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odimbannamdi:
Please snap the data plate (sticker) at the back and upload here. Also stae your location. Thanks

Ndidi2:
2018

30card:
Pics and model number of 55”

Vision101:
Spiritual cobweb is real. As a pastor I have handled several cases. It has happened to people that are very educated. I remember the case of one female lawyer.

The truth is that spiritual things cannot be believed and understood by the natural man.

Spiritual cobweb is the manifestation of the spirit of stagnation and limitation. When you deal with it very well it will stop but there are chances of it coming back if the fire around you go down.

To be permanently free the fire must be on for a long time. This is called maintenance of deliverance.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Find your way to MFM prayer city for deliverance ASAP!

You can do the deliverance several times until you are free and begin to see changes.

Kreddy:
hmm,the bitter truth is that "the cobwebs cannot be used to tie sticks but can be used to tie down human beings"

mysticwarrior:
A man once told me that he was experiencing strange cobwebs coming his way, and this cobweb usually comes whenever he was expecting something good. He complained of noticing disappointment after he had encounter with this cobwebs, pls I don't have deep understanding on spirituality and I don't know if its real or not.

Kobojunkie:
Look, there are no spiritual cobwebs out there to get you and yes, your mind is indeed what is continually playing these tricks on you. What you need is to visit a professional mental health care professional to help you learn how to beat your mind at its game.

Make an appointment and go in to get treatment to help you rise up and out of what is the doldrums and start taking charge of your own life and decisions instead of giving bulllsheet excuses.

Sominablack:
Greeting Nairalanders,
My wifes attitude has been unbecoming, disrespectful, avoiding intimacy for months, insultive and always playing the silent treatment which I have learnt to ignore. Her mum visited and confirmed these attitude, she did counsel and advised her to change yet she was reluctant and stated she dont want to continue being a wife that she has lost love and feelings for me because I want things to be done decently and in order in my family which she is opposed to. Having observed this her mum left angrily and told the matter to her husband to confirm some of the issues of my wifes behaviour which I had stressed on and as a result had a family meeting with her family since I was invited not long ago.

Now with the attitude still being displayed by her, her dad asked me to come down to the village by next week so the issue will be discussed in their larger family so that my wife would come and explain to them why she is behaving the way she is doing, but not up to three months we had a meeting and now this one billed for next week again.I dont feel like honouring the meeting because I have done my best to follow peace even though I cannot fathom where I am at fault. At this juncture what do I do?

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This don't scare me, I don't believe a man can harm me this way or my family.
I can't Marry her corpse

Ishilove:
I'm laughing because I don't know how else to react. You will live with a man for several years and think you know him, and then wake up one day and realise the only person you truly know in this life is yourself.

What really do these men want?

Senoye:
It is the *my second wife* that shocked me. The declaration without any iota of remorse has shown he is undermining his wife and kids. Why do you have to cheat on your wife...and as if that is not enough, you didn't use protection..as if that wasn't enough, you are making announcement that is senseless. People will see fire and put their hands inside it.

What was he actually looking for? The real wife has 3 boys and 1 girl


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To people saying he has right to marry more than one wife, I don't disagree with you. However before you enter into an agreement or relationship with someone, most of these things would have been sorted out and I believe with the comment of the wife, this wasn't part of the agreement. Did you hear Alaafin of Oyo's wife complain about marrying more wives? If your wife doesn't know and support you from the beginning that you intend to marry another wife later in future, then it means you have betrayed her trust.

Stallionhorse:
A man wanted a male child so he choose to marry another woman!! More over its part of our culture to marry as many as we can take care of.. Happiness should be Paramount in life not what people think or expect from you.. Nobody holy pass!!? Congrats man!! May God bless and protect your family.. May God also give us the strength and courage to marry more than one too.. Amen!!

tiffanyfan:
Yeah ....5yrs is too much but I know someone that gets pregnant after four to five months, and she will be claiming fertile....even the husband is tired but what can he do ?. She says protections doesn't work for her

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

Nicepoker:
This thread should be in jokes section.

blindjustice13:
please do.

Don't mind those guys that are here telling you to mind your business,they too are guilty of cheating,they are all birds of a feather. Bunch of disloyal hegoats who for want faithful and loyal wives.

Nigerians are the most wicked and despicable set of Humans you will come across in the world. Imagine people supporting a cheating husband not knowing the implication it is having on the innocent wife at home.

For the sake of humanity and decency, let that woman know , which ever way you can. And God will bless you richly for it.

HUSTLER001:
I've quit every bad habit I ever had but you see beer,impossicant!

AntiMen:
At first I liked him..
Until he started giving me unnecessary attention,that's when crushing began.

As I talk to you, I'm in church ,I try as much as possible to focus on my purpose for coming but my mind keeps wandering cos he's here....

I think the best bet is to tell him to avoid me, probably that will make me feel better....
Or I pray he gets transferred from here.

premierlead:
I think it would be better sending her away as I don't want to be faced with depression or hypertension at this stage of life, though she has been begging for another chance. Thinking of reporting her to mum and her people

ChoCho54:
What the eyes does not see, the heart does not grief about.

Cheerycherry:
This is not the first time! I'm very open! I'm not an SU, I'm not a wrapper tying wife, I've talked to him, done all sorts even when I'm dead tired I give in to sex in different forms! Is there anything else?

funkmrflexx:
I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

GetUmad:
Eh yah! So sorry bro. Could be so annoying. I returned mine immediately and added money to get a bigger one, this time a down-to-earth brand.

Don't worry, you'd surely get a buyer.

GratefulHeart23:
Cheating happens a lot these days. Her husband even respected her by not bringing the gf home. Mine decided to bring home his coz I now work and stay on the island. Was I bothered? NO!

I noticed each weekend I go home, the bowl of stew and soup I prepare the previous week would have finished and my husband is not the cooking type. He kept giving excuses of how his friends do pay visit during the week and finish it off. I became confused when he told me to prepare peppered snail few weekends back and I know he doesn't eat snail. I knew he would lie if I asked him why so I decided to check his phone, there it was, the lady giving him orders of the food I should prepare when I come around during the weekend. She even told him he must buy her the type of my blue heels she saw on the rack.

So I got this ZP lethal powder for rodents, coat and fry the snail with it to make it crunchy. Sincerely, I really didn't care if he eat the snail along with her at that point. So two weekends ago, I saw her messages on his phone of how he's such an asshole, abandoned her in the hospital, didn't finish paying her bills and have the guts to dump her stuffs by her side on the hospital bed with his response of how they both ate the same food for two days and only her got sick meaning she knew she was getting sick before coming over, he's exhausted all his money on her, have his rent to renew plus she knows he's married and can't be with her or tend to her needs all the time.

When I checked bowl I used to ice the snail, it was only three pieces left which I quickly discarded coz of my son. Some idiots really don't deserve mercy.

advanceDNA:
He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...

it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...

sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck..

legge4:
I have tried peeing before we make love but it didn't stop anything. I couldn't continue to endure it so I told her I am filing for divorce, she can keep one of the houses and other stuff so her settling to normal life won't be a problem. She refuses my offer. She said if my lawyer issues her the divorce paper she will accept it but she won't take a dime from me. Why will she make it look like I am the evil person? I love her but I can't take this anymore. How do I settle with her and we don't have bad blood? I know a lot of you will condemn me but I will like you to put me in your shoe. We are not talking about a girlfriend but a wife that we are supposed to grow old together. I want this to end in peace. It is not a easy decision for me either.

tibatobi:
The people that use it 95% in this our society today is olosho...u cant find any responsible being in our society today with a leg chain, responsible married women don't use it... Olosho, single mothers ..etc damaged women all together use it ...I don't need any research..na olosho dey use am...even u be olosho..I detest olosho because they are daughters of jezebel... Devil's hand tools to destroy men and homes

tibatobi:
Na olosho symbol..ur friend is olosho..a damage woman..that is not fit to get married to any responsible man....a wayward person cannot work in a sain environment

ityP:
I told someone this o. I'd profile any girl with leg chain as a loose babe tbh. I know it sounds somehow, but that's just me