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Naughty by nature?

Pick them out.

We need more. That is a home truth you'd piled up there. Complete it.

How did I offended you? Please be specific.

How did I offended you? Please be specific.

I have never said ONLY Nigerian women are afflicted with envy, and others vices associated with women. So far you did not dispute the fact I cited. Neither did you contested the existence of the TV programme nor it accuracy. I suspect somebody is echoing his/her mind. My knowldge of psychology is my guide here.

The guy asking after my family would naturally be disappointed. Nothing short of your physical presence can make you see reason. Since you obviously live in Naija, why not humble yourself and take a holiday? My family would be your host. Don't be shy, we won't feed you poison. Whatever you see, you can then give your pessimist friends a feedback. I won't waste time on you since it was obvious you have no issue to discuss.

I am not Tanna, so I must warn in advance that many of you would be wasting your precious time if you hope to attack me.

For the forum information, I am undergoing a research, and this thread offer me an important material I needed as I understudy human behaviour, I appreciate your stupidity as it helps alot. Please keep it going. If you are intelligent enough, you would have observed that what I posted were carefully worded. I just hope one of you read psychology.



Omoge, I am not married so the idea of a second wife does not arise unless you are interested. I must confess however, that I am not searching. When I said I choose monogamy, it doesn't mean I am married. It mean something else. My faith, my creed had been a guiding light in my decision and not people, culture, or religion. Unfortunately, none of you even bother to ask. That show how intelligent you could be. Arguing without basis for the argument, for the sake of argument. Thank God for annonymity, I would have had my best moment.

I am reading you.

I have never said ONLY Nigerian women are afflicted with envy, and others vices associated with women. So far you did not dispute the fact I cited. Neither did you contested the existence of the TV programme nor it accuracy. I suspect somebody is echoing his/her mind. My knowldge of psychology is my guide here.

The guy asking after my family would naturally be disappointed. Nothing short of your physical presence can make you see reason. Since you obviously live in Naija, why not humble yourself and take a holiday? My family would be your host. Don't be shy, we won't feed you poison. Whatever you see, you can then give your pessimist friends a feedback. I won't waste time on you since it was obvious you have no issue to discuss.

I am not Tanna, so I must warn in advance that many of you would be wasting your precious time if you hope to attack me.

For the forum information, I am undergoing a research, and this thread offer me an important material I needed as I understudy human behaviour, I appreciate your stupidity as it helps alot. Please keep it going. If you are intelligent enough, you would have observed that what I posted were carefully worded. I just hope one of you read psychology.



Omoge, I am not married so the idea of a second wife does not arise unless you are interested. I must confess however, that I am not searching. When I said I choose monogamy, it doesn't mean I am married. It mean something else. My faith, my creed had been a guiding light in my decision and not people, culture, or religion. Unfortunately, none of you even bother to ask. That show how intelligent you could be. Arguing without basis for the argument, for the sake of argument. Thank God for annonymity, I would have had my best moment.

I am reading you.

I have never said ONLY Nigerian women are afflicted with envy, and others vices associated with women. So far you did not dispute the fact I cited. Neither did you contested the existence of the TV programme nor it accuracy. I suspect somebody is echoing his/her mind. My knowldge of psychology is my guide here.

The guy asking after my family would naturally be disappointed. Nothing short of your physical presence can make you see reason. Since you obviously live in Naija, why not humble yourself and take a holiday? My family would be your host. Don't be shy, we won't feed you poison. Whatever you see, you can then give your pessimist friends a feedback. I won't waste time on you since it was obvious you have no issue to discuss.

I am not Tanna, so I must warn in advance that many of you would be wasting your precious time if you hope to attack me.

For the forum information, I am undergoing a research, and this thread offer me an important material I needed as I understudy human behaviour, I appreciate your stupidity as it helps alot. Please keep it going. If you are intelligent enough, you would have observed that what I posted were carefully worded. I just hope one of you read psychology.



Omoge, I am not married so the idea of a second wife does not arise unless you are interested. I must confess however, that I am not searching. When I said I choose monogamy, it doesn't mean I am married. It mean something else. My faith, my creed had been a guiding light in my decision and not people, culture, or religion. Unfortunately, none of you even bother to ask. That show how intelligent you could be. Arguing without basis for the argument, for the sake of argument. Thank God for annonymity, I would have had my best moment.

I am reading you.

Did I offended you in the first place? You seem to be at war with someone. Just be careful.

I have no grandkids. I am a catholic clergy! I hope to be elevated someday. Inshah Allah loruko jesu, I would be a pope!

This is not an avenue to discuss the mystery of love but criteria adopted in choosing a partner. You obviously forget you don't reap before you sow. It should be the other way.

My mirror is very much active and shinning.

I am not chastising you.

I would be violating my own rule if I follow the common run of people. Dare to be difference and stake your life on your creed.


Saying, I would NOT MARRY FOR LOVE is like saying I WOULD NOT WORK FOR MONEY! Please ponder on the statements and you would get the logic behind my statement.

Now, the criteria for choosing a partner can NEVER have include love. You meet someone for the first time and you started looking for LOVE, hoping both of you can click. That is silly. What you look for is not love but sign of compatibility, acceptability. You search for the other person strength and weakness. The first thing that draw people is no doubt APPEARANCE, call it beauty, handsome, whatever. It is obviously not love. Love come into the picture after your CRITERIA had been met not BEFORE. That is part of my point.

Marriage is build upon the the foundation of TRUST, and LOVE is just a PILLAR that hold the roof. When the foundation crumble, (that is trust), no matter how strong is the love, it would eventually collapse. However, when love fails in marriage but trust remains, there is hope of rebuilding. The two goes together to make a happy home.

A home without TRUST and LOVE would never survive. A home with trust but no love had been found to survived and still does! At least my research confirmed people can be married without loving one another. You can marry him because of money. Nobody would marry you if they don't trust you! Can you give your key to a lady you love but don't trust?

A home WITH LOVE but NO TRUST is like a mansion with pillar without foundation. It would crumble however hard you try to keep it unless the foundation is restored.

This is not an avenue to discuss the mystery of love but criteria adopted in choosing a partner. You obviously forget you don't reap before you sow. It should be the other way.

My mirror is very much active and shinning.

I am not chastising you.

I would be violating my own rule if I follow the common run of people. Dare to be difference and stake your life on your creed.


Saying, I would NOT MARRY FOR LOVE is like saying I WOULD NOT WORK FOR MONEY! Please ponder on the statements and you would get the logic behind my statement.

Now, the criteria for choosing a partner can NEVER have include love. You meet someone for the first time and you started looking for LOVE, hoping both of you can click. That is silly. What you look for is not love but sign of compatibility, acceptability. You search for the other person strength and weakness. The first thing that draw people is no doubt APPEARANCE, call it beauty, handsome, whatever. It is obviously not love. Love come into the picture after your CRITERIA had been met not BEFORE. That is part of my point.

Marriage is build upon the the foundation of TRUST, and LOVE is just a PILLAR that hold the roof. When the foundation crumble, (that is trust), no matter how strong is the love, it would eventually collapse. However, when love fails in marriage but trust remains, there is hope of rebuilding. The two goes together to make a happy home.

A home without TRUST and LOVE would never survive. A home with trust but no love had been found to survived and still does! At least my research confirmed people can be married without loving one another. You can marry him because of money. Nobody would marry you if they don't trust you! Can you give your key to a lady you love but don't trust?

A home WITH LOVE but NO TRUST is like a mansion with pillar without foundation. It would crumble however hard you try to keep it unless the foundation is restored.

Thiefofheart,
if I make you ill, then I achieve one of my goals. I don't intentionally make people sick but when seriousness is not essential, I careless if somebody land in hospital while taking a joke serious. Just make sure you have your drugs beside you next time.

Yes, I am 80+ don't be surprised.

Thiefofheart,
if I make you ill, then I achieve one of my goals. I don't intentionally make people sick but when seriousness is not essential, I careless if somebody land in hospital while taking a joke serious. Just make sure you have your drugs beside you next time.

Yes, I am 80+ don't be surprised.

Thiefofhearts,
you know staring is traditionally meant for men. When a lady stares stupidly at men, she demean herself. That is the unwritten law. Everybody know this fact. If you get caught, just smile and waka pass. Else, ?

I think it is tutorial on HOW NOT TO GET CAUGHT. The lesson is simple for ladies: STARE, BUT DON'T GET CAUGHT.

Yes all men are bad when woman had foolishly gave away her "treasure" for irrational promises only to be disappointed by a cunning guy.

All men are bad when a woman stupidly fall in love for a married man, only for the madam to truncate her joy by showimg up when the fun had just started;

All men are bad when a lady, dump a visionary poor man for a man of questionable wealth and dented character who nevertheless possess infectous charming personality only for  the chap to turn out a player;

so, to ladies with defective reasoning, all men are bad when one man commits an atrocity against a lady, rightly or wrongly. It is a free world.

Haa! You know what? Ladies are the biggest culprits. They stare at you discreetly and practically UnCloth you.

Luckily, they don't often get caught.

Sorry Doyin13, I really missed you. I know you are alive. I hope Bobo Seun didn't have a hand in your absent? He is my kinsman and I trust him not to touch my annointed even if you slap his face.

How is your babeelove?

Jealousy is a product of concentrated madness disguised as Love and irrational fear of losing what is yours even though you hold it tightly to your heart.

When driven out to the extreme, it eventually lead to a great lost. You lose what you fear to lose. It does not really matter who is more afflicted of the two genders, it is the same. I HATE 'EM! But I don't drive them away, they are sick and therefore urgently need a qualified Doctor.

Doyin13
alive or hidding? Where have you been? I missed you.

Why not? It depend on the content and intent of the message. It also depend on your maturity and understanding of womenfolks.

Bobo seun, do you really do that?

Staring is good, if you have nothing better to do. Why do you think God gave us two eyes? So that we can see everything that capture our imagination.

Staring is good, if you have nothing better to do. Why do you think God gave us two eyes? So that we can see everything that capture our imagination.

Your law of repeatition failed. I wasn't the one that repeated the message. Blame the network.

True words yimiton. Even strangers lie. I honestly believe that the people who hurt us most are mostly mischievious strangers whom we gave our trust only to hit us at our weakest point. They are more dangerous than an online friend or lover whose goals may be primarily to defraud. If you can protect yourself from that danger, you would be glad you try it.

Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology.

Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology.

Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology.

I think many of those attacking Tanna are not only shortsighted but diehard pessimists about polygamy. It is unfortunate that rather than probing how it work out for some and fail for others, they had personalize the issue. I believe that if we but listen to both success and failure stories we would be in the best position to make accurate judgement.

Tanna was right about the propensity of some Nigerian women killing othe people children especially in polygamy. In fact she  understated the fact. We know that she was telling the home truth. Anybody who had been following Yoruba live programme NKAN BE, AND LABE ORUN among others dedicated to exposing evils in the society every week know that she was being modest about that statement compare to the reality. Little wonder we have many vicious opponents of polygamy. That is not to say all Nigerian women are wicked and irrational. I am a product of successful polygamy. We live a one family and my step brothers even lives with my mum. I have equally seen even more successful polygamous home. I therefore would reject any attempt at making my case exceptional. That I choose monogamy does not mean I should ignore the fact that whileit ir a disaster for some couple, it works for perfectly for others. We must learn to tolerate others if we want to understand them.

Yes, I can!