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Alexaonfleek:
Hmm if you keep thinking like this you won't find wife ooo nazgul

What do you want me to do na

But this screenshot doesn't prove anything as regarding your claims.

Credit alert of the 70k along with chats of you acknowledging the money from him would suffice.

Olisehinnocent:
Am the only son and my mum want to be controlling my life but I never gave her a chance. I have made it clear to her that she should stay off my private life but she keep poking nose

I can relate bro

Prettydevil:
why the Bleep do I get admired today and dont get it tomorrow ? that thing is messing with my sanity

Worry yourself less with what people think about you. Men tell prostitutes that they're beautiful, but they both know that he's saying so to gain access into her cunt.

Concentrate more on self love. Look into the mirror and tell yourself that you're beautiful, that's the best compliment you can give yourself.

Zzor:
Why do men die before women? it's never a thing to debate on as you can see around you that we have many widows compared to widowers. Don't tell me it's because of stress or work because women undergo more stress than men and women work too.

Men are prone to deaths than women because nen are drunkards, Chainsmokers, drug addicts, soldiers, politicians, cultist, police, security, and even drive more than women.

Most of this positions exposes them to premature death.

adeolaSexy:
I've been a guest on this platform for a very long time and today, I decided to register. But, one thing I've noticed on the romance section of this forum is they way men bash ladies about not having any inherent value other than their body.

I don't know the kind of girls this men have been frolicking around with, but all I have to say is that you're all wrong on that one.

Most girls actually have nothing to offer. All they do is keep numerous guys, men and sugar daddies with the aim of billing them regularly to maintain their luxury lifestyle.

Most aren't even interested in relationship sef, you can easily tell from the way they'll start billing you once you guys begin chatting.

Girls make everything about them money, to even say hi to them now is a problem cos tomorrow she'll bill you for saying hi to her yesterday.

This is the reason why most guys see them as sex objects with nothing to offer aside their cunt.

Jacob worked for 14 years as payment for his two wives.

Abraham's servant gave Rebecca's brother Laban gifts as bride price for her to become the wife of Isaac.

Oga go and read your Bible and stop misinterpreting it.

Tango123:
I will add to ur list,

Never ever think you can provide for someone who likes hoeing. No amount is enough for them

Never ever think it is your responsibility to provide for a woman. She has hands and feet and brain like u.

Exactly

Prettydevil:
I hate my life, I wish I was dead. my family only love me when I have to give and treat me like a competition and a failure. everyday I am always wondering if society will love me today or hate me today. sometimes I go out and everyone shows me love and the very next day everyone acts like I'm invisible. how is that normal? never had a real relationship with anyone for the same reason, they love me one moment and hate me the next, and I dont even have to talk they just take one look at my face and decide if they will hate me today or love me today. I don't feel real or human, I feel like a thing people use for their entertainment. I hate society, I wish I was dead honestly

Take it easy on yourself. If everyone here should pour out their own mind like you did, you'll be shocked to see that you're even better than most people.

Life isn't a bed of roses, nothing comes easy unless you were born with a silver spoon.

So rather than sit there, acknowledging that you're a failure while contemplating suicide, you can make out a plan for your future.

Draw closer to God, tell him your goals, strive to achieve them avoid negative and toxic people, celebrate your little success and very soon, the sky will be your limit.

My first relationship hmmm, I was still a simp. It happened a year after I finished secondary school.

I loved her from the bottom of my heart, I even took the phone my aunt bought for me and give her as a birthday present, spent so much on her, I just wanted her to be happy, I even brought her home to to meet my mum. in all the relationships I've been so far that was the one I invested the greatest.

She later left me for an apprentice learning electrical work under his oga, he impregnated her and ran away. Whereas the highest romance we shared were kisses and hugs, nothing more. I was a male virgin and she also claimed to be a virgin as well.

She came back to me with the pregnancy after some months telling me she still loves me, that I should accept it, it doesn't mean anything thing. Do you know I was still ready to accept her back. It was my mum that talked sense into my head. Poor naeiv me.

We're all good people till evil people teach us lessons we might never recover from.

What I gained? Never trust anyone until they give you a reason to trust them.

Assume everyone is bad

Assume everyone is cheating on you so that when they eventually do, you won't be disappointed cos you've already conditioned your mind for the worst

lefulefu:
bro do u believe i will just send money to a girl and be begging for her contact
someone that i have never seen .ok if i come get the contact na wetin i wan take am do
there attractive ladies here so i no really need to come nl dey beg for contact of a girl wey i never see b4.and nl is a place where majority of the female monikers are operated by guys so i no dumb reach like that

I know that you wouldn't do that. The girl just de catch cruise. But we all know that it's a deep make voice behind that monkier.

DSC7:
At the Age of 24 i cant recollect how many pussy i have Banged..


But i think i have disvirgined 13 girls..

Now i am dating only 5 girls....


I have never broken any girl's heart...


Reason because only distance keeps us apart...


I have banged uncountable oloshos....


I hardly spend 30mins with a girl inside room with out having sex...


na dem sef dey often ask for d sex.....


When ever i passby girls will be giving me greenlight...


Now i have like 6 girls that i need to approve their proposal by asking them out but very unfortunate am tired of steady banging..i wan plan my life..


Pls advise me..........

Are you bragging with this as an achievement?

I was hoping to read how you bought your first car at age 21 and how you've just completed your personal duplex.

Having sex with numerous girls isn't an achievement, you're the one loosing energy and semen.

My advice? Stay away from women and start planning your future. Very soon you'll hit 40 and if all you have to brag about at age 40 is the number of holes you've dug, then you've failed in life.

Never fight your fellow guy over a hoe, cos you'd keep fighting guys all your life, till the day you die prematurely.

Never ask a hoe why she's hoeing, A hoe will always remain a hoe, if you can't tolerate her just let her be.

Never try to advice a hoe to change, she's hoeing on that site you mentioned cos she needs cash, lots and lots of it, since you can't afford to keep funding her expensive lifestyle just let her be so you can have peace of mind.

Never have sleepless nights over a hoe, they're not worth it.

oluwaseun15:
Why is it that people with good heart are always unlucky in love or relationship

Because you keep falling for the wrong people.

virginprincess:
Exactly why i like those type of guys, i don't have time for smart boys with their wahala.

Lol @ smart boys. Truth is every smart guy was once a simp it's you ladies that made us smart with your cunniness. Every guy with who sees relationship from a neutral point of view and not the regular Romeo and Juliet way has one sad story to tell in his attempt at love in the hands of the wrong girl. If you actually want a shy guy like you said, make him happy and don't ever see his calmness as weakness and you'll enjoy your relationship/marriage.

virginprincess:
Every girl with what she likes, for me i like those type of guys especially the shy ones, if you are shy there is no way you can have numerous girlfriends.

I agree with you...we all have burdens but we must make sure we choose ours carefully so as to be able to bear it for the rest of our lives with less problems.

virginprincess:
Yes na, those type of men are my spec.

I thought you ladies were attracted to confident men. Men with charisma, not some simpleton following you up and down like a dog on heat.

soulstalker:
what if na lalasticlala, i no to trust that egbon. U know egbon likes snakes, and there's no difference btw snakes and women so i guess it's him.

Lalasticlala is married na, I saw a pic of his daughter's dedication in church around last year.

How married man with pikin go send 70k to a random girl for no reason. No be lalasticlala

virginprincess:
It is really annoying sha, but if you marry those type of guys, you as a woman wouldn't face stress one day, infact you will use him as you like.

So that's what you're praying for ba?

soulstalker:
but that egbon isn't a simp na? Well, what do i know?

Don't mind the op, na cruise he/she de catch.

The op might even be a hairy balls male sef.

gfon:
could it be true

Nope not true...the op just de catch cruise.

soulstalker:
which popular male nairalander moniker starts with 'L'?

Lefulefu

Casalindal:
So guys I have been one of those not too pleasant lucky girl here. I have met the ugly and the stupid but non were amount to this foolish one. Story of my life

So I’m here minding my business as usual and boom I got a notification message from one popular NL you all know from various thread. Username start with “L”. We chatted briefly and he requested for my account that he want to show me love, lol. I initially felt disgusted but he keep begging and I sent my details, guys he sent me 70k I got the receipts and chats here. Lol

Now uncle is begging for my contact for 4 months now and I say no but he still not giving up. Please guys help me tell him to stop

Evidence of the transfer and chats or forever hold your peace.

Vikkoh:

Chatting with himself. It's a simple investigative journalism. Check the punctuations placements in both texts.

You're absolutely right, the comas had no spacing in both messages. He was indeed chatting with himself.

Misslilbootay:
Double standard lots. You all want to make your girlfriend a sinner but want your wife as a saint.

You all claim marriage is only beneficial to women and disastrous to men but the first thing you do when you see a lady in her 30's and above is to marriage shame her if there is a word like that.

You don't want a girlfriend that asks for money but are ready to castigate the ones who are so independent.

The average Nigerian man is stupid and that is why they don't measure up to the average Nigerian woman.

Hello dear, who broke your heart...do talk about it I'm here to help you out.

Uzomacharles:
He doesn't have mail option..


seun..

I didn't say you should mail se.un I said mail the mod se.un said those who want to change their username should contact.

Click on that link and read the replies slowly.

Sixfeetbelle:
It's not the same thing, please. Some only sons don't have that clingy closeness with their family members while some do. We understand that they're the only hope for their family but as he now has his own little family, they should make boundaries and stick to it.

As my brother is now, I can't just pack my bags and arrive uninvited at his house. It's his house, yes, and if I come without telling him, he'll accept me, but I won't do it. Same to every member of our family, including my mother. That is a boundary and we respect it. Some families don't have that clear boundary and that's where issues start.

This is what I've been trying to explain to lefulefu. But I believe he's deliberately playing to the gallery. Many Nigerian parents and family members don't even know what boundaries means let alone respect it.

And that has been the Genesis of most crisis in marriages, cos many women and men wouldn't tolerate such.

Thebest12:
Hello nairalanders
I will make this short as possible. I am in love with a girl . She is almost months pregnant . but no guy in her life . The mo.ron that scored the goal has repeatedly denied responsibility. She is now living with her mum. But i love this girl. Sometimes i use to help her out financially.
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Pls guys i need your advice. Insult is allowed . Go ahead. Genuine advice pls

Better keep saving more finances cos you'll definitely need it since you've chosen to play the role of a good Samaritan.

Just know that when she delivers, the hospital bills, baby's medications, clothes, soaps, creams...etc will all be on your head. Including every other miscellaneous.

You want to carry cross blindly in this economy under the guise of love, carry when you come back here to open another thread and lament how your pregnant lover ditched you for someone else I'll be the first to mock you.

lefulefu:
if an only child got ill its understandable if the family develop high bp especially if the child is far away.u cant blame the family on that nau .Just last month a nigerian guy over here..a student died from fever related issues.I guess it must be denge fever.Its like during when he initially fell ill the dude was self medicating and he didnt tell anybody.It was when the sickness was advanced that some few close friends knew about it and raised alarm and he was rushed to the hospital.Unfortunately he passed away in the early mornings.So if that guy was an only child u can understand the pain the parents would be going through knowing they lost their son from a disease that was easily treatable.So concern showed by parents who have only one child is very much understandable .In short such would assure a lady getting married to such a family dat such a family are good ppl.Any parent or parents who shows unconcern to their child and are still unconcerned wen the child is experiencing difficulty are not good parents.

You're deliberately missing my whole point...concern isn't bad, infact it shows that love exist in such family. But when it becomes abnormal, it's referred to as policing which is very bad.

lefulefu:
ok let use myself as an example.Yesterday morning i made up mind i was going to prepare a meal of fried rice.i dont know how to do it so i called my mom on the phone to tell me the ingredients i would use and give me the procedure to prepare it.i couldnt ask any girl here cos most of the girls here they mostly dont cook but eat kfc junk all the time and the few that cook..their food is different from ours.so she told me the way to prepare it and the ingredients i would use.i went to the grocery to get the ingredients and the fried rice came out really nice.So judging from op"s post i guess i am weak cos i dared to call my mom and get info from her on how to prepare a particular meal

You're missing my whole point...

lefulefu:
thats weird and the same time creepy.never seen this kine mother/son relationship u talking about o
the one i know is normal checking up on each other.Like if the son is far away from nigeria and staying overseas i dont think he would just totally cut off connection from his family in naija.even if u with a foreign girl and she notice she u hardly talk to ur ppl back home she would be curious and would want to even know if there is a problem why u hardly call them

Una plenty na...if you were an only child you'd experience it.

Just sick small, all the family don gather they cry, leave house for 2 house, you don give person HBP. Na you mata dem go discuss reach midnight when you come back. you go just taya sef.