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Blu03:


yeah! You've been asking her to handle your...um...gbola.
You ain't okay. Good luck to you both.

... She's dodging it. Damn!

Martinez39s:
Michellekabõd2 is a big time hypocrite and she is wilfully dishonest as far as this thread is concerned. She has always been a loud speaker screaming that people are free to make their choices and we shouldn't fault people for their choices but when people gave good reasons and arguments why they will never want single mothers, she goes ballistic shaming and insinuating that redpillers CHOOSE to not visit other sections and they CHOOSE to talk about women all the time. According to Michelle, shouldn't we be free to make our choices and not be faulted for it?

Michellekabõd2 has also opened a thread and written posts condemning the brokeshaming of males but when my posts got to her (which she will deny), she started insinuating that I am a broke, frustrated, hurt and bitter nobody who isn't fit to clean the shoes of those I call beta simps and evening newspapers. When I called her out on that, she foolishly said she wasn't referring to finances (can you imagine? what else was she referring to?). She also insinuated that redpillers are using JAVA phones. A lot of people read michellekabõd2's topics and think she is a special good kind of feminist that is different from other feminists and "isn't like that" (Lmao ) but I have told everyone who cares to listen and even to Michelle's face that she isn't any different from other feminists and women.

Michellekabõd2, who told me that I am not smart but intellectually dull and I am the people's opium, isn't smart enough to know that my person and financial status, whatever it might be, has no bearing on the validity of my arguments. The same applies to anybody. Michelle has been irrational throughout this thread because she is a single mother. It's expected that she argues selfishly and dishonestly.

#SayNoToSingleMoms

I see. When are you opening the thread. Do and open it real quick. I'm blooming with knowledge.

Blu03:
you really love her?

She brings out the naughty part of me. I like it.

pansophist:
Correct

First time seeing you with a one word comment. Been following your wisdom.

Words on marble.

Michellekabod2:
I don't fight redpillers ,I don't troll them. I mind my business. You can never see me open threads to sham them. The last I can do is get worked up over pants littered on this section and claim to be woke while typing with a java enabled phone. You never see them in politics,investment or other relevant sections but opening threads upon threads about ladies. How can someone devote his life to mendacity? Is it that they are no other things working on in the lives that the only thing they celebrate is being redpillers? No great job? No sound health? No successful career? No spiritual growth?
The idea of being aware of the manipulation of women ought to make them run away from ladies and avoid discussions concerning them. This people sleep and die over ladies issues.
This obsession is way much.
If you don't agree with them they call you SIMPs or evening newspapers.

At least there are redpillers that comport themselves well on this forum like harddon,caps locked,pansopist etc you can never see them shamelessly trolling ladies threads.


The f00l came to troll the thread and resulted to ad hominem to score cheap points

You do not want to try politics unless you want to go insane. Those people! Dear lord!

That one chooses a thread to be in should never appear in your point to score. Ones choice shouldn't work you up.
The Java phone thingy.. Lol... This is so 2008. Believe me I am not trolling you, tho I enjoy trolling but not here.. I do it more on WhatsApp. Or unless you are MissGhosted my heart rub then..... Anyway... Hope you are doing alright.

Martinez39s:
Unknown to women, they are the best redpill merchants on earth.

One hard core feminist and an evening newspaper here unknowingly gave out a red pill. I grabbed it. But simps agreed to it without even understanding it. I can tell.

My friends do ask me why I hate women. But I don't hate women. It's them simps I hate!

Martinez39s:
Funny enough simps are the group I hate the most.

One thing these simps don't know is that they are also the ones who feel the brunt of the fire when them women sets it on!

So because your partner have proven loyalty and respect means you don't have to check yours kids DNA? Please don't be delusional. It is those loyal ones that will make do it and you will believe your ass she can't and won't cheat on you. Why make the mistake of eliminating the fact that a woman can cheat on you no matter how much she loves and respect you as man? This is like buying a dog feeding it weeds and drugs to the point the dog gets high and you say as the owner it can't bite you. I laugh in little chikky...

Young Men should always sound that they will check all their kids DNA right from the dating stage so that it doesn't become new to the woman when the time comes to check on their DNA. This will go a long way to make sure she doesn't cheat on you or she will be careful not to bring home a bastard, if she knows you are serious and not joking. The gullible ones will be afraid to try to cheat on you.

From dating, shape and build your marital life by setting standards and principles. This will eliminate those fake girls who are not ready to cope with standards and principles set.
Ciao

MissGhosted:
mumu shut up. Nor be u dey Bleep small children. Haba na

Sweet baby our sex has meaning.
Know this time you'd stay till morning.
Duvet days and vanilla ice cream.
More than just one night together exclusively.

Baby let me be your man.....!

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

You just have to make sure she loves you more than you love her. Also, aim for her respect. Let her respect you. Cause if a woman loves you, she can always leave you or cheat on you. But when she respects you, she will not want to hurt you out of fear of loosing you.

Donaldoni:
The 24-year old is the real criminal.

Others were just opportunists...

I going to train my daughter to be wary of males. I have already started... So help me God...

Is it to teach her to wary of males or to teach her how to go about the males. To be careful of her dealings with males.

Cause you teaching her to be wary of males is inculcating fear of males in her which can be preyed on by manipulative males.

You should teach her to love and acquaint herself with the males so she understands the male psychology and not to put fear in her. She will be preyed on by psychotic males.

Udoskybest:
While growing up, you must have heard of an animal called baby bush. Momma told me it could kill buh I can't confirm how dangerous it really is. People said the beast cries like a little baby.
Now take a look at what baby bush looks like below

It looks more like a koala bear

Offpoint:
In the quest to impregnate you, I'm willing to risk it all.

I also want to impregnate MissGhosted too. Idk. Let's do it together.

MissGhosted:
carry ur diseased pussy comot make we c road.

Come baby... Come thrill me.

MissGhosted:
abeg go bend down make ubunja Bleep ur fat yansh. Fagot

Forget ubunj.a, na you I want make you come suck me.

MissGhosted:
shuu. Persin wen dey answer me any how. The guy nor know me. A whole me na im he render. Omar09 don dey crase. I don show blinking001 shege. I go catch farfromaverage for brokus.

Ghosty baby... Where you ni? Come suck me.

funmisticqueen2:
I hope you are not against male birth control.

It is coming to Nigeria soon

I'm not against it.

Blu03:
what do they really want? No one knows

What we want is someone who hasn't tampered with her child box. I'm not against abortion, likewise things won't remain the same if I get to find out you aborted once.

All these little things show the bigger things. Like you ladies always check your husband's to be very thoroughly, we reserve the right to also check whoever we want to be with.

Getting pregnant in the first place outside wedlock shows your ability to make poor choices. Like there isn't protection and contraceptives anymore? Poor decisions ruin a man. It doesn't show the level of intelligence of a lady.

Blu03 try tell a man you've aborted before. Or you have a child. How you all feel if a man told you he's got money and then y'all find out he's not even up to average, that's how disappointed we feel if we get to hear y'all aborted before.

funmisticqueen2:
she should have aborted both pregnancies, getting pregnant once has ruined her psyche

Took you long enough to state the obvious. I mean there women who should cry over the stigma. Not some women with misplaced priorities. A widowed woman and one who left an abusive marriage (if at all she was found innocent) are people who will cry over the stigma stuff and I will show sympathy.

In today's world, being a baby mama is the in thing. Who made it so, women! SM rules, who made it so, women! They want all these, yet they don't want the repercussions. I know the reason they are crying foul is because men would not choose them over the young ones. But ask yourself, would you let your son choose a SM when he could choose better?

Dande55:
The population of these mòrons can be check mated and they know this.
Just keep few ones that will keep producing sperms while checkmating the production of the rest of these mòrons.
Women are becoming more independent, successful and all in the society.
While the importance of these Mòron are at the reducing end.
D1ldos are there for women incase of sexual gratification, many homes are ran by women with the men producing only sperms.
I reiterate, their importance to the society is reducing.

And who are those crying foul at stigma? Sometimes I wonder if you all are really aware of what you type.

Martinez39s:
What do you mean by that? Are you trying to say single fathers are not financially responsible for their kids? Who then is financially responsible for their kids if not them? Perhaps you don't know what is meant by "single father."

You deliberately missed and misrepresented my message by picking the only part you could misrepresent and argue against. Nice try.

Bro please avoid discussion with that Riel.e girl. She's worse than an intelligently impaired person (slowpoke). I do my best to avoid her stupidity. Pls try and do so for your mental health sake.

But hold on Blu03 and Michellekabod2.

Where I live, there's this girl who was in her year one, but couldn't continue her education cause she got pregnant. She was fvcking with an American rich boy who visited Nigeria and got pregnant for him, the guy returned back to America and told her he doesn't want anything to do with both her and the baby. Because at the early stage, she was asked to abort the baby and she refused. So this kind of girl, does she get the right to say men are stigmatizing her?

Blu03:
would you lower your standards to call her a hoe?

No! It's enough she made her mistakes, I won't add to it by calling her hoe. And I won't reduce it by marrying her.

MissGhosted:
Farfromaverage ode shebi u don here word so? Easternprince make tunder fire u mouth. Omar09 my pet dog kum here jare

Who be your pet dog? E be like say that kai weh you take don enter your head.

I still deh wait your head... You still never suck me.

Blu03:
what's your body count? How many stds have you had? How much have you spent in curing them?
You aren't in the position to judge anyone. Neither am i.
I can refer to you as nothing but a broke community dick.
What stops me? Common sense.
I'm no better. I've made crazy mistakes because of my rocky childhood. Who the fvck am i to throw a stone at you?
Stigmatizing never helps. I was called a bastard because of something out of my control. My mother, a woman whose husband ran away at night because he was tired of his responsibilities, was slut shamed. I ain't bitter tho. Thats what stigmatization causes. Hate and anger.

You are not the only one raised by single moms. I know a woman who is a single mom and is raising her kids. Do you know what fascinated me about that woman, she admitted she made the wrong choice. Yes! She had other people who in fact was better than her husband financially, physically and mentally, yet she chose her husband out of many. And she admitted she made a mistake and she's to live with it. The stigma there is not that they come off as irresponsible, it is bound to happen. People will always see them that way. If she can't keep a man, how then will she handle things and be seen as a woman. This is something they chose as soon as they decided to thread that path. It's inevitable. They have to live with it. I do know that there are the good ones amongst them, but still I will not lower my standards for them.

Blu03:
The annoying part is that the very married woman hasn't put down anything relating to my post.
The message is don't insult single moms. You do not know her story...
I asked a question none of them have answered. Why do you judge single mothers? Her refusal to have an abortion or abandon her kids?
Whatever her choice to carry such a heave load, the responsibilities left by the man, don't stigmatize her.
Let her be. It's ironic single dads are portrayed as saints rather. Victims of women

Which ever one chooses also comes with big responsibilities. A woman will be stigmatized of she chooses any of the bolded.

But all these could be avoided by
1. Making the right choice (for those who are married and divorced). Always be certain of the man you are marrying. He doesn't change over night. He has always been that way, but you failed to figure him out.
2. Always use protection, for those in relationships. It will save you a ton. If your partner says he wants sex without protection, don't let him as you will be the one to bear the consequences. Take your stand. Protection or no sex.

Blu03:
not my point. The question is do these men and women have the right to stigmatize them?

Everyone has the right to one's opinion and stigmatizing is fairly an opinion. But one should remember "before you ask if another has the right to stigmatize you, avoid that which will make you be in the spot with stigma".

So yes. If it will reduce the rate of single moms, yes everyone has that right to stigmatize whatever one wishes.

Blu03:
the red pill thread. I have no problem with mgtow. But you honestly don't believe that single mom's are stigmatized?

Single mom are stigmatized by everyone. The male and the female. The male who stigmatize single moms in the open and would do everything to avoid being with such unless she's rich are the players and red pill men. Those beta males, take it from me don't also like single moms. But being betas, they will lower their standards and principles just to have sex. And who is very easy to fuvk other than a single mom. If you found love and peace of mind with a single mom, by all means go ahead. But I will not lower my standards and principles for a leftover. A man's leftover.

sassysure:
Only on nairaland.

Don't use this place to judge.

It may be a 12 yrs old behind that username.

I learnt women are called olosho or hoe here.

So we have to separate real world from illusions.

Also, sometimes we ladies deserve such names, check out our so called actresses and Instagram queens.
I just saw one on the front page nakid.
Watch Nigerian movies, the men will dress like human being while the ladies will dress like 3nd class prostitutes.
Common!
If we portray ourselves like respected adults we will be respected.

I couldn't agree more.

Michellekabod2:
you didnt get the sarcasm and mistook it for endorsing her actions?

Why should I offer condolence to one that has no value or regards for himself?

My bad.

Blu03:
Rape: This isn't something that is new to any of us. Most women have been sexually abused by men. And coupled with the traumatic experience, they got pregnant.

I don't see any woman who wishes to keep the fetus of an unknown as a result of rape an intellectual being. First that fetus will be a constant reminder of her past which will enslave her and as such make her emotional. So being a single mom out of rape is still silly of such woman found guilty, and I don't have any pity for those. This is the point where “let the past be the past” will fit in.

Love: A decent lady is swept off her feet by a sugar coated tongue. She has sex with her deceptive lover who absconds the moment he finds that she's pregnant.

Now you make this sound as if condom and contraceptives has no use again. If one wants to engage in sexual activities, one should do that at one's risk. And also take precautions... Protection has its use.

Violence: A woman who is married to an abusive partner might wisely decide to leave him for both her safety and that of the kids.
Deadbeat fathers, etc
The honest truth is that these women chose, against all odds to raise their children. Is that the sin we so ignorantly judge? A woman's love and dedication for her children. A woman who sacrifices everything especially her youth and takes up the responsibilities of a man. A woman who refused to either have an abortion or abandon her kids.

One has a choice to make. And the outcome of such choice should be bore without complaints. Such woman also had the liberty to choose from some men who will treat her like a queen, literally but she ignored. Would you tell me that such woman didn't see the signs? That man didn't become abusive overnight. It has always been in that man from on the onset. So many things people ought to look out for in their partner.. How such partner reacts to anger is a key fact and shouldn't be ignored. How the person also reacts under pressure too should be considered.

Derogatory words are used to refer to these women. While single fathers are sympathised with. Same as widows who had no control, single mothers are women who didn't plan their fate.
To most, a woman raising her kids alone is simply the repercussion of her mistakes and not the effect of a man who couldn't handle the heat of having responsibilities.
Most men beat their chest and when asked what they have to offer, proudly state that as a male, he is the foundation on which a proper home is built. As the head, his utmost duty is to protect and provide for his family. Do these men not the error of the ways of their mates? Or the woman must take the fall, even for the sins of a man.
It leads me to ask the question. Is the problem loving a man? or the refusal to have an abortion? or to run away leaving behind helpless children with no parents?

All are quite easy to do. A mother's conscience and love prevents her...

Mind you, women who abandon her children are not fit to referred to as humans.

No one is above mistakes. But funny how it's also women who stigmatizes single mum. One time when I was younger, I told my mum that wherever love took me I'd go even if she was a single mom and my mom laughed hard and then warned me sternly to never try that. I grew up and I saw that it was better for me to start out life with someone who is on same pace with me and someone who is one or two child's ahead of me. My point being.. My mom is a woman and she is the one who would never want her son to marry a single mom and so would you Blu03. You will never want your son to marry one. Forget about what knowledge you think you have now... I'm not certain of your age, but time will make you more mature and pruned for this very environment you live in, Nigeria.