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Mrkumareze:
You fear she may cheat , oga travel first, relocation is another wahala of its own. When you settle, study the wellbeing of your self and family there before bringing them along (if u think it ll be ok).. meanwhile, na dog wey we see sh*t for him mouth we dey accuse of eating sh*t, that no means say others no dey chop sh*t.. be careful, chop n clean mouth well.

chop clean mouth?
Cheating is evil,
Don't support it..
Don't encourage it..

TVTKOKO:
I dey read your pathetic story dey vex! You are the sole cause of your problem and if you want a change, it gotta start with you!

She's supposed to break your head actually because if reverse was the case, you'd done worse!

God bless u Jare..
Cheaters are pigs..

Yale9:
what is more reasonable to do?

1. Walk out of the marriage, since you do not agree with his ideals or personality.

2. Become a violent and viscous animal and start destroying things at will

not good to destroy things.
Everyone react differently.
I hate cheaters!!!!

Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

repent from ur cheating habit.
Is painful to find out that the only man u love and can take a bullet for is disrespecting u .
I honestly hate cheating pigs..

moralistic:
.. Bros , I beg you in the name of God or Allah; which ever One you like....

Please don't take her with you...

Settle things with her, sit her down and talk, tell her parents to caution her, report her attitude to her pastor and a whole lots of bullshit people will advise you....

Don't listen to them, your wife no fit change at all, the best you can do and you have been doing is the fact that you don't get physical with her.....

But when it comes to your survivability, your prestige; which is the money and freedom you have..... imagine you loose your freedom and money ....haahhahhhhhhhahhhh... that will be a brain factory reset..but it may be too late...


I think I am typing too much...incase you don't know, I am married too.

condemn his useless cheating habit.
When a good woman loves u dearly and all u could do is to be cheating on her.
Is heartbreaking!
Cheating means those girls sees u,touch u and do all sort and u give them money and then u go to ur wife and sleep with her and then tell her u love her.

pte author=Lasunray01 post=110039712]Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you[/quote]stop cheating
Do you really think is fun or funny knowing ur spouse shares intimate moments with strange women?

Orente21:
Thank for this motivation.
I am a private school teacher, but I ll try my best.i appreciate. He must find favor by fire by force.

cheating shouldn't be an option.
Hold hands while praying with your spouse and children if u have any,
God will answer u..
Telling u out of experience

Massab:
What is URGENT about a said RELOCATION SALES posted without prices

funny you
U made me laugh..

HenryDion:
If you're wise, you'll bail out now. A crying woman is a manipulative woman and can never be trusted.

a crying woman is not manipulative.
Some are too emotional.

Carchoice:
No matter what you people post about marriage. you will not discourage me from getting married when I am ready.

I want to marry two wives on the same day.

l doubt two will be enough..
Step up a bit.

capnies:
I WOULD LOOK AT IT FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE, DOES YOUR WIFE HAVE HIGH. LIBIDO, CAN. YOU SATISFY HER. HOW FREQUENT DO YOU CUDDLE HER, REMEMBER A MANS DUTY IS TO SATISFY THE WIFE NOT HIMSELF. ORGASM IS WHAT MANY WOMEN DON'T EXPERIENCE IN THEIR LIFETIME, IF A LADY MEETS THE MAN THAT CAN TAKE HER THERE SORRY N SORRY. CHECK YOURSELF, IF YOU ARE A FOUR MINUTES MAN, THEN GO LEARN FROM THE MASTERS, DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED, BECAUSE FROM YOUR STORY YOU TRULY LOVE THE LADY, BUT LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS ENOUGH

love is not enough.
But the woman is a b-itch

veedboss:
Same boat here.....are you in Lagos?
I intend starting this Year

my children will do d nursing.
I don't think l can cope..

Will never buy naija used electronics especially frigde bc l don't know d history.
Brand new is better bc u will enjoy it at least for 10 years B4 it will starts having issues

l ote author=xld07 post=108395348]
About 3 minutes after sharing this yesterday, my phone buzzed repeatedly only to find out the CO was calling. When I returned his call, he said dearygally had called that I went online to bully her (referring to the message in quote which was not only an attempt at closing the e-case I brought on here but to cement the fact that we had arrived at a conclusion and everything is good. I only responded to sanchez and one other person who asked how it ended. If I was a bully like you claimed, you wouldn't even be walking around freely as you are but all of that is in the past now as I moved on since yesterday.

All I would advise anyone expecting to buy from this thread is that, as much as possible, AVOID MIDDLEMEN, particularly when it involves electronics. In the event that they sell you a bad item, believe me, they don't have the resources to pay you back and the arrogance and pride they carry around is their only defense mechanism that they expect to bail them out when shiit hits the fan. If any product is uploaded here, do a simple Google reverse search and you will find out that the product they advertised on here is on Jiji.[/quote]l will never buy used nija electronics except l know d history.

Kriss216:
These girls hoe every Thyme.

l use to think women have dignity.
Until l saw one girl living with my in-laws brought a married man inside their one room when d man went to church.

And so many of them like that.

WillyWonda1:
Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

Tha nk God u even c it.
Don't marry a harlot.
Don't forgive her since ua not married bc u will be suspecting her moves now.l hate cheaters

seanwilliam:
and starving your husband sexually is right abi? Abi dem no tell you sex is very important to man as much as money is important to woman ..


Dey there. Don’t do the needful . By the time u no see am for house again, your eyes go clear

my husband own is not sex starving.he comes home wkends.during the week he will say holdup is too much,that hecant be coming week days not knowing he has a 31 year old fool that should be in husband house.

Acidosis:
You all should stop blaming your wives. She's not the reason you all couldn't control yourselves before marriage. If you're the type of guy that stayed away from pre-marital sex or sex with too many random women, living with your wife for months without sex during pregnancy or child birth wouldn't be an issue. 1 month after child birth, and some of you're thinking about side chicks. Is sex the only thing you all did with your lives as bachelors?? Just one month oo!

Some of you slept with at least 6 girls per month before marriage. Now as a married man, you want your wife to take over and do the work of 6 ol.osho while also attending to house chores and corporate responsibilities. More often than not, you guys are the problems in your marriage. By the way, this thread is disg.usting.

very very disgusting
They are always thinking of d pleasure nobody is talking about the consequences of the action.

No good girl will ever be an olosho called sidechick to a married man.

supereagle:
Most of you women push men out. When a woman starts denying her husband, she is tempting the man to go out.

not all
Cheating nearly destroyed me
I nearly died bc l had an ectopic pregnancy for my 3rd baby of infection.
It was bad.
Husband has been sleeping with oloshos called sidechick without protection for years
Can u imagine that?
If l tell u details of the cheating u will be shocked how far and low a man can go to sleep with people's daughter.

How can a reasonable and responsible man stoop low to be allowing a random woman toying with his manhood?

If what you are doing is good y hiding it?
Let ur wife know u HV a side chick and c how ur life will be.

I have prayer for any woman that has slept with my husband.

Preshieben:
I am on it already

Depending on his location.

just hope ua kidding_ right?
Do not do married men

Debodimeji01:
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My brother... its not funny ohhhhh...
These ladies can make a man run mad.
And I will strongly advise you don't go the path of side chuck. The Ripple effect(s) its gonna have on your family and marriage will be mad.

Find a way to talk to your wife about it. I had same experience but was able to sort things out with my wife. At the beginning of our marriage... before we gave birth... na my wife do disturb almost every night. Now, we have 2boys, na once or most times, twice now I get to have that awesome experience and I think I am okay with that so person go fit channel remaining energy for something more productive

God bless u Jare
No be all these irresponsible husband doing side chick.
I hate men dat can't keep their marriage vows.

Mrkumareze:
Op, we are in the same shoe but mine is a bit different cos I have always have alternatives to things.. I got like 4 side chick out there.. infact I'm going out to have two today... Just let your wife be, if she wan chop her toto na she sabi... go out there, it must not be all about money.. I don't always tell my side chick I got a wife, I ball like single guys out there...

quote me
U will regret ever cheating on that woman except she had slept with someone 'shusband
Cheating nearly destroyed and kill me .
I HV not recovered emotionally after finding out my loving husband is sleeping around.

I hate men that cheat on their wives for whatever reason.
Is heartbreaking finding out that the man u love could be opening his body for olosho in the name of side chick.

No good girl will ever have something doing with someone'shusband.

okoroemeka:
in a case like this that the man choose not to have a side chick due to one or two factors then the only option is masturbation,I cannot encourage going to ashawo for sex ,but on the other hand the only constraint on having a side chick is finance,there are different grades and categories of beautiful, reasonable and neat women that needs just a man like you,there are many that are available and will not create a hole in your pocket,you just have to look in places not looked before,a treasure is found in unexpected areas,my side chick is from a very poor family,a beautiful girl no doubt and appreciate every 10 Kobo given to her.Rule no 1 of having a side chick is never be jealous,let her have her freedom of choice and association,don't ever try to limit her to be your possession only,if there are other men then your financial commitment will be pocket friendly, so long she services you every well

go and repent bc it will not end well.

dearygally:
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picture of the dining pls

shariff84:
ok,I will join own if I get another order from lagos.thanks

ok

shariff84:
thanks alot,as I speak now iam in a border town between Nigeria and benin republic for three days buying one full truck of suyabeans for a nairalander.

make me ur 4th wife pleeeeaasssee..
Ua a nice guy from the chat l HV had with you.
Even when u don't reply ur WhatsApp msg l make excuses for u knowing ua dbusy type.
When a nice person make mistakes we make excuses for them knowing they are human.

I still need #15k goat

adeniyy:
If this isn't too small for 14k please contact 08027525351/07039220236

l need this in Lagos
Pls kindly reply me.

seankafor:
I see that too, I seen people call their mom aunty and I wonder why?

Haven't even asked them why? Felt they would find it degrading and insulting

Some copied it from a house help or relatives who calls their mum auntie.

Viraltrends123:
I love this guy. Our music industry is really trying, gone are the days where you hardly hear Nigerian music in club, birthday parties and even wedding, due to low self-esteem, but now even in clubs abroad, they prefer to play Wizkid, Davido or burna boy's music. I just hope our movie industry will step up, and just Nollywood to the world, presently an average Nigerian would rather watch American movie or Chinese movie without even understand what they are saying, imagine

l don't watch naija movies bc u can predict the end from d beginning..

jaksmillioniar:
hello rooms. I have a problem and is paining me. am a mature guy who know what is singleness and maried .most mock me but I got married.we got a baby last year a corona baby. am not ashame to say it dat at my age am still a mummy boy and she is my number one but I respect my wife. wen I want to marry my wife Neva gree dat I got a house close to my mum place. I feel very bad but I want to make her happy so we move far my mom was angry as she know my wife force me. wen I born my wife mum came for omugo instead of my mum and dat made her so sad dat she cried and ask if am a barstard dat let dem steal her right. i begged her.she came for naming and left same day I notice d way my wife was acting rude too cos her mum is pushing her. I now told my wife dat mum is angry let visit buy her gift cost her place is now far. she keep posting dat her body is not strong for 5 month as I think she took me and my family as a fool. I got angry and slap her twice. as she saw am really angry she begged me. so we go and see her we are all happy and settle all. as my child reach 10 month I tell her to tell her mum to go cos shes now strong almost to walk. the mum go but my mum want to come spend holiday as she Neva do dat since I born. wen I told my wife I see how she change face . wen my mum come i travel she Neva cook for her but warm soup in freezer to give her. my mum hate dat called me and was crying dat will she do dat to her mum. so I pretend noting happen as I got back I buy things from eatry for family so my mum left afta 2 weeks
I now bring d issue up and she just ansa me anyhow dat way wrong in giving her second hand food dat she will give her mum too. I now got angry and beat her. I Neva injure her. all and some other thing . I love my wife I cant be beating her all d time she promise to change yet non. becos of bad caracter I refuse to take her to eatry. she now want to deny me sex until I slap sence into her. marraige has challenge is not easy.

can't even beat my 13 year old now,let alone d mother of ur child..

Aloedamz:
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l will like the 2 wall art@ #8000
What is d location and d number

Ofp1:
Is it only first registrar that does this?

l didn't mandate my shares with them but all my stale dividend and the ones l bought this year has been credited to my bank account.