Neddstark: Please if you are in a discussion or having an argument and the other party threatens to do harm. Don't argue any further, just let the matter die. It's not about weakness. You have no idea the spirit behind the threats.
Very well said. It is not a sign of weakness at all to be clever or have a calmer disposition during arguments
There's this girl that I love. I believe I love her because she's respectful, well reserved, intelligent and hard-working.
We just got talking and trying to get along.
But she's much younger than me. She's 16, I'm 26.
She likes me but not with any emotional attachment.
I haven't asked her out yet but I know she'll agree if I do.
I am established running my own business and would love to settle down anytime soon.
Is it a good idea to date her and allow her to come up with age and marry her or should I keep our relationship platonic?
Honestly I wouldn't want to lose her.
It's not as if I don't know what I want. But the truth is that, I'd love to learn from the wisdom of you all about my situation.
Kindly advice me.
The only problme here is that she is still a minor. Age difference between men and women is not such a big deal. Pls allow to grow to enjoy her teens and early adulthood...
sweetmelanin: In a recent post on Instagram stories, Paul Okoye aka Rudeboy has outed Lola for not speaking to him for 4 years but yet every year, she puts out a fake birthday post for both twins in a bid to manipulate public opinion and make herself appear as a "good wife"
Nicenancy: I am With Next Generations productions and we are about shooting our very first romantic movie.
Owing to our low budget , we cannot afford any of the big names to play the lead character, this thread is affording you the opportunity to upload your pic (guys only) as we hope to get a very handsome guy for our movie.
We are more interested in the face, so just a passport size is cool, other formats are ok too. Deadline is tomorrow, 12 noon, thank you. Interested persons must have some basic acting skills and fluent in English. Thank you
Wether 52, 30 or 10yr old is not the problem. An ex is an ex. It now boils down to individual choices. Alot of people collect monies and other gifts from their ex's on the low low even after (marriage). Now for me I don't accept that and it's a No-No for me but others do accept. Your woman collected this money with the intention of you never finding out. Now you have found out the decision to make is entire up to you.
IamHeWrites: Singer Tiwa Savage has said in an interview with media personality Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, that singer Rema benefited from her exit from Mavin Records, Igbere TV reports.
She said this during her interview with Ebuka on Bounce Radio when asked why she left the record.
Igbere TV reports that the mother of one also revealed how her relationship with estranged husband Teebillz began.
It's a simple thing to comprehend. She is not been arrogant here. All this woman is saying is that her moving and leaving the record label helped them to sort of push and focus their energies and concentration on the talented Rema who was coming up. If she was still there, her shadow woulda still be lurking around and that ain't good for the boy. It's a simple win-win situation for all involved.
Drybones: I don't think anyone get called by God, we are equal in the eyes of the Lord.
True about being equal in the eyes of God. But God is always "looking for a man" to perform some special task/assignment. It is up to us humans to present ourselves or be available for him to use. It can be any man! "Lowly or highly" placed...
PROUDIGBO: It is what it is! It takes more than science, technology and economics to make the world go round!
Music, film, tv and social media stars are influencers......fact, as much as one may want to disagree! If they can help influence the youth positively and under a structured gov't setup, then that can only be a plus for everyone!
Well said....besides are most of those folks not graduates in one discipline or the other? Just because their fame came thru a social platform does not mean they can't be efficient or productive.
justscorchone: During my uni days there was a girl that I loved dearly but I was a pussy to ask her out, I figured I could burn a CD for her with all the love jams from Dru Hill, 112, Ginuwine, Jodeci and etc with a box of chocolate that cost me an arm and leg, she threw the CD into the bin, ate the chocolate while my friend got to bang her for noodles and N200 airtime, that shit opened my eyes.
Chiemeziejohn: As a yound man I often wonder what it takes to be a real man.
What are the things we(younger male) should be expecting and how to overcome...
How can one remain focused in achieving his dream/goals in the midst of all the temptations, where illegal means looks like the best option?
MY WISE MEN, A CHILD IS SEEKING KNOWLEDGE
Be responsible. Be disciplined. Be responsible for the consequences of whatever decisions you make in life. Do not underestimate your potential and don't EVER COMPARE your growth with anyone else's. Be brave also...
Zzor: Nothing like wonderful friend with an ex, everyone should stay in their lane to avoid unnecessary drama when a new person comes in.I hate all these friends with ex thingy
Spot on. Just yesterday I gave someone an advice with respect to this. I mean, her ex who got married wants them to still be "buddy buddy" to the extent of her befriending his wive. How disrepcful....
StagethemTVee: Governor Wike while on Live interview has dared members of the banned Ipob group to approach or harrass him anywhere in the world. He clarified that he is only calm and collected in appraoching issues because he is a governor and he knows what he can do outside of the office he is occupying.
tesppidd: There's been a lot of cyberspace bullying taking place since 2015 and it's even worse with the endsars protests situation.
Truthfully speaking the government has been wrong in some instances and protesters have been wrong in some instances as well.
But you dare not talk about what the protesters have done wrong over the past 3 weeks.
You dare not!
Media personalities, the so called music celebrities and the so called nollywood celebrities would do, say and post whatever it takes to be seen to be "on the side of the people" when in actual fact, deep in their hearts they may think otherwise.
90 percent of them are in this for clout chasing.
Desmond Eliot made a huge mistake; speaking out with honesty and objectivity. In this situation you do not speak with honesty and objectivity!
You make sure you side with "the people" by every means necessary.
light099: Real beauties up there, with Zahra looking like a black Arabian goddess. Sometimes I clamor for national breakup but the moment I sight a Nigerian chick I scratch my beard and backtrack. Anytime I remember the variety and packages of chicks each region is blessed with, I'm instantly tempted to say our unity is not negotiable. With the petite asses and beauties in the North, mixed chicks in the middle belt, brown skin chicks and those Alhajas with the big bum bum in SW, fair beautiful chicks in the SE and fair, thick beauties in SS, I can only see reasons to be thankful for a land flowing with milk and honey. Don't wait till that day comes, when you'll have to travel all the way to another country, just because of two rounds of knackout with one fat-assed chick in Bayelsa or Lagos before you know the value of what you were freely given.
ogohiochola: My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.
What can he do?
Has to carry his burden and live with it. He made a DECISION from the beginning that may not have been the best to make so now has to face the consequences of that decision....
overdrive: Wow.hope this isn’t true. I always saw Kyari as one without blemish.
If it's true then it may be consequences of actions past that is catching up with him. Always thought he was different (upright) because of the work I read about him. Anyway, reading this story I really felt so much for the petitioner. The man must have gone thru alot.
kaynacy: due to uncontrollable circumstances in the country, businesses have been forced to stop and most struggle,I have a farm and been running it but I don't have capital to continue.i have a profitable business plan,send me ur email and I'll send u the PDF files, it's real � it's for real no scam
seniormallam: Every where Is tight now, no money , if you talk about marriage their blood pressure will shoot up straight, they don't even want to hear anything ceremony right now