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How some women find it comfortable having anything doing with a married man still baffles me.
Doing stuff together when you know his wife is somewhere waiting for his return innocently.
Now ua getting married,how would you feel if by chance work take your husband out of town,how would you feel if you find out that one random girl is cooking, shopping and visiting him?.

Ua not a good person.

Adex2442:
i will loose my hungry dogs on u now

can't stop laughing..
My nairaland family, always making me laugh so hard.

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We all must eat, come buy cheap for homes and your shops.

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Brown or white?
Post d sample.

sholatech:
Also interested..

send mail to Morgan capital.
info@morgancapitalsecurities.

U can open account with #5000.
U buy and sell nig shares by urself.

Pls m not a scammer as some people will think.
Do ur research and finding.

Bode5050:
I read from Punch newspaper that MTN want to sell about $242m worth of shares in November and I'm thinking of investing little amount with me in it but don't know anything about share.
Pls knowledgeable Nairalanders, how can I go about it?
What're the pros and cons of buying such shares in a big company as MTN?
Thank you

send mail to Morgan capital.
info@morgancapitalsecurities.
You can buy and sell nig shares by ursef.

Come and thank me later.

I have $320 for sale at #180000.
Address: alagbado.
Quote me if ua interested

abobote:
Nobody cheat with sense. I don't know why I don't find this girl attractive.
My side chick that I have been cheating my wife with, broke up with me on Saturday, and I'm damn happy, I have peace of mind now

are u serious?
Since I caught my husband late last year.
He always tells me his mind is at rest now.
Before nko?l asked
He said l will not understand.

Cheating is an abomination to a loving, responsible and God fearing wife..

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Hey!
U really think you are a baby at "just 29".
Pls love ur marriage and focus on bigger things.
Going back to Egypt is not an ideal option..

Kobojunkie:
On my street alone there are at least 5 dads who, every week day, ready their kids for school and walk them to take the bus in the morning. Then in the afternoon, the same dads walk out to the same bus stop to pick up from there kids and proceed to tackle after-school programs with them.

You declare here that men can't babysit, and I am curious to know why?

Are the men you know of born imbe-ciles or something?

no naw naturally na woman job.
Even though some men are better but it depends, whatever works is okay Shaa
No formula..

Jman06:
From your naration alone, one can see that women are mostly the beneficiaries of marriage. The children show them all the love while the man is left on his own.

Because I love children, I may consider adoption or I'll just be visiting orphanages to see and play with children. As for marriage, it absolutely adds no benefit to a man.

is bc mostly m with them.
Men can't baby-sit.
They love their dad too
Just dat he is not always around but makes it up for us.



Ok born one and adopt one.

When u marry
u will be more stable..
God go bring u a good wife.( My prayer and wish for u).
U go see am.

Jman06:
You don't even know how old I am. I have seen so many things in this life that I have come to realize that marriage holds no benefit for men.

it benefits men..
When u see a woman who genuinely love u,u will know that love is a mystery..
Not all women are bad or materialistic.
Good one Dee
I pray u find one by miracle..
Amen.
Even na one born.
The happiness of having a child is priceless.

I have 2 boys
Last night while in my room the younger one brought water." Mum l know u might need water.
Later when NEPA took light l said l want to bath ah no hot water
The first son said mummy l boiled water for u.
To me those little things is what makes life sweet.

Jman06:
Op, you're not yet red pilled. When you become red pilled like myself, women would be the least of your worries. You'll not care whether they give you attention or not. In fact, you'll never need a girl's attention to validate your ego like you put it.

As I'm now, I don't care a hoot about women! From the look of things sef, I might never get married and I'll be very fine. I'll make my money not to impress any woman, but to enjoy my life and also take care of my mum, my nephews and nieces. Simple

ok naw
I bet u when time reach urge for marriage will come naturally.
Body go tell u..

Mercychen:
My dear. Hm.

Most people don't realize the peace of mind they enjoy as singles until they get married.
The peace of mind I'm enjoying now is what I'm scared of losing to marriage. Let me be enjoying my single life for now. Biko.

just be prayerful
Honestly prayer works,tame him Tru prayer that is my juju
If not they will come home with infection
and be at alert
Let him know ua watching him like a hawk.
Do not take anything for granted ask questions,most importantly do not trust any human 100%

I trusted too much due to inexperience but now
Oh my gosh.
m much more wiser and will never take shit ever again.

baralatie:
The tin pain am die

The pain of betrayal is out of this world.let alone infecting one with HIV.

matm:
That's one the greatest challenges in the modern marriage.Even when u are righteous and faithful,ur partner can ruin ur life with infections.If she has been denying u sex,once she gets infection,she will lure u to bed to ensure u also suffer what she is suffering.
But killing and suicide shldnt have been the option.So many married people are hiv positive but still give birth to hiv negative kids by adhering strictly to doctor's guide.
Say no to adultery.It is ruining many homes.

life isn't fair.keeping oneself for years then marry one irresponsible spouse that will expose u to nonsense is heartbreaking.

Mercychen:
Marriage no even dey hungry me again with all these kind useless stories..

You'll suffer to keep yourself and one loose dog will come and infect you with nonsense.

l de tell you
The pain of hearing and finding out ur partner is cheating is out of this world.

U will loose ur mind.

ChineduChinedu:
thanks for being a brother

ask God for forgiveness.
Sleeping with a married woman is bad.

MayorWhales:
Who else has noticed relationships and marriages nowadays are not as deep and genuine like before, you break up now to repackaged and resell to the next available bidder

l no fit laff.
Chai u make my day

Awoleesu:
Your case is complex!
We're still trying to sort out your woman and her deceptiveness... Not knowing you sef nor pure!

no be karma be this?

harmargedon:
you no see breast, abi you dey do your own for night ni?

oga some people body firm.
No judge from breast or there
Some people body is awesome.

Flier:
Fake story! You lived together for 8 years but she has 8 years old child and another 6 years old for another man without you knowing about it
Nonsense
It could Be someone is trying to blackmail her

8 months not years.

MALIGNANTGuest:
PLEASE who are you?
And what are you?

We really need to know you!
By the way, I need the phone contact of that BABALAWO....for that's the only sensible thing in this your entire write up.

bad boy.
U wan kill person pikin with laff here..

dapadawee:
Believe not all report
This is fiction
Not all stories are true
In fact 99% percent write are lie Mohammad

My dear things de happen.

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

That is shit!

LIVINGICON:
Chai!!
Are you for real?
Is this some kind of script?

u just said what l wanted to say.
Imagine this story that looks like fiction.

yunqdady:
I have people older than you in my class. I've seen grandmas sef.
Just go for diploma if u want it fast.
And know you have to be sound, above average and intelligent to pass exams that would take you abroad.
So you don't end up studying nursing and stucked in Nigeria

thank you
I thought of it yesterday
I honestly don't have strength to stress again after my masters few years ago.

sharone21:
My sister's classmate in Nursing school was 64yrs... No excuse if u really want to succeed. You can graduate and still work for 30 years before retiring.
But, note that admission WILL NOT be in Naija.
Cameroon takes ANY age... You can start with HND, travel & work then run the BSc Nursing online.... Just be hardworking, focused and prayerful.

ok
Thanks.
I will make research

sharone21:
NO...
In fact u can work up to 70-80 years in UK and USA etc IF you like.

God bless u for ur response.
my husband has been begging me to go and do nursing to pave a way to travel out of naija bc of our kids but m 43 so l was thinking is already late.
Pls what do u think?

Godbless3:
Sharrap, she is way intelligent than you. She give you advice and you de insult her, who is more intelligent?
Difinitely, beauty can easily fades with nature or other eventful occurence.
What if these thing happen by mistake, will you be ok with it?
Another cheating man have been found.

III oh my
I wasn't insulting haba!
I was marvelled on how constructively he/ she made his or points..

Pls modify ur post
God forbid it l Wii insult someone on dis facelee forum.

ststyreal:
Chaiiii.... You can imagine! It's so painful when someone who profess love to you is still the same person hurting you. I don't know what this men are looking for , for Christ sake! They have the same women at home, the same one hole ,yet they will still go out and commit adultery flesh to flesh with some strange women and return with all manner of deadly diseases to an innocent woman at home. No courtesy for protection and the fear of God is throw to the bin. May the good Lord heal you wholely in Jesus name! Infact, one happened in my neighbourhood recently. After the woman went for a test on noticing a painful bumps in her neck part. Only to return with HIV positive result. This lady almost had a heart attack while the husband was busy rejecting the result and lying to our face that he has never cheated on his wife and the woman also promise to swear with anything on her faithfulness ever since the marriage was contracted. To cut the long story short, they informed their pastor and sort for prayers but the pastor insisted that they must confess before he starts to pray. Hmmmm!!!!, Na that time oga open up say he done sleep with three women outside. And you know the worst, he said he did it when his wife was busy taking care of his own mother (the man's mother was sick at a time). May God render every cheating husband impotent at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennnn..... May their manhood never erect at the point of committing adultery in Jesus name amennn. You can imagine the pain this innocent woman is going through at the moment, thank God her kids are not infected. Men, you people should fear God ooooo.... God will punish all you unfaithful husband in Jesus name amennnnn..... Altleast, if you men can not fear God, use protection for the sake of that innocent woman at home...... Na God I use beg una...

l trusted him so much and l was naive bc he is my first love..
He said they started after our marriage this d 13th year.
kept dreaming but was misinterpreting it.
Sleeping with different girls for years and one steady one for years yet he showed me love is heartbreaking.
I nearly died bc l couldn't bear the pain of
deceit,lies, betrayal, disrespect..
But my sis and his brother was there.l was devastated.
Oh,l never believed he could go that low and bad.
I HV not really gotten over it after 1 year and.
I relapse and freak out all d time.

Pes13:
When it comes to choosing who to marry, you must learn to be contented and celebrate your partners physical look in as much you have decided to settle with her.

Even after marriage, regardless of how beautiful she is, you will meet myriads of people far beautiful than her, you will see the ugly part of your partner.

Mind you, we don't always look beautiful. There are times we are caught unfresh.

I think you need to work on your contentment first, then you can decide if you can settle for her.

Even if you marry in quote ' The most beautiful lady in the world' she may loose her beautiful during pregnancy, she can suddenly break out after child birth and become plus size, she might develop big stomach, and loose that beauty, what will you do then?


One major ingredient for sustainable marriage is first contentment to the person you choose.

NOBODY has it all.

If after this, you ARE still not proud of her look, let her go, it means somebody else deserve her instead of you. It does not make you a bad person at all, it only mean she deserve better..

who u bee sef?
Very intelligent..

Find a way somehow to let the wife
Is heartbreaking how some men cheat on their innocent wife irresponsibly.


But some girls Shaa
Sleeping with a married man?
On the matrimonial home.
I can't imagine how some people Dee get mind.