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Jeez I pity the man, how can he ever gain weight with these two bulldozers on his bed

Spits on thread

onlyhope:
Nairaland family,

I created this account today so I can say my mind; I need your advice here.

I'm just few months shy of 34 years.

The issue now is that my mum is asking me to get married, (she's about conducting church deliverance service for me even).

Unfortunately, no job yet; I'm only hustling. Doing a few legal businesses to keep me forging ahead.

Now, I only have about 4.8 million naira; NOTHING ELSE!

I raised the money by working my ass off; doing only LEGAL businesses (graphics, web, writing), etc.

Now, the challenge is, business is not consistent because it's 99.9% online based.

But, I also wish to settle down now, in fact, before 35 years (when I was younger, I was hoping I would be married by 29). Alas! Life is not a bed of roses.

Also, I wish to further my education.

So, I need your precious advice:

If you want to advise me as your family member, close to 35 years of age, struggling, no job, but hardworking; do you think I should settle down whilst still looking for greener pastures?

Note: I don't have a fiancee or gf right now.

P. S. If you have any REASONABLE job offer for me, I will gladly take it as I am open for negotiations.

I can do any LEGAL biz or job, locally or internationally; including waiter, morgue attendant, etc, once the pay is 'comparatively' equal to the risk of the job.

Please, save a brother.

You have 4.8m hmmm DTS alot of money, most people working for 20 years now do not have such savings.

Why not create job for yourself

Just use 1.5m and buy a clean Toyota sienna for transport biz and become a commercial driver.

U need multiple sources of income so that if online doesn't pay then offline can pay.

As for marriage u must start thinking seriously about it and plan to settle down in 2 years time when your offline transport biz is up n running

Bravedude112:
Pls don't call that guy a beggar even if you don't want to help,if you have been through hard times you will understand how it feels to be broke!

Shut up already if u have nothing to say

Nnamz:
Seriously dude if you're expecting even a penny here, you're a dreamer. Sell your phone and help yourself.

U just spoil market for the online beggar

Yanumo:
Hi guys, my friend Kenneth needs help, he his almost falling into depression. Kenneth wants to be a professional footballer but he's 24 and he'll be 25 October 29. He wants to know if he can still have a career in professional football, and what are the ways to go about it. The highest age for academy is 23, please help out with trials and advise. Thanks

Yes now

Just know that your football age is under 14

That is how it works

At least they left the car for him

Making noise during mass

The idiots should be given a more severe punishment

A fat girl has no choice, they worship men who mention marriage to them bc every other man will not look at them twice except for one night stand.

Saffi:
Are you also willing to do 70;30 around the house, and cook meals for the family when The woman is tired. Also wash plates and sweep the house when I’m unable to do so. Most naija men do not even want to lift a finger in the house, and to even fry common egg they’ll complain. Well as long as there’s a mutual understanding, each to their own. I’d rather everybody have their individual roles so they’ll be no confusion, that’s a true partnership. They’ll be no burden left on anyone.

Yeah
Men should be willing to help out in the house, wherever they can

Nice one

It's high time the freedom in universities both public and private be curtailed.

Bloody civilian na soldier u wan drag line with? Next time u go get sense after d beating today

Who asked u

Beblessedbaba:
wisdom get a life. You can be arrested for strolling on your street..it is called wandering and you will be detained even with identification. Wake up man... Nigerians do not deserve to go to hell on the last day. I doubt if hell can be more furious than Nigeria.

Any trip outside Nigeria you will always feel sad for Nigeria. Some times you will contemplate not coming back at all...but home is home... One needs to identify with the root ..

Get lost already

Stanleyville:
No he was talking to you opKo!


Anumpama

Really u will soon join that criminal cultist in jail soon to enjoy some watery beans

BEANSANDBREAD00:
Useless idiot

U mean ur father abi

TheBlessedMAN:

Hey fellas, it was what happened at my friend's house this week that gave birth to the questionic topic above.

His girlfriend arrived to his place two hours late in contrary to the agreed time.

So the lady gave an excuse to him that she was busy at home.

My friend asked to know the main thing that kept her busy and it was then that she said she was helping her tired mother to wash her father's clothes.

Her exact words were, "I spent a lot of time soaking and washing the jeans but the underwears gave me little stress".

That was what started the argument between her and my friend.


My friend said its not proper to do so as a grown up adult of 23years.

But the lady countered by saying there's nothing wrong in helping one's parent with petty chores like that.

Now, fellas, what do you think?

The lady is right and the friend is an idiot

There is no help that the lady should not offer her own father, d same father that feeds her grown up ass.

U are only grown up when you leave the house and foot your own bills n has nothing to do with your age

Anistef:
And I guess u're a vamp

An unbiased judge and not a biased one like u

This is a lie against Madonna ur brother must have committed a crime to be in jail

Let's know her occupation too

It's not true except the woman is heartless but the man is expected to carry most load. So 70 : 30 is fair especially when the woman is doing something

Location

I want the generator

How many years have u used it, 25k

vizkiz:
In Africa the wife is always a slave to her husband's ego.


That is just a fücked up mentality.

For christians the Bible wants the wives to submit to their husband, submission is more than obey it's like referend which is slightly below worship.

It's not about Africa, it's about the Bible the eternal word of God

MrsInvisible:
Ok. Let's assume, sunday after church husband keeps yelling on the kids 12, 14 years old, about doing house chores.

Wife defends kids since they have done house chores already. Parents have argument. Husband stopped talking to the wife for 1 week, cause he wants the wife to say sorry to him. What should the wife do??

Please give only reasonable answers. This happened to my sister just now. She is in tears and I would like to hear your opinion. Thanks

Allow your husband to discipline your kids, it's a sign of disrespect to correct him before the kids.

Now go on your knees and apologize to him without further delay, he is the man of the house

Alashoalash10:
if the story is as you put it, you don't have a husband yet but a master

Husband means master, oga m in Igbo

A wife must submit to the husband, submission is more than obey it like referend something a little below worship

e author=Chinnyrita27 post=77104129]Good day nairalanders. I created this account to seek for advice as I am confused and crying as I type this. I have been happily married for 4 years with a daughter of 3 and my husband. Not about a week ago, I had issues with one of his friend in his absence in our home. He had this close friend who came visiting on a faithful evening last Monday(I was not strong enough to go to work),he came when my husband wasn't around so I had to leave whatever I was doing to keep him company while we wait for my husband, at some point I offered to get him food, he obliged and ate, it was not upto 30 minutes after eating, he asked me to go buy him card. Politely, I told him I can't as was so tired and weak to walk about 10 minutes under the sun, i suggested to recharge free for him from my bank, he insisted, frowned his face and asked if I was trying to tell him that he can't recharge from his account, I was shocked, he stood up angry and aggressively and drove out of the compound. I didn't utter a word, I was angry but kept calm.

Not until my husband came back, and when I was about to welcome him but, he angrily yield and screamed at me and asked why I had to insult his friend and call him poor. I angrily asked him why he believed his friend without trying to confirm the from me, we deeply quarrelled and he made statement threatening to end the marriage if I cannot respect his friends and his people. I have never disrespected him or any of his friends and family members before, I'm so confused, we have not be conversing and relating well since Monday. I tried to make peace with him as I wasn't comfortable keeping malice with him but he said I will have to apologise to his friend which is something I don't think I can do.

I am so confused, what should I do?[/quote]Your husband just wants to divorce your jobless ass, Dude is fed up and using his friend to smoothen your exit.

Why should his friend visit him without tracking him on phone to know if he is around or not

If you are jobless as I presume u better apologize sharply if not draw the battle line and stand up to your right. You have done absolutely nothing wrong except bring his dependant n Jobless.

Why should my friend send my wife on errand, him dey mad what kinda disrespect is that!

Uniportadmision:
Desperation at its peak like I said before, there's no market here for your Bajaj.

Lol stop quoting me up and down TVS is a known bad market u can go back to your mechanic shop with it no one is even pricing it, no one is interested in a money pit of a liability

7 years of fornication

Uniportadmision:
Sorry Bajaj is at the bottom of the food chain in port Harcourt

Keep deceiving yourself, cost of maintenance of TVS is higher than Bajaj. I won't advice anyone to buy tvs as second hand bc they are useless as fairly used and only good when bought brand new.

TVs is as slow as snail and can only be appreciated by old retired men not young hustling riders. It's difficult to make meaningful cash riding a snail than a jet.

Anyway buyers should make their research and stay away from TVS fairly used Keke or regret it later.

Too fat for an 18 yr old

What happened to work out

See laps like mama nkechi

frankopit:
Na so dey finish,suck,slack and destroy my ex babe honey well. E no go beta for them money bag customers.

They can call the Maketer for 200m deposit,
Then later call her out for dinner the rest n History 801.

After 2 years of working with the bank , I went to test d honey pot.... Ahhhhhh jah I was disappointed. Slacked.

Which one is 200m, any man with 5m to deposit will mark register ooo

Uniportadmision:
Bajaj is a no go area, too much problems, electrical faults no be here.

No second hand value unlike Tvs King that has even 5th hand value.

It's not true bro TVS is not better than Bajaj in terms of everything, ask riders to educate u more. U will even see more Bajaj than TVS on the road, that alone is a strong message.