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Mellow, Babeelove's hubby had been complaining to me that I dey expose im babe to too many crocodiles on nairaland ready to devour. That na reason I asked you to stay away from her. I no wan wahala. I don wish I were in your shoe at all. I wish I were in your trouser. That is the only way I can measure the temperature so that you don't get out of control.

I hope you are not mis-using my mirror? Please don't apply it on Babeelove. She is a co-inventor! She know the mystery of the mirror and its working mode. Only that I have the formula and the patent right. In fact, she get alot of it the thing herself.

Babeelove,
If I gagged you and you pours out this much, what would you do if nobody gag you?

Aishah, I say Amen to that!

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Why don't you make a wish of your own? Or better still add to it?

Why don't you make a wish of your own? Or better still add to it?

Why don't you make a wish of your own? Or better still add to it?

Acid drop,
it is simple. In mirror language, what I do is: I focus it on you. I won't see the real you but I will see your Image. Most people chases shadow, that is silly. I watch images not shadow. Now the image may appear to you base on your position and the quality of your thought, vision and the mirror itself. Fake mirror gives fake image. Blurred vision give blurred image. Wrong position mislead your judgement. That is it.

So one just need to have a good perception and sharge instict to translate it to reality.

In brief:
my mirror will sharpen your vision.

I want to know more about the chinese cough.

The rest are for iice.

Amen!

I look forward to creating a platform upon which I would contribute immensely to the development of African youths. I pray, not wish, for me to realize that goal in my lifetime in the name of the living God.

That is interesting. You mean some guys live on fantasia Island just for the sake of those abstract show babe? And they hallucinated for half of their life hoping the dream come true? Then their govt must act fast!

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Nobody oppose them. But while making contributions we must be wary of draging the name of God into the mud. It make no sense to a discerning mind. We must not go to the extent of attacking their gods or their faith with intent to hurt.

Mukina2,
my mirror cannot blind you. It would however sharpen your vision. Whatever you feel now is because you are new to its exposure. Don't worry, it won't harm you as long as you have nothing to hide.

As for the cough, I need not worry. I would use remote control.  Before then, how does chinese cough feel? I don't want the naija type that would make you end in one of those  hospitals in Naija. I just need it for a few days so I can take a week leave and have some fun.

My preference for C.C. is that it make you look sick though you enjoy robost health within. While N.C. make you look healthy while you are dying within. That is if you add it to the ko-ko-ko-kough that make you hit your head at anything around you. Don't worry, I would find alternative.

iice,
So granie had been having short nap. Sorry if I wake you up. I am sure you understand.

Please tell Babelove to stop hitting her keyboard the way she did today. If she keep going at that rate, we may have to import damaged Tokunbo Keyboard to computer village and that is unfair to third world like Naija that rely on Tokunbo products. Beside she is having a

Kill ke? I don't have gun. Just my mirror.

hehehe! Is there really something like chinese cough? Please borrow me if you won't dash me. I get only naija cough. And it is choking.

Lest I forget, MEND is not in disarray, they are mending their broken rank. They need petrol dollar badly. You should be patience. Yar'adua may soon go to sleep. If that happen, God bless Niger Delta!

Happy september 11 to you all! May the spirit of Osama never invoke anger again.


Callo?
Welcome to naija, the best country on earth. The home to the happiest people on the planet. Where are you from?

Mukina2,
I am always happy reading your dialogue alongside iice. You girls (or Ladies?) are my role models. But I am poor in PE. Pidgin English.

Iice, as usual, complement. Your grandson really show he has your blood in him.

I will surely keep my three eyes on you. Iran is a potentially dangerous place. You never know what is hidden behind the Ahmadinejah smiles. Only Bush know how much tear those smiles can create for Americans and Isrealities.

You have chosen a good place to do business. As long as you don't stare lustfully at their babes or steal a Dinar, you are in save hands. Even America can't be safer.

Looook, china and Russia are both hypocrites. Once USA starts dangling economic incentives at them, you and your Iranian collaborators would be left in the cold to face the music. Ask Saddan Hussain. You can still commune with him. He is a immotal.

But wait, do you think Bobo Seun would let you destroy the fruit of his labour? That man na Egbaman. He get African Insurance. I am sure that if IAEA couldn't get you, Okija charms will do.

Mellow, becareful with ma babelove. Are you trying to be her "charger"? I am looking out for her sweatheart on nairaland. I had long suspected she had one ever since her friend hinted at it.

Please leave her alone! Don't give her any reason to use menfolk as "battery charger". She doesn't deserve the "bonus".

Babelove,
Did I really use my "metaphysical rap" on you? Did I really get any?

You just hit at people like you hit your keyboard. Be careful lest you have to be changing the keyboard every weeks.

Can you tell your hubby to chat me?

2legit,

You are right. I beleive that when we get to the level where everybody is connected to internet, we can understand better.

Another thing is that, some of them are scare to bone. I have hearn a lady tell me that only idiots go online! I told her if that is so why did she joined the "idiots gang" and check his school result on line. It was because of her type that JAMB & WAEC made it a must for them to do everything online.

These people need to wake up. We are no more in agrarian era. They should at least GET CONNECTED TO NAIRALAND!

So many new faces today. Great luck from EAGLETS.

I did not know nairaland users love photo album until recently. Babeelove was right not to upload her picture on public forum.

I think it is one way of warding off unwanted visitor.

Babeelove,
for ikoro sake, let the poster have a breathe. She was only trying to help out a soul. I am familiar with that type of arrangement, where the person having problem would do it through third party. Don't discourage the fellow. It must surely mean something positive.

On your name, I read it well. You know I have a friend by name Adama, meaning Mother. I just wanted to confirm.

@poster,
Don't mind babeelove, she had a way of putting serious issue on comendy stove. She could be a delight to know if you tolerate her caustic remarks.

Meanwhile get into action. Tell the lady to act a step at a time. Let her stay calm. She may overcome the trial.

Are you serious? I hope you don't have alqaeda connection? Please, why must you go all the way to Iran to get a simple weapon of thread destruction? Why don't go to Iraq which is a bit safer? And sudan, congo, or better still, through MEND in Niger Delta?

All for a weapon that you would use for few minutes?

Acid drop,
reverse it. I am right! I wonder why you think I would play god.

Do you really want to know how it work?

Sonze, the thread killer. Are your weapons ready? Nuke 'em all!

Easybaby,

hand of God?

Somze,
I wish you great luck. Please arm yourself well well.

Somze,
I wish you great luck. Please arm yourself well well.

I know you are married, at least I had bee told. I am also familiar with your language. But my own is: why must you always be nasty on nairaland regardlesr of the topic? I would suggest you learn to vary your wit. You never can tell who is picking it up.

By the way is that name Adanna or Adama?

And don't take the "battery chargers" "one night stand" serious. It can be dangerous for someone with such a sound ideology as yours. I strongly believe you are living your creed that is why I always respect you. But,

Babeelove,
Go ahead. Call me proff! Na you know.

As for tha Driver option, I am not with you. I would only agree if you can provide the prove that you have tried it and it worked like magic. I must set my eyes on the driver.

I alsn want you to marry this year to see what marrital wahala look like. I understand you got too many applications than you need. Why not engage my mirror to screen them for you? You won't be disappointed.

Hi, yimiton! Hope you are refreshed.

I went to the extent of depicting the story for purpose. I am sure it would help a little.


Babeelove,
why do you always call me prof.? I beg don't let my people hear that o.

On a serious note, you spoke my mind though partially. And that is on job.

The lady should resolve to get job no matter how little she earn. That way, SHE AND HER CHILDREN WOULD NOT GO HUNGARY.

Next, she should begin a process toward her financial independence.

She must watchout for her husband activities and be very careful ( i don't how she can do this) lest the man bring STI home for her. That is my major concern.

I don't know her age and her mental state, I cannot therefore say more than this. I leave the rest for others.


I noticed she stay abroad, I am not commenting on that too unless I have a one on one dialogue with her. It is very dangerous to give advice on divorce on forum without direct contact with the victim and without evident facts.

I must say that I have seen someone who had successfully pass through similar stage without going through divorce. Today her husband is now humble and subservient to her authority without her lifting a finger or doing any harsh thing. The key to that woman success was economic domination. She put her head in her work, ignored the man and gave the kids good education.

Today, the kids don't even want to see their dad while he begs! The man ran himself aground and lost his fortune.

The are all alive today, still one family with the woman calling the shots!

@poster,


as I was saying
must we add salt to her injury and tell her how foolish she was in looking after her kids and blindfolded by a cunning man whose only goal is to have children?

Must we tell her to leave the marriage and walk away with stigma of a broken home for both mother and children?

Must we rant and rant about how bad the menfolks are and transform the whole drama to gender war? Meanwhile, the woman is still in pain and the man would always get another fresh blood to tantalize and the brainwashed! Going round the circle!

I admonish the single women in the house for being insensitive to their colleague's plight. Rather than helping the hapless woman, you have added more pain to her wound. And turn the forum into another opportunity to bash menfolk.


If we tell her to quit, we must remember the 3 kids who would bear the brunt of the broken home by no fault of theirs.

If we tell her to endure, we know the pain her endurance is inflicting on her.

By this facts, I set the tone for a meaningful discussion. I want us all put aside the gender war aside and see if we can help,

@poster,

I understand how it is for a woman with 3 kids to face such a situation. When you look at it from the outside, especially if you are not married, your thought impulse would go with majority that blame her. For marrying him, for staying with and all sorts. I perceived that lady to be a responsible lady who had committed a costly mistake of marrying an uncaring man. We must never add to her pains as she's probably reading this. We must not condemn her anyhow until we understand the complex nature of the problem.

The story goes like this: a man was once madly in love with a lady. Both of them love one another and they had shared secrets together. After many years of wild courtship. The man's parents began urging him to marry. And then, he marry his lover. He know the imperfection of his would be wife, but was hoping that it would be jettisoned in marriage. Then come the big blow. The wife may not be able to conceive again having blocked her womb. The man couldn't swallow the bitter pill. And the love started losing steam. Then, the woman began extra marrital flings again. Caught, argument ensued and it eventually lead to break up. Divorce. Both agreed to part way but to remain friends!

The man met another woman, who is homely and highly domesticated. He know what she wanted. He know her failing. In the name of love, he brainwashed her. Impregnated her and marry her. The joy of finally having a kid overshadowed every other things & they lives together without looking at the signs on the wall.

Raising kids can sometimes make a women blind to other thing. Meanwhile, the man goes out early and come home late. Picks up strange calls that he would not want his wife to know. Their love is not as it used to be. Then the bubble burst. Caught, the man later confessed about his ex. And from there, the woman started observing him and noticed how much she had been neglected.

Sad, pained, she tried to win him back. But it seen the man is past caring, Now she's here