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Senoye:
It is the *my second wife* that shocked me. The declaration without any iota of remorse has shown he is undermining his wife and kids. Why do you have to cheat on your wife...and as if that is not enough, you didn't use protection..as if that wasn't enough, you are making announcement that is senseless. People will see fire and put their hands inside it.

What was he actually looking for? The real wife has 3 boys and 1 girl


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To people saying he has right to marry more than one wife, I don't disagree with you. However before you enter into an agreement or relationship with someone, most of these things would have been sorted out and I believe with the comment of the wife, this wasn't part of the agreement. Did you hear Alaafin of Oyo's wife complain about marrying more wives? If your wife doesn't know and support you from the beginning that you intend to marry another wife later in future, then it means you have betrayed her trust.

Your days Wii be long..
Iseeeeeeeee..

Stallionhorse:
A man wanted a male child so he choose to marry another woman!! More over its part of our culture to marry as many as we can take care of.. Happiness should be Paramount in life not what people think or expect from you.. Nobody holy pass!!? Congrats man!! May God bless and protect your family.. May God also give us the strength and courage to marry more than one too.. Amen!!

Ebenebe..
Mbe a gaba.

tiffanyfan:
Yeah ....5yrs is too much but I know someone that gets pregnant after four to five months, and she will be claiming fertile....even the husband is tired but what can he do ?. She says protections doesn't work for her

like me l HV 2 boys both are in ss1 and js2. I had them within 2yrs 3 months they are growing to be friends infact they are best friends..
So many advantages giving birth within a reasonable range.
Especially for women.l can't go in details here.

Decide how many u want 2 or 3 is ok.
Then do sharp sharp and forget about child bearing and Hussle hard.

U will never regret it.

If u even wait longer cost of things are going higher everyday.
When l gave birth to my last l bot small Pampers diaper for #350 now is in thousands.

M just worried about my fellow woman health and life ..
Please do give it a good thought.
God will provide for u.

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

pls let her have it now.
Giving too much Gap is not too good for her.
5 years is rather too long.
E no go easy and complication fit follow
Our body dey some how.

Change your environment..
Some building are demonic

There is some houses u will live in no matter how u pray and Hussle nothing will work.

Nicepoker:
This thread should be in jokes section.

l agree with you..

blindjustice13:
please do.

Don't mind those guys that are here telling you to mind your business,they too are guilty of cheating,they are all birds of a feather. Bunch of disloyal hegoats who for want faithful and loyal wives.

Nigerians are the most wicked and despicable set of Humans you will come across in the world. Imagine people supporting a cheating husband not knowing the implication it is having on the innocent wife at home.

For the sake of humanity and decency, let that woman know , which ever way you can. And God will bless you richly for it.

God bless u
God will bless you and ur generation for not supporting evil.

HUSTLER001:
I've quit every bad habit I ever had but you see beer,impossicant!

ok naw body go tell u when time comes..


Drink water instead.

AntiMen:
At first I liked him..
Until he started giving me unnecessary attention,that's when crushing began.

As I talk to you, I'm in church ,I try as much as possible to focus on my purpose for coming but my mind keeps wandering cos he's here....

I think the best bet is to tell him to avoid me, probably that will make me feel better....
Or I pray he gets transferred from here.

do not make the mistake of telling anyone anything.
Kill the nonsense feeling.
You have the capacity to do so.

Na Wetin u call ur dog naim people go de call am.

premierlead:
I think it would be better sending her away as I don't want to be faced with depression or hypertension at this stage of life, though she has been begging for another chance. Thinking of reporting her to mum and her people

report her
Don't keep it to urself..

ChoCho54:
What the eyes does not see, the heart does not grief about.

is good to check phone sometimes.

Cheerycherry:
This is not the first time! I'm very open! I'm not an SU, I'm not a wrapper tying wife, I've talked to him, done all sorts even when I'm dead tired I give in to sex in different forms! Is there anything else?

Tame him through ur knees..
It works.

funkmrflexx:
I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

my question is can she continue paying d rent after d first?
Having issues with one baby mama is my bq now.
Since after d first payment from baby daddy na wahala to pay.

GetUmad:
Eh yah! So sorry bro. Could be so annoying. I returned mine immediately and added money to get a bigger one, this time a down-to-earth brand.

Don't worry, you'd surely get a buyer.

which brand is that?

GratefulHeart23:
Cheating happens a lot these days. Her husband even respected her by not bringing the gf home. Mine decided to bring home his coz I now work and stay on the island. Was I bothered? NO!

I noticed each weekend I go home, the bowl of stew and soup I prepare the previous week would have finished and my husband is not the cooking type. He kept giving excuses of how his friends do pay visit during the week and finish it off. I became confused when he told me to prepare peppered snail few weekends back and I know he doesn't eat snail. I knew he would lie if I asked him why so I decided to check his phone, there it was, the lady giving him orders of the food I should prepare when I come around during the weekend. She even told him he must buy her the type of my blue heels she saw on the rack.

So I got this ZP lethal powder for rodents, coat and fry the snail with it to make it crunchy. Sincerely, I really didn't care if he eat the snail along with her at that point. So two weekends ago, I saw her messages on his phone of how he's such an asshole, abandoned her in the hospital, didn't finish paying her bills and have the guts to dump her stuffs by her side on the hospital bed with his response of how they both ate the same food for two days and only her got sick meaning she knew she was getting sick before coming over, he's exhausted all his money on her, have his rent to renew plus she knows he's married and can't be with her or tend to her needs all the time.

When I checked bowl I used to ice the snail, it was only three pieces left which I quickly discarded coz of my son. Some idiots really don't deserve mercy.

My dear nob only u..
Foolish mumu husband everywhere

advanceDNA:
He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...

it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...

sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck..

us 100%correct..

legge4:
I have tried peeing before we make love but it didn't stop anything. I couldn't continue to endure it so I told her I am filing for divorce, she can keep one of the houses and other stuff so her settling to normal life won't be a problem. She refuses my offer. She said if my lawyer issues her the divorce paper she will accept it but she won't take a dime from me. Why will she make it look like I am the evil person? I love her but I can't take this anymore. How do I settle with her and we don't have bad blood? I know a lot of you will condemn me but I will like you to put me in your shoe. We are not talking about a girlfriend but a wife that we are supposed to grow old together. I want this to end in peace. It is not a easy decision for me either.

The other woman you want to replace her with do u know what her own issue will be?
Ua really mean o..

If u truly love her this shouldn't lead to divorce..

tibatobi:
The people that use it 95% in this our society today is olosho...u cant find any responsible being in our society today with a leg chain, responsible married women don't use it... Olosho, single mothers ..etc damaged women all together use it ...I don't need any research..na olosho dey use am...even u be olosho..I detest olosho because they are daughters of jezebel... Devil's hand tools to destroy men and homes

God bless you Jare..
I agree with you
My husband side chick then wears it.
She nearly destroyed my marriage..
I handed her over to God.

tibatobi:
Na olosho symbol..ur friend is olosho..a damage woman..that is not fit to get married to any responsible man....a wayward person cannot work in a sain environment

exactly..

ityP:
I told someone this o. I'd profile any girl with leg chain as a loose babe tbh. I know it sounds somehow, but that's just me

ua correct..
Is not just u.

symbianDON:
Quite profitable....until they turn on you one day and bite the living daylights out of you...then they become unprofitable

u can't kill me laf for here..

Gentlerespect76:
I pity you; someone's daughter. If you are old enough to marry please do so, rather than this.

May your days be looooong
Iseeeeee....

discojug:
We have done this, 3 different ones sef

please let her try eating cucumber morning and night and comot ur mind on anything and c how a common cucumber will u get the miracle u desire..

Rtk5:
A job that i sometimes spend 4months at a stretch without salary?

ok
No wonder..
Da Lord is ur strenght



Chai,
It is well with you..

HenryDion:
Hmmm... It's obvious you don't like the job nor your director, and have been nursing the thought to leave.

Despite all my achievements, I'm ready to greet someone 10 times if I see them 10 times that day.

In this case, you barged into a room full of people, then barged out without greeting?

That's weird.

Your responses to your director exudes arrogance. I probably would have fired you at the spot if I were in his shoe.

Once hunger wire you in this Buhari era, your brain will reset.

exactly my thought.

Apologise for what exactly?

u should have said " oh good morning sir.
I HV greeted u b4..
Simple.

dapatro:
But you sha like wahala small ooo

Why didn't you apologize at the beginning and move on

l de tell you..
Simple issue over Sabi go take over.
No be small wahala..

loosingfaith519:
I wish he could be opened like you. I would have gladly help him.
We always talked about this, he has promised severally to stop. When I mentioned it now, he would tell me not to take him back to his past, but he is still doing it. Even yesterday, he still Gambles.

please dear
I understand how you feel but try and stay strong till u give birth.

If u truly love him try and see what u can do to help him get out of that shit
again prayer works tell God what you want.

Felimax:
God bless you too madam.
God's divine peace fall on your home in Jesus name.

Amen..
Thanks..

Felimax:
Don't divorce him. Work on him please. Any small thing divorce, now you are pregnant, you have a baby and you are here shouting divorce so that when you raise your children alone the society will add their own to help you make them to be useless.

Never underestimate the presence of a father in the house, Never!
Keep your mouth shut and talk to your God.

For every spouse we are married to there is a cross to carry and the only one who can make it lighter for you is God.

like u already..
God bless you.

Pasima:
For 8 months we are dating na only once I bleep her and since she keep given me pussy to suck. I always give her money yet I don't see the love

hey u want kill me here wt laf..
Nothing wee l never read here.

U guys should just let this matter rest..
Haba!