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Antoinne:
The only thing i see is "rich".

rich, super rich, extremely rich, not so rich dts all i see in her post. op is extremely poor mentally

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

u r an idiot i hope u r super rich too silly thing

kushsy:
Today my baby girl of 9 made wept...its been 9 years since I had her and no other..another preg turned out to be ectopic...as she grow older she asked me why she is the only among her peers without a sibling even in her school..i have always tried to call her down but this morning as I was singing a gospel song with some lyric that say everything is fine..she came and tapped me saying. (No Mummy everything is not all right..you have a sister you call every time you need to talk some one, my niece n nephew all have themselves in 2s and 3 but me am all alone...Who would I be calling when I grow up and need a someone) I just broke down and cried. she wept with me..i don't know what my daughter is going through to always say this to me..i dont know how it feels to be an only child...I am not a young woman as such. I am thinking adoption...

God has answered ur prayer for another child, it happened to my aunt with one boy for 10yrs who wept for over 4yrs for being an only child till God brought another boy

most men who cheat has beautiful wives. monotony for them kills interest. nt cheating is alot to do wit personal policy n discipline bc sex wit a new lady excites d man more

most m

angelchinny:
Am a well dedicated nairalander but I created this new account for this issue. I have been married for 4 years now with 3 children and since the 2nd year of our marriage my husband has been constantly cheating on me.

The way he goes about it is even heartbreaking, he does it like his into a love relationship with them and not just for fun.

There is this particular girl that he calls like 3 times everyday because I check his call log and saw they keep in touch more than twice everyday. I stupidly called the girl and warned her to stay clear off my man and she confessed he didn't tell her he was married, I confronted my hubby and he was forming defensive and was telling me dat am accusing him wrongly and he will soon start cheating. I called the girl back in the evening and she told me that even as am calling that his call is entering her phone, that he called earlier to beg her to give him chance to explain..The next day I left with my children to a far away state and he pleaded that he will change and all that. The issue is that he continued with this shameless behaviour, our live-in nanny later confessed to my cousin last month that he approached her and I was so devastated. He knelt down and begged and I easily forgave him..

Forgive me for my long episode but I really need your help on how to punish him cos I went to his call log yesterday and saw the same girl that made me take the risk to leave with my children to another state calling him again and he is reciprocating the calls..his a very jealous person, he goes crazy when a male friend calls me..I want to make him pass through all the pains I have endured all these years.. What do I do pls?

focus ur energy on getting a job dts ur main prob. as long as u r jobless u cant do shit.

4X4:

U DEY CRAZE . ASK ANY OTHER PERSON WHETHER G WAGON FINE PASS THIS LEXUS . OYA ASK UR FAMILY AND FRIENDS .

lol u guys r lusting after dt soldier ant bc it is expensive, otherwise u wont let ur enemy ride in such hydra headed ride

christinie:
I so much love G-wagon. The car is so sexy and rugged. Anyone with me on this one?

na this thing way look lik soldier ant u dey die for hate d exterior with passion. looks lik 1970 cars lol i cant ride in an ugly car even if its worth a trillion us dollars

wake up from d nightmare n move on

Nnaeb:
Dear JobTrends,



I am facing a very difficult time at my workplace. I landed a job fourteen months ago and the first eight months were the honeymoon period. My boss loved everything I did. I walked around feeling on top of the world. I was very innovative.

First I replaced our outdated newsletter publishing platform with a new one that is faster, cheaper and much easier to use. I cleaned out our newsletter subscriber database and used social media tools to double our newsletter subscription list.

Then I started including fun little quizzes and community discussion topics on our site and our newsletter. Our sales increased by fifteen percent. I created a “Get Started” kit for new customers. I’ve never had as much fun on a job as I had in my first eight or nine months here. Then things started to get ugly.

My boss said “You’ve made your point. Give the new ideas a break.” I was completely shocked. I thought my boss who happens to be of an opposite sex, the Head of Marketing, would want to keep moving forward fast. I thought that my new ideas would make my boss happy and they did at first, but then she said “e don do.”

I have a dozen more ideas ready to implement. The salespeople have asked me for an online customer training that they can use when they visit new customers.

Now I don’t know how to prove my value or even how to get through the day. I can’t even answer sales and customer requests intelligently because I can’t say “That’s a great suggestion, and we are working on implementing it.” I can’t say that because it isn’t true!



I haven’t spent a dime on my marketing initiatives. The only expense to the company is my salary which is not that big. I replaced a person who was paid a lot more than I get paid, because I heard it from the salespeople who were very dissatisfied with my predecessor, kemi.

Please I need your advice, what should I do? I’m completely frustrated. Can I get my boss, to let me keep doing my job or do I have to leave my job after less than a year and a half knowing how unfriendly the labor market is?

Thanks,

Christopher

Share your opinions!


http://jobtrends.com.ng/please-help-my-boss-is-scared-i-will-replace-her/

ITK better slow down on intimidating your boss with ur ideas or u may b sacked before u kw it. from ur write up and hw u sound u r nt a team player n seem to take d whole credit for ur ideas without creditin d support of ur boss and coworkers. ur type will irritate any boss.
ur ideas were implemented bc ur boss accepted it so she deserves some credit n u didnt give her any in ur post showin u r selfish

dts y infinix hot 2 is selling like pure water. go n grab ur copy nw

DrumStickz:
This is the height of injustice I've ever seen

I've been patient and keeping quiet for months just last week I decided to voice out and my boss just told me to my face that I'm fired

Because I complained which is 'disrespect to him'



Just short of words

u will learn d hard way olodo
d wise thing to do when u dnt lik a job is to honourably resign, nw u r sacked staining ur cv

i will wake up frm d nightmare say a little prayer n start my sleep afresh

wemimo42:
d 2 sims are micro sims

which means i ve to reshape my mini sims to micro to use them on hot 2. so wat happens wen i wanna use d reshaped micro sims on a phone with mini sim slots in d future. does it mean i will welcome back d sim

Maro4u:
tell them lol the phone na better machine and that mumu wey say asphalt 8 no dey work for the phone I wonder which name I go fit call am self mtchew IDIOT

d dual sim is it one mini n one micro or two micro sims

leksy07:
Breaking newz....@ last!!! Congratulationz 2 Chelsea
fanz...PAUL POGBA Spotted in a Chelsea trainin pitch this afternoon

lol bia op no try dt kind rough play again ooo

Aisha95:
Like who?

ur pastor, parents, siblings, relatives, friends, neighbours etc

livingstone2013:
Please, any good person that can help me with the payment of my house rents. I am owing the landlady 3 months rents and she has made my life miserable. My landlady always harass and abuse me cause of her rents.

She threatened to evict me this week if I don't pay her rent which is #18,000. I am unemployed graduate for the past six months but seriously searching for a job so as to better my life. I am not a lazy man. I am willing to do any job. I don't want to be homeless.

May God bless anyone who can assist me, financially.

op u cant b jobless in lagos ok look for a construction site arnd n go n do serving masen u will get 2 to 3k daily stop being lazy, go n hustle like a man. u can do bus conductor too jst swallow ur pride or ur pride will swallow u. try private lesson centers u can get 300 to 500 per hr taught d list is endless on things u can start immediately with zero naira n make 2k daily. i hate to beg instead i go do any dirty legal job n earn a living.

Bootybuttchic:
there is usually this kind of attraction between babies and i......like everywhere i go,everywhere i am,either in bus,road a strange place,babies wouls always run to me,touch,smile etc....there was a tine i was just passing by,and a baby was running towards her mother,but as she saw me coming she ran to me(i dont know them)..even the mother had to ask the child if she knew me as i took the baby towards her,while the baby kept smiling all this while.....at a time this made me shriek like ,i found it strange but recently i have learnt to embrace them....i just smile and wave now...

but i just want to know what you people think,cos there was a time i mentioned it on here and a guy was like it was evil and i needed to contact him blablabla ...i didnt take it serious


but whats your take on this guys.....and experienced people can share theirs too.... thanks


cc: lalasticlala

it means u will b highly fertile n bareness is soooooo far away frm u.

swansea dey rape man u steady

swansea dey marry man u steady nw

shiinihost:
they are lucky that they we're not caught in aba

i swear they r luck nt to b caught in aba bc boys for don burn them with tire n petrol since

caught stealing in aba equal to death by burning alive

chelsea dominating d game

i saw it coming

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Call 08026868650

pls state the price here if u r genuine

take note golf3 saloon is called vw vento

it is a very good ride esp 1.8l engine if u want a balance of economy n power

op try toyota corolla 2003/04 thank me later

game over west brom vs chelsea 1 8

west brom sorry u r facing a wounded lion

i see us wining a treble this season

Osisie:
Admission isn't easy to get in this country u know. Waited a long time b4 I got this one.

getting a job dt can pay 70k monthly is harder than getting admission

kinstunfad:
Hello, good people of Nairaland! I am presently in a dilemma, I currently work in a construction company with good pay but I got an offer with a Federal Govt teaching hospital, 1st, I don't know what their salary structure is like! Kind of confuse, advice needed!

dnt think abt it go and grab d job immediately even if it pays lower dnt say i didnt tell u ooo

queenfav:
I woke up this morning with a lot on my mind. So much that I didn't know when tears started rolling down my cheeks.

I am getting frustrated. To think I did everything right in school to ensure I left with with a 2:1 grade. I ask myself ,where did I go wrong? To make matters worse, my family members think all is well since I am a "barrister".

I am slowly beginning to regret my decision to be a lawyer. Though I am still serving as a batch C corps member,I get scared. So scared that I may have to take up work in a firm that pays 15000 naira. God knows I have tried. I have sent out more than 200 applications, yet nothing!

Which job recuitment site have I not signed up with? This was not what I envisaged for my career when I was being called to bar. Even in the midst of the mass failure of my set, I bagged a 2.2 from law school; still nothing to show for it. I know people from my university that graduated with 3rd class now working with top law firms.

Well, I have been told to stop wasting my time by applying for associate jobs on the websites of law firms. The reason being that they rarely employ lawyers anonymously. It is mostly through recommendation or connection. God knows I really want to practice law, but the job is not forthcoming. I have my rent to pay, bills to take care of and cannot survive on 15k a month after 6 years of going to school. I am open to suggestions anyways.

Someone even adviced I start a business or learn a trade! Yes, that's how sad it is. Many may feel am overreacting. All fingers are not equal. Family members and friends I thought would be able to help out are now giving me the cold shoulder. I have cause to be worried since I am solely responsible for myself now. I can't even bear the thought of going back home to depend on my parents. If I had known it was going to be this way, I wouldn't have wasted my time and resources becoming a lawyer. What's the point? I am still looking and bringing myself to apply to firms.

After december, I may have to think of something else to do.

law is difficult to make it in without strong background and connection. most law firms will pay u less than 50k ie if u r exceptional n they consider ur application. keep praying n hoping i kw abt three young lawyers in Abj with masters and no job they r jst hussling.
advice think survival first by starting out any biz to earn a living u can still go to practice law later start agro biz or anything dt will earn u a living.