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No. Rather divorce if you cant live with it. Its difficult to know that your man browses other women and still value the marriage.

Another forced widowhood. God save Jos! and give heart of flesh to her inhabitants.

Are u sure u are doing it right? See Wolves ooo

@ify, the bolded reminded me of one

Adim sorri n;oku ahu ikporo m, igweghi m isa gi, Anu m[b] n'elu something[/b] .

we received serious spanking then for singing it oooooo

Ify nwanne m,

Hapu kwa m aka oo. Those old memories bring smiles anyday

I was singing that "udara Song last nite u know.

Ok here is another udara song for u and swissess

Udara dala m ekpuruge, kpurugede kpu! 2x
udara nwa nnu, kpurugede kpu!
uduara nwa ose, kurugede kpu!
onye raacha omichaa aka, kpurugede kpu!

Another:

Udara nna mbe achala 2x
onye ghoro rachaa odi ka mbe.
itufue ya i di ka madu, weli ukwu gi, welie aka gi, yayayayayaya iyaaaaaaaaaa!

I cant stop laughing on these ones cos then the big sisters would make us sing Udara dala m song untill the udara would fall down then they would start singing Uda nna Mbe achala song to make us believe that if we insist on sharing with them we would look like Mbe (tortoise)so we leave the udara for them. imagin

The man misplaces his hand cos he was focusing on the camera

Nwa nunu nta nwa nunu nta, turu zam zam turu zam
Gini k'ino ebe eme, turu zam zam turu zam
Ana m aturu nne m ose, turu zam zam turu zam
tu k'ne ka isi atu, tuuuuu, tuuuuuuuuu.

another one:

kua la nu nwa ngwere aka nwerente 2x
Nwa ngwere ejeghi ije, ogbara oso , nwerente
peeeeee nwerente, hiiiiiiiiiha nwerente, aah eeh nwerente, 1, 2, repeat!

another:

Onye ele anya n'zu, muo bia anyi n'abia n'azu -2x
onye le anya n'azu, muo pia ya utani,
A B C D, 1, 2, 3 ,4, anyi ga eberi utara si mama tankiu (Thank You) I played no be small.

Nne Nne moo, udu m araputa moo udu1
Udu m ji echi iyi, ifu go nu n'udu awa udu!
Ukwu kporom m, udu awa udu.
nne nne moo, udu m araputa moo udu!

[quote author=jay_getta link=topic=603118.msg7711491#msg7711491 date=1297428219]By their utterances you will know them. Johndoe100 (abi wetin you call ureself sef), so Fashola should challenge Amaechi to a debate, why? To contest for Governorship of their State? Man, these Gej followers. . . .[/quote]And if he is asking to challenge Jonathan in a debate, has he already picked his ticket to contest for presidency or is the debate going to be Governor verses President   9ja 9ja?  I love Fashola but he is taking it more personal than necessary.

Talks are cheap, Actions are costly.

we are mostly blessed with talk-talk leaders. still watching.

Its becoming interest. the nerves are getting steady. afterall na person to person. no tiger.

pharuk:
It was in 2008, BHC in abuja, there was really nothing to be nervous about since i had no ojoro papers, the security guy was trying to be authoritative but that dint get him far, got in to c d guy, he was staring at me and wasnt sure to grant or not then i said [s]My friend will you give me that visa before i kidnap your mama!!![/s] is there anything u like to know more, came back days after and i got the visa (not as enthusiastic as i expected)

on my way for an interview in a FTSE 200 company, hope i get the job

@pharuk, I am about going for that of American Embassy,  what were ur question lines as i am always thinking of what the questions would be and it gets me nervous.   Wishing u the luck on ur job interview.
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Troynow:
I dnt see why people are appalled by this development. Ive neva seen Bakare as a pastor. He's just a politician working by appealing to people's emotions.

seconded!

He seems more of a "political pastor"  maybe that is his own campaign strategy and or lead to popularity.  I remember when he said OBJ would die, his defence on the ASO ROCK bribe and all other political sermons he has delivered so far,  I think he is making headways.  Good Bakere to him! not Goodluck!

quote author=LeoMax link=topic=598729.msg7665626#msg7665626 date=1296818568]
There is no indication that intelligent people (excepting me ofcourse) visit this forum. One cant seem to read constructive reasoning, just a bunch of idiots sarcastically typing arrant nonsence.

[/quote]@the bolded, you can then ask someone u can trust to help you read the constuctive reasonings here since u cant seem to  


@Mama Jubril,
Nne oma, its ok eh! dont mind PDP,atleast u did not disappoint yourself. You voted for urself to represent us there. ozugozie ooh!Ndo!


[quote author=nvo5 link=topic=598729.msg7665663#msg7665663 date=1296818917]@aguiyi
please tell me that you are joking about Rochas Okorocha

its happening live, he is contesting for governorship in Imo state. Imo meeeeeeeee. back to Grassroot or enough failure.

Aso Rock breeds liar. A contry where the executives promise without fulfilment.

Kingdom business!hmm! it wuld be difficult to say nay to all lies Pastor. Well for me he shouldn't , If he must then he should be prepared for all kinds of fraustrating strategies from his boss and the legislooters.

If its an open gift accepted by hubby anyway. Dont want any misconception from both parties.

Menek,

So so happy for u. happy new year my brother. And thanks to all who believed in your dreams.

@Ileke-IdI

All these ydiots with their less than recognizable amount of posts. Must you create new IDs to posts?

And how does ur recognizable amount of posts make ur posts helpful.  Or u just post anything to add to ur number of illogical posts.  I think someone close to you should advise you on what womanhood is all about.  Modesty, Modesty defines a true woman.  The 9-month-pain and Labour is too much for a woman to support any kind of blood shed.  


Your are gaining popularity on N/L by playing dumb.

Lekwa nu nwanyi a ooooooo. Uwa ojo na ndu alili

for those asking around Nigeria. I think catering/ decoration is a good business especially for the ladies though in my own case i am into full event management. Photography is another good area and if one can be patient to undergo training on catering, decoration and photograpy it would be an added advantage.

it requires setting a standard and professionalism and u have all the referals once u are hooked.

MRbrownJAY:
he may be. . . . . . . . . some men will have clouded judgment because of LOVE,when in fact they should switch that love off and use their damn brains.
but hey, i hear he no easy to get wifey in 9ja for some, so. . . . . . . . . . . . . .

so, finish am now! well that kind of LOVE na "Killer Love" may our eyes never see abomination sha!

[quote author=tpia* link=topic=590690.msg7602919#msg7602919 date=1295989945]wetin remain.[/quote]I tire o jare! everything now leads to divorce, even laughing too much. One says my wife is too humble and it annoys me. so? divorce!

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
to each their own. . . . . . . . .loving her doesnt mean that he has to live with her or stay married to her deceitful assss.

there is no way i will stay with someone who would rather SNEAK around and have UNPROTECTED SEX with guys while we are in an union, NO WAY JOSE!!!!!

not only is that dangerous, immature, deceitful/dishonest,a sure way to lose all trust in her but also a waste of my bloody time.
a dna test on his first child is in order, you just never know how long she was creeping!

btw: it definitely wouldnt make it any better if the guy was dead.

@MRbrownJAY You are right here but i am seriously thinking if that husband of hers is ok.

@ Poster, Something tells me her husband is not the father of the 1st child why? her boldness shows something is wrong and she knows it. A DNA test? ok i am more concerned now with if it happens the man is impotent, should he accept the children?

In all, I am so so afraid of this whole marriage palavar. Women! Women and Men! hummmm

Vera, at first I just wanted to read without commenting, why? yes cos you seemed more of a player than a real woman.

Ok, your mere statements about your childh shows you truly loves him and as it is, nothing can tell u otherwise. Yet u needed to attach Mrs. to ur name well, I do not wish to blame u further but:

If you are sure u want advice, i have seen some good ones here and i make haste to say.

-For now, postpone the wedding to enable clear head.
-If you still feel the same way after sometime, call your supposed husband to let him know how u still feel about him.
- Talk to your parents, yes they wont be happy yet its better now than latter.
-And most importantly tell the two men to allow u sometime to sort urself out. If possible take a paper and pen and write out what u want in a man, then mark the two men without sentiments if u really want to be happy in future.
-Its time to pray, the sweetheart today may become a bitterheart tommorrow, cos even if you marry your childh with all these good, good, sweet sweet talks and relax i bet you, the marriage would soon be a tale too.

Marriage is a lifetime something and love is not even enough neither cares. Good luck

Now the wife has refused to learn"driving" him crazy and he is complaining let him go marry the dummie he calls girlfriend, who does not even know jack about him then she would sure "drive" him into his grave and have the useless car to herself.

driving ko, riding ni! And you poster, U post this one abi? make una dey waste space for nairaland sha!

@ poster

There is no need to cry yet though i strongly believed she should have told you from the inception and allow u to decide before even any sexual relationship.

Be that as it may, HIV is not Aids and can be managed effectively. I am sure she knows much about it already, encourage her to join PLW HIV & Aids. Also get to the producer of "In moments like this" I dont want to give her name here but ask from NTA 7. She would give u all the assistance and again, Its is very possible for one partner to be negative and the other positive. greater % of the men involved are negative cos of their nature of not having easy broken membrane.

Encourage her, the mind is the most important tool for the survival.

@poster,

Your problem is not peer pressure as i can deduce. I took time to read ur responses to some posts here, you only have emotional crises and self pity which is more of depression from anxiety.

You have already had two "serious relationships as u said so the pressure to taste a relationship has been satisfied, now its more of self control and emotional crises.

If I may ask why did you end the first two " serious relationships, 1st, 2nd and you called them "serious relationships" yet you are warming up for the 3rd. look, sort ur emotions out first. it is certain you cant handle relationships for now why exposing urself to undue pressure.

Pls take time to discover yourslef and what makes u unique, you can never give what u dont have besides, you are still young to have gone this far already. Hope u know each broken relationship leaves you with atleast 10 broken chances. atleast his cousins, brothers, close friends wont be looking at u seriously for marriage.

Get busy now! and never say i am done with education, are u a prof.?

Shocking as it may be. Its happening everyday. Believe this of leave it that boy has been exposed to sexual act by bigger girls. Maybe the parents were too busy to notice the randy house helps were have fun with their boy or even neighbours.

His courage shows he is not new and may think all senior girls love small boy show.

Someone once told me how he was being paid by older girls to give them MouthAction and they would pass him on to their friends. He started at the age of 7yrs and did it for almost 15 yrs. Then in the university he became more like an addict Whoa, and would lick anything Woman. Another girl of about 11 yrs started behaving funny and when i met with her. I started telling her stories relating to sex problems and the looks on her face was suggestive and i asked has anyone told u things like this? guess what her answer was. yes brother so so told her lies about sex and also slept with her several time with the help of another cousin of theirs. A biger cousin sleeping with a girl of 11yrs.

Hiding the boy wont help matter, the parents should know but its not a case of bulling. they need to find out how long and how he got exposed to it. then give him good lecture on sex education.

Its quite unfortunate but the boy really needs conseling and assurance not condemenation to severity. He has to be in a closer watch by his parents, teachers and bigger brother. They should also allow me chose a role model that way, he has someone to look up to.

New year! new habit.

I hv noticed since the new year that the new trend is calling of different pet names.

Ihv known "sweetie" as far as i know him now, sweetie, if i dont answer quick and ask why he is calling he would add so many names to its and it annoys me cos i have query for not answering any of the names: nnem, mama, nneoma, obim, honey, swt baby OMG, do i have to answer everthing? then he would kill me kpatakpata with "Uto m" meaning sweetie and he knows i hate the sound of that Uto m

Thank God say "I go save" dey dere.  If to say na only " I go Die" na straight to Baba God. Igo die no ! I go save

na wah. my hubby hmm! plenty. plenty habit sha.  


He sleeps too much.  I normally feel so lonely at home cos we leave so early and once he is back he has just 5 mins and then straight to bed.  If the food is not served within the five minutes u will have to wake him. Even if its in the afternoon.

He complains too much about people the reason we have lived with six house helps in six years.  No one can meet his  standard.

wheneve he talks, it looks like fighting. he may be advicing you but someone may come to ask what the problem is cos he would be shouting.

farting and running his palm on his forehead while scratching his eardrum. when i complain, he would strech his legs and hands and then release a goodnite fart and would run into the bedroom.

RIP Legend!