₦airaland Forum

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

me to cry because my wife no gree give me pussy to nack,this is a very big sign of weakness by a man,do a man even need to beg his wife for sex,well the woman knows she married a weak husband that's why she is doing such rubbish,why will I beg her for sex while mmeso a sweet 19 yr babe in turn is begging me for attention,imagine such nonsense.

NigerianAngelo:
Never be with a girl you don't intend marrying.

And don't leave a young lady after disvirgining her.

Go back and marry that girl. Yes, that first one.
Don't spoil people's daughters or potential wives.
A MAN HAS NO BUSINESS WITH ANY GIRL IF HE DOESN'T INTEND MARRYING.


Three Hail Marys for all Nigerians.

this post is very hilarious and stupid at the same time,men are now been harassed sexually,disturbed unnecessarily,stalked and crushed on by the young girls of nowadays especially if they feel you can take care of them, many girls just dress provocatively and will be parading and advertising themselves looking for men on social media ,shopping malls,streets, eatery's,etc

Pray4naija:
And there governor want to become president
Clown

the flood is not the fault of the governor or nature itself but people that build houses in natural flood plains that is designated by nature to be a natural overflow catchment basin,as long as people decide to build houses in flood plains this will continue to happen,my in-law built a duplex along the flood plains in ogbaru onitsha,he was initially warned that floods can reach heights of 15 ft high during a bad flood year but he stubbornly built there,right now he is a refugee in his in-laws place, will you blame the governor soludo for that?

Creeknigga:
And don't you think or feel you people (teachers) are not doing enough?

I don't think the teachers will take the whole blame,the society these children grew up contributed more to the problem,

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.
These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

why fight nature and hormones in a battle you cannot win,get a good size rubber dick or a vibrating rabbit and watch yourselves cum out of your frustrations and relieve the built up pressure in your system,if you like pray and go to deliverence you may just end up fucking your pastor.

Kutis2030:
Hmmmm.

gold is meant for those that knows the value,if is that bag I will think it is just aba made bag and will not think more about that,imagine carrying the amount to build 4 storey building and walking around.the materials used to build such bag will not be up to that amount what you are paying for is the brand designer name

Bmaster:
The lady's lip is already set,
Why try to add more to it ?


I don't believe this !

I heard that even the doctor was crying

my bet is breast enlargement,that is the only area she is lacking,so sad to see a fellow hustler die on active duty,she is just trying to upgrade her assets to get more customers,RIP

Psych412:
lol ..big temptation for her

a wealthy drunk man can propose what a married woman cannot refuse,#500k for one round?my former chairman pays such when drunk and tell how many women can resist such temptation,infact any woman that can open a beer parlour cannot refuse such amount.

Ebenman:
I meant a lady, and we got talking. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standard is:
1. At least a graduate
2. Self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference
4. Cool and understandable
5. Not short

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, almost 8 years age different from me. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and felt very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

I will bet my fresh pot of egusi soup that the lady is not a virgin,believe that you can believe anything,after secondary school 70% of girls are no longer virgins,after higher institution the figure is 95.5%,infact any girl that still remains a virgin after 5-6 years in Nigeria university has factory fault in her pussy.

Period007:
Peter Obi government will stop all these fraudulent activities by Asari Tokubo and his gang of thieves

the things I have learnt from PO in this election season is shocking,this man revealed last month that 700,000 barrels of crude is stolen daily,some people were calling him names but nnpc came out last week to admit that 600,000 barrels are stolen daily and some days after that this pipeline was discovered,who is fooling who?from my guess the actual figure of oil stolen everyday in Nigeria will be almost 1 million barrels,this is organized crime by the security officers,oil companies and government personnel,PO said that oil is not sweet or grocery that you can put in your pocket,that before you steal oil that ship must come inside Nigeria territorial waters with navy approval.he is correct 100% by the discovery of this pipeline.

feminist35:
Men are all over always trying to deceive Young girls, 20yrs to 25yrs, into a relationship. Many of these men will not bother with a mature and independent lady because they know these type of ladies will see them for the coward and failure that they are. A 35yrs old woman is mature enough to know what she wants, but no, they won't go for her. They will rather be disturbing Young girls in their prime and be looking for virgin up and down

why will I date a 35 yrs old woman when I have a choice of 18-19 yrs old sweet girls,I don't see myself as a wicked man because I will pay for her school fees and everything she needs,infact her mother is happy that she is my sidechick,after all what big deal is she providing for me apart from pussy,I pity these old girls of 30 something years because the competition from small 18-20 yrs old girls is not funny,they don't send you,life is too short not to enjoy better thing while we are still healthy

Corridon:
Fool.

The name buhari should be in the Oxford dictionary as the sumarized meaning of poverty,hardship, nepotism and hunger

Rubyjade:
What funny contact names have you saved in your phones?

Mine���


1. Danger 1: He was a relentless toaster I had back in the university, till date I don't know where he got my number.

He was a non-Nigerian Phd student at the time and he followed me everywhere.

Those days we always had early morning lectures at UMTH(University of Maiduguri Teaching Hospital)/so most times I don't eat in the mornings before leaving.

When I get hungry, I go to a restaurant within the hospital to eat.

This guy would have paid before I was done eating. I'd insist on paying and they would claim they had no change.

He called and called promising the whole world. I asked that he tell me who gave him my number but he didn't bulge. He would call and send me all kinds of love text msgs, he continued till I graduated.


2. Danger 2: His 2nd number �


3. Don't Pick: there was a time I used to exercise in Ahmadu Bello stadium Kaduna, he is a footballer.

We did some exercises together once, he couldn't believe I wasn't a bit interested in him.

So he kept calling, I got angry and saved his number as "Don't Pick". This was 8 years ago, do you know this guy still calls that number.

4. Dunno: a number that regularly calls and asks how I am doing, in fact we exchange pleasantries like we know each other way back. I feel terrible I still don't know who he is.

5. Night call: a woman who regularly called me in my school days to convince me to marry her nephew.

She was always calling during the night, she never called at day time. Those days of MTN free night calls, you know the weirdest thing, it was my father who gave her my number.


6. I Don't Want: her nephew, at least he only called in the day.


7. I am tired: an airtel customer service number, I blocked. Before I did, it'd call at least 5 times a day.


8. John neighborhood: He was my parents' neighbour before he moved.


9. Man who fears God: House agent, and he really fears God.


10. Crayfish: who I buy crayfish from (I know his name now but I am finding it hard to change it).


11. Fppp: till date, I don't know why I saved this number this way and I don't know who it is.


12. Pot: planning to buy pots from her, but still haven't.


13. Who knows: Just like the name, I know nothing about her/him.

PS: Please suggest a hashtag for my Sunday stories �

I went to a burial last weekend in okigwe and a woman that is obviously married from her dressing approached me outside and bravely decleared her love for me,HMmmm,so she collected my number and called me at the spot and wanted me to save the number,I have no option but to save it with OTU OKIGWE,which means okigwe pussy,she has been calling since then but as an elder the days of fucking married women are behind me,let me focus on my small babes let my sin be smaller.

Rayban25:
Nawa oo...that conversation is between you and him now...we dont need to know my dear

this is quite interesting,despite the fact that as a private conversation and it is supposed to be so,but it is also an eye opener into how some women behave,to many guys that saying go and make money and any girl is your it is not so,don't be surprised with your money and flashy car many girls will still reject you,infact offering such money for sex to some girls is a big insults and it belittles you that is offering such money

Waynesteave:
Like you read up there, I don't actually know my age, but I can remember some event way back,
I lost my mum and dad so early and I grew up with grandma.

I remember my uncle coming to take me back to lag, in year 2000 precisely and I remember very well when that bomb blast at Ikeja cantoment happened for days in Lagos.

Now key important things to know is, when my uncle came to take me back to lag it was during third term holidays and I was on my way to primary 2 then but when I got to lag he enrroll me to private school and I was taken back to nursery 3 because baba (me) no Sabi even speak English as at then, and I still remember that very moment very well.

So like how many years of age do you guys think I might be then cuz all the memories are still fresh in my brain so for me to still remember everything then, I am thinking maybe i was 7 or 9 then. I'm so confuse.

from your guess I think you maybe correct at 7 years in primary 2 in 2000,if you plus remaining 4 years in primary + another 6 years in secondary that will be 17 years to finish secondary school which is the average age,that will mean you are born around 1993,you are roughly 30 years old

Sheistoopretty:
What won't I see and read on this Nairaland

this story is terrible,the guys dick is obviously small not to fill the hole of the pussy and he is trying to blame the pussy

SeaTrade:
So I was at a restaurant having my usual breakfast.
Then few moments later, my girl called since she knows my itinery and asked if she could join. I obliged (greatest undoing!).

Like 40mins after, she came and couldn't sit beside me cos there was a partner of mine right next to me, so she sat far.

Then there was this girl that was like 10ft away from us on another table, all alone having her own breakfast. I don't know her, have never seen her before and I noticed she has been stealing glances at me and then look away when I made eye contact.

Even my partner had to whisper to my ears that someone was checking me out and all (I was well dressed and all, besides man na still fine man ooo ).

Then after a while, my chick left to get something upstairs while I had to settle the bill at the counter for our breakfast.

Omo as I dey counter dey want pay, this girl came to the same teller I was trying to pay to and asked me if there was an attendant there(cos the attendant left to confirm some prices). I said yes and she stood right next to me waiting for my attendant to return so she can pay at the same point whereas there were other attendants that were empty!

I knew okay, this was it! This girl likes the man infront of her.
Time past and my attendant hadn't returned and she tried to spark up small talk, I responded briefly because my chick fit turn up at any minute. Guy I lock up!

The attendant came and I cleared my bill and told her bye. I was pained. This girl fine die and classy, chai!!

I no collect number, I no book rendezvous, nothing!

You know why? I instantly did my cost analyses in my head and figured it wasn't worth it to spook my girl of my philandering ways and lose the stability I enjoy from her over this girl I don't know.

The thing pain me ehn!chai. But nigga gats maintain.

I've never had this type before, the girl too clean, sleek, soft spoken, pretty and classy and young too (max 22).

But I let all this go because I no like risk and shalaye.

And the girl slim, all this kind girls weh you fit hang for wall...

I really lost today honestly.
Don't get me wrong, I'm a player, but sometimes we just can't lose what we have for uncertainty so I control myself.
Chai!!!

But one thing pleased me, it was great to know I'm still attractive. Haven't had a youngling drool over me in a while.

Tbh I thought I've lost it and is all on sugar daddy mode now.

And no, this girl ain't no hooker, she came in her own chauffeur driven Honda cos I saw her at the lot as I left (could be an uber too, I wouldn't know).

you should have used pen write down your number and give to her,life is too short to manage only one pussy,she even knows you have a main chick so why bother,most men has a wife,main chick,side chick,spare chick, emergency konji chick,etc,life is too short,moreover you will reach an age when you can't do such things again

Okoroawusa:
I am BATified

anywere belly face na there front dey

femisplash:
Tinubu provides content, he is the reason for the election. Atiku and Obi are as dry as a mop stick, both are in the country yet newspapers are going hungry.
Everybody including zombidients can't wait for the biggest masquerade to land in town.

is it when the music stops and the festival is over then the big masquerade will come,it is obvious from the currents speech's he has made that BAT cannot face a very public grilling,he has medical issues that must be looked to and his wife is a selfish woman to allow her husband in that state to even think about running for the presidency ,

Massiveglory:
No matter how annoyed or disgruntled you are , you cannot deny the love for obidatti.

Despite all the fake news and pull him down by all means actions, the love keeps expanding and exploding.

The love is unexplainable. A love that moves Nigerians to use their own time and money with no monetary inducement of anykind .

Never seen in the history of Nigeria. No politician dead or alive has gotten this kind of love from the masses.

Nigerians has fallen to a point we're they cannot fall down anymore and the only way to go again is up,the massive support for PO has not been seen in the history of africa

ganisucks:
This woman looks for any opportunity to demarket and destroy her husband's image. You're telling the fulani community that your husband is not a man. A politician losing elections is not a trigger for PTSD, haba.

it is the atrocities they committed during the civil war that gave him PTSD,the federal forces executed all able bodied men and boys in asaba when they captured the city.

Omihanifa:
Why are you quitting now when you know there’s champions league tomorrow.

I wonder oo,were he can bet Bayern Munich to win enyimba rovers,there is even dog,horse and donkey race for him to choose from

favour2222:
This Worth's watching
And a wow from me

never in the history of politics in Africa has millions of common masses raise up as one,in such numbers and spending there own money to speak with one voice,that they need change.
The last patriotic act by buhari will be to ensure a fair election without rigging or less he maybe the last president of a United nigeria

slivertongue:
If the prize of voting along religious, ethnic or sectional sentiments is to become the most wretched, the most distressed, divided and most deprived, the north must therefore sincerely begin to ask itself if that price is worth paying.

this statement summarized the reality in northern Nigeria right now

Corridon:
World war 111 loading.

which world war 3?Russia that can't defeat Ukraine,the Russian people better stop Mr Putin before pride and ego destroys their nation,even isreal will give Russia serious headache talkmore of nato countries

Southernigbo:
I wonder o, when humans are not beasts, a full grown up man going naked in front some dirty girl/partner and then fornicating or committing adultery as the case may be? A guy who is suppose to not only uphold morals but also inculcate morals is/ate now the ones doing the wrong things shamelessly. Na wa o

I myself wonder sometimes why a 40+ yrs old man like me will not only go naked but allow my misbehaving dick to be manoeuvred and handled like the gear lever of a Bedford truck by my 18yr old sidechick,why will I even do such thing with a girl the same age and class with my third child ?.
The reason is that chiamaka is sweet,with a pair of puffy breasts and also puffy pussy to match a large appetite for sex she cannot simply be properly serviced by her agemates it is us matured men that will look after her and Bleep the living daylights out of her stubborn pussy.

Tinubuadvocate:
There is nothing like turn of southeast with this kind of statement 100 years to this time you people will not smell that seat.

why are you angry is it not your principal that first said it is his turn,but PO has repeatedly said that the coming election is not by turn,connection or ethnicity but will be based on competence, character and capacity to deliver,even you knows that PO is the better chioce

Fadafada231:
What's he doing in army check point. You see all those guys that used to stay in army checkpoint to help soldier collect money from motorist they are endangering their lives. I saw one yesterday as I was driving and I quietly gave the dude a salient advise.

what you saiid was the absolute truth,I have a business in umunze and frequent there,the slain guy is the point man that collects daily money from tipper and truck driver for the army officers at the checkpoint,some times he dresses in camouflage that you will think he is an army personnel

siofra:
God created dark tall men specially. I mean...

Especially dark men that are over 6ft tall with beard

God safe your daughter from these sons of Adam.

He's active on nairaland but a guest, very mature, not a redpiller, got his shit together. For a while we weren't talking but recently we started talking and I think I'm falling in love.

Please I don't want to fall in love with this guy because when I write my final exams after the strike, I want to join an international order and become a Reverend sister then get sent abroad. When I go abroad I will join a more strict convent and become a nun and shut out the world and its material pleasures. Amen!!!!


So, what do I do? Block him? Marry him?

why not nack him first to see if the entertainment package is complete

Sheistoopretty:
Guys will never stop Simping for we Ladies, no matter how hard u try to preach it. It's just natural, God made it that way

Don't mind those Redpillers wannabe OP, they will come here to start lying just so as to boast their deflated egos alot of them are simps here, they have numerous accounts... They form Redpiller wannabe with their Main Accounts and Simp with the Alternate accounts

I know their Modus-Operandi OP don't be deceived by the comments coming soon

I agree with your observations,but the op should know that simping is far more deeper than just giving a woman money for sex,simping degrades a man and reduces his value by his clingy and non masculine actions,sadly the percentage of simps we have is far more greater than alpha males infact nature has made it that way,only the very strongwilled can break out of the shackles of simping because women knows how to use their feminity to manipulate the male mind,

Eriokanmi:
Pray to God. There's nothing He can't do. Do you have faith?

without real positive ideas prayers cannot solve anything,if he likes football let him focus on watching it on TV and let the talented players play least he break a leg trying to be Ronaldo,focus on the talent you have and develop it,you love football but sadly not everyone that loves football will be a player,don't be depressed by this trivial issue because you are still a young man and the realities of life is still waiting for you