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Powerfly:
So.. Inotherwords, fathers don't cheat? Ah don't understand!

I never said fathers don't cheat. I said the the responsibility associated with being a father should be enough reason to make him control his little Jonny.

Powerfly:
How are we gon' make sure he doesn't cheat within that two years? Castrate his balls or..

He will be a father. That's enough reason to make him responsible.

From your write up so far and how you took your time to explain how endowed she is, it's very clear that you're the one lusting after her and not the other way round.

Some women love making men desire them. That doesn't mean they want to sleep with you, they use it to boost their ego. The frequent glances you give to them, the unesy feeling whenever you're around them, how easily they can get you to run errands for them...etc.

My advice, remove your mind from her and concentrate on whatever it is you're doing. She's married for Christ sake... don't destroy your future by sleeping with another man's wife.

Moreofitnow:
Yes... I am
Although, the last time I went to church was more than 5 years ago

Alright... Thanks


If you have any recommendation.. Which popular church do you recommend I attend?

Any of the mega penticostal churches like RCCG, Winners, MFM...etc.

See your username...you obviously want to use it to gamble. Gambling is bad stay away from it.

Wisemfon:
Recently Uyo has record a high level of crimes and robbery
today a lot of shop along major streets and roads has been robbed
Oh Peaceful Akwa Ibom

we want Sars back?!!!! .

How are you sure that it isn't the deafunt SARS personal that are responsible for the robbery.

Are you a Christian? If yes go to your church, join their youth and become very active there. Things would begin to unfold from there.

SILENTandSMART2:
Yes sir,


You wanna date me ?

Lol...you this guy sef.

SILENTandSMART2:
I think 5 or 6 is me


Whala for tiny niggas


Hahahaha

Are you a lady?

Stay at home and do what kwanu?

This one just wants to trend.

Mr Op the problem isn't about giving to the girl. It's about her reciprocating. That's what love is all about.

I can't be spending my money on you knowing fully well that you've got nothing to offer me if I run into financial scarcity.

If I have a girl that can easily commit her resources to our relationship, then meeting some of her financial demands wouldn't be wrong.

juniorboma:
Are you a guy?

Your topics makes me think you are a girl..

Lol...I'm a guy o.

Indirectly telling me her financial problem.

Spending more time on her phone than our conversation, it clearly shows that she's a flirt.

Excessive make up, eyelashes, nails. That's a big turnoff for me. I hate fake people.

2k is too small o...if you're expecting 30 people and you want them to pay 2k, that's about 60. What can 60k do?

That money can't even hire a DJ in Lagos.

Let everyone pay a minimum of 5k, those that have more can pay higher...

High IQ

Lively, I don't have strength to be interviewing her everyday in the name of discussion

Smart

Neat

I'm not a fan of big boobs, it's a turn off for me. I love them moderate or small sef.

She must not be jobless...not time to start playing the fatherly role when I'm still single.

Truthful...I find it hard to trust anyone who lied to me in the past....let me stop here for now.

Jodha:
Yhu said marry her and get her pregnant..

I'm saying it's not necessary for her to get pregnant....at least not until he's back...he can pay her brides price and travel

Who does that? The way you girls give out suggestions is so funny, he'll marry her and disappear.

The young man is looking for a way to secure the woman, and the only way to do that is by getting her pregnant. Leaving her like that for a journey he has no idea of how long he'll stay is very dangerous. Knowing how horney you ladies can get.

So rather than cheat and get pregnant for some random guy wouldn't it be wise for the husband to plant his seed inside her and assume responsibility by supporting her emotionally and financially?

Besides, the pregnancy would keep her busy, so there's no need for him to worry about her cheating on him.

Jodha:
Just marrying her will equally do the trick don't yhu think so?

Lol...that's exactly what I said in my first post. You obviously didn't read it.

Jodha:
She's also working and pursuing her career....how do yhu expect her to leave all that and single handedly take care of a baby in the absence of it's father..

She supported and contributed greatly his journey to Scotland according to the op, it's not like he just woke up one morning and decided to leave the country.

He can be supporting her financially, and maintain constant communication with her pending when she'll join him over there.

As for her career, she can apply for maternity leave in her place of work, and look for a family relative who can help with the domestic work in the house while she weans the baby.

In less than 2 years, she'll be reunited with him... and they can both live happily ever.

Jodha:
Impregnate her because she doesn't have plans for herself ??

She will be married to him, or has it become a crime for a married woman to get pregnant?

Memberclub:
Just don't have kids.
We don't want more of your kind in future

And who wants your kind in future? A brainless retarded lowlife...my friend fvck off it's obvious you have nothing sensible to say anymore.

It's not easy to get a girl who will sacrifice so much for you. If he looses her, he might not find someone of her caliber.

My advice? Tell him to marry her, impregnate her, then move to Scotland. Within the 9 months of the pregnancy and the 16 months of weaning the child, (which should make it over two years in total) he should be able to get her to join him in Scotland. That way he can be rest assured that she wouldn't be cheat cos she would be very busy taking care of their child.

juniorboma:
If you are interested, let me know

Are you gay?

You just relocated to Lagos for a job you've not even started and the next thing on your mind is to start accommodating women?

Tell him that the employment rate in Nigeria has risen to over 30%. If he's wise he will understand the message you're passing across to him.

kingk:
Why did this thread died....am calling on everybody to come back here asap.

Ok

Memberclub:
Your way of reasoning and logic thinking has been corrupted by Africanism.
Even as educated as you are, your thinking level is the same with that of market women.
Your education is clearly a wasted time

See this motor park tout forming educated...for your information, your education can never even equal to half of mine. So quit the English trash cos you suck at it. And if you knew anything about being foreign you will understand the need to mind your business, and not run your miserable mouth like the African market women that you are.

What you have are assumptions, don't jump into conclusions just yet. Try to verify your claim that he's actually using the money so buy clothing for women back I Nigeria.

Sometimes our jealous nature gets the better of you. If he's indeed sending money to women, then talk to him and make him understand how he's hurting you with such act.

I was course rep in year one. When we resumed for 200l some of my course mates ganged up against me and said I'm not an indigene of the state and voted me out.

Memberclub:
Take a look at what you posted again.
Clearly something is not right with you upstairs

You must be very foolish...Last time I checked this is a public forum, and I don't need your approval to make a post.

So if my post offends you, gulp on sniper or you hug the nearest transformer. I'm not the reason why your life is so stagnant and miserable. Take your frustration elsewhere you good for nothing failure.

Learn handwork, barbing, welding, shoe making, tailoring... etc.

Learn how to drive if you're in Lagos, then apply in a big firm.

Look for a big church and join their musical or ushering team, move close to the pastor, then tell him your problem. If you're punctual, honest, trustworthy, God-fearing, truthful...etc. he'll talk to some wealthy people in the congregation who in return will help you out.

If you're below 24, look out for any of your uncles or a direct relative who has made it in business and serve him. You both would agree on the number of years you'll serve and he'll settle you once you're done.

Stay away from women. What annoys me most times is when I see struggling guys who should be going managing the little money they have, jumping from one relationship to the other. Take it or leave it, relationship is very expensive in Nigeria. So don't waste the little money you have on girls, save it for the rainy day.

Good luck.