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Not surprised

My friend is having almost similar issue.

silvoice:
The post suggests so. If not: YES, that is why the budget comes handy.

Well you have to try to make her understand you guys can't spend beyond xyz amount in a month except for emergency cases.

She's your wife, talk to her till she understands, try not too get too moved by emotional blackmail please. At least you guys have been agreeing on some issues before now.
Economy is one kain, people are being prudent nowadays she should understand that now.

silvoice:
have been on budget all along, but women tell stories with their mood and men understands this and most time go out of their way to get them out of those ugly moods

Does she know how much you earn?

silvoice:
thanks, that's the mystery that I'm trying to solve: how to make her understand

Let her know how much you earn, you guys draw up a budget ,
So she ll know you guys can't spend more than xyz amount for this month.

Reason why people are skeptical eating food from peoples homes, especially when food was prepared for the hubby and hubby says kindly come and join me.

Anyway not surprised even some buka women have been cooking with this from time immemorial.


There are better extreme options than all these anyway, this sounds too witchcraft like in my opinion.



How about standing up and decreeing that his "Kini" will not work if he tries sleeping with another woman, and it won't. I believe this will work only if you are properly married to him, and not cheating yourself.If he comes back to wifey it will log in but with another woman no show no matter how hard they try.

No jazz, no menstral blood, no shouting just staying jejely on your own watching and confusion is happening and I heared it works and its based on your marriage covenant. Even this one too is going to the extreme IMO but then some men have pushed women to the extreme end.

Haters everywhere, just hating on her out of envy and some are not even as preety as she is.


Who even sent banke message to post about the wedding , owner of wedding didn't publicize it even the family didnt.

Spazwik:
Its best to use Sweet Potato

Thanks .

I hope our greediness will allow that to happen, the price reduced some weeks back too, only one of those plants in my area have reduced to 3,750 for 12.5 kg others are still selling at the old price of 4,200 but when the priced increased even those that had old stock increased their prices.

Waiting for the further 20% crash in price.

Spazwik:
How to make Goat Meat Pepper Soup With Potatoes

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Why not make a meal out of your goat meat pepper soup, you will be glad you did. For this recipe we have added in potatoes for filling and carrots to balance out the meal. It is scrumptious and everything you would imagine it to be. Make yours today!

Method
q. Place a pot over medium heat. Add in the goat meat, 2 seasoning cubes, some salt, onion (chopped), garlic (peeled) ginger (peeled and cut into big chunks) and about 2 cup of water. Allow the meat to cook for about 50 minutes or until almost tender.
2. Peel and half the potatoes, scrape and cut the carrots into your preferred size. Set aside. Check the pot to ensure there is enough water left. Remove the pieces of ginger and garlic. Add in about 4 cups of water, the pepper soup spice and ground pepper.
3. Allow to simmer for a bit then check the seasoning level (particularly because you will be adding in potatoes and carrots), if not enough add more in. Pour in the potatoes and carrots, allow to cook for about 30 minutes. Make sure the potatoes and carrots cook through before removing from heat, If you need to add in more water, do that.
4. Serve hot in a bowl. You can also serve with a side of rice if not filling enough.

Get all your Ingredients Online : Meat Peppersoup with Potato

Is it sweet potatoes or Irish potatoes that will be used, or is any of the two okay.

Will try some of your recipes.

Been salivating since

Its not wrong its the best.
Be nice , be respectful, do the normal things expected if you but stay on your lane.

For me , it includes both your family, inlaws, friends, social media etc etc. When you give people too much information or access in your life they take undue advantage .

I have been accused of being too private, na so I want am.

Busted, Op should have left his opening post na.

That's how they will be posting half truths up and down.

Interesting twist, what say you analog95

Op if you listen to some advices here you will ruin your home.

Divorce ke loool oo on top she visiting home to often.

A lot of newly married women miss home so much they go home too often the first few months to one year of their marriage.

Simple talking to her will solve this non issue, and let her find a place in Ogbomosho to learn her trade and if there's no suitable place to learn in ogbomosho, you guys should find a common ground after all she won't learn it for life.

Any little thing some boys will be ranting divorce all over a thread. What even brought DNA test inside this matter now.

You are already saying her parents insisted you do court marriage,Your mother didn't want you to marry her etc etc you didn't want to marry her legally before abi.

This one is just a simple dispute resolution , just a misunderstanding and a non issue, its something you guys should be able to handle your selves.

Fm4real06:
According to what i hrd.. they didnt give sulaiman yusug anything despite the fact that he was d one that knows the genesis of the money.

I know the fourth guy (haruna issah) very well. He stays in my area. The guy spent money extravagantly.. bought cars and houses and partied sef... mehn, people are blaming the guy in the neighbourhood that he should have gone far to another location rather than spend d money lavishly in the hood.

I just pity his wives and kids cos the stigma no be small thing as they would be called names..

Crime doesnt pay at all!!

Its very likely he was influenced, that guy is too cool for that stuff I think, even from the picture taken he has a look of regret on his face the others especially that your last guy dont even look remorseful. Had my first contact with suleiman at their office some years back.

What pushed him ehn nawa oo.


See Nigerians we are our own problem, we silently glorify crime, even if he goes outside to spend it he will be caught. I don't know how you feel you will cheat an organization like that and you won't get caught, its just a matter of time.

Anyway no shaking, 500k dollars is small for them, I know investors money is safe kampe, the gtb connection.

Suleiman Yusuf
This guy attends to clients nicely na, well its not by niceness sha. What pushed him.

Still shocked.


Na wa oo, First marina trust is a good firm.

How did they even manage to steal it.

JFT24:
Is trust more important now than the future, so many men have cater for children which aren't theirs then later having eternal regrets. why not make amends when is right and still reasonable. You don't trust blindly. She's a woman for God sake, talking intimately with a so called gyno who isn't her relative. For me oooo, my trust for her will lye in d DNA. You can't endanger d love for ya children for love or a trust. Guy you need to do the right thing

I understand your opinion and I respect that but that doesn't mean we shouldn't state facts , based on what he wrote in his story that child is most likely his, one has to state how the medical peeps tend to count pregnancy.

wifey cheating or not is another thing entirely , she gave him the oportunity to think like that because of her actions he should not have confronted her about the paternity that was a very bad step, he should have opened a thread like this ( if he cant go through the pains of going through google) asked if its possible for scan to say 7weeks, he would have gotten some sensible explanation and then he should have kept his cool, confront wifey about the Chats ONLY that hes not okay with them and save up for a DNA test after the baby is born to remove all doubts .

I believe you know the gravity of that accusation, Do you know what it means even for the baby involved. I

Accusations like that should b back up with concrete evidence .

His major mistake is not carrying out reasearch and keeping his cool, emotions should not rule a man. One needs to be wise and patient in issues like this because its just too sensitive.

Now he has put his marriage in problem because of little indescretion whatever the result of that DNA test his marriage won't be the same again. A large percentage of women will never forget that accusation. It will take the grace of God for someone who is truly innocent to forget the matter

thirdi:
Wow. What a shocker after 5 years? Well the case went to court and he was asked to revert to standard height of fence and pay fine for violation. By law I own the fence.

Lool really, more details pls.


Generally, people hope their neighbors do the fence first to save costs, some may just do foundation and some coaches to partition the land and the neighbor by your side raise it up.

mineANDurs:
This is why men are advised to follow up on their wives pregnancy journey but they wont listen.
Pregnancy is calculated from the first day of a woman's period, that is how 40weeks gestational period is gotten.

In addition scan is unreliable at giving gestational age(ask any gynecologist).

When they tell men to be part and parcel of the pregnancy process they think its only a woman that needs to know, if he had educated himself when he had those suspicions , he wouldn't have acted irationally and just be patient till he was oportuned to have a DNA test.

I bet some Fathers here are just knowing that pregnancy is counted from the first day of a woman's LMP. Some also don't know scan can be unreliable.


Men should educate themselves, they think they calculate pregnancy mathematically.

Its all online read about your wives pregnancy process .

jokepearl:
1st, pregnancy date is counted from the day of your last period not the day you conceived.

So if your wife period started May 12th, then she is almost 7weeks pregnant.

2nd, Scan uses the size of the baby at a time to predict the age, this may change and vary everytime a scan done. Also big babies appear older with a scan.

So relax

Thank God someone said this.

I repeat again preggy is counted from the first day of your LMP, so if her period finished on the 16th her period should have started maybe on the 12 th or so , count that down to the 26th of June you have your 7weeks.

So technically if you are five weeks preggy they will say its 7weeks which is gotten after adding 2 extra weeks.

You should have asked questions and made your research on how they count pregnancy length online before accusing her or should have just waited to do a DNA.

You should have honestly, now if and when you do that DNA test and the baby is yours, shey you know trust has been broken.

The simple truth of the matter is your calculation is wrong because that's not how its calculated.

Let's hope she doest make your life hell like she threathened, but ehn if that baby is yours you are in for a long ride.

Wonder why people are thinking the lady may not be his niece just because of her age, there are families like that.

I have a cousin whose first two children are older than me, and my cousins mum is just older than my mum by 6-7 years.

In fact its my cousins children I call cousin ,when my mum and their grandmum are sisters


As for the Op if he can sleep with his niece he can sleep with anyone in my opinion, carry your leg waka.

I don't know if you can really see that through the mirror and you just concluded like that. You might even be wrong.

See a gynae its not a big issue, you ll get married and have children jare.

Just don't get yourself worked up.

Some people just don't understand what boundaries mean you just got to tell them directly.

This guy is not pure shikena.

Well the Yoruba's will say its not right
The Igbo's will say its no big deal.

Its not right where I come from but since its a big deal to you tell her you don't fancy it, you will prefer being called mama xyz or sis xyz or aunty xyz.I hope she doesnt make a big deal out of it, I said that because its not really a norm where both of you come from, emphasis is not placed on things like that hopefully She should understand.


Cultural differences sha, you try am for Yoruba land its even another person that will correct her.

The only thing I do say when it comes to issues of EBF is if you feel or even think that your baby is not getting well fed from breast milk kindly supplement with formulae shikena.

A healthy baby is the main thing, why starve a baby when its obvious the milk doesn't seem enough for him.

Doesn't eat EBA only semo , eats only egusi soup, no milk.

And he can't even cook anything , he's 24 years old and in the uni, what does he eat in school?

Well he should learn to cook beans ,concotion and jollof rice and eat them when you are having your own orishirishi food.

Nma27:
Lalasticlala push this to FP so ladies will know better o... I don't see how educative snake and olajumoke stories are o

There are so many fake pastors nowadays,what he wanted you to do was not scriptural and it can even get you initiated or land you in bigger trouble that you have to pray to get out off.

Worse both of you holding that ring can even be a form of charm that he will use to hold you so you ll be his wife or something.

Thank God you knew it was not biblical, in fact it would have added more problems .

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Funny enough the OP is right, OAU is not it for PG courses, its just that simple.

For PG courses from my experience

UI - Quite deep and good not as fast as Unilag but still a bit fair in the time frame, MSc.

Unilag - Fast school year for MSc, Just a brand in my opinion no much depth( also depends on individual Dept's) the hype is just too much. I know Unilag grads may not like this but its simply the truth.

Oau - Basically time wasters, they are good but will frustrate you for just MSc.

PhD in all these schools can always be frustrated by your supervisor.

Undergraduate courses in these schools are just the same I think in terms of quality of content.

PG is where the difference shows.

trippleKAY:
u know history sha

prettyangel10:
There was one he produced then too, g- string carnival. He goes like..... g-string carnival, come see opeke wey dey dance blah blah blah, .... grab your copy.

I tire for this man matter. I watched the video of Moji's burial, the way he was covering the scene with his phone, I knew he was up to something. Shameless old man.

He's no longer relevant, he still wants to be relevant .

Someone that accusations are on his head and should just keep his head low, he's creating something controversial again, he thinks Nigerians forget things.