₦airaland Forum

He is supposed to protect lives. Yet, even with a gun, he can not protect himself. A criminal can pick the gun, end his life, and keep the gun. God help us.

@poster, life has no duplicate. Apply for redeployment to any other place outside the North. If NYSC fails to redeploy you, please boycott service. It is only when you are alive that you can serve. A dead man can not serve. All the best.

Very sad news. May her soul rest in perfect peace.

@poster, please ask your friend to have the baby, forget about marriage to the father, and move on with her life. God has a better plan for her. When one road closes, a better one opens.

This is a nice one. Those who pee and defecate in public places should pay double the amount. Our people really need stringent measures that will compel all to keep themselves and their environment clean. All other states should take a leaf from Osun State.

There are many out there like Bankole. Those smart enough escape. God will arrest them all in Jesus' Name.

There are many out there like Bankole. Those smart enough escape. God will arrest them all in Jesus' Name.

Says who? It will end only for those unfortunate prophets. It will continue for me.

Says who? It will end only for those unfortunate prophets. It will continue for me.

GEJ has ordered the army to quel the unrest in the Country. People who critisize make more blunders when given the opportunity to serve. GEJ is President for the next 4 years. Learn to accept that.

@poster, you are the head in your home, undisputable. However your wife is your partner, not your housemaid. Those words you used "stormed the house," "gave her a piece of my mind," "I was furious," clearly shows you were very angry, and in anger, you can cause a lot of harm. You approached your wife and was very angry, and must have really shouted at her, and all that show in the presence of your MIL. You are probably used to shouting on your wife, and she not reacting angrily, because you did not mention that she reacted. If you had addressed her gently, your MIL would not react the way she did. Or better still if you had called her to the room it would have been better. That is not to say I support a man shouting at his wife. It is very wrong and this is one of the reasons why couples quarrel. By shouting on your wife, right before your MIL cant you see that you indirectly shouted at your MIL, because she was watching a movie with your wife, when you stormed in? I do not approve your MILslapping you. Realise that we all are not the same; some people are cool and some hot. Your MIL is in the later category. Also realise that your MIL should be treated like your own mother. If your mother slapped you in your house, would you slap her, lets be frank? You can call your wife and your mother and apologise to them for talking rudely. It will not make you a lesser man. But if you go trying to prove "after all I am the head, mama move out" you may regret your actions and lose your wife and child. If you lose your wife and child, remarry and you have a MIL who is even hotter than the previous one, what happens? I bet you will decide not to get married again, and where does that lead you?

Congratulations to GEJ for his landslide Victory at the Presidential Elections. He made history by the conduct of free, fair, and credible elections in Nigeria.

It is clear that the Northerners are angry because Buhari lost. They feel the South South that produce the oil should not rule. Now free, fair, and credible elections are being conducted, they are still not satisfied because a Northerner did not win. They who are complaining that the elections were not free and fair, brought in their underaged children, chicken, goats, cow, etc. to vote during the presidential elections. GEJ did not protest. I want to say that we can no longer have leaders who are tribalistic in Nigeria. Those who think they can destabilise this Country because a Northerner did not win the presidential elections will never succeed. God will continue to destroy their evil plans and throw them into disarray bigtime.

We pray for peace and calm in Kano and all over the Country. May God arrest all those formenting trouble and compell peace to reign in Jesus' Name, Amen.

We pray for peace and calm in Kano and all over the Country. May God arrest all those formenting trouble and compell peace to reign in Jesus' Name, Amen.

God bless you Beaf. You fought galantly. For those who are complaining about unrest in the North and wishing the Southerners dead because GEJ won, you are not taking GEJ's victory in the spirit of true sportsmanship. Ribadu has accepted his defeat. Even in the North, GEJ got a lot of votes. I banish this evil spirit called tribalism from Nigeria, in Jesus' Name, Amen. Thank God GEJ is God-fearing, a simple man, and is not tribalistic. He will always extend a hand of fellowship even to those who have been scheming to kill him. Wishing the Southerners dead does not change anything. GEJ will rule for 4 years. What we should all be doing is praying for peace in Nigeria, and supporting GEJ with prayers. If he succeeds we all will benefit, so why not give him our full support?

Mr. President, I congratulate you on the successful conduct of a free and fair election, first of its kind in Nigeria. I congratulate you on your landslide victory at the Presidential Elections. You earned it. Above all, God made it possible because he has work for you in Nigeria. May He continue to protect you, your family, all with you, and all Nigerians. May He grant you wisdom to pilot the affairs of this Great Nation. May your Administration attain huge success unrivalled in the anals of history. I congratulate you once more on a well-deserved victory Mr. President.

Mr. President, I congratulate you on the successful conduct of a free and fair election, first of its kind in Nigeria. I congratulate you on your landslide victory at the Presidential Elections. You earned it. Above all, God made it possible because he has work for you in Nigeria. May He continue to protect you, your family, all with you, and all Nigerians. May He grant you wisdom to pilot the affairs of this Great Nation. May your Administration attain huge success unrivalled in the anals of history. I congratulate you once more on a well-deserved victory Mr. President.

Mutter hit the nail on the head. You are a man now and should make your own decisions. Dreams are merely warnings which, with fervent fasting and prayers, can be forever annihilated, never to see the light of day. I advise that you fast and pray say for 7 days, from time to time talking to God to give you a solution to this problem. It is not only when you are at home or you kneel down that you can talk to God. Do it fervently, the response must come. Your family may give you their blessing to marry this girl. Much as I am not in favour of going along with your family's wish to abandon this girl, it will be disastrous to make a mistake. So give it to God, and still study your girl. The outcome will show you way forward. Meanwhile remain calm and pay attention to your job; loosing it will be traggic. All the best.

Mutter hit the nail on the head. You are a man now and should make your own decisions. Dreams are merely warnings which, with fervent fasting and prayers, can be forever annihilated, never to see the light of day. I advise that you fast and pray say for 7 days, from time to time talking to God to give you a solution to this problem. It is not only when you are at home or you kneel down that you can talk to God. Do it fervently, the response must come. Your family may give you their blessing to marry this girl. Much as I am not in favour of going along with your family's wish to abandon this girl, it will be disastrous to make a mistake. So give it to God, and still study your girl. The outcome will show you way forward. Meanwhile remain calm and pay attention to your job; loosing it will be traggic. All the best.

She is a fair weather friend; one who comes around when the going is good, and disappears when it is bad. I dont regard her as a friend.

Please do DNA test on the kids to confirm that they are not yours. If they actually are not yours but Ebele's, call a meeting of your wife's family & yours and report the matter. Thereafter send your wife, the kids and Ebele packing. You can give them a little time to look for a place to move to. If Ebele can father kids he should be able to take care of them and their mother. This is my candid opinion. The final decision is yours.

I expect land-slide victory by PDP in the Presidential Election. GEJ for President.

I expect land-slide victory by PDP in the Presidential Election. GEJ for President.

Your wife is your partner not your housemaid. There are occasions you discuss important family matters with her and get very good advise from her. Men are proud and want to take credit for everything. But for the sake of peace and harmony in the home, the man should not sidetrack his wife when taking decisions that affect the family. Remember the adage, "two good heads are better than one."

Your wife is your partner not your housemaid. There are occasions you discuss important family matters with her and get very good advise from her. Men are proud and want to take credit for everything. But for the sake of peace and harmony in the home, the man should not sidetrack his wife when taking decisions that affect the family. Remember the adage, "two good heads are better than one."

If we raise our children in the ways of the Lord they will never depart from it. Give your children the right training, all the while giving them to God in prayers, to help them grow to become God-fearing and responsible children. Thereafter you can vouch for them. That does not mean that they will be 100% perfect. But they can never associate themselves with murder or other heinous crimes. Having said that I wish to say that it is only natural that parents would want to defend their children when they do something wrong. They would naturally protect them, but when they get home, they deal with them. Afterall the children are theirs, and in their custody. However the one who is unfortunate to have a murderer for a child can not afford to pretend that all is well because it will not be in their best interest to do so.

Yes the Celebration has commenced. Fresh Air 2011. GEJ for President.

That na small one. He should place a drum nearby to receive his tears when GEJ wins the Presidential Elections come Saturday. GEJ for President.

Vote GEJ for President.

Vote GEJ for President.

Thanks to GEJ for fixing the road. GEJ for President. You are voting in the individual, the party notwithstanding. The writing on the wall is crystal clear that he will succeed. Give him your votes and you will not be disappointed.