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bentben:
So I will try to be as brief as possible, because story is very long.

Started having an affair with this close friend of my wife who now happens to be my colleague in the office now... I helped her got the job before we started having se. X. I have been her target, Infact that was why she came so close to my wife, I'm introverted, so that was the only way she could get close.

Yes she's not happy in her marriage, because her husband is promiscuous and don't give her attention . She used me to ease her pain. I consented to the affair because I kind of felt I was assisting her ease the pain in the marriage... I was totally wrong... I goofed, along the line we fell in love with each other... Deeply in love, even  we knew what we were doing was wrong.

Every fuc, king persons in my neighbourhood and office feels I'm straff1ng her, but we were never caught in the act.
The more I try to resist and stop this whole affair, the more the bond, considering we work in same office space.

She wants more attention than I give to my wife her supposedly friend .. She flares up most time when I pick my wife's call... Forgetting we are close family friends and can easily be caught.
She steal kisses whenever she visits, not minding my wife is in the kitchen.
We both have kids... That are friends.

NOW THE BIG ISSUE :

Because of the less attention she's getting from me, considering the fact that I want to play safe, she has decided to start straff1ng our boss who seems to be giving her the whole attention as it seems now.

Our boss his a nice handsome guy.

Myself and our boss are very close Pal, he knew I'm so close to her but choose to get is own pound of the flesh... Even though he claim he wasn't... But I was privileged to hack and  read their chat and got knowledge of their sexcapade...

She still wants an affair with me, she's fuc. k1ng  sleeping with two married people in an office.
I found this very hurtful, shameful, disgraceful and disgusting... Even though what I'm also doing is terrible...
I'm trying to heal and stop this whole affair... I took some days off work to clear my head already.

I'm deeply hurt by her actions, blocked her on all social media handles.

I need matured advice please on how to scale through all this without going back to my vomit looking that we work in same office space and I got to see her every other day.

This story is no fiction... Pls bash me, but don't forget to drop a word of advice for me and probably her.

I'm using a new moniker... I have been an active nairalander... I want to hide my shame.. kindly also ignore my typo... It was done on my phone.

Thank you.

MOD will appreciate if it can get to FP plsssssss.

Of a continue fucking until her husband catches you n arrange u with mob. Na fuel, Tyre n lighter than will treat your fuk up. Anu ofia

DeCanadian:
Which one is ogbonna eche agu cost again pls explain.

This is the settlement fee given to locals after u have paid for your land before u are allowed to do anything on the land like fencing it.

neduedu:
am Chinedu, and my number is 08065472955. call me if u ve not yet bought. A very close relative wants to sell off his acre and some plots of land at good prices.

Do you have farm land for lease around osisioma n environs at least 4 plots?

kattytamer:
You are definitely a failure in real life. A country with a population of over 180 million has less than 50,000 doctors in service and you foolishly think your politicians are telling you the truth.

A complete idiot like u should stop exposing ur extreme stupidity publicly. Medical doctors are excessive n useless now. Stop bragging bc u are a first yr medical student bc u will be jobless after ur studies.

mapist:
Point of correction; a car is not a liability. Get your facts right. Even accounting does not refer to a car as a liability.

An idiot like u should read properly before responding. I never said cars are liabilities. A car can be a liability or an asset depending on it's intended use

kattytamer:
So if engrs are paid 10k as nysc alawee by their PPA it means we have too much engrs right? Please delete wisdom from you moniker.

Don't quote me when u lack common sense, take your frustrations to your stupid father that failed to train u properly.

Doctors are excessive in Nigeria _ by Dr Chris Ngige

Bigcake:
I disagree with you. We rather don't have enough functional health facilities, hence it tends to look like the doctors are surplus. How many Primary Health Centers do you have around you locality?

Have you ever been to an hospital and see surplus doctors on duty? It is always a case of " doctor is not around ",.

We have only about 72,000 registered doctors in Nigeria, which are to service 200 million people. Divide 200 million by 72,000 then you will agree with me that the Nigerian faulty system makes blue look like pink.

Not every Nigerian needs a Nigerian doctor hope u kw DT, secondly every Nigerian won't be sick at the same time, factor that into your calculation n u see that 72k doctors are excessive. Some people are so healthy that they don't even see a doctor in 10 yrs like my self. Add the available Nurses, MLS and pharmacy shops n u see why most doctors are useless n not required.

Nigerian universities produce over 10k doctors yearly plus those trained abroad that are returning home not forgetting free medical advice available online 24/7.

You can only make millions if u have millions to invest otherwise you will climb the ladder gradually but steadily by doing paid works for others.

Times have changed even if u have a million dollar business idea u will be buried with it if u don't have the capital to implement it.

The govt here is dumb to to get loan na war even if u do the infrastructure here will cripple the biz in less than 2 yrs

0ppa:
Sharrap man, everyone seeks a gold to dig.

Go and say that to your stupid father that failed to give u proper home training

Tonto dikeh is a gold digger I swear

Churchill knows how to play a gold digger well

Chai girls nawadays Taya me

tetralogyfallot:
Which kind of doctor pls?

Doctor that works in hospital

Ngige is right after all the supply of doctors is more than the demand, we have surplus doctors. It's simple labour economics once supply exceeds demand salary will crash lol joblessness among medical doctors is now a reality

Doctors should go into tailoring or farming - prof isaac minister of health. This points to the fact that they are excessive.

Doctors are free to travel abroad as they are surplus in Nigeria - Dr Chris Ngige

Two renounced medical doctors of over 30 yrs experience has spoken

Jeez see meat

Fat pig this shit should be up to120kg

Jeez see meat

Fat pig

ImaIma1:
Is that statistics one you created or based on research that has been done?

From where you stand, it may be 1% but from what I have seen and known, it is way higher.

Give me examples of Nigerian female divorcees that have remarried esp the celebrities or any known name let's start from there.

Will u even allow your brother to marry a second hand? lol

eyinjuege:
Not true.
Quite a number of divorced women get back on the dating scene once they're ready. Some don't want to remarry again because they are happier being their own boss, and living on their own especially if they have their own money. They have guys they are dating on the side, have regular sex and who they can chat with. They also have the luxury of independence
The issue of remarrying comes in when they want more children. If they already have enough children, some think there's no point in remarrying.
I know quite a few previously divorced women in another marriage now and they're doing just fine.
In fact, it seems the single mothers these days are giving the never married ones a run for their money.
Men will always chase a woman who has her acts together whether she's been previously married or not. You're a man, observe your fellow men closely from now.

U are contradicting yourself most of them will never re marry bc they will never attract the kinda of man to marry again, they only attract poor fuk boys. They will settle for fuking around in the name of dating. Most men that will come to them are after their money if they are comfortable so they won't like to marry them fuk boys DT they can only attract. U won't see a comfortable single guy going for a divorcee for marriage, very rare.

A divorced man is way ahead DT is why a whole celebrity like Tonto dike is still crying about her husband even after 3yrs of divorce while unknown Churchill has moved on since.

If it's about chop n clean mouth men full to mark her register free of charge aka oshofree which is called dating as a cover up. The right word is oshofree

NB: marriage is not meant to have children only after all every child will leave home someday, marriage is for a life companion, ppl only realize this in old age when all their children have left the house

All I see is stupid sense of entitlement displayed. If u need one of your brothers cars then humble yourself and go and beg him for it n if he says no then accept in good fate n go n buy your own car.

You only owe your parents not your siblings but you can help your siblings if they ask for help so as not to encourage laziness

ImaIma1:
That was before. Women are more open to dating again and remarrying. My friend told me today that she is ready to start dating. She and her husband are separated, not divorced yet. But from all indications, the marriage cannot be resuscitated. People are learning that there is still another chance after a divorce.

They can only fuc.k around with willing fuk boys in the name of dating but the chances of getting remarried is less than 5%

Because they are the bigger loser esp in Africa. A man can easily move on with another sweet 16 by remarrying especially if he has the money but it's not so for a woman. A woman's consolation after a failed marriage is her job if employed, custody of her child if any and the child support money if she will be getting one. The chances of a woman remarrying after a divorce is less than 5% she will remain a single mother for life n loneliness of old age will be waiting for her.

Vanity

Vanity

Don't take a loan to buy a liability or for consumption.

Take loan to buy assets.

Asset is anything that puts money in your pocket

Liability is anything that takes money from your pocket

It's called upgrading your car to 2019 model lol

Everyone wants to have the features of a new car in his 20 yrs car, it's their decision and joy so respect it.

I once say a 1992 Honda halla with Car DVD and reverse camera ;

It's not our fault that we like good things but cant afford one.

Ppl now construct fog lights on their bumper and fix side mirrors with signal lights on their 25yrs cars

Before nko Davido is not just small but a little boy

Wor wor kids Happy family

Tonto said he will tell his child that the father is dead if pushed, there is no way Tonto won't make his son have deep hatred for the father. So save your pen

May we never cross paths with demons like toto dikeh, Churchill just carry bad market

How on Earth can a man survive for one week sharing one house with toto dikeh，it's will be hell on Earth

I will go with 9 especially when oshogbo weed is working

KidsNEXTdoor:
Chime is a thief who stole Enugu money and land...


A chronic womanizer that specializes in buying exotic cars for his numerous concubines..

This lady was an innocent corper serving in the government house until chime struck...

It's a pity

Lol
Did u say Innocent?

The wife was a known runs girl that fought to marry a divorcee bc of her gold digging ways

Lol digital thieves

We are better off with a analog thieves

U offered ur pussi to another man to fuk

Just kill urself for being an ideot

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Your comment was obviously NOT based on wisdom. Even private hospitals outside Lagos and Abuja don't offer such a shitty salary. You're here comparing with mothers and soldiers. When last did you hear soldiers complain about their salaries being too small? They only complain about either delay in payment or inadequate weaponry. And as for mothers, whose job is it to pay them? Was your mother on certain formal employment protocols for being your mother?

The same doctors would work day and night. They have mouths to feed, too, after spending years in the university. Same hypocrites like you would agree that N70,000 isn't enough for bank staff, IT personnel, etc. But when it comes to doctors, they should save lives for free. And they should accept N70,000 offers in a place like Abuja, where the cost of living is high. Whenever they reject low pay, you call them greedy. Why not see how much doctors are paid relative to other professionals in other countries before coming here to spout nonsense?[/quote]We have several jobless doctors in Nigeria and I can assure u that the idiot that rejected 70k has created employment for another jobless and even more qualified doctor who may have assumed duties since.

70k is not a bad start for a fresh doctor that has passion for saving lives. It's only poor for some idiots that see medicine as a poverty alleviation course lol.

Once supply exceeds demand price will crash, doctors are excess in supply now n even 50k will get one employed.