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At 42 this a miracle baby I tell u all her mates are on menapause already

If she aborts it she will regret it even in her grave, how can she even think of abortion at 42

Always my friend why can't u guys own up to your story.

Anyway your friend should get someone to share the rent of one room with, he should forget self con for now

He should be contacting his bank and lawyers

Abi na packaged digital begging format

Denizsmart:
Though I am in far away Nysc orientation camp in Paiko Niger state, thus not being able to make it to my convocation ceremony. But I'm so happy to be among the 42 First Class graduates convocating today at the federal university of technology, Owerri.
My cgpa is 4.55 in the department of mechanical engineering.
I am so happy I made it.
congratulations to me.
What's next? advice needed on how to succeed with this feat in the outside world.
The number two coloured name in the photo below is yours sincerely.

Congratulations but no that without connection na secondary school teacher las las

Attention seeking

Vanity upon vanity all is vanity

udemzyudex:
Read and understand before displaying your ignorance online oooo.

U can say DT to your stupid self

Thread for our kids

Useless reps

Who gave them the power to summon or arrest a chancellor of a school

Father Ede just give the whole committee blindness at once

The school can never die bc they run all professional courses and are fully accreditated by National universities commission

Ahmed0336:
words can't describe how i dislike that yari.
the most useless governor of all time in the history of this country.

K. Ahmed you spoke well

No body is more useless than Buhari

Aba kee?

No pic no price

A father that lacks self discipline/ will power is all I see


She will be so attached to her first boyfriend n when dude dumps her her brain will upgrade concerning life n men

Guest007:
Sounds like a misunderstanding somewhere. Why not call it what it is *unsatisfactory sex life* it's not happiness, it's something that can be worked on...

Haven't you seen people who just don't make each other happy. They could have everything but they are not happy what can you do for such a person? Is it your fault they're not happy?

Now if she said your D size doesn't make her happy. What do you do? He says after all these years, and this family, he isn't happy.

I think people are using the wrong word here! Instead of using the word happiness, state what is the issues and deal with the issue.

Cheating*
Lying *
Hygiene*
Finances*

Deal with the issue

Too much sense will not kill you.
Spot on

PaulAris:
I think you misunderstanding this
In as much as no one should be/is responsible for our happiness is true
We still owe our partner(s) a sense of responsibilty for that.
Its just to improve in a particular aspect right?
Ok lets take for example, your sex life.
If you had an husband who doesn't satisfy you sexually and you ask him for an improvement and he tells you he doesn't owe you one bit of happiness(like you claim is the truth).
What do you then, do you say to yourself "Oh yh he's right, I'm solely responsible for my happiness." You then go to use a Love Machine or a preferably find someone who can satisfy you??
Is that it?
Or you acknowledge the fact that you guys owe eachother benefits and responsibilities.
Imperfect people working towards...

Happiness does not depend on anything but your will power, it's just a choice. whether u are sexually satisfied or eat onces a day you can still choose to be happy. Your understanding of happiness is shallow.

bukatyne:
I am of the opinion that it is the husband's duty to make the wife happy ditto the wife. If I wanted to make myself happy, I would remain single.

@OP: Very unfortunate as you would have a hard marriage however not a basis for divorce or separation.

Happiness is a choice

pandv:
If your partners says he doesn't owe you happiness after you demand for improvement in some areas in the relationship, will you still remain in the marriage or relationship?

Childish question

He or she does not owe u happiness

The idiot will surely rut in hell

Suicide is not an option

Op your problem is comparing your self to others your mates you said lol ( I use to do the comparison way back but it's the surest way to be unhappy n ungrateful)

The story of life is different for everyone, alot of people will do better than you no matter how hard u work even your juniors even those u taught n there are millions of people that u will do better than too.

You have to be contented with what u have now while planning where you want to be.

As for the suicide if u try it the hottest part of hell awaits you

Jeez I pity the man, how can he ever gain weight with these two bulldozers on his bed

Spits on thread

onlyhope:
Nairaland family,

I created this account today so I can say my mind; I need your advice here.

I'm just few months shy of 34 years.

The issue now is that my mum is asking me to get married, (she's about conducting church deliverance service for me even).

Unfortunately, no job yet; I'm only hustling. Doing a few legal businesses to keep me forging ahead.

Now, I only have about 4.8 million naira; NOTHING ELSE!

I raised the money by working my ass off; doing only LEGAL businesses (graphics, web, writing), etc.

Now, the challenge is, business is not consistent because it's 99.9% online based.

But, I also wish to settle down now, in fact, before 35 years (when I was younger, I was hoping I would be married by 29). Alas! Life is not a bed of roses.

Also, I wish to further my education.

So, I need your precious advice:

If you want to advise me as your family member, close to 35 years of age, struggling, no job, but hardworking; do you think I should settle down whilst still looking for greener pastures?

Note: I don't have a fiancee or gf right now.

P. S. If you have any REASONABLE job offer for me, I will gladly take it as I am open for negotiations.

I can do any LEGAL biz or job, locally or internationally; including waiter, morgue attendant, etc, once the pay is 'comparatively' equal to the risk of the job.

Please, save a brother.

You have 4.8m hmmm DTS alot of money, most people working for 20 years now do not have such savings.

Why not create job for yourself

Just use 1.5m and buy a clean Toyota sienna for transport biz and become a commercial driver.

U need multiple sources of income so that if online doesn't pay then offline can pay.

As for marriage u must start thinking seriously about it and plan to settle down in 2 years time when your offline transport biz is up n running

Bravedude112:
Pls don't call that guy a beggar even if you don't want to help,if you have been through hard times you will understand how it feels to be broke!

Shut up already if u have nothing to say

Nnamz:
Seriously dude if you're expecting even a penny here, you're a dreamer. Sell your phone and help yourself.

U just spoil market for the online beggar

Yanumo:
Hi guys, my friend Kenneth needs help, he his almost falling into depression. Kenneth wants to be a professional footballer but he's 24 and he'll be 25 October 29. He wants to know if he can still have a career in professional football, and what are the ways to go about it. The highest age for academy is 23, please help out with trials and advise. Thanks

Yes now

Just know that your football age is under 14

That is how it works

At least they left the car for him

Making noise during mass

The idiots should be given a more severe punishment

A fat girl has no choice, they worship men who mention marriage to them bc every other man will not look at them twice except for one night stand.

Saffi:
Are you also willing to do 70;30 around the house, and cook meals for the family when The woman is tired. Also wash plates and sweep the house when I’m unable to do so. Most naija men do not even want to lift a finger in the house, and to even fry common egg they’ll complain. Well as long as there’s a mutual understanding, each to their own. I’d rather everybody have their individual roles so they’ll be no confusion, that’s a true partnership. They’ll be no burden left on anyone.

Yeah
Men should be willing to help out in the house, wherever they can

Nice one

It's high time the freedom in universities both public and private be curtailed.

Bloody civilian na soldier u wan drag line with? Next time u go get sense after d beating today

Who asked u

Beblessedbaba:
wisdom get a life. You can be arrested for strolling on your street..it is called wandering and you will be detained even with identification. Wake up man... Nigerians do not deserve to go to hell on the last day. I doubt if hell can be more furious than Nigeria.

Any trip outside Nigeria you will always feel sad for Nigeria. Some times you will contemplate not coming back at all...but home is home... One needs to identify with the root ..

Get lost already

Stanleyville:
No he was talking to you opKo!


Anumpama

Really u will soon join that criminal cultist in jail soon to enjoy some watery beans