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RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 8:16pm On Dec 06, 2020
lefulefu:
yea such happens in families where there is no love but hatred,bitterness and suspicion .thank God the family i came from is not like this cheesy
Same here...mine isn't like that either. cheesy
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 8:11pm On Dec 06, 2020
lefulefu:
hmm every mom is supposed to be emotionally attached to her child nau..except if its obsessive control then that one is not healthy.that a man checks up on his mom occasionally to know about her welfare and how she is doin i dont see why such would be getting his wife angry.women always care for their own parents even when married.u would see a woman sending things to her parents and making sure they are ok but u dont see any husband getting angry on this.In short many good husbands even help out their wife"s parents.But if a man just says a hello to his own mom then the wife starts having a fit and saying ohhh the man is ignoring her ..ohhhh! money u were supposed to give me to buy that wrapper for my last August money i am sure u gave the money to mother and blah blah blah...from there needless quarrel starts cheesy.anyway this is only common with bad wives.
I understand you, this one is quite different. Believe me. Cos I experienced it first had while growing up.

Every wife must love her mother in-law as much as she loves her own mother.

Every mother in-law must allow their children enjoy their marriages by respecting their boundaries.

Haven't you seen cases where a mum moves into her son's house, under the guise of he's my son I carried him for nine months in my womb, takes over his kitchen and turns the wife to a glorified house girl?

Any wife who frowns at her husband for giving money to his mum is very silly, and such husband should be weary or her cos she might turn him against his family sooner or later.

Marriage is meant to unite families and not to scatter them.
PoliticsRe: Guest Wins Lexus & N100k At Malivelihood & Deola Smart's Wedding by Nazgul: 7:56pm On Dec 06, 2020
Congratulations to him
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 7:55pm On Dec 06, 2020
lefulefu:
not every mother is like patience ozokwor the way nollywood portrays mother in laws.if ur guy comes from a good family where the relationship with each other is healthy i dont see any reason why the mother will just start hating the guy"s fiancee for now good reason cheesy.In nollywood world yes a mom inlaw can just hate the dauther in law for no reason but in the real world it doesnt happen that way.
My brother mum's do it unconsciously.

Do you know that it was when I got to SS1 that my mum stopped dropping me off at school. And she didn't just stop because she wanted to. I had to protest angrily before she did cos all my mates were already laughing at me.

If I hadn't angrily rebelled then, by now only God knows how things would have been.

Many mum's don't actually hate their son's wife, but their emotional attachment to him as an only child might end up ruining his marriage.

I do love my mum, but we do maintain our boundaries, and I believe that it's for the best.
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 7:43pm On Dec 06, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
Any mother that can't maintain healthy boundaries with her son doesn't love him nor respect him.
I agree with you on this.
RomanceRe: Oh! Finally, I Can Now Swim by Nazgul: 7:27pm On Dec 06, 2020
ZINIIBANKS:
Which mama self go allow her only son go swim ?
Lol...na so na.
CrimeRe: Kidnappers Kill Sani Khalil Rigasa In Kaduna After Taking N1.5M Ransom by Nazgul: 7:24pm On Dec 06, 2020
The government has a hand in this murder
PoliticsRe: Lagos Police Vows To Stop New #EndSARS Protest by Nazgul: 7:18pm On Dec 06, 2020
Nigerian police are the most useless in the world. Imagine a police vowing to stop peaceful protest. Very nonsense people no wonder the were buying teargas from black market.
RomanceRe: How Do I Change My Moniker?? by Nazgul: 6:20pm On Dec 06, 2020
Uzomacharles:
I Really Wanna Change My Moniker Seriously.....

I Mailed Few MoDs Some Months Back...

Please Anyone In Charge Of That Should Please Help Biko...

Thanks In Addy
See this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/1276746/how-change-username

Mail that particular mod se.un said you should contact I think he's the one in charge of it.
Christianity EtcRe: Should I Be Worried About This Black Cat? by Nazgul: 10:00am On Dec 06, 2020
Just pray every night before going to bed.. but it's just a cat, don't over trouble yourself.
EducationRe: LAUTECH Teaching Hospital Becomes UNIOSUN Teaching Hospital by Nazgul:
Praxis758:
This is commendable and a good news for those who value the stability and wellbeing of the prestigious school.

This mutual agreement is better than those years of fighting between the two states.

It's is shame for the two former governor's who spend 8 years each under same party but utterly failed to reach an agreement on settling the ownership dispute.

It is shameful that both Aregbe and Lt. Ajimobi couldn't use their samenpolitical umbrella to move the school forward. Likewise, Oyinlola and Ladoja would have written their names in gold if they'd done this.

Tinubu was the chancellor of that school for almost 6 year but didn't visit the school to ascertain level of things, the battle even got worst under his chancellorship without any iota of intervention. But you will see him mobilising footsoldiers, money and media mercineries to campaign and snatch governorship, senate and HoR in SW states.

This shows that a man like him do not value education since there's no money to steal for him in Lautech or not national/state asset to hijack like the LASU property in Ketu. A truly patriotic leader will use his chancellorship to make sure students in that school do not suffer but he prefers defending incompetent Bihari to ameliorating the plight of innocent student with almost 3 years in strike.

'Eyin eniya, e ronu'

It took two governor under different political parties to achieve this priced peace.
They didn't care all this while because their children all school abroad. So between retaining power in the SW and moving the school forward, they had to choose politics and allowed the school to keep decaying.
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 5:47am On Dec 06, 2020
lefulefu:
any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman
I agree... but there should be a limit tho, over attachment to your mum is way overboard don't you think so?
RomanceRe: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nazgul: 11:07pm On Dec 05, 2020
Luckyheart:
Why don't you seek God's face personally?
Op take this advice.
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 10:55pm On Dec 05, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:
you mean hoe ?


.we don't engage hoe here smiley




smiley
I don't understand you bro... explain
RomanceRe: What Traits Do You See In A Lady Before She Is Considered A Wife Material by Nazgul: 9:52pm On Dec 05, 2020
kizwid:
ha!
all this long list on top Nigerian girl
You never chi cum chin
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 9:49pm On Dec 05, 2020
deewhydoski:
So if all ladies run away from them, who will marry them Or u want to tell me they will remain single for the rest of their lives.
She just de catch cruise... leave am
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 9:40pm On Dec 05, 2020
Liposure:
Yes of course. Whats there. As long as there is love all things are possible
Exactly my thoughts
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 9:39pm On Dec 05, 2020
Olunmercy56:
shocked
What... answer yes or no.
CrimeRe: Angry Villagers Beat Armed Robber To Death In Bauchi (Graphic Photo) by Nazgul: 9:37pm On Dec 05, 2020
One down many to follow
RomanceRe: My Neighbor's Wife by Nazgul: 9:28pm On Dec 05, 2020
Keep a straight face and tell her you don't have whatever it is she came to ask/beg for. Repeat this process more than three times and she'll get the message and stop coming.
RomanceRe: Guys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 9:23pm On Dec 05, 2020
Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum
Lol...I think it's the other way round. Some mum's won't just allow their sons be. They're the ones who are clingy.
RomanceGuys/ladies Can You Date Or Marry An Only Child? by Nazgul(op): 9:17pm On Dec 05, 2020
Hello Nairalanders,

Last week a lady (casual friend) was complaining to me that her guy is an only child, and she's having mixed feelings concerning the whole relationship issue, cos according to her the guy's mum is literally controlling him and knows practically every thing about them. And she doesn't think she can continue the relationship.

I was just smiling inside me cos I'm an only child as well and my parents don't really interfer with my personal life. (I didn't tell her tho)

So the question is ladies would you feel comfortable dating or marrying an only child.

Guys as well...would you feel comfortable dating or marrying a girl who's the only child of her parents?
RomanceRe: She Is A Very Loyal & Good Lady But Her Family Stresses Me. (help) by Nazgul:
The parents are being hostile to you because of your current financial status. Since you acknowledged that they do go to church, try involving their pastor to mediate on your behalf so that you can at least have access to your daughter.

On a second thought since you currently haven't gotten on your feet don't you think it's wise to allow them (your wife and daughter) remain with her parents pending when things would settle financially for you? Feeding three mouths isn't funny considering the current economic situation and your present situation.

Think about it.

The country is bad enough, and feeding three mouths when you clearly can't afford to is a budern
RomanceRe: Is It Normal To Tell Someone's Spouse This? by Nazgul: 8:22pm On Dec 05, 2020
BUSHYANUS:
Wetin be krama

RomanceRe: How True Is This? by Nazgul: 8:17pm On Dec 05, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
I don't make jokes by comparing men to keys
Are you a key?
RomanceRe: How True Is This? by Nazgul: 8:14pm On Dec 05, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
Yes, I agree, but your post just went off course and started degrading women by comparing their bodies to keys.
But what I said is the truth na. As bitter as it sounds it's the hard truth. cheesy
RomanceRe: Is It Normal To Tell Someone's Spouse This? by Nazgul: 8:13pm On Dec 05, 2020
Preciousgirl:
Is it okay/normal for one tell another man/woman's wife/husband that

I HAVE MISSED YOU?

THAT is between the opposite sex?

Thank you
Don't reply that message...he has an alterior motive. How can a married man send you such message, what business do you two have to warrant such message?

Don't destory another woman's marriage cos krama is real.
RomanceRe: How True Is This? by Nazgul: 8:03pm On Dec 05, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
The quote was in terms of forgiveness and the likes, not on sex. Women will give man more chances for a crime than men on women for the same crime.

Why is your mind so in tune with sex?
Lol...the forgiveness the post was talking about was sex. It was implying that a woman would easily forgive her cheating parner than a man would do his.

If you comit a crime you'll sort out yourself with the cops and not with your partner.
RomanceRe: Pls Help My Girlfriend Is Going Through Serious Depression. by Nazgul: 7:38pm On Dec 05, 2020
She won't kill herself. She clearly wants some time to be alone...give it to her, stop bugging her. Send her encouraging messages once in a while and you can even buy her things you know she likes if you can afford it.

With time she'll get over it. If you keep pestering her like this she'll begin to develop hatred for you
EventsRe: Man Wore Igbo Traditional Clothes To His Church Wedding by Nazgul: 6:51pm On Dec 05, 2020
Finally someone that knows his root
RomanceRe: Is She Really Into Me? What Do I Do With Her? by Nazgul: 6:50pm On Dec 05, 2020
Oga focus on your job and leave her alone...office romance usually end in tears. Just remain friends with her and nothing more, it's for your own good.
RomanceRe: What Traits Do You See In A Lady Before She Is Considered A Wife Material by Nazgul: 6:23pm On Dec 05, 2020
Misslilbootay:
Your own list long oh
It's not as long as the bride price list her parents would give me.

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