₦airaland Forum

Dimaya:
A guy went on a talk show and accidentally revealed to the audience that he is cheating on his faithful girlfriend.

Now his girlfriend is pissed and doesn't quite know how to handle the situation.

So how did you handle a boyfriend who cheated on you?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6x9LCYM1TYk

cheating is not in the African man's vocabulary since the olden days,it is the oyibo man that cheats,during the good old days an average African man is free to marry multiple wives,have multiple mistresses and equally multiple cocumbines,so how than Can someone like that cheat again,he has the right to fvck any willing pvssy in the village so far it is not another man's wife,it is the oyibo man that is restricting themselves to one woman, the African man is not meant for one woman,so as a woman know this and have peace

Tempulated:
Hello Ladies.

Can you date a man without asking him for money.

during my bachelor years I was fortunate to date a very wealthy girl that really loves me so much that she bought a car for me,she doesn't ask for money but once in a while I do buy some stuffs for her which she cherishes so much,no matter how well off a lady is,as a man it is always natural to give no matter how small and always what you can afford to lose

Zonefree:
How many women are successful in Nigeria?

quite a very interesting question,the few that are successful are toxic,

AqualinaXYZ:
Lol



Port Harcourt people can’t relate



PH person wey him village be Rumuigbo that lives in Aggrey road will be saying he’s traveling for Christmas who no know go think say na travel



It’s just N150 bus fare



Rivers people don’t travel out of PH



Them believe say anything wey day Lagos and London dey PH



That’s what Igbos would have done than leaving their whole existence in the east and run to Lagos



All Rivers people investment for Lagos and out side Rivers state no fit pass 10

it seems you still have a lot to learn about the igbos,the business adventurism of the igbos cannot let them settle for mediocre opportunities in the southeast alone,right now Lagos is no longer the new Frontline in business if you don't know the current area the igbos are silently taking over SME businesses is Africa,from Ivory coast,Ghana,Gabon, equitorial guinee,Angola,Namibia,Congo,South Africa,etc,these guys are going were the business ground is fertile,so if you are still think the igbos are static in Lagos better think again,many are even building factories in South East Asian countries

marvelck:
When dating a girl, a lot of men are odogwu. But once they get married to the girl, they turn to odiegwu!

They tend to change from a loving and caring boyfriend, to an abusive, unfaithful and inconsiderate husband...

Why is it like that in most cases...

marriage has this uncanny ability to test the limits of a man's patience and endurance to the utmost limits

HugeElephant:
For years, I have always observed this. Every human believe they are Special and different from the other person. That "illusory superiority”,

Stand infront of the mirror, and you will notice some intricate designs and the tendency is you start to wonder about creation. Subsequently, it hits you that you are probably special and different from other humans. You might probably feel a Creator loves you differently than others but in reality, humans operate on a dual fuel. This dual fuel is Blood and Oxygen.

This dual fuel, oxygen and blood is even extended to other animals. So I wonder if other animals feel special too.
I think It's easy to understand why so many people believe they are special. They are all the physical, fundamental expression of their own importance.

the DNA sequence for humans and chimpanzees are 98% identical,only 2% represent such huge difference between chimps and humans,imagine if another civilization will have 2% Gene different from us,how will they see us,we will basically look like monkeys to these aliens and to think such is not possible with the infinity of the universe and trillions of planetary system is basic ignorance

kkins25:
I've been thinking about this alot, and can't seem to understand what "submission" means.

What does it mean for a wife to submit to me? Also, can women provide what "to submit" means to them?

Is submitting to a man similar to submitting to God in the sense that man has the last and final say? Does this mean, the man's will should supersede that of the woman? Does submitting mean, taking care of? Please, explain it to me like I'm a dumb 5 year old.

if you acknowledge that your husband is the head of the family as ordained by God and nature then you are a submissive woman

TheOldGods:
As a guy, who is doing well and earning over a million a month. I want to make sure I find girls within my class. Unfortunately I don't know where to go or start from. Most girls I see at the mall are looking for who will buy them gelato ice cream. Where are these hardworking curvy successful girls with car going to? Is it club? Or a church? At Least even if she doesn't have a car, let her be earning half a million or 200k atleat.

There is a reason governor's son marries senators daughter, etc. class finds class abeg.

Guys where Una dey find these girls?

sincerely speaking ,if I am in your shoes what will be my priority is a respectful and submissive wife that will bring joy and happiness to my life,what she earns will be down on the scale of preference

nairalanda1:
The date of Nigeria's breakup is always being pushed forward.

Fact is, Nigeria is going to exist in 2123, because at the end, most people benefit more from a united Nigeria than a disunited Nigeria.

Biafra is a pipe dream. No, it is, and it is because eastern minorites are still annoyed with the Igbos. Most minority tribes are invested more in one Nigeria than in division, where they would be at the mercy of the big tribes , as it was before the British came. Hausas and Yorubas too, as well as Fulanis. Even the Igbo elite.

Yes, no one likes the idea of one Nigeria. But it is unfortunately the least bad of a large set of bad options.

The problem with Nigeria is that we are trying to run a supposedly large economy on a tiny financial base that is decimated by corruption and stealing, which everyone does. And we don't want to do industries because it means a long period of suffering, and that's not what independence was sold to us as...no, independence meant more kudy in our pocket. Did not happen, because it was not possible. But we still believe the lie...somewhat.


Anyway, most of the secessionists know how to do protests. Actual political agitation for secession, they know not. Once it is election, they all line up behind PDP and APC. Am yet to see a party formed that would at the very least promise restructuring now...which could lead to secession. Na to play revolution they all know.

the only glue holding nigeria together now is the act of self preservation from the north,if Nigeria splits and the oil revenue stops coming into north it will be a cataclysmic catastrophe,they will do anything possible to maintain the status quo in the guise of one Nigeria because it ensures their survival,

Peter532:
I don't know if I should be angry or just smile and take it as it is. This is someone that I fed, I clothed despite us being closed friends since we were kids. He knows everything about me that my parents don't even know till dates..We could go to a gathering together and I will be the one ordering and paying for everything we bought even recently because I always acted like the big bro and he accepted I guess .. Just last week I saw it on his status about is house opening invite. I later got a dm from him that same evening telling me about it that I should come through.

It came as a surprise I admit, even though I know he was doing quite well for himself. I know some will call it entitlement mentality but since I considered we were close like a brother we even ate from same plate last 2weeks, I thought I should have known atleast.

Note: I noticed so many people will come in here to call me names, even some accusing me to be someone with bad motives and sort I smile. Not everyone has a evil mindset like you or some persons you know, It's just that when you expect so much from people you hold very close to your heart you might get disappointed and it hurts badly.

Especially when you know you can't do that same thing to that person. I only brought it out here because I wanted to know maybe I'm overreacting because I feel a deep level of betrayal but hey I am happy for him and I will attend the house opening tomorrow.

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you are not overreacting because you are betrayed by your supposedly close friend,to tell you the house is a surprise is a cover up,he definitely do not trust you,deep in his mind he will think you will scuttle the house project by any means left to you,that is why he decided not to tell you,I am sorry a friend with such mindset is not your friend because there are more things you don't even know about him,he will now see your reaction. as jealousy but if you can mask your emotions and show him less of your own intentions and future plans,

LocalFARMERS:
A 3 years old Fish

imagine if such fish is left in the wild for 15-20 years,I have seen a catfish captured in imo river that is more than 25 times the size of that pond breed,it was sold for #25k in 2005 and it took more than 5 men to load it inside a cargo bus

inicyril:
Hello family!
My future is posing so much threat to my mental well-being and calls for serious help.
I've always been of the school of thought that decisions burdening on one's future should be the product of the person's deep thinking and not advice on social media platforms. Alas I was wrong!

THIS IS MY SITUATION
I would be 34 by February next year. I am a graduate of Biochemistry and I have been working as a teacher in a state government owned secondary School for the past 3 years.
Growing up, I've been passionate about studying medicine but couldn't due to financial constraints.
When I got my present job in 2021, the passion started coming back gradually but I ignored it and opted for a side hustle in software engineering. Late last year I got enrolled into alx software engineering program. I'll be done by the 22nd of this month. I've learnt a lot and acquired a lot of skills as well.
Despite this, the passion still keeps staring at me.
The issue here is, at my age is:
1. Is it a great idea going back to school to study medicine?
2. Should I go for computer science so as to boost my chances in the field of software engineering?
3. Or should I settle for PGD in education, then masters, to encourage my career growth in my present job?

I NEED SERIOUS ADVICE PLEASE.

follow the route that will give you joy and happiness,not public opinion

UnfairLife7:
Father's family are most times useless and wicked. Anyway, It is best to sell the property to sort out your family immediate needs.

it will not be an easy sell because the other siblings living in the village will frustrate or scare any potential buyer and nothing scares away property buyers like family crisis,you may try but I don't see how easy it will be if your father's siblings are hell bent on getting the house,I think first thing is to settle the issue in the kindred or traditional ruler,it seems you are from the southwest I don't know how the custom works there,but if it is the southeast that your father built a house without support from his brothers and they wanted to claim it,only the umunna kindred will finish those brothers and put them in their place,infact you will not even dream if embarking on such ridiculous house grabbing in a family with umunna in place.for those that don't know what umunna means it is a family meeting that is mandatory for all male family members from 18 yrs and above and you will find it in 99.5% of all Igbo family group,if such a case will come before the umunna an elderly man will give a complete history of how that house was built by your father while his brothers are enjoying 33export beer in Congo republic

Sirchiboy:
Made a stand to stop sleeping with hoes coz I came into full awareness that nothing is so special about sex.
It will only drain your money and leave you in a state of perpetual regrets.

getting married when I did

MiniMonster:
True nairalanders should Drop a four-letter word for him


Lets go…..🤣

a four letter word is still good enough for that thing,I will add a very stupid simp,but wait he may be clinically insane,who knows

rawfacts2023:
Boobs have suddenly become objects of interest with many write-ups coming up on the subject.

Some have even quoted the Bible to show us that attraction for the mammary organs have spiritual backing.

All the same, there is need to understand that while the Bible does not condemn a man being fixated to his wife's boobs, the fixation should be limited to one's spouse.

Being attracted to a lady other than your wife's boobs have consequences which include being guilty of lust, psychological and emotional drain, and avoidable financial drains.

Stop looking at women's boobs and focus on how to make your life better.

Thank you.

don't you that the attraction to enjoy different types of boobs is a big motivation for many people to make their life better,if you love boobs then you must strive to be a high value man so the boobs will be coming.so the attraction to boobs is also a key to success and a big motivator

talk2hb1:
All this won't matter at old age.

so it is even better to start enjoying it now before old age comes

NBAjunior:
I’m a 22 year old male staying alone as at the time of making this post I have only 54 thousand naira in my account with no hope for the future…

I have no job, no friends, no girlfriend, I have no hope of getting money cuz the work I do is no more


My house rent is becoming due I don’t want to go back staying with my mom it would add more to my depression

Please I need a word of encouragement from you guys

I just saw a post about a woman and some men hanging and sleeping on the back of a fully loaded lorry of bananas,these are real go getters that don't even have time to die,you are still a young man and already losing hope,don't you know that the solution of a problem always lies in trying to solve the problem

fadilaMaikiriki:
I think I can confidently that I'm the only female who doesn't have leggings. I mean every female has this clothing.

I went to the market sometimes last month, I decided to get leggings, but when I went to the vendor that sales it, I didn't want to buy it again. The motivation to buy it just died down.

I have a kind of buttocks that is protruded and shakes when whenever I walk, so getting or wearing a leggings will make things worse. It'll bring out everything ( which I don't want). We all know how leggings are- thin and light. So, with buttocks that's somehow protruded and shakes when walking, wearing a leggings will be somehow, at least to me. Everything will be exposed. This will draw unnecessary attentions which I wouldn't want.


So, am I the only on this? Am I the only female here who doesn't have one too?

And men, what's your take on this?

you are very wicked, why are you hiding what God gave you,don't you know that seeing such buttocks can reduce stress to most men,pls go and buy leggings and wear,stop been a joy killer

MSN1:
All for the Hustle.
Success is not for the faint hearted.

may God grant all hustlers the strength and courage to keep moving on against all odds

fadilaMaikiriki:
Anyone here who can help me achieve that, I would really appreciate. I'll try my best to make you happy.

go and use a smaller car to learn,a bash or scratch with that glk may not be a good idea,use a car that is expendable

bobonla:
No money at hand bro to spend in the hospital now. Just need some drug and self medication

I think you should at least see a doctor,it will not cost much,just to buy card,that is how leprosy can start

Angrigowt:
Honda crv.when no be big daddy or corolla.men nawa o. See why u need a fence and a gate

even with a fence and gate nothing can stop this type of vandals evcept maybe car alarm system,you can easily open a bonnet without even opening the car,this are specialist thieves that can totally skin a car when a heavy rain is falling

CasNova:
Biologically, a woman's breasts are to for lactation and to feed babies.

Why are same body organs so much objects of attraction to men?

I'm very guilty of this obsessive desire.

How can I stop this? How can I overlook those seductive things and move on as a man?

Genuine and honest opinions will be appreciated.

there are some breasts you will see,you will agree with me that it is not meant for breastfeeding babies only,God created that for a reason to console us men and feed babies,God is very wise indeed

Jbleenk:
Is it me or things have gone wild in Nigeria?

Traveled to Ado Ekiti to visit my dad, decided to branch a super market in Ado thinking things will be considerably cheap than it is in Lagos.

I ended up spending 75k in buying just a handful of stuffs. I was gutted. How are people surviving in Nigeria?

Breakdown

AMOUNT
1. WORLD OF POPCORN 1, 400.00 1,400.00
‡ STALEG CAKE BIG 1, 200.00 1,200.00
2 TEVOR PLANTAIN C 3,200. 00 6,400. 00
I BODMAN SPRAY 236 3, 100.00 3,100.00
I TEVOR PLANTAIN C 1, 750. 00 1, 750.00
2 EAST JIELIN LIQU. 900. 00 1, 200.00
1 FANTA PET 50CL. 250.00. 250.00

Subtotal 15,900.00

QUAKER OATS 2N 7,000.00 N 14,000.00
QUIC LOYA MILK PREMIUT. 1. N 2,360.00
COLPHADCARE NAT 2. N 8,360.00
MRD KILISHI SACHE 2. N1,280.00

subtotal: N26.000.00

Aside the above, I also bought:

Croaker fish @4k/kg 5kg = N20,000
Irish potatoes @1k/kg 10kg = N10,000
Bossy water @1,200 each = N4,800
Subtotal: N34,800

Grand total = 15,900 + 26,000 + 30,000 = N75,800

I don't think you have the right to complain when you still have the money to go shopping in a supermarket and buy exotic goods,you are very much blessed

Jangolover:
I think it's an invitation to Bleep her but nah i don't Bleep people's wives. Godforbid.


See eeeh fear women i repeat fear women

okafors law still causing problems

Ozommadu:
Demand and supply if you passed your economics classes...nobody is flying to ibadam and ado-ekiti this yuletide


What does that tell you??

that it is already sold out also tells a lot about the people

Immaculate755:
Good evening everyone.

Got this message from a female friend.

Good evening, from a sincere heart, I don't wish to hurt you in anyway.... No matter what happens or transpired between us, I wish you nothing less than the best now and always. You might consider me to be evil but, it's never my plans to toil with your emotions... I am sincerely sorry.

Pls what does the above message mean?

@moderator pls help me push this to the front page.

how can we know when we don't know what transpired between the two of you

nony43:
What is the need of the refinery is buying petrol won’t be cheaper?

this is the key question most Nigerians will ask,how much will dangote sell the products,let us not jump up for joy until we see their prices,dangote is not a charitable organization

Obavoh:
I am not a beggar. It is a loan I will surely pay back. Why can’t he just say he can’t lend me , instead of playing my life like long tennis

your uncle is a smart man not to poision the family relationship,#600k is a loan that you cannot pay back,it will only cause bad blood in the family or if you a serious bring your land as security

faebenezer5star:
Are you for real 🤔😁

the man must obviously be joking to think we believe he can remember all those names over the years or do he have a pvssy diary,not that the list is too outrageous but for him to recall the names is suspicious