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Saintmary:
She's not a wrong woman as a person, just wrong for that particular man.



That is why I don't support women who stay married to a man who doesn't want them, or force his ring on their finger.




Na she go suffer am las las.

ok dear l got u naw.

GenBuhari:
I have never cheated in the marriage.

ok dear,
Good luck to you..

GenBuhari:
We have issues in our marriage like most people and I would not be foolish enough to say that I am blameless, but I did not warrant that type of silent treatment in my opinion. It could be for any reason because people who do silent treatment often do not discuss issues and expect you to automatically understand their reasons.
So many things were going on , she lost her mother 2017 and we lost our second male baby at 5months pregnancy which she may have found a way to blame me for and some other issues and ongoing relationship issues or It could be just pure manipulation on her part.

I don't need external validation for seeking a new wife. Her actions has given me all the validation and justification I need.

l must be an angel then bc when I'm hurt l always show and voice out.
Ur mind is made up for another wife
Do u know whether the second wife will be a better option?

But u can still salvage the marriage
If u want, especially bc of d children

From ur story l HV a feeling u cheated or HV a side chick that is making that woman not to HV anything physical with you..
And finding it hard to forgive u.
And u not apologizing and make d marriage work bc u can easily take another wife.

Kobojunkie:
Another wogowogo aspect of your story be say you no even bother tell us true why your wife started giving you the silent treatment, even moving to room with her brother, long before your 2018 trip to Nigeria but here you skipping the koko all so you can play victim for us, as if seeking validation for your intentions.

You didn't really need to tell us about your looking for wife wey you go sit put down there in Nigeria, you know?

l smell and suspect cheating..

GenBuhari:
Madam, if doesn't add up don't stress yourself too much, the main thing is that I have my good valid reasons for remaining in the house which I have already stated but you have failed to grasp. We don't even share a bedroom anymore and I cook my own meals. If it was not for the plandemic I would be in Nigeria right now.

tell us that u didn't hurt that woman..
Did u cheat on her?
Some women will never forgive you if u cheat on them especially the ones that truly love and respect you.

Kobojunkie:
And the statements in bold, along with the claims you have made so far of her and your intentions, don't add up.

you are seeing what m seeing too.

Saintmary:
Na real wah.


So, after spending the most youthful of his years with the wrong woman, he now wants to squeeze love and affection out of one stupid uneducated african woman abi.


So, African women don't deserve respect and dignity.

Na to chop crumbs of respectability.



He's legally married. That means any other marriage is null and void. See the obvious condescension.


Well, I'm sure some desperate old woman will pm you.

u HV already concluded she is a wrong woman when u hvnt heard her own side..

GenBuhari:
What is not clear? I am still hear for clarification.

The woman is hurt.
That is what l see.

GenBuhari:
I am right now in UK and she recently travelled to Nigeria without telling me although we live under same roof in UK. Some one who has done what she did can never gain my trust again. She can never apologise and for that reason I can never settle our issue and trust her.

what exactly did you do that woman not to forgive you?

Tonyx5:
All we think about is yansh all the time Odiegwu

na enu egwu..
Ike gwuru..

VEHINTOLAR:
I can relate with that man's resolve to be truly committed to his wife. I can't even think of cheating on my wife; she is just too good to me as a wife and mother of my beautiful children. If that's the definition of being a "SIMP",it feels really good to be one !

God bless you..

kenodrill:
Sad truth my sister!

There is no truth.
Ur decision to leave will have a negative impact on u,ur children,ur siblings,ur parents and others too.
No matter how much money you have u can't take a place of man in raising ur kids.
Can't u find it in your heart to forgive him?

My husband will block me kneeling
" Find it in your heart to forgive me'
Are u saying after months of begging u will still leave?
I'm happy l was able to forgive him.and m happier now than ever bc.

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

MODIFIED

Y'all can quote me till thy kingdom come.

There's of course a few exception to the rule but most women who left cheating me had their own source of income and could do well without the man.

Check out the "I'm staying for the kids" crew,na because them no fit take care of the children and themselves.

sis,
U put a lot of things in consideration before u make a decision.
If d man is not repentat the u can leave.

Children needs their parent love and care.
When u HV a man dat loves you and he cheated and was remorseful wouldn't u give him a second chance?

I forgive my h.usband bc that is what is best for us.
Honestly l HV not regretted it bc the love between us is renewed.
If there is another life,l will marry him again

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

Baby girl,
I disagree with you,the level of my husband cheating was too and way high but l let go when he showed he was repentat and remorsefully begging.
It was a long journey,a couple of times l packed my bag but l couldn't go ,firstly l wondered how they will cópe
And l HV a couple of other reasons for letting go.and the children is d number one.

Nedangel:
Other things like her self development..
Abeg stop putting thoughts in my head.

l honestly think u need divine help.
U need God to tame those rubbish tendencies.
Get closer to God..

pocohantas:
This would be VERY traumatic for me.

u funny..

thorpido:
Children no dey house?

na boys
Is normal to them but sometimes they hide themselves and HV a good laugh..

November24:
Lol... Better for me sir... Let him just open it

him go say he Dee him house.
And honestly someone needs to free himself especially after wearing wearing the whole day..

What of a husband that doesn't wear anything?
I mean totally naked walking round the apartment.
Abeg free d guy..

walemoney007:
From MTN or from a third party?

third party

walemoney007:
Good one

But make dem reduce the price of their data

By now, 1.5GB for one month no suppose pass #600.

l buy 1 gig #300

bigiyaro:
so what happened after you caught him, you called the police?

God arrested him..

Saintmary:
'God did the Miracle'




He doesn't do magic.



Btw, how did you resolve the matter?

He couldn't deny it bc l saw most of his activities.
At d end of day na begging and promising it will never happen again.

No be small journey to recovery
I freaked out countless times bc l never believe he could hurt me dat much..
But he kept assuring me dat he is a changed man now..

I have my husband back
We started all over again
He is the type of man every woman prays for..

If l continue to brood over the level of d cheating and disrespect l will never forgive him.


He is a changed man now and alot of things changed too..
however l don't take shit now the way l use to.

Enemyofpeace:
Yinmu! Can you finish it?

let me tell u something:
This our life is spiritual believe or not..
And we have different destinies and destination.
There are some things some people will be doing and always get away with it.but some once the try they Wii be caught instantly.
Some people cheat and nothing happened
But some it hinders the blessings of God in their lives.
If l tell u the whole story l' m sure u will not be asking if l can finish it.
Life and living is a mystery..

Zeel007:
Tell us how you caught him, seems very interesting

very very interesting.
Is a long and freaking story..
is heartbreaking finding out but l have forgiven him.
We started afresh..

smasher1:
God doesn't do magic. it's Satan that does magic. God does miracle.

ua right.

Enemyofpeace:
over wetin only you no fit chop finish. Mtcheeeeeeeeew

do u think it's easy knowing that someone u love is sharing himself/herself with someone else?.

neo25:
Hi all a friend of mine tells me he sees his wife always in dreams with another strange Man like she is married to him and he as the husband would stand by and watch them both like a stranger in that dream.
They both have been married for 10 years now but these dreams have been occurring at least every week since last years November 2021.
Can anyone please advise, both the Spiritual and Physical implications. Thanks.

might be seeing another man.
Check well
Naso l de dream about my husband then .
The dream will be so real that when l told him he will say which girl.until l caught him.
Pray God will expose whatever it is.
Naso l do 3 days prayer bc on my own l couldn't have caught him d way l did but God did d magic.

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Ulunne777:
Couldn't care less.
Let everybody stay on their own.Said he's visiting on Sunday to take his kids for val not me.
Our Quarrel continues

chai
Baby girl,u guys should sort things out.

there are no boundaries in marriage n also is nt bad if both partners read dere msgs but i fink the men hates it.i dont bother mysef ova hubby's fone or inbox cos i prefer stayn out of trouble.

naso l de stay out of trouble
I don't pick his calls or check his phone, until one day he gave myson phone to charge, l reluctantly went through and found out my loving husband of 13 years was having a deadly affairs.
Since dat day till now things have really changed.
Is been 15 months now,l freak out always bc of d unbelievable things l read.
Heartbreaking.
If l didn't read all those l will never believe that he could do all that.

PointZerom:


Will you keep kwayet.

You're a one chance goal keeper.
Your magic bottle failed you but Mendy saved one penalty and that was enough to make you cry like an orphaned he-goat.

l think say na only me see d bottle carefully wrap in a towel.