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ststyreal:
Please don't say this... Imagine the man is married to either your sister, niece or cousin... What will be your response? And that man can infect the woman with a deadly virus like HIV, thereby destroying the life of that innocent woman. If you can help save the situation, why not do it. Whether there is heaven or not, as human, our conscience is there to judge us when we support and cover evil. Our motto in life as should be " to treat people, the way we want to be treated". When we cover evil, we are indirectly part of the evil and will in one way or the other, partake in the punishment thereafter. I might be saying nonsense or thrash to you but honestly, i am typing from a concern heart as i have witness a man infect his innocent wife with a deadly virus as hiv from his infidelity....

ua not saying trash.
Ua honest God bless you.

That is how my sweet husband was sleeping with girls in their family house and everyone looked away waiting for me to find out bc they said they don't want to spoil our marriage.( He infected me seriously)
When l found out it was terrible.
Is been 1 year 2 months now and m still freaking out.
But thank God he has repented however a lot of things have changed.

Srobinson:
This country ehnnnnnn

Coach Hope, see wetin you cause now o...

I remembered your story when this happened to me yesterday �

I took my car to car wash o, said let me go to market.

When I finish they must have also finished washing the car...

The guy was like, no problem ma... Once you come, it will be ready.

Na so I carry bike go market, thinking how to manage the small change in my purse...

I don tire to withdraw because the account don less like deflated ball... So so withdraw, withdraw...

No be so I buy finish, instead of taking bike back to car wash, carry my motor, na so I blow bike pass car wash go house...

I saw the car o � but e no register say na my car...

I got home, enter kitchen, cook, we ate and I balance...I didn't remember my car...

Till night o �, as I was about locking the door, I just said let me survey outside as I usually do... The spot I usually park the car was empty...

My chest cut ��������

Jesus...my car, where my car I started asking my children...

See ehn, money good o �

See what over analysis caused because of the way money dey go unto expensive foodstuff...

Then I remembered �

Car wash o

Car wash, my car is still there o...

Na so I begin pick race �, without cash to pay or slippers...

Na so I remember again, ran back home, carry money, put leg inside my children slippers, oyaaaaaaa, marathon part two...

I no even remember wear bra, na hand I take support the ministry... At some point, I left them in God's hands because the run no come fast again...

Ah...them don dey close for the day, my car was the only one there, the guy was like, madam I for help you bring am when we pack up finish (my regular cleaner)...

Panting, I say thank you, I don come now...

The relief as I enter my motor ehn...

Chai �

Before person go hold key for hand dey look for the key again inside dustbin because he born children full house...

God abeg o �

#ItCanOnlyGetBetter

#Pix: The way my head was full wey make me forget a whole jeep for car wash, carry bike go house...

� ChikaOnuu

youaresofunny..
I don laf tire.

bivoprad:
I wouldn't know......but I don't think there should be a restriction

thank you.

Eyinju112:
We women ain’t stupid...
How do you want to cheat someone and still find peace... let me tell you this
There is no peace in the home of a man that cheats his wife... she was lovely when you first met her and that was why you picked a relationship with her,, then all of a sudden she is no longer attractive to you cause she’s troublesome

Mr writer check yourself

This woman in question with definitely have something to say about your attitude towards her sudden change

l bet he is cheating on the wife.
He is not telling us everything.

okine4real:
Before I got married, my MOTHER SAID I WOUKD NOT MARRY MY BABE, I ASKED FOR REASONS, THE REASON BE SAY MY BABE NOR DEY COOK FOR HER, I TOLD HER, MY BABE NOR BE YOUR PIKIN, YOU GET PIKIN, TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN TO SERVE YOU, MY BABE IS NOT YOUR HOUSE MAID. I TELL HER SAY IF YOU LIKE COME MY WEDDING, IF YOU LIKE KNOW COME, I GO WED HER. MAMA NOR GET CHOICE NOW, SHE COME, SHE DEY STRONG FACE FOR THE WEDDING, ME JUST DEY ENJOY MY DAY. TODAY SHE DONE GIVE ME 4 KIDS, NA BUHARI I DEY LOOK TO DECIDE IF I GO, GO FIR THE 5TH ONE. WHEN I MEET HER I NOR DEY WORK, TODAY I GET MORE THAN 15 TENANTS FOR LAGOS.

NOW LISTEN SON, KNOW BE EVERYTHING YOUR MAMA OR PAPA TELL YOU, YOU GO DO, THE REASON YOU ARE CALLED A MAN IS BECSUSE YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO USE YOUR BRAIN TO THINK, WHEN INFORMATION IS PASSED TO YOU, ANALYZE IT, LOOK AT THE INFORMATION USING 3D FORMAT, I BE I.T GUY DATS WHIKE I SAY 3D, THEN ATTACK THE ISSUE FROM THE BEST VIEW. WHEN MY MUM WAS REJECTING MY BABE, ONE THING WAS IN MY HEAD, SHEY NA MY MAMA GO LEAVE WITH THIS WOMAN ABI NA ME. SO SINCE NA ME GO LEAVE WITH THE WOMAN, I JUST BONE MY MAMA. NEXT YEAR OUR MARRIAGE WOUKD BE 10 YEARS, SHE IS STILL THE BEST FRIEND I HAVE IN THE WHOLE WORLD, WE CAN GOSSIP FOR 5 HOURS EVERYDAY, E NOR DEY TIRE US. I ALWAYS TELL GUYS, NOR because OF PUSSY GO MARRY WOMAN WHEN GO GIVE YOU WAHALA, IN MARRIAGE, PUSSY GO TIRE YOU, FLEXING GO TIRE YOU, YOU NEED A WOMAN THAT IS STRONG ,REASONABLE, DEPENDANT, WOMAN WHEN GO EVEN HELP YOU WARE RAG GO THAT THINGS GO PURE TOMORROW. LL

Let me just chimp in this, my wife once wore tertared pants because we where building, today all rents, I repeat all rents goes to her, eevn as she collect the rest, she go still dey use the money they pursue me say make I take, I go tell am say I know want...

Young guys nobody dey do una from una village ohh, na your decide to trow away your future because of PUSSY.


CHEERS.

Badass
When ua a reasonable man,
Man wee sabi,u will enjoy ur life happily.
God bless your wife,ur children and you plenty plenty.

Writercruze:
Bro, I don't know if people will tell you the truth here, but I hope you read my comment.

Let me ask you three questions

#1. What was the attraction between you and your wife? what did you find interesting in her? Is that thing still there?

#2. Has your wife always been like this?

#3. Don't you think it's because of your feelings (rather an obsession) towards the chemical engineers that's making you to feel this way?

From what you wrote, I can reliably tell you that you are the problem in your marriage. You are married bro, and if you want to have a happy marriage, limit the number of female colleagues that call you unnecessarily while at home.

It is what it is. Your wife is only suspicious because you must have seen your chat or conversation between you and the mechanical engineer.

You gat a daughter and a woman who seems to love you, please I beg you in the name of whatever you believe in, try to make your marriage work.

have a proper conversation with your wife. Ask her to tell you the things you are doing that she doesn't like, you should tell her the things she is doing that you don't like at all.

At the end of such a conversation, you will know your boundaries and start living happily.

No woman is good o. That one you are fantasizing over (the chemical engineer), but the time you destroy your marriage because of her, you would regret it in the future.

may God bless you beyond ur expectations..

Pearlyfaze:
It is very possible to do Msc Pre-registration Adult or Mental Nurse in the UK from any field of study. What you will need to do before applying is either work as a Health care Assistant or Volunteer as one, doing this will increase your chances of getting admission.

Congratulations on your Marriage. Please do note that Marriage in the West is different from what we have in Africa.

Na Partnership west dey do nor be African i be head (male), you be tail(woman)

please is there age limit in applying for a nursing job in the UK from school of nursing
Someone should answer me l beg of una.

bivoprad:
Shearwaters don't take nigerian nurses without BNSC with or without NCLEX

please is there age limit in applying for work in UK?

Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

heyaa kpele..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

For this twenty first century...way husband nor dey quick come house in the evening.....

Na hungry go kill the woman

Make she dey wait...
Imagine me a real niggarrr go come manage to marry last last.....then my wife go dey wait for me.....me way go dey enter house around 2am and 3am after enough booze with my niggarrrrs for bar...

Then if na the period way she take dey nag......she nor go even see me for house for like three days.....

Ebenebe..

Abidecdrock:
Available

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Ay92:
My own tremendous change is a negative one though.
I lost my mom on Friday, August 6 and since then I can't even explain the state of my mind. E still dey do me like dream

kpele
Be strong..

dearygally:
Sold...Someone just made a deposit for it

ok
Just needed 3 seater

dearygally:
3seater,2 seater and 2 single seater seats..
Ogba
08183063644
50k

y selling?
M interested

Aufbauh:
2Baba a man of peace. He'll always pursue peace at all cost by any means.

Annie really fall our hands. Bringing family matter on social media creates more problems and jeopardize means of reconciliation.

No one is perfect so Annie shouldn't be forming saint. We know her story that goes beyond Charles revelation.
Inno is taking a lot cus he knows he's also reaping the fruits of his past mistakes that has refused to wither.

ua right..

OBAGADAFFI:
I have been getting this massages from CSCS.

Please be informed that a non-trading (CERTIFICATE) account has been created for you at CSCS with the following details:

Anyone else getting this?

outstanding bonus likely.

IamR:
I got it, but I don't know what to do with it.

u HV outstanding bonus script or something like that.

Please is there an age limit to migrating with diploma in nursing?

oracle009:
Well... Someone posted my mind up there. I've been thinking about this lately. I'm hustling my butt out in a strange land, my wife and kid are at home and the boy will probably be imagining that I am not a responsible father. . Whereas, all I'm doing is to give him a good pedestal in life, while trying to see how they will join me. He won't talk to me on phone and will probably be seeing the mom as the provider


My own submission, take care of your family as a responsible husband and father. But, don't sleep on it o... Prepare for ur old age. I never wish or pray to be dependent on any kid or wife in my old age. God take me instead of such.

My opinion o... If you don't like it, congratulations to you

u sef
U funny goo..

bukatyne:
The same people singing their mothers are saints and fathers demons?

Luckily, fathers are now becoming much more intentional about parenting and would reap the rewards in their old age.

ua very intelligent.
I like you.
God bless you..

bukatyne:
@bold:

Excuse!, excuses!! excuses!!!

You guys should learn how to be intentional about parenting like mothers.

A mother would go to work and still find time to bond with her children. I know someone who got home very late at a former job and bought a diary for her daughter. The daughter would summarize her day with concerns and the mother would respond either when she comes back or on her way out the next morning.

Naturally, they would discuss whatever was required over the weekend. She also took the daughter to the saloon, market, friend's place etc. to bond.

If you do not sleep at the place of work 24 hours 7 days in a week, you can do much more than a financial sperm donor to your kids. Take them to barbing saloon with you, ask them what they learnt at school, after church/mosque ask them to summary the lessons they learnt on your way home, take an interest in their homework, the subject you know teach them yourself, once in a while take them all to the kitchen and cook/concort something, be available when they want to discuss life issues. Have enough presence/influence in their lives that they will always say 'my daddy said; my daddy thinks' etc. Lead them by example: don't lie, treat their mother with genuine love and affection, let them know you as a person of integrity, lead them in prayers, be interested in their welfare, provide emotional, spiritual, mental and social support. Train them, set appropriate boundaries then discipline them in love when they err with the aim of correction. Let them feel safe and protected when they remember you as their father. Stop saying 'go to your mother, let me rest/I am tired' when they come excited to engage you. Even if you are an atheist, pass on whatever morals you want them to have. Know their likes, dislikes and preferences. Be approachable, teach them the life skills you know (how to repairs things/paint/polish shoes/fishing/farming/electrical works/trade/gist them about your job etc.)

I DELIBRATELY LISTED THINGS THAT DO NOT INVOLVE MONEY.

Don't be a third party relying on your wife to translate your love/annoyance to them. How would she be able to 'poison them against you' when you have a relationship with them?

I remember a scene I was blessed to witness and I have said it here several times: A keke driver drove his kids around the street on a fine Saturday morning to bond with them. Do you know the snacks they had? The akara their mother fried at home. And they were freaking happy. Back then, the man would not spend more than N1k to fuel the keke for that trip and prepare the akara.

God bless you for this post
A wake up call for parents
Always make heartwarming memories..

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here lol.

tell me ur version of taming.
Wanna learn pls..

Lordofalmajiri:
. Sapa well done, see as 10k be like 100k for your eye.. Omo guys dey Carry okpo 50k self

10 k too much o
I know what m saying..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....

Most girls are coded runs babe ....
Just walk down to any of this hotel and you see people's girl banging for ten thousand a night

Especially if you have a whip(ride) even if it is a low budget ass car

I assure you will be banging people's girl friend and wife for ten thousand a night

you sef nawa o
10k is way to high.
U know even tuk 2k.

Honestly some ladies doesn't HV worth.

galantjoe:
Do your best and leave rest for her to decide.

Where single ladies are finding it difficult to marry talkless of single mom of two.

Plus she has nothing doing.


I don't support cheating but where it happens one have to endure because you can't expect him to abandon his blood outside just to please her,. She is selfish and self centered

pls kindly delete that last sentence.
If u HV experienced betrayal,m 100% sure u wouldn't type that.

jaxxy:
Anita should calm down. Keep ur home if ur man loves u and doesn’t beat u. This woke thing is counterproductive at the end of the day.


Let’s say she moves on, how is she sure the next man she meets or entertains won’t cheat? Bt then U’ve already divided ur precious home over same cheating ure gona experience again elsewhere.

Doesn’t make sense to me unless u want to be rotating around guys.

ua 100% right.
Keeping on bc of children is good but what if d husband doesn't want to change or remorseful?.
No one knows exactly the mode of the said cheating.

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jaxxy:
Anita shouldn’t throw paul under the bus because he did Smtn wrong. There is forgiveness in genuine love. If the marriage can be fixed let them fix it.

my dear there are some cheating that is heartbreaking that u might never forget let alone forgiving.
Is very painful that no one will understand.


How could he?
Stopping so low to be having sex with housemaids probably teenagers is...
Some people might forgive while some will never.

BKsoul:
Thanks.... am a female.

ok dear
Take heart and be strong..

BKsoul:
Am disorganized, lost my elder brother.... He died very early today,,, am weak... Almighty God come through for me and my family....

take heart bro..

Emexicoman:
Can your wife stick with you all through? if she can then you should.
I am married and I can't even fathom the thoughts of another random woman touching my pim pim

Love men like this.