Thebest12: Hello nairalanders I will make this short as possible. I am in love with a girl . She is almost months pregnant . but no guy in her life . The mo.ron that scored the goal has repeatedly denied responsibility. She is now living with her mum. But i love this girl. Sometimes i use to help her out financially. . Pls guys i need your advice. Insult is allowed . Go ahead. Genuine advice pls
If you truly love her and can put up with the consequences of all that comes with her being pregnant then fine....
Fibonacci88: 91% possession no goal. Arsenal and Arteta is officially useless.
The thing is at the moment Arsenal seriously lack deadly finishing upfront. So even if the have possession and reach opposition half, they loose the ball and start running back like clowns. Top quality finishing is the difference in this game...sad
peacekante: I completely agree with this even though I am more of a Messi fan. I know Diego and Pele are the two greatest footballers of all time. But the op is not wrong here. Maradona has this passion that has never been seen in the game since he retired. His determination to win at all cost is second to none. This is what Messi lacks and what Ronaldo has. Ronaldo is very determined to win at all cost. Though his passion is lesser than Diego. For me in this GOAT debate, 1, pele 2, Maradona 3,Zidane 4, Ronaldo Delinma 5, Christiano Ronaldo 6, Messi.
Both Messi and Christiano Ronaldo has that rating because of their inability to win the big one ( THE WORLD CUP) And Ronaldo is above Messi for me because he won with his country and Messi didn't. But I love Messi more than him because he is more exciting to watch.
Correct list of top 5 you've got. Always rated Ronaldo da Lima way ahead of both Messi and CR7
spoked: It is truly not easy to be faithful in this era. We truly cannot fake it, but it is fact. Even some who are faithful are enduring or struggling to be faithful. Deep down, some will go astray or wish to go astray if there will be no repercussion or consequences. We live in a generation loaded with lust. Men walking in the streets and thinking nonsense about women, Women walking as though nothing is happening, but sexually ransacking men in their hearts. We also have men and women cheating on their partners-I mean having live sex with people other than their marriage partners. We have ladies who could be on the phone with their partner, yet naked having sex with another while on phone..... We have fiance or fiancees sleeping with others few days to their wedding.
Now, before you judge anyone, judge yourself first. It doesnt make sense to condemn a gender, person or whoever, when you are also committing same thing. There are reasons why the prevalence of cheating has heightened.
(1) Pornography: This is one of the enhancers of infidelity. You cannot be a porn watcher and not battle with faithfulness. With all those scenarios of sex you watch, you will find it hard not to try more of perversion even with others. So if you have a lovely wife, and you go out, and see a lady that looks like one of the porn stars youve watched, you could become pressured to have her. Porn watchers battle with the mind, and this can lead to unfaithfulness.
(2) Pre-marital Sex: Pre-marital sex is a door to unfaithfulness in marriage. You cannot sleep with 20 persons using various sexual techniques and think you could stay with a marriage partner forever without cheating. That over-testing will make you love varieties. You will find it hard to get satisfied with just one person. Even if your marriage partner is good in bed, there may be the tendency to want to taste newer faces or ex.
(3) Social Media Addiction: You want to be faithful, yet you spend huge hours on badoo, facebook, whatsapp etc chatting people without purpose. It is said "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". So if you keep exploring the internet, you may want to try new things or experience new persons, and from there you could engage in unhealthy relationships.
(4) Unnecessary Closeness to the Opposite Sex: "I know myself", "we are just friends", "aah! dont you trust me", "aaah! we are close but i have limits"..Before you know it, you may be fully naked on bed with a person that is not your spouse. It is wrong to be unnecessarily close to the opposite sex when married; whether man or woman. True life story: A married Christian lady fell into adultery because she was close to a single guy. She later confessed to her husband two weeks after sleeping with the guy. She even got pregnant, and because of the Christian fate, the baby was kept. You still can commit murder.
If you want to be faithful, look for things that wont heighten your sexual drive unnecessarily...
You captured the points aptly.... a lot of people seem to downplay nos 3 and 4 especially....but they are strong temptation grounds and recipes for been unfaithful.
That's how that actress publicly shot her shot on Don j baba and they later went on a date
That's how rapper skales seeked for funds to shoot shake body video from olamide and it was granted
That's how AC Milan players jokingly asked ibrahimovic to get the all new ps5 so they could play and he actually bought the console for each and everyone one of the teammate
Moral: ask and it shall be given unto you, don't die in silence when what you're dying to have could be granted unto you only if you SPEAK.
faithugo64: Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.
If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor). May peace reign in your home.
Just about the most sensible advice giving....well done.
ehinmowo: Naturally,a woman will not marry or date someone below her. But as reality dawn on her, at a point she will make comprise. Hence the face of the do called humility.
Though this is not universal. As there are people that have been like that from their youth. However, if she settled for the lesser man and she later get what she wants like having kids etc, she wouldn't have any problem in leaving the lesser man if she has a better option.
True humility is found in a truly humbled young lady.
hinere: Concerning this issue, I think charity begins at home. Everything boils down to SELF ESTEEM. Most girls that bleach their skin have low self esteem due to their black skin. They feel ugly and I think the media is contributing greatly to it.
You see a advert for a Soap and Cream and the models they use are all fair. Infact when I was small, I saw an advert for Delta soap where they used a black girl. Then an angel appeared to her and gave her Delta soap to use. After using it to bath, the girl turn fair right there in the bathroom. The fair girl was the popular actress "Lillian Back". The advert ended by her getting the man of her dreams.
After watching that advert, I was shocked that an ordinary soap could change your skin but it was all a Marketing Strategy
Charity begins at home. Even from MBGN, most of the winners of that contest are fair. So we need to start changing things from our end inorder for the younger generation boys and girls to pick something tangible from. When we start portraying the Black Skin in a Positive light, people will feel confident in themselves.
As for the surgery aspect. It's still LOW SELF ESTEEM.
Even some Men have Low Self Esteem that's why you go to the Gym and see so many guys there pumping hard iron just to have Six packs, Big Chest, Big Biceps and all because the media has portrayed that guys with such body physic is the Ideal Male Look and its only guys with such Physic that can get anything they want.
CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME..... CHANGE STARTS WITH US.
Be Confident in yourself. Be Confident in what you have. I'm not against doing what makes you happy. If Bleaching, Surgery and whatever will make you happy and boost your Self Esteem, go for it and be happy because life is too short to keep being INSECURE AND having Low Self Esteem for Vanity.
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pocohantas: She @Wathoni, actually has an attractive facial structure, way better than Nengi’s.
But fair girls are naturally more catchy, them dey enter the eye fast and every colour contrasts perfectly with their skin, thus giving them more allure.
Zzor: wathony is finer than nengi but men and their obsession with light skin ,they will come and claim otherwise online. I'm light skin but I stand for the truth
Dailyhappenings: A Nigerian man, Tolulope Fatunbi, the founder of Quadrev LLC made a grand proposal to the love of his life using a fleet of drones flying in the sir with one carrying the ring to her.
KLand: Hopefully, the current lockdown will soon come to an end. But while it lasts, take some time out to re-strategise for your life after the lockdown.
Here are a few questions to help you re-strategise for the life after covid 19 lockdown:
1. Are you going to continue in paid employment or you will resign to start a business?
2. If you are in business, should you close down your business (not recommended) or sell it off and go back to paid employment?
3. Which relationships are you going to develop or discontinue after the lockdown? (divorce is not recommended).
4. Are you going to make a career change from one industry to another or you will remain where you are?
5. In addition to your current job or business, what other things can you do legitimately in order to improve your cashflow?
6. If you are working at a geographical location different from where your family is based, are you ready to relocate so you can be with your family?
7. Were you satisfied with the way your government, or employer responded to the challenge posed by covid 19? If your answer is no, what are your suggestions for them to do better?
8. What are the vital lessons you learnt during the lockdown period that you can apply afterwards in your life?
9. Did you develop any business idea during the lockdown? If your answer is yes, have you written the business plan?
10. Based on your experience of working at home during the lockdown, are you going to change the way you work so that you can work more or less hours from home?
11. In what ways are you going to reorder your priorities after the experience of lockdown?
12. How did the covid 19 pandemic and the resultant lockdown affect your belief in the existence (or non-existence) of God?
13. Did it ever cross your mind that ‘what if you had contracted and died from the coronavirus disease’?
14. How has the covid 19 lockdown changed personal views about life?
15. Base on what you are going through in the lockdown, what will be the direction of your future financial investments?
16. Are you going to retain or sell off your existing investment portfolios?
17. Are you going to relocate your family to another state or country?
18. Will you take any vacations again throughout this year?
19. Which extra curricular activity did you engage in during the lockdown period that you want to continue to do post-lockdown?
20. Did you establish any physical exercise routine that you would love to continue after the lockdown?
21. Did you put on so much weight during the lockdown that you would want to shed some afterwards?
22. Was there any bad social habit (smoking, alcohol drinking, late-night keeping, infidelity etc) you quit during the lockdown period that you don’t want to go back to?
23. Did you write any article, ebook, during the lockdown that you intend to publish? If yes, what’s the plan to have it published?
24. How productive were you as a writer, or blogger during the lockdown?
Akube1z: If you intend to marry and have a Christain family.
Here are six things you should have in mind for Christ to be the head of your family
1) You must be a believer of Christ , Surrender your life to Christ for him to take charge of your life.
2) Flee from Pre-marital Sex , Fornications, Abortions etc for the sake of your future home.
3) Flee from worldly/Social attachments and focus more on God.
4) Fail not to teach your children the word of God, bible teachings right from their tender ages.
5) Donot fail to teach your children moral values and good behaviours in the society, eg obedience to the rules of the society , respect for elders etc.
6) Hate and flee from evil, embrace godliness and the true deeds of Christ for the sake of your future home.
Bobotic: Award-winning singer, David Adeleke (aka Davido), has slammed those who went to (Psquare) Peter and Paul Okoye’s birthday separately.
According to the ‘IF’ singer, he is angry because they are twins and it is not supposed to be that way. He also revealed that it is not his business but that it hurts him to see the brothers that way. Read below as he tweeted;
Politics › Re: Agbazuere: 'Enemies Behind My Suspension, No Cause For Alarm' - Ex Abia CoS Brag by Mryacks: 2:32pm On Dec 07, 2020
