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Please, you don't use 'harder' when comparing three or more things.

Well...

"No one who puts his hands on a plough and looks BEHIND, is fit for the Kingdom of God" - Jesus

It's beautiful

mosjames:
Nah I'd rather buy Camon c8

c8 with its 1gb RAM? Na wa.

Hmmm... Well, for every Adele, there's a Nicki Minaj, a Beyonce, a Rihanna, a Lady Gaga, a Britney Spears, an Iggy Azalea... *continues reading from long list*

Gangnam Style topping the youtube views chart also means it is top quality. No?

Hmmm... *following*

Hehehe... See as the guy dey reply song
I don't see what others see in that song sha. The hype is something else.

RickRichards:
I never believed an Arsenal manager could join Chelsea until now.

lolz

She's beautiful.

IamLEGEND1:
Moaninho's mixtape dropping soon.

lolz

On the whole, this is a nice writeup.

However, affection isn't static. A lady may just decide to give a persistent guy a chance and end up loving him more than he loves her. Such love could wax stronger or gradually fizzle out. There is no law that a guy who loves a girl more than she loves him would ALWAYS show the greater love.

I'd always advocate giving love the right conditions to blossom rather than ladies looking for a love greater than theirs. The latter is as short-term as it is selfish.

That said, most of the tips here wouldn't have the same effect on every guy. For example, if a lady Oahray likes decides to give him unreasonable space for no reason, they would likely become strangers by the time she's ready to check if it worked.

They are somewhat related, but not the same thing. That doesn't mean they are mutual exclusives. The fact that it is established that you are jealous (your confession) doesn't mean you aren't also showing a lack of trust.

If you are jealous, you feel bad that someone you like/love is showing attention to someone else; attention you feel should be yours.

If you trust someone, you believe he/she wouldn't try to trick you or do anything on purpose to hurt you. Now a lack of it means you'd always suspect the worst.

Now the relationship... Trust counters jealousy, gives you a reason to discard unfounded suspicions. Without trust, your insecurity would give way to jealousy and your jealousy untamed would blaze like a wildfire eating at your relationship till all you have left is ashes.

Persons who trust their partners also get jealous, but how they handle it is what sets them apart from others who lack trust in their partners.

ronald4lif:
There's no such thing as love. Perhaps, that didn't come out right. I meant 'real' love doesn't exist. If it does there won't be any predispose choices and standards even before we meet the person.

I mean if a person says they can't date a white/black, Igbo/Yoruba or Muslim/Christian they've subconsciously agreed and vetoed that these people are outlawed. Likewise an educated fellow who has vowed never to date someone without a formal education.

What this means is that no matter how lovable an uneducated person(s) is, they're considered as 'outlawed', and would never be appealing to such people. Thus, love is a choice and doesn't exist. It's a game of convenience.

lol. "Love is a choice and doesn't exist."

Some quote... How did I even miss this kind of thread?

Edit: Please don't like this post. I was only marvelling at how anyone could be so much at peace with so many contradictions.

patwickk:
I would second your opinion because as it stands, for true love to be, it must be consistent and have zero changes with time like the Love of God. Humans are fallible and inconsistent in all they do, its second to our nature.
Genuine love comes momentarily and at a point when it attains the height of its genuineness, the illusion and joyous feeling is deceptive often mistaken for true love. If adam hadn't eaten of the forbidden fruit, then I suppose who so ever your spouse is at the Eden garden then and only then can you call such love true cause its pure like we were created to be. True Love Is Gods love exclusively.

God's love changes. He punished Israel several times, thought of wiping them out at least once, and eventually cast them off. It just wasn't time that changed it, but their response to his own love.

If something is genuine, it is true, it is real. It doesn't have to be unconditional (no such love exists) to be true. You guys are just trying to make six seem different from half a dozen.

Seriously? How can you assume a meaning for something (out of the blue) and then argue against that assumption as if it is a universally accepted viewpoint? Strawman at it's best.

You said... "Love can be genuine... but there is nothing like true love."

Pray tell, uncjay, what's is the difference between true love and genuine love? You beat around the bush throughout your post.

mira4u:
My post was dully edited, before you mentioned it, Online lover boy. Secondly, it's obvious your poor eyesight didn't see the part of my post where I mentioned something like, 'I always thumb-lash the mgbeke whenever she shows her frustration', and all such post gets deleted before people with poor eyesight like you gets to see them.

condescend so low? Only low lives claim superiority online or a faceless forum as this. If you were useful offline, you will barely have time for such bull..shit. Obviously, your life depends on this forum, so run along online lover boy. I can help your miserable life tho', if u ask politely.

Btw . It was just recently I noticed my profile was banned cos I barely have time to waste here like you, so go ahead and call the mods to ban my profile forever if it will help your miserable life. That's my donation to charity. Poor online lowlife lover

hmmm... Just so you know, it took you approximately 6 weeks and 3 days to post this totally epic reply. I had to go back to remind myself that I once honoured you with a conversation.

Revenge is indeed best served cold. I'm pretty sure your rant would have hurt if you had spent some more time editing it.

Hmmm... Just seeing the mention. This is wrong on so many levels. I don't "fall in love at sight at any beautiful girl." If that makes me less of a guy, no wahala.

That part about dating or marrying a girl cos she appeals to the eyes or passed the bed test... It's because guys haven't learnt to look beyond the mundane that they keep getting scammed. If it's ok to love a girl's body only, why is it wrong of her to love your money only?

Rare or not, there's true romantic love in Naija, and I'm eternally grateful to the lady that helped me see the light. I'd give her the world as soon as I get it

Who said there wouldn't be batch C anymore?

Smh

Nothing new here. The average Nigerian girl (dunno about other places) has at least 3 bfs, just that there's still a number one guy. They still find a way to make cheating seem like an exclusively man thing.

Sweetyie:
And how's that ur biz a.ss hole

smh... With your fingers you 'call' God awesome, yet you quickly insult someone made in His image. Why?

Deejavuu:
Crushes kor trailer ni. I was checking for your name

hmmm... I dey talk of hot tea, you dey change topic to ice cube. This tactic you just used, is it diversion or evasion?

anangboy:
Lol. Oga, you don see where piss or sh** hook handicap before? Their speed go make you question laws of physics. Lol.

lol

Kingsley1000:
no1 will only give you fame nothing more

well, you didn't ask which is the most rewarding. The most pleasurable doesn't have to be the most rewarding.

You don't have all the details, don't speculate.