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Mercychen:
My dear. Hm.

Most people don't realize the peace of mind they enjoy as singles until they get married.
The peace of mind I'm enjoying now is what I'm scared of losing to marriage. Let me be enjoying my single life for now. Biko.

just be prayerful
Honestly prayer works,tame him Tru prayer that is my juju
If not they will come home with infection
and be at alert
Let him know ua watching him like a hawk.
Do not take anything for granted ask questions,most importantly do not trust any human 100%

I trusted too much due to inexperience but now
Oh my gosh.
m much more wiser and will never take shit ever again.

baralatie:
The tin pain am die

The pain of betrayal is out of this world.let alone infecting one with HIV.

matm:
That's one the greatest challenges in the modern marriage.Even when u are righteous and faithful,ur partner can ruin ur life with infections.If she has been denying u sex,once she gets infection,she will lure u to bed to ensure u also suffer what she is suffering.
But killing and suicide shldnt have been the option.So many married people are hiv positive but still give birth to hiv negative kids by adhering strictly to doctor's guide.
Say no to adultery.It is ruining many homes.

life isn't fair.keeping oneself for years then marry one irresponsible spouse that will expose u to nonsense is heartbreaking.

Mercychen:
Marriage no even dey hungry me again with all these kind useless stories..

You'll suffer to keep yourself and one loose dog will come and infect you with nonsense.

l de tell you
The pain of hearing and finding out ur partner is cheating is out of this world.

U will loose ur mind.

ChineduChinedu:
thanks for being a brother

ask God for forgiveness.
Sleeping with a married woman is bad.

MayorWhales:
Who else has noticed relationships and marriages nowadays are not as deep and genuine like before, you break up now to repackaged and resell to the next available bidder

l no fit laff.
Chai u make my day

Awoleesu:
Your case is complex!
We're still trying to sort out your woman and her deceptiveness... Not knowing you sef nor pure!

no be karma be this?

harmargedon:
you no see breast, abi you dey do your own for night ni?

oga some people body firm.
No judge from breast or there
Some people body is awesome.

Flier:
Fake story! You lived together for 8 years but she has 8 years old child and another 6 years old for another man without you knowing about it
Nonsense
It could Be someone is trying to blackmail her

8 months not years.

MALIGNANTGuest:
PLEASE who are you?
And what are you?

We really need to know you!
By the way, I need the phone contact of that BABALAWO....for that's the only sensible thing in this your entire write up.

bad boy.
U wan kill person pikin with laff here..

dapadawee:
Believe not all report
This is fiction
Not all stories are true
In fact 99% percent write are lie Mohammad

My dear things de happen.

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

That is shit!

LIVINGICON:
Chai!!
Are you for real?
Is this some kind of script?

u just said what l wanted to say.
Imagine this story that looks like fiction.

yunqdady:
I have people older than you in my class. I've seen grandmas sef.
Just go for diploma if u want it fast.
And know you have to be sound, above average and intelligent to pass exams that would take you abroad.
So you don't end up studying nursing and stucked in Nigeria

thank you
I thought of it yesterday
I honestly don't have strength to stress again after my masters few years ago.

sharone21:
My sister's classmate in Nursing school was 64yrs... No excuse if u really want to succeed. You can graduate and still work for 30 years before retiring.
But, note that admission WILL NOT be in Naija.
Cameroon takes ANY age... You can start with HND, travel & work then run the BSc Nursing online.... Just be hardworking, focused and prayerful.

ok
Thanks.
I will make research

sharone21:
NO...
In fact u can work up to 70-80 years in UK and USA etc IF you like.

God bless u for ur response.
my husband has been begging me to go and do nursing to pave a way to travel out of naija bc of our kids but m 43 so l was thinking is already late.
Pls what do u think?

Godbless3:
Sharrap, she is way intelligent than you. She give you advice and you de insult her, who is more intelligent?
Difinitely, beauty can easily fades with nature or other eventful occurence.
What if these thing happen by mistake, will you be ok with it?
Another cheating man have been found.

III oh my
I wasn't insulting haba!
I was marvelled on how constructively he/ she made his or points..

Pls modify ur post
God forbid it l Wii insult someone on dis facelee forum.

ststyreal:
Chaiiii.... You can imagine! It's so painful when someone who profess love to you is still the same person hurting you. I don't know what this men are looking for , for Christ sake! They have the same women at home, the same one hole ,yet they will still go out and commit adultery flesh to flesh with some strange women and return with all manner of deadly diseases to an innocent woman at home. No courtesy for protection and the fear of God is throw to the bin. May the good Lord heal you wholely in Jesus name! Infact, one happened in my neighbourhood recently. After the woman went for a test on noticing a painful bumps in her neck part. Only to return with HIV positive result. This lady almost had a heart attack while the husband was busy rejecting the result and lying to our face that he has never cheated on his wife and the woman also promise to swear with anything on her faithfulness ever since the marriage was contracted. To cut the long story short, they informed their pastor and sort for prayers but the pastor insisted that they must confess before he starts to pray. Hmmmm!!!!, Na that time oga open up say he done sleep with three women outside. And you know the worst, he said he did it when his wife was busy taking care of his own mother (the man's mother was sick at a time). May God render every cheating husband impotent at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennnn..... May their manhood never erect at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennn. You can imagine the pain this innocent woman is going through at the moment, thank God her kids are not infected. Men, you people should fear God ooooo.... God will punish all you unfaithful husband in Jesus name amennnnn..... Altleast, if you men can not fear God, use protection for the sake of that innocent woman at home...... Na God I use beg una...

l trusted him so much and l was naive bc he is my first love..
He said they started after our marriage this d 13th year.
kept dreaming but was misinterpreting it.
Sleeping with different girls for years and one steady one for years yet he showed me love is heartbreaking.
I nearly died bc l couldn't bear the pain of
deceit,lies, betrayal, disrespect..
But my sis and his brother was there.l was devastated.
Oh,l never believed he could go that low and bad.
I HV not really gotten over it after 1 year and.
I relapse and freak out all d time.

Pes13:
When it comes to choosing who to marry, you must learn to be contented and celebrate your partners physical look in as much you have decided to settle with her.

Even after marriage, regardless of how beautiful she is, you will meet myriads of people far beautiful than her, you will see the ugly part of your partner.

Mind you, we don't always look beautiful. There are times we are caught unfresh.

I think you need to work on your contentment first, then you can decide if you can settle for her.

Even if you marry in quote ' The most beautiful lady in the world' she may loose her beautiful during pregnancy, she can suddenly break out after child birth and become plus size, she might develop big stomach, and loose that beauty, what will you do then?


One major ingredient for sustainable marriage is first contentment to the person you choose.

NOBODY has it all.

If after this, you ARE still not proud of her look, let her go, it means somebody else deserve her instead of you. It does not make you a bad person at all, it only mean she deserve better..

who u bee sef?
Very intelligent..

Find a way somehow to let the wife
Is heartbreaking how some men cheat on their innocent wife irresponsibly.


But some girls Shaa
Sleeping with a married man?
On the matrimonial home.
I can't imagine how some people Dee get mind.

ststyreal:
Please don't say this... Imagine the man is married to either your sister, niece or cousin... What will be your response? And that man can infect the woman with a deadly virus like HIV, thereby destroying the life of that innocent woman. If you can help save the situation, why not do it. Whether there is heaven or not, as human, our conscience is there to judge us when we support and cover evil. Our motto in life as should be " to treat people, the way we want to be treated". When we cover evil, we are indirectly part of the evil and will in one way or the other, partake in the punishment thereafter. I might be saying nonsense or thrash to you but honestly, i am typing from a concern heart as i have witness a man infect his innocent wife with a deadly virus as hiv from his infidelity....

ua not saying trash.
Ua honest God bless you.

That is how my sweet husband was sleeping with girls in their family house and everyone looked away waiting for me to find out bc they said they don't want to spoil our marriage.( He infected me seriously)
When l found out it was terrible.
Is been 1 year 2 months now and m still freaking out.
But thank God he has repented however a lot of things have changed.

Srobinson:
This country ehnnnnnn

Coach Hope, see wetin you cause now o...

I remembered your story when this happened to me yesterday �

I took my car to car wash o, said let me go to market.

When I finish they must have also finished washing the car...

The guy was like, no problem ma... Once you come, it will be ready.

Na so I carry bike go market, thinking how to manage the small change in my purse...

I don tire to withdraw because the account don less like deflated ball... So so withdraw, withdraw...

No be so I buy finish, instead of taking bike back to car wash, carry my motor, na so I blow bike pass car wash go house...

I saw the car o � but e no register say na my car...

I got home, enter kitchen, cook, we ate and I balance...I didn't remember my car...

Till night o �, as I was about locking the door, I just said let me survey outside as I usually do... The spot I usually park the car was empty...

My chest cut ��������

Jesus...my car, where my car I started asking my children...

See ehn, money good o �

See what over analysis caused because of the way money dey go unto expensive foodstuff...

Then I remembered �

Car wash o

Car wash, my car is still there o...

Na so I begin pick race �, without cash to pay or slippers...

Na so I remember again, ran back home, carry money, put leg inside my children slippers, oyaaaaaaa, marathon part two...

I no even remember wear bra, na hand I take support the ministry... At some point, I left them in God's hands because the run no come fast again...

Ah...them don dey close for the day, my car was the only one there, the guy was like, madam I for help you bring am when we pack up finish (my regular cleaner)...

Panting, I say thank you, I don come now...

The relief as I enter my motor ehn...

Chai �

Before person go hold key for hand dey look for the key again inside dustbin because he born children full house...

God abeg o �

#ItCanOnlyGetBetter

#Pix: The way my head was full wey make me forget a whole jeep for car wash, carry bike go house...

� ChikaOnuu

youaresofunny..
I don laf tire.

bivoprad:
I wouldn't know......but I don't think there should be a restriction

thank you.

Eyinju112:
We women ain’t stupid...
How do you want to cheat someone and still find peace... let me tell you this
There is no peace in the home of a man that cheats his wife... she was lovely when you first met her and that was why you picked a relationship with her,, then all of a sudden she is no longer attractive to you cause she’s troublesome

Mr writer check yourself

This woman in question with definitely have something to say about your attitude towards her sudden change

l bet he is cheating on the wife.
He is not telling us everything.

okine4real:
Before I got married, my MOTHER SAID I WOUKD NOT MARRY MY BABE, I ASKED FOR REASONS, THE REASON BE SAY MY BABE NOR DEY COOK FOR HER, I TOLD HER, MY BABE NOR BE YOUR PIKIN, YOU GET PIKIN, TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN TO SERVE YOU, MY BABE IS NOT YOUR HOUSE MAID. I TELL HER SAY IF YOU LIKE COME MY WEDDING, IF YOU LIKE KNOW COME, I GO WED HER. MAMA NOR GET CHOICE NOW, SHE COME, SHE DEY STRONG FACE FOR THE WEDDING, ME JUST DEY ENJOY MY DAY. TODAY SHE DONE GIVE ME 4 KIDS, NA BUHARI I DEY LOOK TO DECIDE IF I GO, GO FIR THE 5TH ONE. WHEN I MEET HER I NOR DEY WORK, TODAY I GET MORE THAN 15 TENANTS FOR LAGOS.

NOW LISTEN SON, KNOW BE EVERYTHING YOUR MAMA OR PAPA TELL YOU, YOU GO DO, THE REASON YOU ARE CALLED A MAN IS BECSUSE YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO USE YOUR BRAIN TO THINK, WHEN INFORMATION IS PASSED TO YOU, ANALYZE IT, LOOK AT THE INFORMATION USING 3D FORMAT, I BE I.T GUY DATS WHIKE I SAY 3D, THEN ATTACK THE ISSUE FROM THE BEST VIEW. WHEN MY MUM WAS REJECTING MY BABE, ONE THING WAS IN MY HEAD, SHEY NA MY MAMA GO LEAVE WITH THIS WOMAN ABI NA ME. SO SINCE NA ME GO LEAVE WITH THE WOMAN, I JUST BONE MY MAMA. NEXT YEAR OUR MARRIAGE WOUKD BE 10 YEARS, SHE IS STILL THE BEST FRIEND I HAVE IN THE WHOLE WORLD, WE CAN GOSSIP FOR 5 HOURS EVERYDAY, E NOR DEY TIRE US. I ALWAYS TELL GUYS, NOR because OF PUSSY GO MARRY WOMAN WHEN GO GIVE YOU WAHALA, IN MARRIAGE, PUSSY GO TIRE YOU, FLEXING GO TIRE YOU, YOU NEED A WOMAN THAT IS STRONG ,REASONABLE, DEPENDANT, WOMAN WHEN GO EVEN HELP YOU WARE RAG GO THAT THINGS GO PURE TOMORROW. LL

Let me just chimp in this, my wife once wore tertared pants because we where building, today all rents, I repeat all rents goes to her, eevn as she collect the rest, she go still dey use the money they pursue me say make I take, I go tell am say I know want...

Young guys nobody dey do una from una village ohh, na your decide to trow away your future because of PUSSY.


CHEERS.

Badass
When ua a reasonable man,
Man wee sabi,u will enjoy ur life happily.
God bless your wife,ur children and you plenty plenty.

Writercruze:
Bro, I don't know if people will tell you the truth here, but I hope you read my comment.

Let me ask you three questions

#1. What was the attraction between you and your wife? what did you find interesting in her? Is that thing still there?

#2. Has your wife always been like this?

#3. Don't you think it's because of your feelings (rather an obsession) towards the chemical engineers that's making you to feel this way?

From what you wrote, I can reliably tell you that you are the problem in your marriage. You are married bro, and if you want to have a happy marriage, limit the number of female colleagues that call you unnecessarily while at home.

It is what it is. Your wife is only suspicious because you must have seen your chat or conversation between you and the mechanical engineer.

You gat a daughter and a woman who seems to love you, please I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, try to make your marriage work.

have a proper conversation with your wife. Ask her to tell you the things you are doing that she doesn't like, you should tell her the things she is doing that you don't like at all.

At the end of such a conversation, you will know your boundaries and start living happily.

No woman is good o. That one you are fantasizing over (the chemical engineer), but the time you destroy your marriage because of her, you would regret it in the future.

may God bless you beyond ur expectations..

Pearlyfaze:
It is very possible to do Msc Pre-registration Adult or Mental Nurse in the UK from any field of study. What you will need to do before applying is either work as a Health care Assistant or Volunteer as one, doing this will increase your chances of getting admission.

Congratulations on your Marriage. Please do note that Marriage in the West is different from what we have in Africa.

Na Partnership west dey do nor be African i be head (male), you be tail(woman)

please is there age limit in applying for a nursing job in the UK from school of nursing
Someone should answer me l beg of una.

bivoprad:
Shearwaters don't take nigerian nurses without BNSC with or without NCLEX

please is there age limit in applying for work in UK?

Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

heyaa kpele..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

For this twenty first century...way husband nor dey quick come house in the evening.....

Na hungry go kill the woman

Make she dey wait...
Imagine me a real niggarrr go come manage to marry last last.....then my wife go dey wait for me.....me way go dey enter house around 2am and 3am after enough booze with my niggarrrrs for bar...

Then if na the period way she take dey nag......she nor go even see me for house for like three days.....

Ebenebe..

Abidecdrock:
Available

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Ay92:
My own tremendous change is a negative one though.
I lost my mom on Friday, August 6 and since then I can't even explain the state of my mind. E still dey do me like dream

kpele
Be strong..