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symbianDON:
Quite profitable....until they turn on you one day and bite the living daylights out of you...then they become unprofitable

u can't kill me laf for here..

Gentlerespect76:
I pity you; someone's daughter. If you are old enough to marry please do so, rather than this.

May your days be looooong
Iseeeeee....

discojug:
We have done this, 3 different ones sef

please let her try eating cucumber morning and night and comot ur mind on anything and c how a common cucumber will u get the miracle u desire..

Rtk5:
A job that i sometimes spend 4months at a stretch without salary?

ok
No wonder..
Da Lord is ur strenght



Chai,
It is well with you..

HenryDion:
Hmmm... It's obvious you don't like the job nor your director, and have been nursing the thought to leave.

Despite all my achievements, I'm ready to greet someone 10 times if I see them 10 times that day.

In this case, you barged into a room full of people, then barged out without greeting?

That's weird.

Your responses to your director exudes arrogance. I probably would have fired you at the spot if I were in his shoe.

Once hunger wire you in this Buhari era, your brain will reset.

exactly my thought.

Apologise for what exactly?

u should have said " oh good morning sir.
I HV greeted u b4..
Simple.

dapatro:
But you sha like wahala small ooo

Why didn't you apologize at the beginning and move on

l de tell you..
Simple issue over Sabi go take over.
No be small wahala..

loosingfaith519:
I wish he could be opened like you. I would have gladly help him.
We always talked about this, he has promised severally to stop. When I mentioned it now, he would tell me not to take him back to his past, but he is still doing it. Even yesterday, he still Gambles.

please dear
I understand how you feel but try and stay strong till u give birth.

If u truly love him try and see what u can do to help him get out of that shit
again prayer works tell God what you want.

Felimax:
God bless you too madam.
God's divine peace fall on your home in Jesus name.

Amen..
Thanks..

Felimax:
Don't divorce him. Work on him please. Any small thing divorce, now you are pregnant, you have a baby and you are here shouting divorce so that when you raise your children alone the society will add their own to help you make them to be useless.

Never underestimate the presence of a father in the house, Never!
Keep your mouth shut and talk to your God.

For every spouse we are married to there is a cross to carry and the only one who can make it lighter for you is God.

like u already..
God bless you.

Pasima:
For 8 months we are dating na only once I bleep her and since she keep given me pussy to suck. I always give her money yet I don't see the love

hey u want kill me here wt laf..
Nothing wee l never read here.

U guys should just let this matter rest..
Haba!

Saintmary:
She's not a wrong woman as a person, just wrong for that particular man.



That is why I don't support women who stay married to a man who doesn't want them, or force his ring on their finger.




Na she go suffer am las las.

ok dear l got u naw.

GenBuhari:
I have never cheated in the marriage.

ok dear,
Good luck to you..

GenBuhari:
We have issues in our marriage like most people and I would not be foolish enough to say that I am blameless, but I did not warrant that type of silent treatment in my opinion. It could be for any reason because people who do silent treatment often do not discuss issues and expect you to automatically understand their reasons.
So many things were going on , she lost her mother 2017 and we lost our second male baby at 5months pregnancy which she may have found a way to blame me for and some other issues and ongoing relationship issues or It could be just pure manipulation on her part.

I don't need external validation for seeking a new wife. Her actions has given me all the validation and justification I need.

l must be an angel then bc when I'm hurt l always show and voice out.
Ur mind is made up for another wife
Do u know whether the second wife will be a better option?

But u can still salvage the marriage
If u want, especially bc of d children

From ur story l HV a feeling u cheated or HV a side chick that is making that woman not to HV anything physical with you..
And finding it hard to forgive u.
And u not apologizing and make d marriage work bc u can easily take another wife.

Kobojunkie:
Another wogowogo aspect of your story be say you no even bother tell us true why your wife started giving you the silent treatment, even moving to room with her brother, long before your 2018 trip to Nigeria but here you skipping the koko all so you can play victim for us, as if seeking validation for your intentions.

You didn't really need to tell us about your looking for wife wey you go sit put down there in Nigeria, you know?

l smell and suspect cheating..

GenBuhari:
Madam, if doesn't add up don't stress yourself too much, the main thing is that I have my good valid reasons for remaining in the house which I have already stated but you have failed to grasp. We don't even share a bedroom anymore and I cook my own meals. If it was not for the plandemic I would be in Nigeria right now.

tell us that u didn't hurt that woman..
Did u cheat on her?
Some women will never forgive you if u cheat on them especially the ones that truly love and respect you.

Kobojunkie:
And the statements in bold, along with the claims you have made so far of her and your intentions, don't add up.

you are seeing what m seeing too.

Saintmary:
Na real wah.


So, after spending the most youthful of his years with the wrong woman, he now wants to squeeze love and affection out of one stupid uneducated african woman abi.


So, African women don't deserve respect and dignity.

Na to chop crumbs of respectability.



He's legally married. That means any other marriage is null and void. See the obvious condescension.


Well, I'm sure some desperate old woman will pm you.

u HV already concluded she is a wrong woman when u hvnt heard her own side..

GenBuhari:
What is not clear? I am still hear for clarification.

The woman is hurt.
That is what l see.

GenBuhari:
I am right now in UK and she recently travelled to Nigeria without telling me although we live under same roof in UK. Some one who has done what she did can never gain my trust again. She can never apologise and for that reason I can never settle our issue and trust her.

what exactly did you do that woman not to forgive you?

Tonyx5:
All we think about is yansh all the time Odiegwu

na enu egwu..
Ike gwuru..

VEHINTOLAR:
I can relate with that man's resolve to be truly committed to his wife. I can't even think of cheating on my wife; she is just too good to me as a wife and mother of my beautiful children. If that's the definition of being a "SIMP",it feels really good to be one !

God bless you..

kenodrill:
Sad truth my sister!

There is no truth.
Ur decision to leave will have a negative impact on u,ur children,ur siblings,ur parents and others too.
No matter how much money you have u can't take a place of man in raising ur kids.
Can't u find it in your heart to forgive him?

My husband will block me kneeling
" Find it in your heart to forgive me'
Are u saying after months of begging u will still leave?
I'm happy l was able to forgive him.and m happier now than ever bc.

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

MODIFIED

Y'all can quote me till thy kingdom come.

There's of course a few exception to the rule but most women who left cheating me had their own source of income and could do well without the man.

Check out the "I'm staying for the kids" crew,na because them no fit take care of the children and themselves.

sis,
U put a lot of things in consideration before u make a decision.
If d man is not repentat the u can leave.

Children needs their parent love and care.
When u HV a man dat loves you and he cheated and was remorseful wouldn't u give him a second chance?

I forgive my h.usband bc that is what is best for us.
Honestly l HV not regretted it bc the love between us is renewed.
If there is another life,l will marry him again

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

Baby girl,
I disagree with you,the level of my husband cheating was too and way high but l let go when he showed he was repentat and remorsefully begging.
It was a long journey,a couple of times l packed my bag but l couldn't go ,firstly l wondered how they will cópe
And l HV a couple of other reasons for letting go.and the children is d number one.

Nedangel:
Other things like her self development..
Abeg stop putting thoughts in my head.

l honestly think u need divine help.
U need God to tame those rubbish tendencies.
Get closer to God..

pocohantas:
This would be VERY traumatic for me.

u funny..

thorpido:
Children no dey house?

na boys
Is normal to them but sometimes they hide themselves and HV a good laugh..

November24:
Lol... Better for me sir... Let him just open it

him go say he Dee him house.
And honestly someone needs to free himself especially after wearing wearing the whole day..

What of a husband that doesn't wear anything?
I mean totally naked walking round the apartment.
Abeg free d guy..

walemoney007:
From MTN or from a third party?

third party