What a weird topic to make and bring it on NL. You are the one that is mentally ill, stalking someone you have no interactions with in real life. What a weirdo.

The truth is whether single, married, old or young.. majority of women like male attention. Especially when a woman starts having children, it’s like a boost to know that she’s still “hot”. Even women in their 50s/60s like male attention, talkless of a young married woman. It doesn’t mean she wants to cheat, it’s just the nature of women. Most women pretend, but let’s just be real here.

Please note, not just the attention of any man. But men who reach up to a certain standard of attractiveness and normality.

I’m married but it’s still nice to know you’re attractive to outsiders. Most of my husbands friends acknowledge my beauty more than him.

I couldn’t agree more

There’s nothing like too old for school. Doesn’t make sense, get your degree and upgrade yourself. Doesn’t matter what age.

luminouz:

You are a foolish winter bird!!! Na cold go kee you las las

If he had gone for abortion, you,jeon and the other Feminazis fuuls would have crucified him alive. Yet he wanted to do the right thing and marry her but she aborted it and you still blame him?

Una matter taya me abeg...confused gender

Waiting for a woman to get pregnant before marriage is a huge gamble. It has led to most of the single mothers you see today. Are you willing to marry a single mother? Why should she just take his word as a guarantee for her future? Being a single mother has ruined the destiny of so many women. What happens to the men? Nothing. She made the right decision. Op should move on with his life.

The girl did well.

I support married women to have abortions when their husbands are misbehaving and showing signs of irresponsibility. Talkless of a man who has not even married the girl he has impregnated. Women if you make a mistake in this life, society will not give you the grace to get a second chance.

Op move on with your life and stop whining. That girl owes you absolutely nothing!

oliverwrites:
If you know the story you won't give me this advise. I spent a month at the pyscharitic hospital two years ago because of a toxic and very manipulative wife who sadly I love. However, this time I am sticking to my guns until she changed, it has been 8 months I left home and have zero intention of return back until she shows remorseful and makes effort to change.

However, my duty as a father will never be neglected. I understand it is not always about money and I have never taken it to be about money but right now, the only thing I can do is spend money whilst hoping there will be a change.

what did your wife do to you?

Helinus:
If girls knows the amount of ladies that are eager to take their man, they will remain humble.

Now, Let the wife show us the DM of the men that wants to Marry phuck her.

There can never be a responsible, working high class babe in Israel’s dm. Most of the ladies In his dms are low class, left over women that do not have sense. They just want to use him. If he thinks Sheila is a user, he never see anything yet. Isreal needs to change, Sheila is the best he can ever get especially after this whole drama.

Why should any sane woman leave her 4 kids in a marriage for a single man? Lol she’s delusional and dumb. This kind of situation should be kept as a fling and nothing more. No normal man will marry a woman that cheated on her husband with 4 kids, c’mon now.

I’ve noticed men always blame their wives for any bad luck that happens to them. They never take accountability for anything.

Kenturkey048:


Why didn't she wait for somebody who's also from a well-to-do family that wouldn't be giving her 3k sometimes to cook?

Mind you the husband didn't say he gives her 3k all the time, he said sometimes he gives her 3k, and when he does, she immediately calls her brothers..

The watch he bought for 75k, she doesn't put it on, but the one her brother got is what she puts on..

This thing is a common sense..

If he feels less of a man, why is he living in a house that his in laws built? Did this thing start today? He pursued a woman that has more than him, two kids in and suddenly it has become a problem. This is not the time for unnecessary tantrums and pride, work on yourself. As far as the in-laws do not insult or bother you, focus on how to get to the next level. It’s his cross to carry.

Reminderz:

lol you're speaking like this because you're probably a woman... don't you know everything is just a phase? even though his wife wants to help, a good wife who respects her husband will find a way to cover up his shame, not be the one to add insults to injury by exposing his secrets...

let's say for example the man is rich and he suddenly becomes poor, is that how he's going to become an object of scorn just because she came from a "rich" home... they could have married her themselves then if they would still be controlling her in the marriage...

the OP didn't say he rejected the in-laws help, but the wife is making it feel as if the man is not trying his best? didn't you see where he said he bought the wife a car and that amount of wristwatch? she didn't even appreciate it nor acknowledge them... they are indirectly controlling the affairs of his home which is not what any man can accept except he's weak... men want to control their own territory... I'm sure he even does those things just to prove to his wife that he's trying his best otherwise to me it's totally unnecessary, it's all because of the pressure he's facing from his wife and the in-laws as well which were all fueled up by the wife he married...

she's not matured enough for marriage, that's because of they way they spoilt her, I've seen many women from well-to-do and reputable families still did good by their husband... even if you need help from relatives, there's a way you would ask for it, not saying that your husband gives you so so amount, or your husband does this and that, shey e fit get more than that, e nor go drop? why una dey always talk like this? shey e get where dem dey pluck money for tree?

3k for a family of 4 and you want her to cover his shame? Somebody that comes from a well to do family should deprive her children of good food because of shame? That is not wisdom it’s foolishness. Granted she shouldn’t rub it in her husbands face, but no matter what he will feel inferior because he’s not financially stable. That’s his cross to carry because he knew the lifestyle she lived before they got married.

If you can’t afford to give her more than 3k what do you expect her to do? This is not a woman that struggled to eat before marriage. When she starts earning from her business maybe she won’t have to ask them. You can’t expect her to starve to cover your shame. Good food is a necessity of life, she has two children to feed. Unnecessary ego and pride is dangerous for a man who is struggling to provide. Accept the help that your in laws are giving to you, use that as motivation to upgrade yourself and your family.

Dynast:

Have you seen what some men go through, some men fend for the family and the wife for the rest of their lives and to old age or get assisted with their childeren grow up.
No noise or alarm is ever heard anywhere but if a woman should do that for just 5years, it becomes world news. There are alot of good women who do that without publicity or ill maltreating the man but alot of women cannot and do not try it and at the same time claim equality or pro feminism. Your hubby should dudt his ass and go and work fast, he should be able to fend for the family and at the same time dont nagg him to hell or depression

it’s not about women not being able to financially cover for their husbands. Men who can’t provide for their families become angry, depressed and sad. They take it out on their family.. and that becomes the foundation of their marital problems.

PhillipPHD:
Just dey play. Wake up call my foot! You don’t understand men one bit.

You move out and he’s happy that the nagging and burden is lifted. He gets a good job, accuse you of abandonment and start carrying other women. Who lose? Just dey play.

only a foolish and unwise man will behave like this.

lexzycc:
Move out, and you will even regret more

sometimes separation is needed. It’s the wake up call that some men need. Doing the same thing and expecting different results is madness. Men react more to actions than nagging.

Op please try to separate and go back to your parents. It doesn’t mean you’re divorcing but you need space.

At 25 you want to consider a man with so much baggage and lies? You marry this man, your life will turn upside down in a heartbeat. Good luck !

Zino is really really talented, I feel for him.

I went to morrocco early this month. Very nice place and cultural.

lenghtinny:
Why didn’t you marry in your first world country…

She’s daft to offer you what’s left of her dignity all in the name of dual citizenship….

The only reason you are bold enough to approach her with the offer is because you are doing far better than her

You feel you are doing her a Favour with this ridiculous offer but there are other means through which you can feed your damaged ego….

you’ll realise this man probably has nothing hence running to Nigeria to find a naive single mother to settle down with. Men with money and success do not behave like this. They have many options even in the west. There’s obviously something wrong with this man, he is not normal.

Some women have suffered sha. What the heck is dual citizenship and how is that a big deal? A single mother of 1 should make herself a single mother of 3 because of what? Women please go to school and make something of yourself ohhh.. to avoid situations like this please!

We’ll probably see this man has nothing abroad..none of the decent well to do babes there can even look your way. So going to Nigeria is the only way out for you to settle down.

Sometimes is not even about the cheating, it’s about the person your husband cheats on you with. Just imagine your neighbours daughter, probably a very small girl that calls you madam. Just so embarrassing and disrespectful, someone you will have to be seeing almost everyday. Is it not better to sleep with a random runs girl?

Your husband is such an embarrassment to you, I don’t know what to say to you. Time will heal all your wounds and I pray you find fulfilment and happiness outside this man. He is not your God, he is not your everything. Focus on the money he is giving to you for now and leave everything else for now. Majority of married women have been cheated on, try to find comfort in that. The problem is not you.

When something is too available, it becomes less valuable. Sometimes it’s good for women to lock up in marriage. Not every time but once in a while please

Asake had broken barriers with this show. He is on a new level. Very unique, diverse and talented. He is the lil Wayne of Afrobeats. Once the U.K girlies love you, your stardom is solid. Congrats to
Asake.

HeartlessMan:
Mega blowing loading for him this year...

I agree. The length at what these people do to get fame. Only the wise know what’s going on behind the scenes. But if she truly died a natural death may her soul rest in peace.

What the hell is political science? Do social work please . They make a lot of money in the U.K. even more than nurses. Some social workers earn up to £4k + in a month.

LikeAking:



It's not possible for married people to do this..

You know they can't abort..

why can’t they?

We have said this time and time again. Do not give birth to children you cannot take care of. Nigerians make it seem as if you’re impotent if you have 1 or two kids. Thank God the upcoming generation have learnt from their elders. We will no longer be seeing situations like this in 20 years.

This is why I don’t like any instruments being used in the uterus. Evacuation process is too much force on the uterus. It’s better to just allow the the blood to flow out naturally or take medication for the uterus to contract to get everything out. Some of the instruments they use are not sterile causing infections and complications. The uterus is so delicate, any small error and you will not be able to conceive.

Tingotoe:
I have someone I know who's wife gave birth to their first child when she was aged 42 and the poor boy is autistic. It's really hard on them

do you know how many children give birth to boys in their 20s that happen to be autistic? Boys also have a higher chance of being autistic. Educate yourself on autism please!