₦airaland Forum

abc115:
Transgender are created by God like you and me, not their own making

90% percent of transgenders are male or female that use hormones to convert theirselves to opposite sex.There are minority people that were born as intersex having both male and female organs and in most cases surgery is done to remove one sex organ.

Language barrier is the problem and long waiting time for visa approval upto 2 years.

Is that a gain or what

Why burning 🔥 down the entire community, that is genocide, they don’t do that in the North where thousands of Nigerian army has died.

Nigeria is finished, the looting of treasury is on the high ride

The woman really value the marriage from her heart and their marriage will be a happy one.

Nyanabo:
Twin boys. Reason because i cant stomach the factmy daughters would one day become someones girlfriend and eventual wives.

Is a blessing to have good in-laws, if every other person have your mindset, there will be no girls to marry

Efna55:
Before I talk about the post, I'll like to address this nairaland small children that don't have respect, calling someone a simp, senseless, fool, without anything to show the poster is one just because he expresses how he feels, this site is dying very soon because all sensible persons will leave it for the children.. I usually post here but the comments are mostly without sense, insult, I visit nairaland not like before, now I visit reddit, you'll see sensible comments..
Now to the topic, sir, your wife is insecure, sometimes insecurity stems from guilt, she might be engaging in extramarital affairs and she feels her husband engages in such, you should also test her and see how she'll feel, atleat everyone should know how it feels, they say there is no monopoly to misbehaviour.

If I tell her to give me her phone it always lead to quarrel or any form of test, she will always say she did not do such when single that is now she will start doing it. That all men are cheat and she can’t trust anyone. She do pastors things, all this online program. Pastor this, pastor that. I didn’t see it coming obviously.

Godada:


I can't understand the part where your wife will give you a test before peace will reign, and why you should allow her to make trouble with you after she sent her minion to you for you to fall.

I am not going to beat around the brush.

Here are my submissions:

While dating didn't you see these signs? Her penchant for manipulation and control? You are living with a very narcissistic person and I am worried about your mental health.

A woman who is willing to pay, coach and set her supposed husband up is a dangerous person to be with.

Can you imagine what she will do if you compromised with the lady? I can assure you that her actions would have dire consequences.

I am not trying to be a prophet of doom here, but it's going to get worse.

I know you saw lots of red flags but love dey carry you go where you nor know

You better start standing your grounds because you are not in control of your marriage if that's what it should be called.

You are surrendered yourself to personal bondage.

You actually need help.

I would have advised you to break up but alas you are in......

Thank you for your submissions, we dated for 5 months before the marriage, I thought that her inquisitiveness during the dating time is because she cares and for nagging always, she started it immediately after marriage.

Fiscus105:
It's only a foolish and cheap he-goats that would fall for this type of cheap bait.

A strange person that u never see called you and you started melting for her, if not, why don't you tell her straight that she should stop calling or chatting with you.


If the girl know how to lure men, you would have fell yakata for her, u re afraid because she just called from nowhere and telling you several things about u,

You will not understand, you know that we have met so many people in life both in university and after and someone chatted you up and tell you that she know you from the university and that she live not far from your street in Lagos and also tell you so many personal things, why wouldn’t you be curious to know if actually you know that person by requesting a video call.

marlow1962:
You're a foolish man (no offense), sometimes I wonder why men turn pussies after marriage.your wife send another woman to test your loyalty and still quarrel with you that why did you say only introduction, what a shame bro.
Guy if I were you( of course I can't be like you), that said wife go chill for her parents house for like 2-3years and that her counterpart, I will fk her (seriously that's what I will do). You people don't teach stupid women lessons, that's why the women makes you men look stupid. You dy test me, me wer put you for house cun still they pay your bills, rubbish.
Topics likes this are very funny and annoying.

Sometimes if one look back, you allow some certain things to see if the situation can change

My Wife uses a girl to set me up to see if I will cheat on her. Note I am not cheating but my wife believes that all men are cheating and scum. I have done 4 test after each business trip as demand by her for peace to reign. She gave the girl my information and the girl told me that she know me and the places I have lived in Lagos and worked before, so I was surprised and demanded for a video call to see if I know the person. She ask me about my marriage and I said I did introduction. She said that she wants to come and see me in a private place. I said no that I don’t meet with strangers although she knows alot about me including we’re I have worked and lived but I couldn’t recognize her as someone I know before on video call. I didn’t chat the girl again although she keep on sending me greeting and asking me why did I forget her in a hurry. I didn’t reply again because is strange to me that someone knows a lot about my past but I couldn’t recognize that person.

After like 3 weeks my wife ask me why did I tell a girl that I did only introduction and not marriage. I told her that I said so to see we’re the girl is heading to. I told her that I have forgotten the issue. She said that she is the one that sent girl to tempt me and give her feedback. She started quarreling with me that although that I didn’t fall for it but I said I did introduction.

What I’m going to do in this situation, is it not betrayal

skj1377:
Your wife doesn't respect you. Looks like you are age mates or she is far older than you.

Yes indeed there is no respect but I am managing. I am older with 5 years.

Samakus:
What's there to fear?

Trust is not given. It's earned


Earn yours and she will stop suspecting you.

There are obviously things she's seeing that is making her uncomfortable with your travels

I am part of the almost extinct group of one-woman men! My woman have tested it and seen that I am all for her. No amount of temptation can make me abandon that principle. Now, she doesn't suspect me nor have any iota of doubt whatsoever.

Learn from me. At 6.3 feet, handsome and somewhat feeding well, I could have every woman I want but No! It's about my principles as a man.

Stay principled and be a KING

Even when I have proven everything, it didn’t start of a sudden but immediately after marriage, if I go out is a problem and always suspecting, she said she cannot trust anyone. Should I stop my contract business because of her.

After going on trip for business purposes for like a month or two, wife constantly demand for lab test that she don’t trust anyone. What can someone do in this situation. No cheating is involved.

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Lastmankc:
How can some people just become gay? When they are so many soft pussies,ass,and boobs everywhere.I banged a pussy last night, and I can't imagine the kind of orgasm I was hitting back to back.The pussy was damn soft,creamy,warm and sweet.I woked up refreshed and energized this morning and I cursed those gay guys

You don’t need to curse them but pray for them, what of men who prefer to bang girls through their poo hole instead of punna

Those saying 15k for a chicken, are they joking or been real. 35k for Turkey. How much are they selling goat. Nawaoo

Some Transgenders are better than some religious people.

Brillant Girl

Nice

Gaza has been demolished several times in history and re-occupied including Arabs, mamloks etc.

Dexy4yah:
Some women like been pampered toomuch but they find it hard to replicate samething.


Godforbid...what if you were sick or something bad happened to you...Soo that's how she will just do I don't care as long as he doesn't call am cool with it.

If am in your shoes i will lockup and not call her again....until she learn from it.

Good idea

Adeizabidemi:
Bro almost facing the same issue with u,.... Unreasonable women will take an advantage of ur simplicity and your generosity for a ride.... See I used to be bothered before... But now... E no concern me again o..... If uv got kids just make sure you fully concentrate on ur children and beer their responsibilities.... Cos I won't be surprised if such women will not be responsible too for her kids .... She might only remember you anytime they need money or so that is when she Wii know you exist to call or talk to you.. find peace and rest... Don't be bothered...

Nice idea

NEUDUDE:
Suggest that you the husband is an okpo lol. Dem don carry you handicap lol. You see with every thing wey dey happen still go marry woman when you dey go abroad dem suppose knack u 2by2 and to the alleged wife, congrats ma

Some married already before travel but come every 6 months to 1 year

Please in a distant marriage where the husband is the only one that greets the wife in the morning or call to ask about her but the day the husband will not greet in the morning or call the wife there will be no response from the wife the whole day or the wife will not care to ask about the his husband. What does that Suggest ?

Lagos-Ibadan news Propaganda, always lying 🤥