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dearygally:
Sold...Someone just made a deposit for it

ok
Just needed 3 seater

dearygally:
3seater,2 seater and 2 single seater seats..
Ogba
08183063644
50k

y selling?
M interested

Aufbauh:
2Baba a man of peace. He'll always pursue peace at all cost by any means.

Annie really fall our hands. Bringing family matter on social media creates more problems and jeopardize means of reconciliation.

No one is perfect so Annie shouldn't be forming saint. We know her story that goes beyond Charles revelation.
Inno is taking a lot cus he knows he's also reaping the fruits of his past mistakes that has refused to wither.

ua right..

OBAGADAFFI:
I have been getting this massages from CSCS.

Please be informed that a non-trading (CERTIFICATE) account has been created for you at CSCS with the following details:

Anyone else getting this?

outstanding bonus likely.

IamR:
I got it, but I don't know what to do with it.

u HV outstanding bonus script or something like that.

Please is there an age limit to migrating with diploma in nursing?

oracle009:
Well... Someone posted my mind up there. I've been thinking about this lately. I'm hustling my butt out in a strange land, my wife and kid are at home and the boy will probably be imagining that I am not a responsible father. . Whereas, all I'm doing is to give him a good pedestal in life, while trying to see how they will join me. He won't talk to me on phone and will probably be seeing the mom as the provider


My own submission, take care of your family as a responsible husband and father. But, don't sleep on it o... Prepare for ur old age. I never wish or pray to be dependent on any kid or wife in my old age. God take me instead of such.

My opinion o... If you don't like it, congratulations to you

u sef
U funny goo..

bukatyne:
The same people singing their mothers are saints and fathers demons?

Luckily, fathers are now becoming much more intentional about parenting and would reap the rewards in their old age.

ua very intelligent.
I like you.
God bless you..

bukatyne:
@bold:

Excuse!, excuses!! excuses!!!

You guys should learn how to be intentional about parenting like mothers.

A mother would go to work and still find time to bond with her children. I know someone who got home very late at a former job and bought a diary for her daughter. The daughter would summarize her day with concerns and the mother would respond either when she comes back or on her way out the next morning.

Naturally, they would discuss whatever was required over the weekend. She also took the daughter to the saloon, market, friend's place etc. to bond.

If you do not sleep at the place of work 24 hours 7 days in a week, you can do much more than a financial sperm donor to your kids. Take them to barbing saloon with you, ask them what they learnt at school, after church/mosque ask them to summary the lessons they learnt on your way home, take an interest in their homework, the subject you know teach them yourself, once in a while take them all to the kitchen and cook/concort something, be available when they want to discuss life issues. Have enough presence/influence in their lives that they will always say 'my daddy said; my daddy thinks' etc. Lead them by example: don't lie, treat their mother with genuine love and affection, let them know you as a person of integrity, lead them in prayers, be interested in their welfare, provide emotional, spiritual, mental and social support. Train them, set appropriate boundaries then discipline them in love when they err with the aim of correction. Let them feel safe and protected when they remember you as their father. Stop saying 'go to your mother, let me rest/I am tired' when they come excited to engage you. Even if you are an atheist, pass on whatever morals you want them to have. Know their likes, dislikes and preferences. Be approachable, teach them the life skills you know (how to repairs things/paint/polish shoes/fishing/farming/electrical works/trade/gist them about your job etc.)

I DELIBRATELY LISTED THINGS THAT DO NOT INVOLVE MONEY.

Don't be a third party relying on your wife to translate your love/annoyance to them. How would she be able to 'poison them against you' when you have a relationship with them?

I remember a scene I was blessed to witness and I have said it here several times: A keke driver drove his kids around the street on a fine Saturday morning to bond with them. Do you know the snacks they had? The akara their mother fried at home. And they were freaking happy. Back then, the man would not spend more than N1k to fuel the keke for that trip and prepare the akara.

God bless you for this post
A wake up call for parents
Always make heartwarming memories..

Iyaebe:
Any man who impregnates another woman outside his marriage does not deserve to walk freely on the surface of the earth.I pity these naive modern generation of women who doesn't know how to sexually tame their randy husbands. No be penis wey rise for another woman go fit cheat and impregnate?let me stop here lol.

tell me ur version of taming.
Wanna learn pls..

Lordofalmajiri:
. Sapa well done, see as 10k be like 100k for your eye.. Omo guys dey Carry okpo 50k self

10 k too much o
I know what m saying..

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright .....

Most girls are coded runs babe ....
Just walk down to any of this hotel and you see people's girl banging for ten thousand a night

Especially if you have a whip(ride) even if it is a low budget ass car

I assure you will be banging people's girl friend and wife for ten thousand a night

you sef nawa o
10k is way to high.
U know even tuk 2k.

Honestly some ladies doesn't HV worth.

galantjoe:
Do your best and leave rest for her to decide.

Where single ladies are finding it difficult to marry talkless of single mom of two.

Plus she has nothing doing.


I don't support cheating but where it happens one have to endure because you can't expect him to abandon his blood outside just to please her,. She is selfish and self centered

pls kindly delete that last sentence.
If u HV experienced betrayal,m 100% sure u wouldn't type that.

jaxxy:
Anita should calm down. Keep ur home if ur man loves u and doesn’t beat u. This woke thing is counterproductive at the end of the day.


Let’s say she moves on, how is she sure the next man she meets or entertains won’t cheat? Bt then U’ve already divided ur precious home over same cheating ure gona experience again elsewhere.

Doesn’t make sense to me unless u want to be rotating around guys.

ua 100% right.
Keeping on bc of children is good but what if d husband doesn't want to change or remorseful?.
No one knows exactly the mode of the said cheating.

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jaxxy:
Anita shouldn’t throw paul under the bus because he did Smtn wrong. There is forgiveness in genuine love. If the marriage can be fixed let them fix it.

my dear there are some cheating that is heartbreaking that u might never forget let alone forgiving.
Is very painful that no one will understand.


How could he?
Stopping so low to be having sex with housemaids probably teenagers is...
Some people might forgive while some will never.

BKsoul:
Thanks.... am a female.

ok dear
Take heart and be strong..

BKsoul:
Am disorganized, lost my elder brother.... He died very early today,,, am weak... Almighty God come through for me and my family....

take heart bro..

Emexicoman:
Can your wife stick with you all through? if she can then you should.
I am married and I can't even fathom the thoughts of another random woman touching my pim pim

Love men like this.

iamtardey:
What are you saying gangan?

l re- read now,l get u now.u mean make we de do d do wella?
We are on d highest level ever.
Thank you.

MufasaLion:
Good!
Your glow wil be back

Thank you
God bless you..

MufasaLion:
I'd advice you not to be too certain irrespective of whatever.

As of this afternoon l am 98% sure.he is clean
But my God will continue to tame him to stupor.
I guard him with prayer now bc prayer works.
I worked on my self too no excuses now..

iamtardey:
They give am that ponmo chop steady steady anytime anyhow... Sho ye e?

Not anymore l HV scattered d ponmo.
Na me and him forever.

thorpido:
Hope he is changed for good.If you can move to where he resides outside Lagos,you should move and be with him.

he is working in Lagos now but he comes home Wednesdays and then wkends unlike before.
He has changed for good so l believe.

house10s:
house wife.

he has a job, u just a breeder nothing else to contribute.

he cheats only 50% smh apparently u can't stand on ur own, that's y he is doing what he likes

some people Shaa
Ur reasoning is disgusting.did u c where l mentioned l am jobless?.
He did that bc he lacked self control and l was not suspecting him.

MufasaLion:
Irrespective of that, you shouldn't be too certain. A cheat can go hundreds of miles to reaffirm his love for you just to keep you off the scent.

ok
Thank you.
His new job schedule is too tight for nonsense.
God gave him that to tame and clamp him to faithfulness.

michael77777:
wow! so so bad.... stay strong!


chukwu gbaa gi ume




.

We are stronger in love now more than before.
I don't take things for granted again.
Moreso,he is d type that doesn't want to hurt me or anyone.He didn't like the pain l went Through,within 1 week l changed,he thought l was going to die, everyone was calling left, right and center.
And l didn't tell my parents bc they will be disappointed.
The thing knock some sense back bc he was carried away.
I forgive him for my own wellbeing and our boys, they love seeing us happy together.
I counted it as a mistake and lack of self-control.

MufasaLion:
I really can't say because that woman's husband can never change. He's enjoying that lifestyle. It's like it's encoded in his DNA already. Now, he's gonna be smarter with it.

However, I doubt if the woman would be smart enough to suspect anything henceforth because she might get carried away with the fake love and the gifts. She seem to like the new development, yes, she deserve it but it's all ruse.

That dude will keep on cheating!

l am not 100% sure bc l don't go out with him but from his utterances and assurances he is genuine.
And made some commitment to each other whenever together.
The extent we went is more than what I put up there.

Rozcol:
May God give you the grace to forgive and truly forget, if he's remorseful then let it go but don't give in to any of his manipulations again, there are husband snatchers everywhere and wouldn't mind been his sex slave if he's constantly meeting their needs.

Thank you dear..
M at alert now,more involved in his life now.
I don't relax,l make sure he carries me along.
He can't manipulate me ever again.
Everything was exposed.l mean God exposed him to d core.
He never believed l will find out d way l did.

He has realized so many things.
_ No matter how you hide one day ur cup go full.
_ That thing ua doing and u don't want people to know stop it.

Charmingrascal:
It hurts so bad when the one you love dearly cheats on you.
It causes system disorder and emotional purging.


Chai I remember the night I discovered that my Idoma babe dey cheat on me that year, I was restless.

Love Mumu Sha






Your husband is remorseful and sometimes u get angry for the betrayal pls forgive him wholeheartedly.

Don't turn the opportunity of demanding for what you like to blackmail.
"Now l ask for anything l want - no pity" sounds like blackmail.

The truth is you can never forget even though you forgive a cheating partner, the psychological effect last for a life time.

He gives the girl money while l Wii be pitying him.
Now l ask if l HV to.
I have mine anyways..