opribo:
Of what use is a man once he cannot perform his duties well. These days girls are financially stable, they control big corporations hitherto thought to be men's territory. They are army commanders, they are pastors so just name it, they have penetrated every nook and cranny.

In some homes the women are the bread winners. The only thing I can imagine they need a man for is to get them pregnant, and in many cases anyway they still boot out the man. So to claim you control any woman you must have more than money.

MarieSucre:


Does she have to spell it out in English for one to decipher.
1) "...it was pianful"
2) "... I felt uncomfortable"
3) "...I just had to do it for him"

- Once you have to have sex about of obligation, there is not satisfaction derived.
- Nowhere in that write up did she mentions she climaxed.

Who enjoys sex that is painful, uncomfortable and wine no fulfilling climax at the end?

If this was a guy writing this, half if you would have told him to cheat? After his wife is already accusing him if doing that.

MarieSucre:


Now I know you truly are not married. If you're going to generalise women nagging then you never see anything. You're living in fantasy land if you think those stereotypes apply in real life. You have watched too much Hollywood movies. If you know how many sexual frustrated married women come for counselling? Both the ones that their husband does not even care if they cum or not so sex is not enjoyable, they just do it out of obligation like the op above? You will open mouth. Step into real world and don't let's nairaland boys deceive you.

MarieSucre:



look at the quotes below;
"sweetheart you are the best thing that ever happened before slice bread and my body and soul want you all the time, is it okay if we don’t have frequent sex for another three months while I stabilize this start up company...thanks hunnie mua mua."

Does she need to tell him this? Don't they live together? Doesn't he know it notice her hustle?

You guys make a big deal out of telling women to know a man's mood and know when not to disturb him especially when he is tired from work and doesn't need any unnecessary nagging but I think you guys need that skill more than ever.

MarieSucre:


Advice the husband to spice up her marriage and she will not need to run outside for a new d!ck. The man just said he wanted to have sex by 4am in the night, he did not even do pre-intimacy or anything like that, he just told her to turn over and he did doggy till he climaxed, no care whether she enjoyed it or came. In fact she said it was painful for her but did he care? No! Then he ended the most horrible, unenjoyable and unfulfilling sex of her life with accusations of infidelity. If it was you that your wife did this to you how would you react?

bembem93:
I dey tell u... anywaiz I think it's both ways.

FortifiedCity:
Are you sure this boy is Okay

mhisbliss:
If it is a mental sexual state as you ascribed then it further confirms my claims that it is a psychological and societal problem, and i know they weren't born with this so called mental illness hence the statement "I WAS BORN THAT WAY" is a fallacy, stop contradicting yourself just because you want to prove me wrong, ONLY SICK PEOPLE GOTO THERAPY, if they're not sick why do you think they need therapy

mhisbliss:
What are you saying

mhisbliss:
I came across a thread where a guy claimed he discovered his sister is a lesbian, some of the comments on that thread got me annoyed and amused, most of the comments were "She's born that way, its natural" i know that this comment is influenced by the western world but we're not like them, we have norms, culture and a way of life, and we're supposed to be who we are.

Theres no evidence anywhere to prove that homosexuality is natural, it cannot be genetically or biologically defined, theres no gene responsible for homosexuality, and nothing about the human anatomy suggests homosexuality is natural, if you examine the male and female sex organ you'd know that it is designed to complement each other, and to reproduce, both needs to work together, therefore by design, we're supposed to be heterosexual not homosexual,

Our culture frowns at it, it is clearly unafrican, abnormal and every religion frowns at it, including christianity
Romans 1:26–27 follows this same reasoning. Paul says that men abandoned the natural sexual function of women and engaged in unnatural sex with men. His words make it clear that homosexual behavior is unnatural because it is a rejection of God’s design for sex. Homosexual desire, then, would also be unnatural for the same reason: it drives people to abandon the natural design and function of human sexuality.

No one is born gay, its a psychological and societal problem and it needs to be curtailed as soon as it is discovered.

Lalasticlala

victorian:








Lol, I know someone will say what uv just said.. That's why women don't like saying the truth here. Cause men don't like the truth. They prefer to be deceived and live in a world, they created with their tiny minds. I will say the truth if u like hate me! I don't fucvking care. Ko kan Aye mehn!

Anyways Whether am talking from experience or not? It's irrelevant.

The issues remains there are many ways in catching a monkey so says my elder brother.
Kikikikikikiki... Una think say una smart. Lol.

Some. Men can be so gullible

You people are just deceiving yourselves. Even Fresh wife wey man marry put for house, he still find it so hard to maintain. Until she looks like a shadow of herself, sucking and over using the poor woman, without replenishing, that's if she's trying to stay faithful and suffer in good faith. Hoping one day, she will make it in life financially. While the ones who cannot suffer in silence and smile as if all is well to the public, help themselves to other men who has eagle eyes watching out for weak women who need food to eat, or money to buy drugs.

Why won't there be divorce cases and butchering in marriages?

You butcher your wife Or gf? Cos u caught her red handed with another guy? It's either the streets will Lynch u and skin you alive or You end in jail, while the key of the cell is thrown away.

The choice is all yours

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

greatforever:
hello Hardon and others
My relationship with my Gf is almost over due to a mistake I made
After Nysc, I n my gf faced difficulty in getting good work to d extent that we were scammed by gnld.
And after d unfortunate incident, I tld my gf da we shd go on a break cos she was sort of complaining I don't care 4 her and I was making mockery of her which I never intended sometimes when things go south 4 me I jst me i jst laugh n make jokes she caught me doing this and she was infuriated.
I apologized to her dat I never intended to make jest of her dat it's jst a bad habit I taught of everything she said da day n I TLD he'd we shd go on break till I get a work n I'm fully settled.
I realised after 2wks of d break da I'm harming our relationship den I called her she said she ain't coming back n she started giving flimsy excuses.
I love dis girl that's y I said we shd take a break in d first place now I av been calling her she hasn't been picking my calls I sent SMS she didn't reply WhatsApp too.
I don't know wat I can do I don't want to lose her

AutoElectNG:
Olaboy1....I sent you mail...please get back to me!
Thanks.

Ethereal0110:
Go and meet that prophet and ask her all the questions you have in your heart.. she said somethings and you confirmed it to be true..... Oga don't play with your future oh..... She will tell you what to do... And make sure you do it .

rainylad:



Dude,you guys are really really really frustrated and perpetually angry and bitter especially on Nairaland....That can only be caused by being death-poor and hungry...Check out you guys comments on Romance section against females...It is filled with do much bile its not even funny

No self-respecting guy who is comfortable has time for the bull-shitt you guys do here...

P.s...'Big boys' are stiil giving women money till tomorrow...Wretched folks on Nairaland can cry tall they want but its a fact..

Goodbye.

Netanyahu1:


My business requires apprentice too, I have been working alone for a long time now, only job seekers, not employers will disagree with buhari on this one, I don't like Buhari for any reason, but he's right on this one, abeg our generation is full of lazy, greedy and inpatient youths.

A graduate can't take accurate stock of what what's in the stock and calculate his day's sales, talking about educated illiterates. Anyone that don't own a business where he or she have employed Nigerian youths before , please don't contribute to this argument.

revontuli:


OMG this sounds like a dystopian nightmare!
Have you tried dating immigrant women? Turkish, Moroccan, etc? There is a big African population in Sweden, it shouldn't be difficult to find highly educated African ladies or Eastern European, Middle Eastern, anything other than Swedish?
I don't understand why they can't make friends. Especially in a society so starved of friendship?
It sounds like hell on earth, but people make it into hell by being cold and isolating themselves like this.