). Don’t allow your tongue to control you as a believer.

Indeed, as a good Christian, there are some things you should never say. There are words that should never come out of your mouth.

Weigh your words. Don’t just talk. Represent Christ well on earth by bringing your tongue to subjection.



• Refusal To Forgive People
Ephesians 4:32
[32]And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.

Refusal to forgive people when they offend you is a sign of false Christianity. Christianity is a religion of love. And if you love your neighbors, you will forgive them.

Check yourself if there is any root of bitterness in you. Anytime you find it difficult to forgive people, you are portraying yourself as an unbeliever.

Those who fail to forgive others, will not be forgiven by God. We all make mistakes and we fall short of God’s glory at times. Yet, God forgives us.

Then, who are you not to forgive all men? Any man can offend you. So, be prepared for it. As they offend you, forgive them.

• Never Ignore The Need Of Others
James 2:15-17
[15]If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food,
[16]And one of you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit?
[17]Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone.

Every believer is to authenticate his belief in God through works. Show me a Christian without works and I will show you an irresponsible believer.

Let your good works speak for you. It’s unfair for you to see the needy and neglect them. If you have truly given your life to Christ. The Love in you will compel you to give to others.

Who are those in need around you? The best way to display your Christianity to them is by helping them. For faith without works is dead.

Sadly, there are innumerable wealthy Christians today, who hoard their wealth to themselves alone. They do not care about the wellbeing of others.

Yet, they boast and show off their wealth to people in order to impress them. Even an average believer would tell you that, he/she will start giving when he/she become stinking rich.

Many of us have failed in this aspect. Let’s forget about giving to receive more. The nature in us should compel us to change lives. If we give in order to receive, it means we are selfish.

Let’s change and start helping people right now. Start from where you are right now. Don’t wait until you are too wealthy.


• Never Forget The Rapture
James 5:7
Therefore be patient, brethren, until the COMING OF THE LORD, The farmer waits for the precious produce of the soil, being patient about it, until it gets the early and late rains.

Sadly, many who professed to be Christians have forgotten the coming of our Lord. If you ask an average Christian what he/she is expecting today.

He/she will say he/she is expecting to be rich. This is wrong as riches will perish with this world. We should fix our hopes on eternity things not on earthly things.



I hope this blessed you? Please, make sure you leave a comment after reading. Let me know your thought.

Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/six-things-a-good-christian-should-never-do/
Blessed. Jesus Christ set the perfect example for us to follow...these things are possible for us to do because if he abides in us and us in him, then we can!
Celebrities › Re: Always Dress Decently - Victoria Inyama Reacts To Video Of Tout Harassing Lady by Mryacks: 5:34am On Aug 23, 2020
pocohantas:
Her shape is nice. All that without surgery...

The guy did wrong. I don’t see anything wrong with the girl’s clothes, but knowing the level of raving testosterone in Computer village- I won’t wear such there.
Sensible!
TV/Movies › Re: Vee Advises Laycon To Stay Away From Erica- He says He Is Not Hurting Anymore by Mryacks: 8:20am On Aug 22, 2020
muchroom:
Laycon! You are not Fierce Anything. You are just a studio Gangsta like Eazy E would say.
Damn, you remembered that line by Eazy E....nice grin
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Wathoni's Armpit Causes Outrage On Social Media (Viewers Discretion) by Mryacks: 1:39pm On Aug 19, 2020
wonder233:
I saw that yesterday night and I told someone this was going to trend... Armpits aren't usually pleasant spots, but this was so shockingly bizzare
Same thought here....
Family › Re: Three Most Important Things by Mryacks: 3:48am On Aug 19, 2020
VLTA:
Three Most Important Priorities in You Life

1.The first and most important priority in your life as a believer should be your relationship with God.


Reasons Why You Need God:

i. The only security to your eternal destiny is your relationship with God.
ii. The second reason you need God is because true and sustainable success comes from God. (Daniel 11:32b)
iii.  Peace and fulfillment;
The highest index for measuring wealth and freedom is peace; only God can guarantee genuine peace and fulfilment.

Romans 5:1 (KJV)
Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:

John 14:27 (KJV)
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.


As a believer, when God’s peace does not find expression in you, death is being ministered to you.



2. Your family (physical and spiritual); it is the most important unit in the society.

When all else fails, your family will almost always be your strongest support and motivational system.

The most important key to sustainable relationship, family and marriage is knowledge.

Proverbs 24:3-4 (KJV)
3. Through wisdom is an house built; and by understanding it is established:
4. And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.

Ephesians 5:22 (KJV)
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

Love in marriage is unconditional but stability and fulfillment is highly conditional.It is the responsibility of every woman to respect her husband; a woman’s biggest advantage in marriage is her ability to master submission. The major need of every woman is security and emotional fulfillment. When men provide these, it communicates love to the woman. You become a blessing when you constantly improve on yourself.
Fulfillment and stability is predicated on the mutual respect and value provided in marriage. Value is the first virtue and then skill.
Virtue is the degree of one’s similarity to the character of Christ.

3. The third most important thing in your life is your God given assignment.

Your assignment answers the question “why”.

As a believer, your greatest fulfillment will come from knowing that you have lived your life serving the purposes of God and blessing humanity.



Purpose gives meaning and value to everything you do.


Your purpose is your contribution to Kingdom advance. Many lives are dependent on the fulfillment of your purpose.


Culled from [b] Apostle Joshua Sleman's message - "Three most important things" [b/]


https://sbicconnect.fun/three-most-important-things-koinonia-with-apostle-joshua-selman-nimmak/
Good one...
Family › Re: 10 Ways To Marry The Wrong Person by Mryacks: 3:42am On Aug 19, 2020
prof2007:
Blind love is not the way to choose a spouse. Here are practical tools for keeping your eyes wide open.

With divorce rates over 50%, too many are clearly making a serious mistake in deciding who to spend the rest of their life with. To avoid becoming a "statistic," try to internalize these 10 insights:

#1. EXPECTING HIM/HER TO CHANGE AFTER YOU'RE MARRIED.
The classic mistake. Never marry potential. The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, "You actually can expect people to change after they're married... for the worse!" So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.

#2. FOCUSING MORE ON CHEMISTRY THAN CHARACTER
Chemistry ignites fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome. "I'm in love" often means, "I'm in lust." Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person's character?
Here are 4 character traits to definitely check for:
-- Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the right thing" is more important than personal comfort? Do I want to be more like this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?
-- Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give to charity?
-- Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he's going to do?
-- Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?

Ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?

#3. NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT A WOMAN NEEDS MOST
Men and women have unique emotional needs, and more often than not, it is the man who just doesn't "get it." The unique need of a woman is to be loved - to feel she is the most important person in her husband's life. The husband needs to give her consistent, quality attention.

#4. NOT SHARING COMMON LIFE GOALS / PRIORITIES
There are 3 basic ways we connect with another person:
-- chemistry and compatibility.
-- sharing common interests.
-- sharing common life goals.

Make sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide. After marriage, two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for," while you're single - and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you. This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A soul mate is a goal mate - 2 people who ultimately share same understanding of life's purpose and therefore share same priorities, values and goals.

#5. GETTING INTIMATELY INVOLVED TOO QUICKLY
Intimacy before the commitment of marriage can be a big problem because it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues. Physical involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.

It is not necessary to take a "test drive" in order to find out if a couple is physically compatible. If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about it. Of all the studies done on divorce, incompatibility in the intimate arena is almost never cited as a main reason for divorce.

#6. NO DEEPER EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH THE PERSON
To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: "Do I respect and admire this person?"
This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?" We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. You should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc. Also ask: "Do I trust this person?" This also means, "Is he/she emotionally stable? Do I feel I can rely on him/her?

#7. CHOOSING SOMEONE WITH WHOM YOU DON’T FEEL EMOTIONALLY SAFE
Ask yourself the following questions: Do I feel calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person? Can I fully be myself and express myself with this person? Does this person make me feel good about myself? Do you have a really close friend who does make you feel this way? Make sure the person you marry makes you feel the same way! Are you afraid of this person in any way? You should not feel you need to monitor what you say because you are afraid of how the other person will view it. If you're afraid to express feelings and opinions openly, there's a problem with the relationship.

Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't feel the other person is trying to control you. Controlling behaviors are a sign of an abusive person. Beware of someone who is always trying to change you. There's a big difference between "controlling" and "making suggestions." A suggestion is made for your benefit; a control statement is made for their benefit.

#8. NOT PUTTING EVERYTHING ON THE TABLE
Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment: Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you? Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person. If you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate. The two go hand in hand.

#9. USING THE RELATIONSHIP TO ESCAPE PERSONAL PROBLEMS & UNHAPPINESS
If you are unhappy while single, you'll probably be unhappy when married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. If anything, marriage will exacerbate them. If you are not happy with yourself and your life, take responsibility to fix it now while you are single. You'll feel better, and your future spouse will thank you.

#10. INVOLVEMENT IN A TRIANGLE
To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship. A person who hasn't separated from his or her parents is the classic example of triangulation. People can also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies, sports or money.

Be careful that you and your partner are free of triangles. The person caught in the triangle cannot be fully emotionally available to you. You will not be their number one priority. And that's no basis for a marriage.

SOURCE (abridged): https://www.aish.com/d/w/48955756.html?mobile=yes&tab=y#
Nicely written article...
Travel › Re: Honesty and Contentment: My Experience In Zimbabwe. by Mryacks: 10:52pm On Aug 18, 2020

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