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midehill:
salesmanship is just like commerce...in fact in d centre I wrote d exam dey told us waec made it compulsory for us all to write it

Okay then.

Which one is salesmanship again, that how I saw tie and dye as a subject the other day.


One doesnt understand all this subject combinations again jare.

I do doubt if you can get that admission without commerce or accounts.

So wives and maids don't get tired abi, them be machine.

So because you pay 50% of the maids salary and she eats your food she too can't be tired.

So your wife that has gone to hustle since morning and ensured dinner was prepared doesn't have a right to be tired.

Not surprised at some comments from the male folks when all they do is dish out orders. Both of you went out to work, you had your dinner you want extra meal prepared, she said she's tired you are vexing, you want the maid to do it she also said the maid will be tired you are also angry about that forgetting that as you went out to hustle they also went out to hustle too.

Issorait .

And Yes you are overreacting

Sorry mr monster truck


Please if you can't do cash on the spot and carry the item or what you want to buy is not within where you can reach for inspection kindly let it go.


Besides royalroy already stated the warning on the first page.


*Note of Warning ****

1. Any business done in bere is at the risk of both parties.

2. Nairaland or the Family Section moderator is not liable for any bad deal you get from here.

3. Ensure you make diligent enquiries and verify all transactions properly before engaging anyone in any dealing here.

4. All pictures of product should be posted here and should never be sent to buyers privately (except if requested for individually) if not shared here, your posts will be deleted immediately.

5. Do not, I repeat DO NOT PAY ANYONE FOR A PRODUCT YOU HAVEN'T SEEN or INSPECTED PHYSICALLY!!


I have bought some things here and from other threads and the inspect before paying rule works.

Sadly I don't think there's anything the mods can do about this.

richyblink1:
Sure she is leaving my house today, and must give us details of the stranger.
Personally I feel she has known a thing or two about me because she was brought to my office when she arrived before I took her home. She equally know what I and my wife's job entails.

Whatever it's, thank God we have noticed she is not here to stay because one of my kids will disappear sInce she stated in her letter that she doesn't like kids, to avoid stories that touch

Those ones are not intricate details IMO

I do doubt she has an ulterior motive anyway, its not an offence to say I am sorry I can't do this job, I want to go home. taking care of kids is hard work and not everyone is trained for that its better she opened up than maltreating your twins out of frustration and in all honesty less than one week is fair enough to know if one can cope.

richyblink1:
My issue is that she has never mention that she wants to go and I refuse or something.
I doubt the stranger is a toaster as she only arrived ph from Jos on Thursday.

Secondly, why did she wait till I initiate a meeting between her people and me, as well as visiting her home town.

Details reaching me now is that she alleged that her sister living with my friend is aware that she intend leaving my house etc.

Well she has mentioned it now, a week is still okay for her to say she wants to leave.
That's why you just need to ask her about the stranger , the lady seems chatty and extroverted and may have made friends within your estate this short time.

Maybe she wanted you to know she can't do the job before you visit her family and get familiar with them so she saved you the stress.

She could have told her sis she was not happy there and want to leave, its not an issue IMO

The basic thing is question her about the stranger, ensure she has not given any personal details out to the stranger (she's spent only a week and shouldn't have known so much about you guys), check if nothing has been stolen and let her go.

Well she was decent enough to tell you she doesn't like working with little children and she's not happy with you and you should pls pardon her manners.

I want to go
I need to go
I don't like staying with children or staying in one place for a long time.
I am not happy, I am frustrated, this work is beyond my power.
I am begging you let me go

Wow she even tried, most maids will just disappear, let her go, not everyone can take care of children. Check if any of your things are missing, if not pls pay any outstanding wage and transport her back to jos.
Maybe she finds your environment to dull, maybe she's more of a social person, just sit her down and ask more details about the stranger ( he may even be a toaster) and her actions and let her go.

Customer80:
He will win landslide if they conduct election, otto awori is occupied by the non indigenes and few yorubas

Really? you are wrong bro.

Few Yoruba's is not the exact word, not talking about the election just your assertion that there are "few Yoruba's in oto awori"

So touching , even the siblings couldn't believe it, that lady ran to hide.

That woman's expression is priceless.

What do they mean by they have settled the matter, both rapist and the wife should have been arrested.

What kind of nonsense is all these.

I also don't trust these so called businessmen, its possible they also used her virginity for rituals.

Mtchew.

Speaking queens English is not a problem in my opinion and not necessarily a reason to suspect her hiding some things(although everybody has personal secrets they don't want to share with anybody) at least she won't corrupt your younger children will adulterated English .


Yours is to know what you need to know about her and family, which I believe you should have done before bringing her home but its not too late anyways.

That's all.

peacettw:
But he mentioned it although hidden in scientific terms.

Happy you said scientific terms, the only thing some people will see on that thread is AA plus AS can give you SS and that's what they will carry about.


Everybody knows what SS is, most people don't know about the technicalities involved with the other forms.

Modified.

The problem I had with that thread was its title, it was quite misleading in my opinion.

And his explanation was not for the layman, you must have an idea before you understand, if someone who is not medically inclined can't get what you are saying of what use is it?

AC, SC and CC are commonly detected now.

He should have just said there can be misdiagnosis and all these forms can/may be detected as SS and advance testing needs to be done.

Oga Op your title is misleading ooo, there can be misdiagnosis of S B- thalasaemia showing as SS yes we accept but advanced screening will be able to differentiate the two.

Its quite dangerous for you to just come and say AA plus AS can give you SS, do you know the panic it can cause for people who don't even have an idea of what you are talking about and all they know is AA , As can marry.

I just don't understand how people post things these days, this is Nairaland not medic- land. Your audience should determine how you post. How many peeps even understand what you are saying, now its on FP.

You should have said SB- thallesaemia can be misdiagnosed as SS in Nigeria and there will be a healthy discussion about that and everybody will understand.

Besides thallesemias are not so common over here.

MadCow1:
Internal Injury does not bleed externally.. Wetin you dey smoke for there?

People report accidents where a life is almost lost. That is the natural thing to do.

Oya explain how someone sitting on the right side of a packed Bus died from injuries on the left side of his Head? I will wait.

What about his Mobile Phone that was blood soaked that can't be found? Explain that too..

If na your pikin or relative we dey talk about like this, will you still arrive at the same conclusion?

Loool, Na akamu I wan drink.
I understand your point but it is a possibility he had one and then maybe a physical wound. The previous thread said blood was coming from his mouth too.

A lot of Nigerians don't report despite the fact that its the natural thing to do, a lot of Nigerians try to avoid the Nigerian police for obvious reasons.

That's where autopsy should come in, the truth of the matter is that the near accident they claimed happened is why there's a lot of postulations but in all honesty what's the possibility of him being stabbed in a packed bus except it was planned by everyone on that row or something.But this one autopsy is saying murder I don't understand.

Mobile phone could have been stolen, this is naija na.

I never concluded, I just postulated besides there is also a possibility that the guy may have been stabbed before he entered the bus.

If this happened in a more developed country, we will be sure that the case will be solved but this is Nigeria , where autopsy said murder they should try to spill the details.

So I have read the previous thread and this, if it was true they had a near accident, its very possible the guy had an internal injury, most likely hit his head hard , and then later screamed in pain.

As for not reporting to the police, how many Nigerians report to the police when they had an accident in which someone died. I beleive those in the bus will still be in a state of shock from that experience, tires screeching and all that.

I believe the parents may be suspecting foul play because he was the only one that died, but he might have just been the only one that was injured which led to his death , even ghastly accidents do happen in which just one person dies.

How will autopsy just say murder, which sort of report is that. Autopsy should show if he was stabbed, if he was hit or if his head hit something.

I suspect that guy had a terrible injury during that so called near accident maybe his head impacted something, almost certain of that. By the way they did the right thing by taking him to the hospital when they saw he was bleeding. they should also realize that those other people too in the bus were likely still shocked from the near impact.

And knowing the NPF I hope all of them are released soon.

murmee:
What NERC and the Minister should do is to compel all Discos to connect All or 95% of Nigerians to Prepaid meters.

People can then use what they can afford just like the GSM telephones. The big Onus is on Discos to checkmate bypassing by monitoring and punishing those found guilty.

Issuing estimated bills to people is unlawful and unacceptable and metering transformers instead of individuals is also wrong because some people have/use more electrical gadgets than others.

Now what you stated is the ultimate solution in my opinion.A lot of posters talk based on emotions rather than facts.Fashola this buhari that when what we have facing us is a systemic problem.

9jakohai has explained some of the reasons why tariff should be increased and why the discos won't want prepaid meters for everyone, they simply won't make enough money.I can decide to put of my meter for a week but power given to disco by genco has to be paid for .

You should also consider the fact that some of this NEPA boys make some cash during disconnection week.

We Nigerians are also part of the problem , we by pass meters and then the innocent people who use estimated billing will have to pay.
Infact there are lot of places where people use light and they don't pay any bills, both prepaid and post paid, who pays for the electricity- those on estimated billing.
There are also people that detest prepaid system because they use electricity heavily and don't want to pay for it some have small manufacturing stuffs in their home and they pay the same amount as a flat, those ones will outrightly reject any attempt for metering because they know they will run bankrupt if they attempt it.

People who have prepaid meter in areas where electricity supply is quite good are complaining because they can't use some appliances.

Bottom line is do whatever you can to get a prepaid meter, if its to wait for one year I will oo, and yes I believe they are hoarding it especially EKEDC.

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Nice piece

YorubaNigga:
As for Nigeria who has dam her own, does that mean our river ain't flowing elsewhere to other countries?

Okay, the Niger flows from those countries and passes through Nigeria and finally empties into the Atlantic so if we want to follow the trail, Nigeria is the last country it passes through, that's why if either of those countries dam the river the water levels of the Nigerian part of river Niger will be low.

It makes sense for Nigeria to be the one to dam that river or else Nigeria will suffer for it since thats a major source her power

Lots of ignorant folks on this thread.

Everybody knows the reason why we sell electricity to those countries. Its not an agreement that was signed yesterday or even five years ago, its been like that for quite a while.

If those countries dam the water nothing is going to flow to naija and that's why the agreement was made in the first place.

People need to read oo.

Mtchew

I just don't understand how some people reason.

AlphaHandMaiden:
What a decription! Please NoToPile change your moniker to slimcaramel!

I may just do that jare

zaynie:
True.
I remember you now, the slim lepacious caramel one with the nice and sexy eyes abi?

Lool afi sexy eyes na.

You are right.

zaynie:
The slim, petite one?
D. B?

D.B is a musim nau and "yellow"

The slim lepa caramel one.

AlphaHandMaiden:
Mehn! Make person no lost ask you for directions oh.....


I have died laughing at the boldened.

zaynie:
Won de o!
Awon maami!
Oya give me clue, who are u?

Awon maami ke?

Chai you possibly won't get it if I describe. My dept was the dept that had its labs on the ground floor at the block behind your labs. A friend to kaffy,(you should know THE kaffy I am talking about ). Final clue I am a Christian, the only Christain among 3 muslim friends which included kafy.

I made it too easy for you jare
You should get it oo.







Sorry for derailing you guys thread oo

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Its never easy to be a step mother sha, you can never do right, she's now the first suspect which I don't think is fair.


I hope somebody or a boy somewhere is not deceiving that girl, she wants to poision both step mother, father and her own blood brother? This one is strong.

Why not try to get a visa and visit, I believe you know the address he lives.

I just hope he is not married there sha.

Wowzer!!!

So zaynie is the same Zay O I knew back in school.

Nice thread by the way.