₦airaland Forum

Klass99:
I'm I the only one irritated by phrases like;
1. He is still your dad.
2. Your dad is your dad.
3. Forgive him for your sake and the sake of your children.

Is anyone contesting paternity or ownership of Bethany here? Why do they feel a need to remind her, he is her father? She said so herself in her first post na and we all know he is her father.

Is giving birth, now, a valid reason or enough justification for any child to help a father? Even when that father didn't do good, do right or do well by his family? Hian, fatherhood goes beyond fcking and ejaculating inside a woman to create a foetus. Any fool can do that, it is not that hard.

They've now left the topic/question to focus on Bethany.

That shows you how much the society we live support evil and bad behaviors. People in our society and responsibility are like the North and South pole.

Asgard73:
Nigeria under Apc .. Dey upside down

Rip to the dead

Was APC or the government responsible for the driver's stupidity? Or was the driver blind? Or does that look like a road dedicated for cars?

I'll only respond if you answer intelligently and not with insults or myopic mindset.

Tokskob2008:
True... Drivers always want to drive through even when they know the train is almost near

It's so unfortunate that we have many stupid people in the country. I don't pity any of them if they die that way. That's the price for stupidity.

Damn!

This is sad and tragic. It seems the car driver was at fault, not the train driver.

Klass99:
@ The 1st bolded - Ehn ehn! She should forget what happened between the parents just like that, as if it never happened? The father can as well forget she exists too, since it's that easy to erase stuff from one's memory.

@ The 2nd bolded - I believe this is called reaping what you sow, the father sowed neglect he is only reaping the same neglect now. She is not playing God.

@ Bethanybethel & MufasaLion, it's so sad that you are deviants...........but I like .

Exactly!

If you eat your cake, you can never have it back. It disgust me whenever people say that you must forget the past and forgive, because someone or some persons are your parents. To me, it's bullshit, and my parents already knows that.

I don't forgive nor forget. I don't like to cheat people and expect kindness afterwards.

Klass99:
Oh.......and thanks for writing good/proper English. I mentally cringe every time I see you're an hypocrite, like wtf?

Who is teaching people English these days or where are they learning it from? It's junk English as far as I am concerned.

Most people don't write or speak the correct form of English Language anymore. It's sad and funny that many are even educated. I just don't feel comfortable when words/write-ups are not written properly, things arranged properly or in a specific manner (e.g books, chairs or anything.)

Pidgin Language has taken the role of second language among many people, including the tutors. It's so unfortunate that many see it as norms.

Bethanybethel:
I concur, there is no peace for the wicked he should die and rots in hell

Right.

goshen26:
Really?


Do u know how worried this people are when they do not have their own child.

Your submission may be okay with they whites not African

What's the essence of having a baby at such age when there's every possibility of them dying before the baby clocks 5?

Two selfish old creatures procreating all because they wanna have an offspring. I pity the child!

Tell her she's doing the wrong thing. I wonder what sort of woman would be gossiping with people always. No shame, no self-esteem. Disgusting!

Reinamaria:
What he did was very wicked.
As much as it hurts, for your own sake, break the circle and help him out however you can(since he's begged you).
Do it for yourself and for your own children.

She owes him nothing!

People must learn to be responsible for their actions and know that there's repercussion for everything! The man is reaping the fruit of what he sowed. You can't eat your cake and have it.

The lady will live a prosperous life including all her generations. She owes that man nothing!

Bethanybethel:
I will not help him i rather use the money to wipes my bum bum than giving him , he deserve to suffer until his last day on earth

Nice!

That's very good. A lazy and shameless woman.

Eseries:
Omo…if you are in position to help your Dad and you can,….do it o!
Na expo I dey give you so!…
Forget wetin happen between him and your Mama.

Na your father he be o!
Nothing can change that.
We don’t have to always follow our emotions, you just have to do what is needed to be done.

Don’t take the place of God trying to reward men for thier deeds.

Bullshit!

He didn't know he had to cater for the lady's mother when she was sick? He didn't know he would someday be old and sick? He didn't know he had a daughter that he should cater for?

He was busy philandering while his wife was ailing!

You're just a hypocrite and that's the typical trait of an average African. "Your dad is your dad" my foot!

Bethanybethel:
Yes ooo i cut my dad out of my life 9 years ago because he abandoned my mum in her sick bed while he was staying with another woman , he is now sick and weak begging for me to pay for his treatments which i refused I am paying him back for what he has done to my mum . I don’t care if he dies or not and I don’t regret it

That's a very nice thing! People do assume it's all good to be maltrearted or abandoned by parents or family and still forgive them. It's so absurd!

I don't care about family ties, should in case anyone mess up, I'm gonna ditch the person irrespective of the relationship.

Blake755:
Bro I had visited hospital and I spent 15k the first day the doctor diagnosed me of and ask me to go for test the asked me to come back next week for results which I did the doctor told me about the result and directed the nurse to wash the affected ear after billing me 10k although it is now better than before but the thing is the vibration refused to stop and also I can't really hear much like the unaffected ear

Go back to the clinic and they will recommend what to do. Moreover, since they have your health record, it will make it easier. Ear is a delicate organ and if you don't consult a certified doctor, you might regret the outcome of your actions.

GO TO THE CLINIC IF YOU VALUE YOUR HEARING ABILITY.

Oloki:
Wow!! This birth is beyond human understanding. I wonder what scientist will call this now??

It's not beyond human understanding. She's not the first to have multiple kids at once.

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9 kids? I can't imagine.

Gospel2Day:
Both of you are se.x perverts.
Your marriage bed is defiled by abominable sex acts.
Why judge her and excuse yourself, when the both of you are doing what Satan and his demons taught you through por.n?
You LUV ORAL. She loves fingering and rubbing herself. Both of you are headed for HELL FIRE, unless you REPENT.
Any se.x acts outside of lawful marriage and apart from missionary position is deviant and devilish.
No fingering. No oral. No anal. No placing the joystick in-between the breas.ts. No lesbian se.x. No gay se.x.
If you are not yet married, you have NO BUSINESS with se.x, whether solo se.x or any other acts of physical intimacy.
Shalom.

Stop gloating!

TheSourcerer:
Top of the Morning Mufasa

Brother, howdy?

peacemara54:
It's because you can't see. Come to Jesus and have life eternal. If you die in sin, you are doom forever.

Infants who died from on e cause or the other , are in heaven with God because they knew no sin. But you should be more worried about your own life.

The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is life eternal through Christ Jesus

Cry me a river. Even your Jesus would be glad to meet me if he had the chance.

Chee59:
I heard that their family had a generational curse of dying young. I don't know if it is true.

There's nothing like generational curse.

peacemara54:
Life is short, death is sure, sin the cause; Christ the cure

Trash.

Millions of people including infants that die daily were all sinners also? Religious people and gullibility are inseparable.

Anonanon:
Storyteller..abeg shift go one side.

This you? Failed and lazy amateur fraudster.

Linalee115:
Reading comments had made me feel better. I really need anyone to be of help to me at this point I'm in my 37 week now of pregnancy(My first baby) and worried as the situation(To handle the hospital bills I don't have if labour starts now, I'm been sincere) this has made me more scared and I'm just on at God's mercies right now. I just have to say the truth and be sincere that it had really been the most enduring moment of my life. I just need a helping hand to pass this delicate phase of my life.. Thank you!

In all what you wrote, there's no mention of the person responsible for the pregnancy.

Where's the man that impregnated you?

Timmybr:
She was killed by her yahoo boyfriend she visited. The guy is on the run, according to her cousin that's my friend

Thankfully, the DSS are reading this thread. They'll be in touch with you.

Anonanon:
Oh wow..that's what am currently studying now in Lasu precisely.
How's life after school sir, how's the job market for a chemistry graduate..

Your questions shows how much unserious you are. You're a student and you're expected to ask intelligent questions.

By this time, you should already know your area of interest in Chemistry and work towards it. You seem like the average Nigerian student studying a course due to failure to meet up with the requirement of another course, or you clearly have no interest in the course you're studying. Someone like you just want to have a certificate without having passion for the course.

Herbephe1:
Do you like Dagunro was mentally deranged before his death??

It has nothing to do with his acting roles.

Charly68:
Even the then Abija and Fadeyi Oloro are suffering from the effects of their roles till date ..

No, they're not. They're suffering because of bad choice of life. No proper financial plan, old age and bad health.

Surveyorjames:
Reason you are not intelligent ..

Go and take care of the erectile dysfunction of your limp dick before jumping into my mention. You're lucky I responded to you. You won't get any again.

You failed in life, failed in bed!

franchasng:
Baby thinking, he is right.


There is power in spoken words. Highly spiritually carried Christians speak in tongues when under the influence of Holy spirit, and that is a strange language that only meant to be used in communicating with the Holy spirit.


Same way, some incantations are spirit language meant for invoking the presence of the spirit realms.



Be careful of the things you say with your mouth in life, they matter a lot.

Another bullshit. Kiddo,"speaking in tongues" is also bullshit!!!