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Family / Re: Nigerian Man Narrates How His Daughter Chose Him During Custody Battle by olaboy1: 7:25am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Kids don’t think like selfish adults and that’s why they are kids. They have angelic hearts and understand what true love means. The most important thing is the relationship the little girl is having with her father today and she would forever be grateful for that. I noticed the only thing materialistic adults could pick from this story is a cheap notebook, notebook bought for the purpose of improving contacts, but all the small narrow minded adults could see are bribery and gifts. He has shown his willingness to partake in the child’s life from the long drawn custody battle of 4yrs. 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by olaboy1: 9:43pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
As far as I’m concerned I can only pick two players for this World Cup in this team (Victor Moses and Balogun), others are instagram players. With our population of over 180m people, this is terrible terrible terrible. 6 Likes |
Travel / Re: Abuja Or Lagos: Which Is More Conducive For Living And Business? by olaboy1: 12:47pm On Jun 13, 2018 |
As long as you are not doing a 9-5 job I strongly advice you to sit your ass down in Lagos. You are not going to end up with just foreign doors business because Lagos would open your eyes. Plan your trips and drive time in Lagos and you are fine, also remember Lagos has little or no traffic on the weekends especially on the Island. With the massive sea port in Lagos, you walk into Apapa port and you are out straight to the waiting market. You are eliminating the dangers of theft and accident moving all your goods from Lagos port to Abuja. If you are returning back to Nigeria with enough capital then Lagos is your number 1 stop destination considering your username as a single dad coming for business. Your business needs to thrive for you to enjoy a good standard of living, so living in Kubwa with not much business going on is a very wrong economical move. You can live/run your business in Lagos and build your clientele in Abuja and then consider moving to Abuja once you hold your ground. Be futuristic my friend, think of business diversification. There are cool places to live in Lagos like Surulere, Ikeja, Maryland, private estates in Gbagada. Also I bet you don’t want to miss out on all the owambe party invitations as a young CEO. The air in Lagos is bad for those who need to jump on an okada from Ipaja to Meiran or from Oshodi to Isolo, not for a CEO like you cruising in your AC locked up car. The traffic in Lagos is terrible between 5am- 8am, 4:30pm-9pm considering we don’t have enough intra-city buses, city center congestion charges for cars and poor road infrastructure. With the Lagos project on revamping transportation and the rolling out of enough buses, I see the Lagos state government introducing congestion charges in some key areas, drop your cars and use the city buses or be ready to pay congestion charges and high parking fee to drive to office on the Island. 85% of road users office workers are already in their offices by 8am, so you can stroll to your office like a boss by 9am and get out by 4pm, if you know you know and by 8pm all the joints are beckoning at you at every corner bursting your brain with legbegbe crooner. Lagos is life of the party, Abuja is a solitary confinement, only you can decide how you want to enjoy your 30’s and 40’s. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Business / Re: Gtbank Debunks Rumours Of Court Order To Pay N12b To Innoson Boss by olaboy1: 6:15am On Jun 08, 2018 |
How come the supposed Supreme Court judgement hasn’t been made a public document. If you must report any news of this magnitude, then you need to do some leg walk and get documented evidence. Fake news is a criminal offense. |
Romance / Re: Can A Woman Truly Do Without A Man? by olaboy1: 5:20am On Jun 07, 2018 |
opribo: But most feminist women who boot out their baby fathers end up hooking up with other d!cks. Biologically we need each other and that’s why lesbians still use strapped d!ldos to mimic a man’s d!ck. Only extremist misandrists can completely live without a man and I don’t think they are up to 0.001% of the world’s population. Almost all Nigerian women need and want the men. A country where most girls rely on more than 4 men to buy some expensive wigs and phones. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 2:10pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre: I just had to do it for him means she wasn’t interested in any sexual relationship with her husband. She never complained about his small d!ck or his premature ejaculation. Anyway I’m not married and I’m not a husband material,my job is to f$ck to sleep as many women as I can. |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 1:55pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre: OP did not mention sexual dissatisfaction, so what are you talking about marriage counselor. |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 1:44pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre: I believe you know women don’t nag us with sex, it’s all about complaining of mundane things like the kiddie shoe is broken, the washing machine knob needs to be fixed and all those sh!t when the man is trying to focus like DJ Khaled. Men and women nag differently. You think I’m going to turn down a woman that comes stroking my chest when I’m watching the stock market crashing. Next time think like a man and act like a woman. |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 1:21pm On May 30, 2018 |
MarieSucre: No time for pre-intimacy by 4am for a woman that will soon disappear to work in 1 or 2 hrs time when the poor man may have been begging her all night long. pre-intimacy is what a couple do after dinner by 8pm. When she wants the poor husband to die of konji all night having a sleepless night thinking what kind of sh!t have I gotten myself into, oh God I should have listened to my randy friends and maybe by now I will be smashing one cute 100l girl from OSU. You can’t just turn your back on your husband and expect him to understand and deal with it. How about “sweetheart you are the best thing that ever happened before slice bread and my body and soul want you all the time, is it okay if we don’t have frequent sex for another three months while I stabilize this start up company...thanks hunnie mua mua. But when you tell him “oh baby not tonight, can’t you see how tired I am and is sex the only thing you know. That to me is a recipe for divorce, just don’t bring your problem here when it gets to that. |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 5:41pm On May 29, 2018 |
bembem93: Yes it’s both ways, but the partner losing his/her sex drive should pay attention to the complaining partner and not just be dismissive with work as an excuse. If you are tired of the marriage just say it and file for divorce. 1 Like |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 4:37pm On May 29, 2018 |
For the husband to wake her up by 4am then this must be a lingering issue that OP has dismissed and failed to fix with her husband. I’m sure the husband is angry with all her attitude on the matter. I bet if the husband decides to find one side chic outside, OP will be running around from one pastor to another who will eventually take advantage of her. Be happy your husband is speaking his mind and still sexually active, just be nice enough and tell him what the REAL problems are. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: He Did Not Enjoy Intimacy With Me, And Concluded I Am Cheating by olaboy1: 3:18pm On May 29, 2018 |
Nothing you do can ever satisfy a woman, they always quickly feel that emotional emptiness that would eventually make them vulnerable to another d!ck. I think marriage should be abolished and open relationships encourage, that way nobody can sexually hold you to ransom. I had to comment because a close friend of mine is having this same sexless marriage with his wife. Give OP a new d!ck and all that I’m busy with logistic work will fly out the window. 127 Likes 9 Shares |
Romance / Re: DIRTY CHAT: How to Take Your Naughty Chat to NASTY CHAT Like a Bad Boy [PICTURE] by olaboy1: 5:49pm On May 27, 2018 |
FortifiedCity: Hahahaha yes o he is very ok. He is the hacker of seduction, you need emotional quotient to deal with these women. |
Romance / Re: I'm Attracted To White Ladies, But Don't Know How To Get One by olaboy1: 8:42pm On May 25, 2018 |
Lets set the record straight just in case other young African studs are reading this. Everything the OP wrote is wrong. In the last 5 years or so I have been with more than 30 foreign women in Scandinavia alone and more in South America and Asia. All you typed about cleanliness is totally so not true. Some Africans that I have got together with who are from a particular part of Africa have traditional incense that gives that horrible strong smell that Caucasians consider as body odor, same with middle eastern women. However Caucasians don’t have the traditional incense that they burn but still have their own body odor that as an African you may also find offensive. As for me that hot intense smell is easier to detect in summer, especially on one of my train rides in Scandinavia when the AC system stopped working. I would still give some props to Nigerian women who still have good hygiene despite lack of basic facilities like water, electricity for washing machine, dish washer etc. Caucasian girls born after 1980 (the millennial) atleast more than 50% I’ve been with have serious hygiene problems and see house chores as a very big deal even with the availability of basic facilities. As for finance they seem to fare better than Nigerian women because they have embraced feminism to a point of feeling so embarrassed of being paid for. The difference when it comes to finance and economics of dating is that you still need to be economically grounded to date the cute Caucasian girls even though they are not going to ask a dime from you, however Nigerian women seem to purposely enter into a relationship as an avenue to milk you. Also remember Caucasian men all over the world are complaining about their women, so before you start this your exclusive racial dating think twice. Also all pu$$ies smell the same (Caucasian, black, Asian, Hispanic, Arabs you name it). As someone living 30% normadic lifestyle right now I know what I’m talking about, the last girl I smashed in Bali didn’t smell any different from the one in Copenhagen. If you really want to enjoy pu$$ies globally It’s impossible to just sit in Nigeria and think some magic would happen. My final verdict is “western women are old school, African women are still finding themselves economically, Asia is the future. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: NAUGHTY WOMAN: Pressing A Woman's Mumu Button & She Fell In Love [WhatsApp Chat] by olaboy1: 4:50pm On May 25, 2018 |
I endorse all the holy grail messages the OP is throwing at beta guys for free, rather than show some appreciation, the typical African pull him syndrome kicks in naturally. They have started psychoanalysising his chat with that girl when in fact in seduction HOW you say is far more important than WHAT you say, the end result is all that matters and in this case OP has clearly triggered her emotions that made her beg more than 3 times for a birthday photo shoot. Whether she is 20, 25 or 30 it doesn’t matter. There are business entrepreneurs attending dating boot camps abroad and only beta guys would see it as a waste of time and money. There are guys who want to live a normadic lifestyle and getting down this skill will be a big kill for them wherever they choose to hibernate. I consider myself successful and still invested in several materials on business and dating. Do not assume OP is poor just because you are poor. Nobody is forcing this thread on anyone, just keep it moving if the messages are not appealing to you. |
Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by olaboy1: 3:30pm On May 25, 2018 |
mhisbliss: You still don’t get my point. Anyone can be sick at any point in their lives, whether it happens from womb or 5yrs old is irrelevant. Let me help you grasp this better....as a female you didn’t start menstraution from birth, even though we all would agree that menstrauation is part of your birth formation, you only started bleeding probably at 11yrs old or 13yrs old. I hope this is simple enough to grasp. Once again homosexuality could be from birth but would only be manifested when the person gets to mating age or stage, just like menstraution is biologically tied to you from birth but you only started menstraution at puberty stage. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by olaboy1: 3:11pm On May 25, 2018 |
mhisbliss: My point is homosexuality is more of a mental sexual state than you tried to trivialize. Remember those actions you took growing up and you just couldn’t explain why. Although I do consider it to be a mental illness that requires proper cognitive therapy with attention given to root cause effects or triggering effects. Root causal effect being mental psychosexual conflicts and triggering effects being porn, abuse, peer pressure, social alienation etc. |
Romance / Re: It Is Unnatural To Be Gay, No One Is Born That Way by olaboy1: 2:56pm On May 25, 2018 |
mhisbliss: You are wrong. Just because a person develops physiologically to become a man doesn’t mean the psychosexual develops along side with it and same for women. psychological development in childhood takes place in a series of fixed psychosexual stages: oral, anal, phallic, latency, and genital. These are called psychosexual stages and if a child is not properly monitored he/she may eventually have conflict of sexual orientation. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Understanding The Secret Language Of Women by olaboy1: 9:07pm On May 24, 2018 |
Women only play this game if your level of attractiveness is very low. Also remember men are the ones chasing women and that affects dating and mating dynamics, however if the gender roles were switched I bet men will also have the same flakey behavior. Flakiness is coming from the place of power, the one who is chasing has lower negotiating power. Keep in mind this flakey behavior is also an ego boost for women and not necessarily a language barrier of the sexes, because of how beta men tear up her comment sections once she uploads a semi nude pix, a woman who would normally be considered a normal, usual and average can act out of her league and impose authority on men generally or her boy friend due to her illusion of abundance. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Women Cheating More Than Men Lately? by olaboy1: 7:52pm On May 24, 2018 |
victorian: Everything you wrote looks like the guy suffers more for the sexual sins of the woman....kikikikiki the joke is on you just keep living in denial, Na your body dey suffer am especially if you f$$kin one old hag you call UNCLE. Also once your guy finds out you are no good, he kicks you out and you are back to square one. By the way why do Nigerian women feel they can’t survive this world without financial help from men, do lesbian couples also have this same financial dependence on their partners? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by olaboy1: 5:16pm On May 23, 2018 |
greatforever: Keeping a woman is all about self discipline and mind control, if you are not mentally strong you become a wimp. Generally ask yourself what more is she bringing to the table apart from sex. A long term relationship is the best way to ruin a man’s life in this present day and age, stop being the victim of vindictive attitude, manipulation, illusion of self beauty and sense of entitlement because it takes two to tango. If you read most of the female comments on nairaland, you would quickly realize how they feel their vaginas can pay the bills. Women should not be treated as queens just because they have vaginas or because they are attractive. Your girl probably has this higher power dynamics over you because when she post one revealing pic on her IG or Facebook, the whole crew of sailors (some of them married) start tearing up her comment sections and she responds to none due to her Femi-narcissistic tendencies of gross validation attention seeking syndrome. Stop playing her silly diva attention seeking game, focus on your life and hustle...when her body and pussy shivels, your achievements last forever. If you find any faults in any woman please call her out immediately, because women have no inhibitions whatsoever about nagging and shit testing men and pointing out every flaws they see in us (ohhh he is too short, ohhh he is broke, ohh he doesn’t have any fashion sense etc), so it’s time to play the game women play...if she is fat tell her she is fat, if she is ugly tell her she is ugly, if she is boring and unintelligent tell her so. You have to be mysterious and unpredictable if you are still hell bent on having a long term relationship with women, I’m sure you have heard women saying they hate men that are predictable and that they can control and that is why they keep giving you the predictability and controllability tests for the rest of your life, you need a caveman style to really sustain a LTR with women by putting them in their place. You can be nice at times, but you have to make them earn it and you can’t overdo it and it has to be a rare occurrence because this makes them work for your validation but you also have to show that they can’t do the same thing every time, you got to make them earn it in different ways. Don’t be too nice and don’t be much of a dick either, avoid falling in the generic position all her male orbiters are. You have to keep everything in balance and always keep her guessing. Don’t let her understand your financial predicaments and successes, because women are irrational and illogical, you always have to keep them guessing. They are far far away from reality and you don’t have any business trying to make her see reality because they have never been known to understand reality, and that’s why they feed on stupid tv shows paraded as reality tv and that’s why they can never live without make up. Even if you don’t have a job, with women you have to act busy and let her know your time is more precious than her. Pay attention to the time duration you reply her texts and also the length of your sms, she must be investing. Just tell her you are busy and don’t tell her why or what’s making you busy, remember they need to keep guessing to give them that constant emotional orgasmic roller coaster, what I’m saying in short is leave their hearts tingling every moment you can. This is the same exact tactics women use on men, if you read back in this thread some guy was dumped or his sms was ignored because he failed to buy a girl a phone or give her money rather than the girl visiting him. They play emotional games on you, ignore you when they don’t get the financial help, they become lovey dovey sending you happy new month or long good morning messages when they are about to seek for financial help, they keep you waiting, hoping for sex, guessing and controlling the relationship and are ready to cut you off at anytime for another man to “upgrade” like a monkey reaching for another higher branch, they even mentally abuse you by telling you “you are a stingy broke ass nigga and if you don’t give them money there are other men ready and willing to give them....I would say guys cut them loose. This is the game men should also be running on women and men need to learn this game from the corrupt masters of it (the women) and give them a taste of their own medicine. Stop giving women money and instead become a man of purpose, worth and value to your community development, by volunteering and also traveling if you have the means. The only way Nigerian men can become the true African alphas we are created to be is to starve women out of resources, time and attention, they need to know that the party will go on without them and be constantly reminded we have self worth and control and pussy is not an asset. Women were created to be a helper, a supporter and not a beggar. No need to feel sad because one woman is trying to abandon ship, many years down the line when you become successful you are going to meet more charming and respectful women. Your best negotiating position is from your willingness to walk away, you showed that lady that you revolve around her world and she eventually has more negotiating power of walking away. If you haven’t at anytime shown her you were willing to walk away then your value and worth are questionable. If you remove financial security from the equation, I’m sure many Nigerian women will not get married, some are interested in marrying you just to escape poverty or their nagging parents or just answer MRS. I’m so glad Nigerian men are beginning to wake up to women irrationality and the attitude of me first, my feelings and well being first, look at me aren’t I pretty, why didn’t you comment on my pix, I need a new phone, I need this I need that, can you take me and my friends out...bla bla bla. We need to stop this holocaust mindset. I know many of the beta behaviors have to do with sexual orientations and the average sex drive discrepancy between males and females, but heck guys we still can change the dynamics in our favor by going ghost mode. Nigerian women have widely perceived us to be in a total state of sexual helplessness and often times told us Na konji go kill you if you no wan drop....say to them bi$tch sit your a$$ down because you don’t turn me on like you think, be very bold and unapologetic about it. I believe when we all can get sex easily with just a bottle of Coca Cola, we would have in a way created a safe haven for Nigeria devoid of ritual killings, yahoo yahoo and corrupt politicians, our unborn children would be thankful to us all for creating a new “NIGERIAN DREAM”, and many of us would be proud to partake in a cashless and sexful society. Our mumu don do. 52 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by olaboy1: 5:16pm On May 23, 2018 |
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Romance / Re: Why Do I Always Meet Poor Girls With So Much Demands? Please Help by olaboy1: 5:52am On May 19, 2018 |
If you are ugly and classless and you use money to attract Nigerian women, you are forgiven. If you are a handsome fashionista Nigerian guy living in a well furnished apartment and you still spend money to attract Nigerian women, then you need to be diagnosed for ADHD. Some of these girls have successful brothers who will not give them money and many times would still refer them to their parents. If I don’t give and the next guy doesn’t give, she would have to Bleep one of us for free when her sexual hormones kick in. One last message to all you guys tired of been exploited, stop having multitude of babies you can’t cater for on that your 60k Naira/month salary, let’s end the cycle once and for all. I enjoy good sex in Scandinavia with just a cup of coffee. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Outburst To My Extremely Beautiful 'fiancee'; Now She Wants Out! by olaboy1: 2:59pm On May 16, 2018 |
So we still have Nigerian men like Temitope....my guy leave her and go and chase money and build a life for yourself. That woman you are drooling over ain’t shit anymore in 5-10yrs time, and you shoud start thinking of what you would have achieved in those years. Never you settle for mediocrity or shitty behavior no matter how beautiful the woman is. Improve yourself and you are going to attract better women. This is why I tell all my friends to stay away from any form of committed relationships, you all need to date random girls and live in abundance. You are too needy, childish and beta. Are you going to die if you don’t marry her. Anyway once you become very successful, you will be the one deciding and having to choose from a place of abundance. This is scarcity mentality at play thinking she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Make some money and travel to Brazil or Columbia and come back and tell me that lady is the most beautiful woman in the world. Even though I live in Scandinavia with beautiful women, but my job rotation to Brazil changed my mindset when it comes to beauty standard. You don’t need to pacify her to be with you, if she is not scared of losing you pls walk away. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Car Talk / Re: I Need Someone To Put This SAAB In Order Urgently by olaboy1: 12:48pm On May 02, 2018 |
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Car Talk / Re: Which Pickup Truck Is D Most Efficient by olaboy1: 1:07pm On Apr 29, 2018 |
Toyota Hilux all the way. Car of choice for ISIS because it’s durable, reliable, fuel efficient, easy to maintain, second hand resale value, off road ruggedness and you could easily put over 700,000km on it without any problems. Field support engineers use it a lot. Stay away from ford and Mitsubishi. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Autos / Re: Nairaland Auto Dealers(brokers) Stop Posting Vin To Third Party by olaboy1: 4:03pm On Apr 28, 2018 |
Cosplay you are good to go and I am giving you a Uber 5 star. Don’t worry about the usual you are rude argument Nigerians use all the time to emotionally manipulate you when you are standing for truth and justice. Even Nigerian pastors and politicians use those sort of things to manipulate feeble minds. Nigeria one day will become a place built on trust and transparency. In the West you will go to jail for non-disclosure even if it’s a used car. We have 6 months return back guarantee. When Nigerians are trying to be dodgy, they go the emotional angle, it’s nothing unusual. It’s same format poor Nigerian girls use to call their men broke ass niggaz. If you can’t give 100% disclosures, then take your car off nairaland. You got full disclosure from copart and I see no reason why you can’t do the same. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Help! This Prophesy Won't Let Me Settle Down by olaboy1: 10:01pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
Ethereal0110: You wan make them open shop for him head. Abeg OP no try am, they will complicate your problems and drop your case once they finish milking you. Tackle all seduction and dating fundamentals first and see how much female attention you will get. |
Romance / Re: There's Nothing Like "Broke Girl",The Term "Broke" Only Applies To Guys by olaboy1: 6:00am On Apr 25, 2018 |
rainylad: Nah nah that’s not true. All the rich young and handsome guys I roll with are woke, except you want to bed them Dino Melaye “Ajeku iya lo je”. I have one who knows my worth begging me for money and after I respectfully declined her request, she has made several posts on her FB timeline indirectly insulting me. So it’s true girls are getting frustrated and are taking it out on struggling hardworking young men by tagging them broke ass nigga$. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Joe Igbokwe: "10 Reasons I Insist Some Nigerian Youths Are Lazy" by olaboy1: 8:44pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
Netanyahu1: Blame it on the system and not the graduates. When students have to study in darkness with candles and you want them to perform like Harvard trained, you are not serious. Fix electricity, build good schools and you start getting good results. You can’t plant oranges and expect apples. What you give is what you get. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by olaboy1: 3:54pm On Apr 21, 2018 |
revontuli: I date everyone I make connection with. Below is a footnote from the clip “Swedish theory of love” “How did the Swedes become the world's most lonely people? In the spring of 1972 a group of social-democratic politicians gathered to create a new vision for Sweden's future. The goal is to create "a society of independent individuals". Forty years later, Erik Gandini examined the results. His reckless movie reveals the back of the Swedish values and paints a self-image that shakes - a Sweden that did not really seem as it was intended”. My point is the idea that western women are better than Nigerian women is laced with all falsehood, and the sooner Nigerian guys realize this the better. 1 Like |
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