₦airaland Forum

Datedoboy:
Check most marriages today. Women who have more money than their husbands will disrespect that man and at any slight provocation, will divorce such man.

From my little experience, as a man, if your wife earns more than you, know that you are finished or about to be finished. If she works in an organization, she will respect her boss in the office more than you.

A man will care for a woman until she gets her footing but let her get her footing and you as the man loose your footing and she becomes richer than you, she will start giving you attitude.

A man who has lost his footing is gone..

This your story description is exactly what transpired between Teebills and Tiwa..Dude was there for her, but when he lost it, she now remembered he is lazy, and womanizes

Anyway we are watching funke and JJc closely..Since he is ready to fix the issues, but madam...

PerfectStranger:
No matter the number of yards of a wife material she is, once she’s earning more, she’ll start misbehaving. It’s inevitable.

Very obvious..few with fear of God will manage to hold themselves, though they will still make that humiliating side talks ones in a while.

nokspos:
No two ways about it. once she earn more, your days in the relationship or marriage is numbered, you will just be co parents that lives together. the only way out is to work harder to earn more. The funny thing is that women don't even know them self , they will argue this and even when their changes is obvious to them , they will still argue that they didn't change , it was you that changed.

That argument is the line where the cold battle is buried..

Raise the issue of change, she tags you an Insecure guy..

Skullano:
Car nah wetin my ex girlfriend first me buy cos I was starting my business newly, you need to see how she started misbehaving ooh but I thank God say man don get two ride now and I always give her the papers to renew for me cos she works with revenue office..

Women are wired in a way that am yet to understand sha.

The way some ladies place high value on material things baffles me.

Now I don't want to imagine the torture she gets emotionally when you call her to renew your license..lmao.

guobe:
I have a very close relation that refused his wife from working because he felt if she starts working and earning well she may nolonger regard him. Is it true that when women start having money they nolonger regard their husband.

Very regular here and elsewhere..

Most ladies don't know how to control huge statements, power and fame. Most become egotistical the moment small cash don dey enter account..Then you will hear statements like "What do I need a man for"..

God abeg o

BeeBeeOoh:


Forget matter, God has used the Ekweremadu's to butter David Ukpo's bread.

One thing that's sacrosanct is that he's gonna seek for aduro in UK and they'll give him better aduro to chop.

You don't mess with such a highly connected person..

Ones the case die down before 2026, they may give the guy a communion..If you know what I mean..

They will clean him And any of his benefactor starting from now.

TheStakeHolder:
Research has shown that the so called poor men have richer sperms. Their wives have quality eggs ...

Lmao...Person wey dey sleep by 7pm, come wake by 10am the next day...What do you expect?

Currentblog:


How will a poor family have '6' childrens
While an average rich families has '2' children respectively.

I dont know.
Is poverty linked to fertility in women or its high sex drive in men..

What do you think about this nairalanders..

"why do poor parents have more children than rich parents".

Many struggling guys, if they can't secure the bag, their next chase is marriage and kids..kids are investment for a struggling man.

The rich don't sleep..How can you sleep when you are calculating and strategizing on the next business move.

In rural areas, 7pm, the night is dead already..The man has gone to bed with wify..Waiting for 10pm when kids don sleep to start the marathon.
As long as their is food to eat the next day.

In urban areas, 11pm, the night is still young..Some people are still stuck in traffic..By the time you get home, bathe, eat and relax, next na sleep....
From the above narratives, do the maths and arrive at the answers to the topic.

dopedan:
This one is different sir, i was an alpha before i met her, but im no simp tho

Ex Alpha...

donbachi:
Both are serial divorcè and divorcèe

Lmao...Nawa o..

E reach serial?

Women inclusion....Nice one.

Three things to keep private;

Your Income.

Your love interest/relationship/marriage life..

Your next move.

They are not for social media/public consumption.

Serial48:
I thought so too, but people around where i parked said they didn’t see it happen. Them wan turn me to werey.

Normal normal...They will deny it...To protect the culprit..

Sometimes they task the culprit to grease their palms for cover up.

Very corrupt humans we share country with..

AccessME:
I'm writing this with tears draining out of my eyes. I masturbated for over 12 years and lose a lots of body nutrients now I'm weak, feeling pains all over my bones, eyes and body in general.

As in the sperm I've been releasing all this year's have come to hot me now I want to regain them back. Pls which food can I be eating to help me regain my strength/sperm back within a short period of time?

Ignorance they say is a disease..

You have continuous production of sperm as a man..Whether you push it out or not, nothing spoil.

As for the diet request, unless you don't eat healthy.

I will recommend you have vegetable salad atleast ones a week.

Eat enough protein and rest...

Stay away from masturbation it will cause you quick ejaculation...

HenryIgwe01:
A private school called me for an interview last week Monday. As a job hunter I'm always prepared for any interviews. So when I got there, It's was a 3 segments interview (written test, oral and micro teaching)

As a Bsc graduate in Accounting Education, I was given financial accounting, English language and current affairs for the written test interview. The account and English was WAEC standard questions. After the written test interview, the principal said he will call me for further interviews if i pass the test.

On Thursday morning, I received a call from the school inviting me for further interviews which is oral and micro teaching. When I got there, the principal was asking me loads of questions like why should I hire you? How many years experience do you have? How do you discipline a child? how can you make this school grow? Can we trust you with our female students? bla bla bla... After that we went to the classroom for the final segment which was micro teaching.

After everything, he employed me and we started discussing about the subject I will teach and the salary. The principal said I will be teaching Accounting, Economics and Marketing (ss1 - ss3), I said no problem.

What really got me angry was about the salary, he said he's willing to pay me 30k without negotiation.

As if that wasn't enough, he later said he can also call me anytime to teach any subject if the particular subject teacher isn't around. I was just laughing in my mind.

The principal was expecting me to resume today, he has been calling me since morning, I haven't picked his calls. I'm not a slave.

Mind you, this is a standard private school and my "least" expectation was 45k, Assuming he was willing to pay 45k, I would have resumed today.

Why are private schools so wicked? Is teaching job now a modern day slavery? I'm tired of this country.

He cowed you, you on your part fall for it hook, line and sinker.

He said non negotiable, you should have asked why and take the discussion up from there...

Then make him understand you are eyeing at 45k starting salary...If he said no, you leave..If he was impressed with your interview and discussions, he will call you.

Rather than you chicken out like this.

ebubeson:
To be tempted to sleep with someone's wife can come, they may even offer you, but I beg you resist.... Adultery is cheaper than before...I have more than one encounter, but let me share this..

Some years back, I went for something (briefly) in a northern state, and I stayed in a couples house then.. It was quit okay as I was received well into the house.. But what happened? I noticed the couples were not in talking terms, but they talked to me. One night, the man left and did not come back that night...To be real I met a dangerous temptation as me and the wife became "fleshly" close to each other that night, we were talking and the environment was "satanned". She was weak and I was weak, but I held on and never caressed her nor had sex. I had the power to UnCloth her as she was vulnerable. She complained of her hubbies bed performance. Thank God I did not fall. I might have been destroyed today.

No matter how sweet a married woman appears, even if she goes naked, endure it with your life and go away...

This is not the only temptation with a married woman..But thank God for keeping me.

A man with self control regarding women matters, has conquered 60% of his challenges in life..

Kudos for that...More temptation will come as long as you are a man doing OK for yourself...

SanctifiedSista:
Too sweet and cholesterol loaded

U can make same meal rich and simple..if u know, u know

By just boiling the plantain right?

Maverick777:
no where in the article did I say he fought the man.
they all drove to the secretariat, what I know is, if it's proven that he knew the lady he's strafing is married, then he'd pay through his nose...

He called secretariat guys to carry them and go...

Oga na till them exchange blow man to man, you agree say na fight?

Anyway it is their business..

Sissy men and any how woman na 5&5..

Only first page will tell you most people never ended with their childhood dream..

Welcome to Nigeria where dreams die a permanent death due to situations..

Travicon:
Hello Nairalanders,
I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.

I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.

I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).

I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.

There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.

Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)

I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.

I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.

I NEED genuine HELP, please.

That part...100knaira left and only 20k returned..

Some of these acclaimed close friends are something else...May God help us.

ManirBK:
This is the 200 Naira Suya meat I bought today in Birnin Kebbi. Each one stick at 50 Naira. The taste is good and spicy.

Kebbi state is far north na...Kebbi is to SOKOTO as Jigawa is to Kano.

Food is cheap over there...People that have not been there will make a caricature out of your post sha..

Meat is cheap there...

Transportation made meat and other northern products too expensive down South.

skuribeebo:
Any body wey marry this woman must drop money for food

Comic relief..

You guys no dey disappoint...lmao

She is highly unattractive though..

mayo47:
This one event you experienced doesnt mean you should arrive at the conclusion that "its at its Peak"

Like as if this is the first time such issue came up here.

The conclusion is late.

Mokason288:
I asked nah

I cut the story short

She said the “we are traveling to Canada “
In her chat was just a general speech...

Ok... how do you intend to fund your trip to Canada when you’re not working

She said she wants to sell her family inheritance

Shine ya eye bro...Some ladies get heart to hatch a plan....

And they will do it comfortably under your roof..While bleeping with you sef..

Maverick777:
Top of the Morning Y'all!

It was yesternight after work, I decided to stop by a grocery shop to stock up as usual. On coming out, driving through my estate back gate, boom! A cluster of people gathered, some at different sides of the road, others at the scene, I looked closer it was a lady and a guy fighting, and others were just watching not separating them, I pulled over immediately (best decision I ever took). If it was any other scenario I wouldn't have even looked twice, but you see man beating/fighting woman, I detest it!

Before I could come out and asked what's happening, the lady already burst the guy's head open with a stone, he had blood all over his head/face, ah! then joined in another guy slapping her and pulling her hair (she kept shouting OMONIGHO!), I was like what the f***, what if her husband or brother shows up?

Just before I wanted to go and separate them, I just said lemme confirm what's happening...
I finally asked,
-wetin dey happen?

'Bros, this lady husband just catch her with man dy comot for hotel so, he call secretariat boys to drag her and the man go, na wetin she dey fight so, say she nr wan go'.
-were the husband so?
'see am for there'.

Woah! the husband stood behind a highlander jeep on his phone, now it made sense why she kept shouting OMONIGHO!!!
Further findings showed that, they've been married for 5years, he has asked her time and time again, their child is always falling sick(he's SS), and the man is (AA) ,she always downplayed the fact...
Now, rumor had been going on that's she's cheating, but since he is a bonkery(oil people) worker, he's mostly out of town.
From what he said, he said the child looks exactly like the man he caught the wife with now...

Boom! off they drove to secretariat, younger me would've driven along the convoy to see the end... but for my sanity sake, I chose not to.

Now, what's happening with women nowadays?
if you see the husband and the man she's cheating with, they're world's apart oh (husband dust am in every facet)
is it money, attention, sex, high-libido, urge-to-explore or what exactly??

Some say women don't marry who they love, but who's ready, even at that, you should know you're married and respect the union!
Do you know what it means for a man to marry you, provide for you and end up to be training another man's child?

Why do MARRIED women cheat?
The men sleeping with the married women are useless oh, no doubt, but you can make a case that some of them don't even know the ladies are married..

I'm getting scared every passing day about keeping an undercover slut at home..
You people pity us(MEN) nah.
Most women no longer have shame..
Sodom and Gomorah babes no do reach this one oh.

What do these women actually want?!

The hubby is a fool..He fought another man because the harlot he married made herself available to the man..smh

Simple action..Return her, her belongings and the kid she had to her father's house.

If she threatens fire and rain, then bringout the devil in you to clean up the mess with no trace.

Na sissy man the get this kind of wife sha...

I can't relate.

emmanuelbrown26:
Op dis one na small matter na. Trust a wife 100% is like hoping that buhari would perform wonder over night, this is something that we all know that it can never be possible.
I only blame d husband and he deserved what he got. U don't fight your fellow man bcs of your wife infidelity and u don't make trouble with your wife bcs of her infidelity.
Dis life no hard na, waiting baba for do na just mak she enter motor and drop her for her papa compound and life goes on.
Pikin no bi your own
Wife dey Bleep around
Head dun get k-leg
Wife SS too. How could one even get married to a woman that has SS is still one of d wonders of d millennium.

Food don done..

Mokason288:
I have a room stocked with drinks for my traditional marriage.

To cut long story short.

Wedding is called off

I stumbled on her phone and saw her chat with her friend... My supposed Fiancée is traveling out of the country January with another man to Canada .

This hoes ain’t loyal

Normal me will ask for real?

But, Heheheheh some ladies are mysterious.

They have plan B,C,D.......~~~~

You have to be with your senses when dating anyone..

Country hard sha..

Flex your drinks jaree..She no worth am

tayo60:
A man should really study and know the woman he is marrying . A lady with many body counts before marriage can't never be faithful, and moreso, women pretend a lot. Do an undercover investigation about her from friends, neighbors etc before you marry her. So also, a woman who fears God cannot cheat in marriage.

Word!

favor914:
The 20 richest yahoo boys in Lagos State is not half of what Bola Ahmed Tinubu steals from Lagos State in 1 year.

Blame the people in power, they are the real yahoo yahoo, they are the ones keeping you in poverty.

How many housing estates has your state government built since 1999, so you could go & rent a single 3 bedroom apartment?

Channel this energy to EFCC...And 15years...

Yahoo boys are part of the the unnecessary increments by landlords...Any amount they will pay..After all they didn't suffer to acquire the money na...

Welcome development.

X6...Machine..

This one parts will be competing with GLK...for this Buhari economy

Fira09:
God bless sadio,

This is what we want super eagles players to do for their own communities and not lavishing their money abroad.

Super eagles players will use theirs to oppress the poor and struggling..Even collect your woman join

Then club back to back at cubana.