There's some sense in the post... however it maynot always be the case. A "nice" friend of mine got sick of guys taking her for granted & decided to "revenge"! Her strategy? CHEATING! (Silly IMHO) she dated 2 guys simultaneously, cheated on both with a married man etc! However, as a "nice" girl she ended up hurting herself - she just couldn't live with the guilt! Confessed her stupidity & is now alone!

Just be yourself & the right person will love u the way u are "nice" or "crazy"

My 2 cents!

We aren't supposed to travel but I did :-) will fly back on the 2nd have an appointment & also clearance... I don't wnt to hear stories (that touch the heart)

Kind words & actions!

Btwn why do (nairaland) guys always think every single girl wants their money? I think guys who hammer on this money issue are irresponsible or broke & have a low self esteem!

St Christina: Loving a guy with all ma hrt n all i have....cos 've been taken for granted once. N once beaten.....20 tyms shy!!!!!!

You can say that again! Going on a loooooong recess & when I return....? OMG :-)

Of course you can but please always read, interprete/understand verses of the bible in context.

Cos very many people have misinterpreted this bible verse - to justify not going to church or identifying with a church!

Remember "do not forsake the assemblying together of the brethren"

Monicasque:


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my dear monicasque, why do u bother responding to shallow minded, depressed people... it's obvious that the OP and his supporter (babzilla) are mentally unstable (probably crack heads). If not why would someone attribute one or 2 girls' behaviour to a whole lot? I've always said the guys on nairaland who diss chics are cowards - no girl wants them and all they can do is come on (faceless) nairaland to rant...

Life is short and beautiful, ignore them and maximise the moment...

Self-centered person, emotional abuse and a cheat - even though na social media cheat

Joined nairaland because of my ex, and when I read his crappy and shallow comments I called it quits! The present one is and I know his but he doesn't know mine - yet! I feel free making comments because I speak my mind always (nairaland, facebook, twitter etc) unlike some cowards who say things they know nothing about just to feel among... There's more to life than venting & talking crap on nairaland and then pretending in real life... very sad & disturbing IMHO!

Nice comments, please ladies if u date hime for 12 months max, and he doesn't say anything (even though na lie/pretese) take a walk. U'll be surprised at the number of men that will "rush" u. Like someone put it ----> men full ground!!! No time for baggars wey no sabi wetin dem want!

A family member confided in me about his inability to sustain an erection and I suggested he sees a doctor but shame no gree am  I then offered to do some research on the subject “erectile dysfunction” (abi na so ndi oyibo call am ). And found the following which I think would interest guys wey dey drink like fish – Whisky, Beer, “spirits” etc.
Alcohol may be the cause of some erection problems you experience.
In summary “Where alcohol may succeed as an aphrodisiac in getting people "in the mood" it may fail in execution. During an erection, the penis fills with blood then the vessels close, preventing backflow, so that the penis remains erect. In the short term, overconsumption of alcohol causes the blood vessels in the penis to expand, allowing for more blood flow, but prevents those vessels from closing. As a result, the penis may become erect but not remain so, as there is nothing to prevent backflow”

For more info, please go to
http://www.livestrong.com/article/28126-can-alcohol-cause-erectile-dysfunction/
http://www.sinnue.com/why-alcohol-causes-erectile-dysfunction/
http://www.sinnue.com/can-alcoholism-lead-to-erectile-dysfunction/

For me great communication is key... So if he's boring or not well read - big problem. Another key issue is sex,,no need to pretend abeg. He has to be gud and willing to explore

Madam, I've been there! You had and still have control over your decisions (actions & in-actions). I suggest you start by recognizing & accepting your mistake, take responsibility for your dumb actions, apologize to your boyfriend and move on. If he dumps you, you deserve it!!! However, you would've learnt a lesson...

It's as simple as ABC (that's if you truly regret your actions & want to make amends).

Otunbakay: Chei! Ewo oo! Your assertions 're nothing short of the truth, in actual facts i'm experiencing quite a number of the above listed in my relationship of over two yrs. What got me even more pissed off was when she told me to my face without mincing words that she can call whoever she wishes to call and recieve call from whomever she wishes, which before now she dare not try. We however 're not in talking terms for over a week now and i hope it will last long enough to bring an end to the relationship even though she calls but i dont just feel like talking to her. I felt betrayed because i'm proud to say i have never cheated on her, for real, i swear.

Yeah right! Btwn who cares

Daresh:

My sister help me tell them. All this one na long thing, a smart woman will cheat and will get away with it clean. Men are dumb and will never see it coming.

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ON POINT! Guys be feeling like they have license to cheat and chics shouldn't or can't- foolish "learner" guys

Lai Lai all ur points are not true.... 90% of the time, gals who cheat r never caught. My babe dated 2 guys full time for over a year & the guys were clueless. She's dumped one sha

Iraq or Syria? The pay is HUGE

Banku&Tilapia:
Accra is da best and followed by Kumasi and one gud thing about these cities is dat der r no bombings and kidnappings. Muslims and Christians lives in harmony.

Charlie the Q is about cities in NIGERIA.... If the banku is making u disoriented change to akpu

bad meat: Las boko haram city!very CURSEmopolitan city,

LOOOOOOL

Pretyangel25: Lagos, Calabar, Akwa-Ibom

Is Akwa Ibom a city? Na wa!!!

Lagos, Abuja, PH and of course Calabar

dasparrow: @Post

If she really made that all by herself, then kudos to her. Making fufu is indeed not easy especially for people with no physical strength.

Abeg, let us hear word. Fufu is eaten all over West Africa including other parts of Africa as well. This is why you need to travel across Africa more so you stop exposing your ignorance on Nairaland.

Physical strength my foot making fufu isn't a big deal. Biko u guys should drop the crap especially the silly nairaland guys who can't boil water

Na wa o! Is making fufu like rocket science? Abeg abeg

Hmmm. This marriage wahala don tire me.... I believe everyone has the power to enjoy life, happiness is a choice & most times we have to be selfish So madam ignore that man for now and focus on ur job & baby.

Ok I’m tired of arguing with my friend so please my wonderful nairalanders I need your help. My friend is in a long distance relationship. When she met the guy he didn’t have a blackberry but in the course of the relationship he bought one. Now naturally because they are far from each other they should be in constant communication through BBM, however this isn’t the case at all. He claims to be “busy” during work hours and “tired” after work! The annoying thing according to her is that he changes his status and pictures regularly…. I have told her to ignore him but she’s talking crap about being in love.

Short story about a friend-

She was dating a guy who claimed he wasn't the "keep in touch" or romantic type. So they were dating and he'd go for days without making an attempt, she did all the visiting, calling & texting. Of course, she finally got tired and gradually stopped.
Fortunately, she met the sweetest guy ever.... got all the attention she'd always craved, fell for him and now they're together!!! She cheated on and finally dumped her bf!!!
Seriously, it was just abt the calling/texting!!! Best description of her ex is Bruno Mars' - When I was your man.

Lesson: Chics love attention, so guys the moment u're "busy" and take things for granted... there are lots of distractions which most times can't be resisted! BE WARNED

Guilty!!! Used all, especially for (thick-headed) guys...

Forget her abeg! U didn't meet her expectations, so get over it!

Babzilla: WE ALL KNOW SHE WOULDNT HAVE STUCK WITH HIM IF HIS CAREER TOOK A NOSEDIVE

Why must you see the opposite/negative, she stood by him & that's what matters! Be happy for them and stop beefing

Babzilla:

WETIN U WANT MAKE I DO? MAKE I 4CE AM BECAUSE I WANT PROVE POINT?



NA U SABI I WILL NOT GIVE U THAT PLEASURE

Lol... see u! If you're in Lag, make we prove that my point wrong o!

knorkle2: i don't celebrate it

STORY!!! U don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend so stop talking gibberish *u don't celebrate it, indeed*

Mynd_44: All you have to understand is that there is more to having a good time than spending money. Stop looking at what to buy and invest more in activities she enjoys

Word! I hope my boyfriend reads this *winks...

Crap, crap and more crap... Pls guys grow up! Be responsible and stop making excuses