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He is our son. When they tell you your child is a thief, you can’t just jump up and start celebrating. You will have to find out and establish the truth.

What is She saying here? Is she alright? Go ahead and investigate him for bringing Nigeria to the forefront when there are Dozen of issues awaiting your comment. The Bomb blast, the Amunition at the Port and all other issues seeking your Govt attention, andyou are here talking about someone who brought grory to Nigeria.

10, 000 demons in the form of Emegwali are saints compared to those probing him.

I guess her company is a one- man company. If there are conditions of service in her organization she can check if her termination contradicts any by that she can sue especially for wrong termination of appointment and subsequent payoff.

Employment act is not something she can go with if her company is not a large scale organisation where standards are specified and followed to the later.

I love the Challenges as a woman working in a field dominated by men.  I love the challenges and the support from my team.s

@ Poster

na so una go dey fin trouble, small time now una go dey shout holy ghost fire up an down.

Investigation ko!

No Igbo man would write this nonsense.

This is the work of a Yoruba man.

Igbos do not care much for IBB, but we do not hate him either.


Why do u think so? Speak for yourself. I hate him and everthing that represents him.

And why are you people not asking him to remove the Youruba. What proves he is Ibo.

IBB-BAD= MARKET

@ivynwa

I want u to know that it takes courage to speak out and more courage to keep quite.

Which ever. U are a super woman, specially created for a purpose.

Now some people have been married and divorced, others married without children yet others wishing to be married. There is hope for anyone who believes in divine destiny. Can u say why you are not married uptill now? If you cant then be relaxed, your time will soon come. But,

Internet, yes, you can find someone here but first dont make it an issue here, your point of arguement, your disposition and reactions may endear you to someone online but never make marriage an issue on line there are vampires here.

Even in the churches, there are gold diggers, all u need is to work on your mindset, develope yourself, shade some ills see age as number and rejuvenate your thought, Wahts your passions in life, work it out and pray dont be harsh to people you meet in your social life and dont trust anyone to be the right person in a haste. dont see everyone as sinners , let there be a new breath in you and ur activities.

I wish i can talk with you one on one but you can join www.elisha.com for singles prayer forum.

@chosen04 (f)


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Beaf has lost every credibility he once had cos of his blind support at covering ''all'' for JEGA.

No offence:: Just a gospel TRUTH.
 



And nothing but the gospel Truth, U are the one who has shown ur insensitivity to the Nigerian 's stability by ur unflenching support for evil or do I say u are actually looking for a cheap popularity by your continueous support for Okah, IBB and Dokpesi,  Most at  times your comments and submission only make threads worse than they should be.

CAPITAL NO, WE DON'T WANT HIM PERIOD,

U are the ibos. Better say capital no, "I DONT WANT HIM" dont make the mistake of generalising what u have no control over.

@Jimmyboy

On this note, nobody can fault GEJ, the so called elders dont give a hoot about our brothers in the north.
Personally, I am getting less enthusiastic about GEJ due to his gaffe, I think he should overhaul his back-office staff. President Clinton reportedly had a team that briefs him on any issue that may be raised by his critics and they tutor him on the best line of response to those issues. If it now happens that an issue is raised in public for which he does not have a prepared response, this team will be in big trouble.

He also needs to attend a Finishing School, or they should arrange an In-house stuff for him.


Honestly i support u on the bolded.  A Public office holder applies highest level of diplomacy in answering, reporting or otherwise in a sensitive issue such as this, this i noticed has been lacking in most of GEJ's Speeches.  I wonder what those PA's are actually doing allowing him make "insinuations" in such sensitive issues as this.

As much as I agree to most of the points raised by GEJ, yet non of the leaders from all the regions have worked for the interest of the masses, so why facing the north.  What if the endproduct of the invistigation indicts political wigs from other regions?

At this time answering every word for word is not important but result!

No, Its not MEND, The elections are set now, there are still more to be revealed. Oya! more news.

AAAAAAAAMEN! Amen!!

A great speech indeed but the INSINUATIONS? Inuendos? hmm, If the culprits are known, why wasting our appitite to eat them raw.

Diplomacy is the watchword for presidential speeches. I am waiting for the culprits and wishing the Agencies success.

@juman



Jonathan MUST RESIGN now. Go Jonatan go! Go Jonatan go!! Go Jonatan go!!! Go Jonatan go!!!! Go Jonatan go!!!!! Go Jonatan go!!!!!!


You really fall my hands.  You mean Jonathan should go for what in particular?  Sentencing the accused before trial.  What are ur facts for wanting him to go.

I tot we would have waited to see the outcome of this interesting fallout to actually prove "what" our leaders really are.  If he goes now, who takes over, name them and give me one good reason why the person should be trusted.

Well Okah is right in his aspersion untill the security agents are out on the big burst or would I say he is free to spill until we have reason to believe him.  This is war of the Titan  I will just cross my finger and watch from afar.  

Poor masses God will help us1

@Ayowumie

I appreciate your logical follow-up on some of the contributions here, most contributions are as vague as the text statements being looked into.

This is a country where anything is possible and anybody can become anybody for the simple fact of gaining power.

No matter how childish the text messages look, there were text messages lamely relating to the issue at hand, sometimes those lame evidneces give room for strong evidences. Onething i am sure is that, very soon, something more concrete would come up, to mar or make the accuser and the accused.

Hmmm! Aso Rock, I hail thee. For you my people are dying and killing.

Hello Doc.

Please what is the cause of Hi-cupp. My sister feels as if her stomach is filled with gas all the time and she gives off hi-cupp within minutes?

Is there an associated problem for this?

Is the privacy thing only on the context of phone, text messages and mails, What about those withdrawals given to mama and younger brothers without telling hussy.

@REAL TRUTH

I want agree with you on your opinion, Most people see spiritual things as things they can handle anyhow. If we want to tell ourselves the truth, how many pastors/men can live without a wife/woman/girl just to make heaven. Most pastors have caused God more pains while presenting themselves as Christians to their churches.

So long Pastor Ituah has not done anything contrary except if 1. He married before the first wife. 2. If the first wife is willing to come back to him.

I have seen cases where Christians hold on to marriages that have caused then their eternal heritance. A marriage of sorrow, filled with hatred for each other yet for the sake of the church,they stayed together. Now what is the guarantee that such couple would make heaven after all?

A couple I know have lived together for 15yrs now without sleeping or eating anything from each other but once there is any occasion in the church, they would appear as husband and wife and yet the man has concubines here and there.

For 1Cor. 15, Like u said, i wish that u can relate its contest to the topic cos I read it but it looks vague in relation to the topic.

Christianity has a standard. Yes! I do not blame the RCCG neither the pastor.

Every case should be well looked into before counter condemnation

wherefore the first wife is confirmed to have married another man, I do not see any reason why The pastor has to remain unmarried and even if he wishes to continue in the marriage, have the RCCG sort the mind of the so called wife who is rather married to another man,  would Ighodalo live all his live without a wife?  

If the first wife is willing to go back to him in all sincerity, then RCCG have no case but if she is comfortable with her faith and husband, loose Ighadalo and let him go!

I would be more comfortable to know him with a wife than chasing all the ladies in the church in the name of keeping faith.

@Shinatu


This is not totally true, how come you feel free to tell your mum to call before visiting and you are reluctant to tell your MIL the same thing?

If I told my MIL half of the things I tell my mum, seroius yawa go gaz.

I can look at my mum straight in the eyes and criticize her actions, I can even raise my voice at her and say Mummy, mi o gba(Mummy, I will not take that), would you advise me to do that to my MIL and still expect to have a happy marriage? , well maybe many years to come after I am able to develop the same relationship I have with my mum with her, but before then, no way!




There are several reason you can ask your mother or mother-in-law to call before coming. If its any other reason other than to make sure she would be comfortable either financially or otherwise which must be stated thus, then such daughter-inlaw is being disrespectful and insensitive.

What happens to diplomacy, there are somethings that even your mother can not take from you talk less of your mother-in law. Then How come you can forgive your mum when she abuses you and would not when you mother in law does same.

Why would the witch be the mother or daughter -in law and not our mothers or daughters. Its because we lack acceptance. period.

Well, There is no rule that anyone calls when coming to my house. After all there was a time my own mother came and her need could not be met so she has to go and we were had it we sent. If there is need for financial support anyone coming for it out to call for her own good else she would come, welcomed but may not have the need met.

Marriage is a game for matured adults.

na me be dis? see person see movie. lekwa m biko!

well, well, well, I could not help laughing at some comments here.

My case was a turn of events, i was warned by people who knew my mother-inlaw that she could slap me, she could ask me to leave the room and i actually prepared myself for any eventuality but i first brought out my best reserving my worst for the troubled days, but whoa! my mother in-law is the most understanding person i have met.

What many people could not believe is our closeness even her children. Till today she said i won her by calling her " nmanyi" meaning our mother she would also call me "Ada m" meaning my first daughter though her first daughter is older than me.

Mama has her low sides but they are not things I bother much about.

she is not a good manager when it comes to money matter. well, i try to stand in the gap even when hubby says no, these days she would confide in me even before asking, if i tell her its not a good time to ask, she wont bother asking so i settle her my little way.

But honestly most mothers- in- law are good if only we daughters-in-law would treat them like our own mothers. Most problems start with this comparison of "my mother and my mother-in-law. things we could forgive our mothers we wont if it were mother-in-law. even Gifts good for our mothers we believe are too expensive for our mothers-in-law yet we expect our hubbies to love our mothers.

Well, if you try your best and its not working, keep your distance and do not nag her, just keep your distance and be independent. My Opinion!

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Oh God! have mercy, Who shall we run to except thee!

@Ranoscky

It does happen but not always the best way to go. Especially in the same town!

Never attended any of his family celebrations, never ran into his mother or had any other issue taking her to the family house or events for four years. Then that lady may be dazed when the realities of marital life shovels her in the face. The man, the family, the orientation and hmmm

@poster,

The case must be something that is of great concern to your hubby-to-be. So do not go about it in a manner that would hurt him the more.

Try to make him tell you about his parents' marital life and also what kind of marriage he desires, compare and contrast to see if it has link with his resentment.

You can try to find out how his father died and what led to his death. Find out his mum's attitude after his fathers death. What was his age then at that time.

According to you, He did not grow up with them, he may have a different orientation from his other siblings and may detest some family values in his immediate family.

You can also try visiting the mum but make sure u have his consent, try to study her and i Know she may want to talk to about her late husband and marriage as a way of advice.

If you are smart, you can get some information but most importantly, do not rush into that marriage without an inkling of the root cause of the problem, you may regret if its a sacrilegious issue

It was a dumb reasoning to date someone for 4yrs without meeting the parents living in the same town with u.

@mbulela

Nda Paschal Dozie

iji ya!- Nda Pascal Dozie-

Mike Adenuga

Always ready to make a mark.

@sley4life

u are a nui/sance 2 proceed with or without your parents consent. If they agree with with your irrespective of the your sis in-law relationship with your fiance then ok. But don't proceed without their blessing.



Your reply is so annoying and i hope you would learn to respond to issues especially sensitive ones like love/marriages.

So you expect him to just follow the parents' will without even any consideration to his feelings or that of the lady in question. You really surprised me.

whoever took this picture, must have won several awards for getting the image of a spirit.

Thank God for his mercies.

@Okoro2015

The Pope is the successor of ST. Peter who was directly commissioned by Christ Himself to lead his Flock. It follows therefore, that the Vatican's sovereingty is "exceptional". Which other Naton has Indigent Citizens in all the Nations of the earth? Any Country that Touches the Pope has declared war on the body of Christ. No amount of idle intimidation can stop the Mother Church from upholding it's deep rooted traditions. The call by these remote atheists is a bluff which should be ignored. If there is a Judas in just twelve disciples of Jesus, How do we expect the Pope to control millions of priests worldwide.  


Your assertions are totally wrong.  Pope is never the successor of Peter neither is Catholic the mother church.  

The issue is about punishing someone for anothers sin.  Pope Benedict has not been associated with depoiling young &helpless children so what we are saying is that, they prists involved should  face the music and most importantly, people should not look for cheap popularity by pulling  down the papalcy.

Wherefore he is in any form of conspiracy to conceal or prevent the prevealance of the cause of law, well, God is the rightful Judge.


As for your assertions, Catholic was never mentioned in Revelation as the early churches or anywhere in the Bible.  It was a church which got its root as a result of world power in Rome. So how come Your mother-church.  Then Peter was dead before the establishment of Catholic which is acclaimed to be a universal church by human doctrine and Roman leadership at the time.  What was actually known and established by St Paul was an Appostolic Church which is invariably different from what is obtainable in christiandom today.

Please always leave history and face issues.

Before Jonathan became Acting President in February, Aondoaaka had applied for the release of N50m to enable him travel abroad to launder Nigeria’s image in the wake of Farouk Abdulmuttallab’s alleged attempt to bomb a United States airline in December



I suppose its Andookaa's questionable role, staled comments, and insensitivity to the image of Nigeria that should be laundered than the Farouk of a boy. They should not only stop him from travelling but should humilate him to a stop. Odo-uka like him.