Chid abduction is a business venture in the West. There are private companies and contractors on pay roll and employees that need to be paid to make the country’s unemployment rate go down.

I know a lady with 6 kids that was almost tricked by the social service, my advice saved her ass.

Next time once an investigation is opened or once social service contact you, just pack those kids and put them in a boarding school in Nigeria. Bring them back when they turn 14, the social service can’t do shi.!t again.

Guys always pay attention to what women say and try to deconstruct their statements. I know I haven’t done this well myself, but we all live to learn.

Women are right when they say men think with their di$$cks and HARDON has many times warned us to be in total control of j-rod.

What women are trying to tell us is that
1. How can someone be so stupid to accept all my manipulation and emotional torture I dish out and still want to do everything within his power to make me happy

2. How can someone be so foolish to go and hustle for several hours and just throw his money at me without me lifting a finger

3. How can someone be so stupid to think that I don’t have sexual biological needs just like him and he is ready to pay me for the same pleasure we both enjoy.

Hmmmmm I guess these men don’t use their brains to think but their j-rod. And that’s why you hear women saying I am more comfortable having male friends than female friends, guys what they are telling us is that it’s hard to use and manipulate females like themselves but a walk in the park in using men like a piece of disposable tissue paper.

Now guys this is the fix

List all the things women do to upset you and drive you insane...from shaming you because you don’t let her use you for financial gains, to friendzoning, to cancelling of dates, to using you as an emotional tampoon when the bad boys pump and dump her, to outright disrespect, to not accepting NO for an answer and getting all crazy about it, to silent treatment or blocking/un-friending you on Facebook etc.

Do a reverse psychology on them and do exactly all these to them and I can bet with my two balls that your dating life will never remain the same again.

Through the years, women have slowly, but surely, assumed the dating mantle that is detrimental to men by adopting a dual mating strategy, using low/average tier men for resources and high tier alpha men who don’t give a sh,,!t for sex.

So guys keep your heads up above the water level and ignore all that sexual thirst. Protect yourselves from being used by this low hanging fruit fembot and concentrate on personal development and financial investment towards retirement holidaying with a bottle of Ciroc in Bali or Phuket.

Spread this message to all your beta friends and invite them to come on this thread and witness HARDON’s gift to MANkind.

3kay945:


How do you convince millions of illiterate/semi, docile and religious bigot youth not to vote for either Buhari or Atiku?

It's the government that has failed the society they use all the machinery of coercion to their own(politicians and cronies) advantage at the detriment of the masses they sworn to protect.

How about many of my highly educated friends whose children are not guaranteed free healthcare or good schools, but they baselessly support Buhari or Atiku.

aishapmbtoto:
You are not serious. Our problem is lack of good leadership.

And the leadership just magically appeared in office without the support of the masses. You are the problem the writer is talking about.

2buffagain:


I appreciate your honesty.

Like I have said before, a woman allows herself to be talking to a man because he meets her standards.
That is why I tell men to never be timid about judging a woman by his own standards as well.
It makes no sense when her requirements are being met but yours are left pending.

It means he is basically saying she is more worthy of respect than him.
No be only the guy waka come.

+1 rep from me.
Women are very selfish and inconsiderate. A guy needs to learn to be more selfish and think of what he wants first and not allow one mediocre girl manipulate him.

If she is not ready to invest equally in the relationship then it’s bad market...cut her loose.

cutesmilez:
Let's educate ourselves a little.

Did you know that a vote for any Oda candidate aside PDP is an indirect vote for APC??
The other political party's candidates are good but in Nigeria polity, "Personalities alone don't win elections, strong hold of political party does"!

You don't understand? Now take a look at this.
Pmb prior to 2015 has contested the presidential elections in Nigeria but he couldn't stand a chance simply because he only have a personality in d North and not a good strong political party. The party he contested for the presidency under are just regional parties and not a National one. He needed both a strong personality and a strong National party to have a chance at the presidency.

The only National political parties we have currently in Nigeria is APC and PDP, the Oda political parties can't even be regarded as a regional party. In the history of this country, no regional party have won d presidential election, and I don't see that happening anytime soon, infact it's not even possible!.
I can categorically tell u dat the reason pmb won the 2015 Presidential election is simply bcoz he was able to work along side with other strong political juggernauts for the merger of 4 politically strong regional parties which are (CPC, ANPP, AC, and part of APGA), which makes him have both a strong personality and a political stronghold, which ultimately gave room for his emergence as the president.

My point? In as much as you want a change of government in the Nigeria political settings today, I also want a change of government. Other political candidates are good, but their personalities alone can't win d presidential election, they also need a strong national party, which dy don't have. That's the bitter truth.
Non of the other political parties have a strong National Outlook, can you point out any? Oppositions are healthy for a Democratic settings but as it stands currently in Nigeria we only have two National political parties, which means d next president will be from either APC or PDP

My point is a vote for Oda political candidate aside PDP is simply a vote for APC...... If u don't want APC, then ur best bet is PDP..... If u claim u don't want APC, and u went ahead voting for Oda political candidate aside PDP, den u just voted for APC.

Note: Other political presidential candidates are good but they need more Dan just a good personality to win Nigeria's presidential election, they also need a "STRONG NATIONAL POLITICAL PARTY" to stand a chance against PDP or APC!

I rest my case!.

I think I will be able to sleep better at night if I vote for any of the credible alternative parties...You can continue to choose one of the lesser evil, that’s your headache.

If you don’t make the change democratically now that you have the chance, one day a civil war or revolt will change you. Just wait until $1=5000 Naira

Women don’t do love, they don’t want the genuine version of a guy because they are fake-ness personified with fake eye lashes, fake hair, fake face.

Women love fantasies, and I’m not talking about the Romeo and Juliet sweep them of their feet kind of fantasies. Instead it’s a fantasy of Kim K and Kanye with all its bad and bourgeoisie. So to create this false illusion for them, you just need to drop a simple hint at things in your background showing class and value and then change the subject without making a big deal out of it.

That will linger on in their memories while they fill in the blanks, and don’t be surprised when they stylishly bring that sh-t up later.
No guy should put up with an average girl who is boring, unintelligent and materialistic. And this is not me trying to rationalize that the juice isn't worth the squeeze any more, I’m just saying stop pedestalizing pus%$y and start making women to put in the work by meeting you half way.

Hide your wallet but don’t hide your di-@k

MhizLewa:





"Ur swag....intelligence ....well furnished apartment did all d magic" ? "And guyz who placed girls on monthly allowance are below average??" Smh!!! U're so damn full of yourself man!!!

Did I strike a nerve? Sorry it’s not my fault that your superficiality is putting you in my pump and dump radar.

Darkseid:
It seems the life worth of most Nigerian men is measured by how much women they get to fvck, seriously I give up on our youths. I can't even have sex with a girl I feel nothing for, I wonder how you guys do it neither will I spend #500 on any girl just because I want sex, I'd rather subscribe and watch YouTube with the money.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm a normal human, because I do opposite of what every other guy does. Six out ten female friends that I had in my uni days confessed that they were in love with me, but till date I have never said "I love you" to any girl, I don't even know what it feels like.

I don't think a girl can control me in this life or the next one. The only thing that attracts me to a girl is her behaviour, then looks. I personally hate make up on women, especially the ones that turn to ogres when the sun starts melting their makeup foundation.

How an adult male or female chooses to run their sexual life shouldn’t bother you at all. We all cannot be monks.

kollinzgee:


you fuucked hoes not real women.true alphamales dont date hoes (oloshos)we know one when we see them .we are very selective and go for intelligent and ambitious women not women who will add nothing to our lives i personally hate hoes (oloshos) they are packaged prostitutes who wants to contact s.t.ds or spiritual problems.women chase us but like women we pick the best to date..

Your average Zenith bank girl would most likely not be considered an Olosho by you, your average design engineer in a blue chip company would not be considered an olosho by you, those are the girls I was telling you about. I’ve had banker girls approaching me so I know what I’m talking about, they are not oloshos.

It seems this argument is becoming baseless. I’m not here to brag, I’m just saying that that girl you claim to have nabbed strictly with your alphaness is screwing someone behind your back who’s got his sh-it in LMS locked down.

I always advice my friends to concentrate on personal development and making money combined with all the true alpha traits.

kollinzgee:


Let me educate you bro,90% of Nigerian males possess little or no LMS as you call it so dont generalize,and you have forgotten that the female population surpasses that of males now ask your self who dates 90percent of males that have little or no LMS or are you truying to say all pretty women date or marry only the 10% that possess LMS as you call it you can only judge from what you have seen or experienced.

The problem is you don’t understand the secret society of sex culture in Nigeria. Just because there are marriage ceremonies every weekend means nothing when it comes to frivolous sex with a true alpha who has LMS.
Nigerian women will always marry due to societal pressure and depending on her age she probably would settle for a non-alpha 90% of the time.
I thought this thread is about alphas who don’t want any woman tying him down with marriage as a result of the pus$sy paradise he is.
But if we are going to go with your Nigerian examples then they are 90% beta men who just want to tie down a pu$%%y for lack of options and abundance, those are not true alphas in my book.

When my friends and I holiday in Nigeria we end up fu%%kin the girlfriends of those 90% Naija alphas you alluded to who don’t need LMS to get and keep a girl. So bro those are not alphas, those are beta providers.

The girlfriend of a true alpha would not cheat on him or worst case scared to do so.

@Kollinzgee.
Go back and take a very good look at those outliers and they must have L or M or S.
A true alpha male is a leader of men/women or both, and leadership in itself can be categorized under status.

How many short, ugly and poor alphas do you know who are in pu/%ssy abundance?

smeag0l:
I don't give a girl 20% of my income. I was never even giving my girlfriend up to 5% of my income every month and I was never giving her cos she asked.

Check your initial post below

“Never date a lady that's not working. She'll just end up milking you dry. I tried it last year when I was dating a lady in Abuja. I pay her flight tickets(return) to come see me in my location. I take care of her and even send her between 30-50k almost every month(I wasn't giving her an allowance but just helping with basic needs). Mind you, the money wasn't my problem as this wasn't even up to 20% of my monthly income. However, this girl was till not loyal as she calls another guy to come pick her from the airport in Abuja whenever she leaves. I also later found out that she was secretly having an affair with someone that works with one of these agencies that arrange holiday flight bookings and accommodation for people. I just stopped talking with her after so many confrontations and denials. Never give a girl that's not your wife, sister or mother money except you just want to help the person. Now, I only roll with ladies in my class-ladies that have well paying jobs!”

kollinzgee:


your are still under the spell bro...

You are not giving them the money, you are creating an illusion. You can attract women without LMS but not the best of the crop.

The simple reasons for this imbalance in dating are
1. Men are the ones saddled with the responsibility of picking up girls
Since there are no sensors implanted in women for men to know the ones with several guys on their radar, the sheer volume of men still coming for her would always raise her value. If a trader has just one customer looking at a particular product, pricing would be fair, however the moment you have three customers haggling for that product then the price will skyrocket.

2. Men have a higher sex drive and energy level that must be dispensed. It’s not because women are disciplined and are capable of supressing their sexual urge, it has more to do with men and women don’t and will never have an equal sex drive generally, of course there are exceptions to the rule of some women with higher sex drive than their partners. To put it in a very simple term, men are always on all throughout the month, while women may get really really hor$xny maybe 5 days in the month.

3. Evolutionarily women have always looked up to men for survival (financial,genetics,protection) , and that’s not going to change anytime soon. They will continue to choose the best male, so be that male by taking care of Looks/Money/Status. If your L is 4/10, make sure your M and S are above 7/10. You also need to exhibit the core alpha traits of not pandering to all the atrocious demands of women and be clear with your principles and where you stand, if she chooses to walk away, remember your L/M/S and alphaness is strong to attract any woman of your choice.

smeag0l:
I never placed a girl on a salary cos she doesn't work for me. I just give her the money equivalent of whatever I think is her basic need cos she wasn't working at the time. Besides, I chose never to date a girl that has nothing doing cos of this very reason. I just tried it cos I expected it was going to lead to marriage.

Almost every month and around 20% of your monthly income for a girlfriend sounds suicidal and try hard to me. I understand your act of kindness, but know that women are not as kind and helpless as you perceive them to be, they don’t think twice when they want to throw you under the bus. Generally speaking most women are hypergamous in nature and are really not looking for love but the highest bidder.

smeag0l:
Never date a lady that's not working. She'll just end up milking you dry. I tried it last year when I was dating a lady in Abuja. I pay her flight tickets(return) to come see me in my location. I take care of her and even send her between 30-50k almost every month(I wasn't giving her an allowance but just helping with basic needs). Mind you, the money wasn't my problem as this wasn't even up to 20% of my monthly income. However, this girl was till not loyal as she calls another guy to come pick her from the airport in Abuja whenever she leaves. I also later found out that she was secretly having an affair with someone that works with one of these agencies that arrange holiday flight bookings and accommodation for people. I just stopped talking with her after so many confrontations and denials. Never give a girl that's not your wife, sister or mother money except you just want to help the person. Now, I only roll with ladies in my class-ladies that have well paying jobs!

I’m so confused with Nigerian guys that earn good salaries placing women on some sort of allowance. I intentionally refused to give money to all the girls I dated when I was working in a big company in Nigeria, and it was never a deal breaker. My job title, blue chip company I worked for, my swag, intelligence and well furnished apartment did all the magic, and some girls even told me they were scared to ask for financial help so as not to lose me. I’ve had Naija girls telling me how their hearts ache at the thought of losing me.
You might have to revisit the fundamentals of seduction if truly you have a fantastic salary, because all my colleagues at work were slaying pu$$/y without placing them on any sort of allowance.
I would place a bet that the guys who place women on these allowances are below average in looks. First step is to raise your level of attractiveness.

jconsulting:
I have giving up, by the time we face the realities coming after election it will be too late , foreign investors are waiting for us after the election once we made the wrong choice again then is all over ,am not a prophet of doom but if Buhari wins this election By June you will buy a litre of petrol N250,

True talk
Nigerians seem not to work with historical data and statistics. Buhari is still seen by the West as a dictator and electing him again would further devalue our Naira. Remember the Naira was devalued immediately he was elected.

Praising the government for providing basic amenities with your tax and crude oil money is the height of foolishness. I see #1 - $550 if Buhari is re-elected.

Kingsleydr:


Africans are they laziest set of people intellectually, they hardly make research, they just love to follow the crowd and all they're concerned about is how to make money with their empty heads and zero innovative skills . You wonder why ritual killings and religion thrives in Africa. We are the cum of this earth , removing Africa from the map of the world would be a very nice thing for the rest of the world .

Maybe you should first try and do a cost estimation of his car collections as against his net worth of $52b before you start trashing Africans.

Nigerian parents should be warned seriously that 2019 is never going to be a year where they will leave their vulnerable daughters upkeep to the goodwill of random men...all that nonsense must end in 2018.

And to all the greedy and self entitled Nigerian girls, I have just one message for you all
2019 will be a new wave of red pill men 2.0 and blue pill men hiding their wallets, so start creating YouTube contents or selling cheap stuffs online if you don’t want to end up in a desperate and uncertain situation.

As someone who totally understands the female psychology, my best advice is to walk away and next time don’t gift that much again...never ever in your life because you just set yourself up in a provider role.

I can tell you 100% this mindset is exactly the mindset of Russian women, they delay sex and affection until all their financial needs are met whilst Polish women would give you all the cookies first in anticipation of financial support, either way both models are not for me. So far the Scandinavian dating model has worked for me, sex and affection after a cup of coffee.

So Nigerian girls are like Russian women, it’s up to you if you want to be a provider or a lover. Don’t you ever pay for pu|$$y (P4P). If you can’t attract them solely base on your alpha traits then go and work on yourself and the fundamentals of seduction first.

Raise your glass cup and cheers me in the challenge of “f&cking gold diggers without a penny”.

Using a sociopathic solution to solve a psychopathic problem will not end well.
What happens if the irresponsible sperm punter forgets to take his sick baby to the hospital and the baby dies, would the outcome make you feel better and sleep well at night.

I know this piece is meant to stir up a provocative debate, but keep in mind the repercussions are too enormous for the society. I wouldn’t advice a father to dump his baby with a savage mother either. It’s better you channel your campaign to legalizing abortion in Nigeria.

I pray one day we can stop this tribal war. It doesn’t matter who owns X amount of Rolls Royce, the fundamental question should be are they paying the right amount of taxes and creating employments.

Gerrard59:


While I agree that the black race has serious issues, I see nothing wrong buying a luxury car even when the firm expands. Are you saying it's not compatible? Moreover, hitherto, Europeans were number two in global consumption of luxury goods.

That an entrepreneur purchases a luxurious product doesn't imply his firm is not expanding.

But all the blacks buying these luxury goods don’t have any businesses ascribed to their names that I know of.
I love luxury myself but creating a long term business with generational mindset should be the first priorities. Many of the European companies have existed for 100yrs transfered from generation to generation.

Every time on this forum people ask all the time what is E-money’s business, this wouldn’t be shrouded in secrecy if he and others have atleast 500 employees.

ejihand:
... Always launching latest vehicles, Nigeria celebrities inclusive. When are they going to be launching new startups, business that will directly benefits their Instagram and Twitter followers?

Guy Na so black man be o. Here in Europe you have family businesses that have over 300m euro per annum turn over with over 4,000 employees and they are thinking of expanding and not buying Rolls Royce.

Hopefully one day we will get it right.

Android children.

Android children

I cannot recount how many times white ladies have admired my skin and outrightly confessed to prefer tanned skin but not too dark. Even in the nightclubs I get Swedish girls blushing and touching my smooth unwrinkled face with deep admiration, and countless comments on the overall smoothness of my skin during naked romance. First thing I notice during romance is the roughness of the Caucasoid skin. Usually they are truthful about this after having some vodka.

Some MILF ladies at a bar also commented on the skin of my friend and I after they got to know our ages. Let’s cut Emma some slack because I have seen many Swedish girls who look completely brown like mixed race, when they return back to Sweden from summer vacation.
Why would anyone even want to straighten the African hair that symbolizes strength, vigor and virility, why would anyone even want to remove the protective melanin that protects against sun burn and skin cancer. These millennials are either becoming mentally retar$ded or is it me that’s going out of fashion and vogue.

#giveusmoremelanin


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drnoel:


Now that's sound thinking that I never expected to see in this childish forum. Well said!!! I agree but for the part about 50:50.
Ur wife should be Ur helpmate, Ur support, Ur succour. Whether u guys decide u make it 50:50 or what not should depend on u guys and no 3rd party. As long as the respect is there on both sides that is what is important.

But it’s very easy for you to go through all the male complaints on this forum and see for yourself that Nigerian girls are not ready for that 50:50 you are talking about in a relationship that would most likely lead to marriage. So far it’s 90:10 rigged in the favor of the girls.

Are you saying it’s okay for these guys to continue to take this nonsense and hope for a magical behavioral fix in women. Hardon is here to change the status quo and help guys re-align the dating wheels. He has never posted anything on the borderline of disrespecting women.

You need to calm down.

Yawns..nothing new. Fix corruption in Nigeria on every level by providing institutions to monitor and publish every penny leaving the treasury, and we will become one of the biggest economies in the world.

It looks like 70% of our national wealth is finding its way into the hands of the cabals. How can such a huge amount be disbursed without going through all due public tender process.

We should stop all this ranting and use our social media accounts discussing on how to fix corruption, and maybe create a special degree program in our universities specifically tailored to address corruption.

I know a top senator here in Europe who only owns a brand new Volvo Jeep XC90 and a 2007 Audi. Fighting corruption is not only about the will power, but predominantly on creating the right legal institutions to punish offenders, models and use of technology to combat financial crime. This shit should be treated like it was 9/11 hitting us.

This is a result of “my pastor says” he is my will of God.

Government policies drive the economy of a nation. When good policies are implemented then nobody has to live in poverty.
Over here a litre of petrol cost 607 Naira but it doesn’t affect anyone because a basic non-professional worker earns 577,500 Naira monthly after tax full time whilst professionals earn above 847,000 Naira after tax. And it will cost around 77,000 Naira for monthly cost of fuel to and fro your job if you drive 5 days a week.

So if Nigerians are going to have atleast HALF the standard of living mentioned above, then mathematically nobody should earn below 70,000 Naira monthly after tax with the current pump price of petrol.

2800 Naira daily salary
350/hr

Until then it is safe to say more than 70% of Nigerians are living in poverty.