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Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by Omar09(m): 2:59am On Jan 15, 2020
Michellekabod2:
If a man tells his wife "a married woman who isn't dating out is not a real woman" and she cheats on him will you not blame the woman still?
Let's be fair na
First off, if the man tells his wife same thing, he is very stupid. And I won't blame the woman for acting accordingly. This is marriage, people shouldn't go spilling things like they can take it back.

Now let's focus on the woman because she spilled it. She might have done it to spite the man, but it backfired. I'm not saying cheating is good, but she asked for it.
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead To Marry A Single Mom With Two Kids? by Omar09(m): 4:50pm On Jan 14, 2020
Allsingles:
In my research as a counselor, I have discovered that 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market when we go to buy.
Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE; some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

1) Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2) If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3) Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

4) Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they err.
5) If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget; see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6) If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the.....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/the-untold-life-of-single-mothers.html
Whatever made her a single mom, I will not be part of it. Same shit could repeat itself.
Romance › Re: Pls Help I Am Beginning To Be Attracted To My Fellow Males by Omar09(m): 8:34am On Jan 14, 2020
Rekhina:
Why dear?
Why settle for less when I can get the best.
Romance › Re: Pls Help I Am Beginning To Be Attracted To My Fellow Males by Omar09(m): 7:05am On Jan 14, 2020
Rekhina:
She is like my little sis now , she needs help n a man

Funmilayo Ayinde "Ayinla" needs a man to marry ,frustration no be here ,propose to her I will pay 4 d wedding

Martinez39 will u marry her
AstroG....marry her
Bigcowhorn marry her
Jimyjames marry her
Omar09 marry her
Legendhero marry her I will pay ...
With all due respect I comfortably reject the proposal in good faith and pass it down to Legendhero
Romance › Re: HAZARD'S ENLIGHTENMENTS: Stop Being An Effete Weakling. by Omar09(m): 7:09pm On Jan 13, 2020
hazard7:
Thanks man, am just tired of seeing young men act like wimps.
It's getting too much. One just sent a mg saying he laid one girl he was after and he is feeling like a king. I'm not saying a pounding a pussy once in a while isn't good, but too much gets you addicted and you start misbehaving around it.
Romance › Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Omar09(m): 6:25pm On Jan 13, 2020
Mine happened once and it opened my eyes. Last two years, before my birthday, I invited my supposed girlfriend over to come spend the day with me. She was to come to my state and run her admission thingy and then return to her place, this girl came back and finished everything early and went back promising me she will be there on my bday, to my greatest surprise she didn't show up I called and she said she thought she told me she wouldn't make it. Las Las what she used to calm me down was "I love you" and I stopped being angry.
Romance › Re: HAZARD'S ENLIGHTENMENTS: Stop Being An Effete Weakling. by Omar09(m): 3:12pm On Jan 13, 2020
Hazard7. This is good.
Romance › Re: Idiot Men, They Will Bash Her And Still Beg For Her Number Secretly by Omar09(m): 1:20pm On Jan 13, 2020
MrCork:
so its illegal to ask for pusssssssy nicely?..correct?...did u here pettyprincess complain?
..bro how long u been gay?(No oofeense)
angry
No mind the hediot
Romance › Re: She Lied To Me That She Was Raped by Omar09(m): 9:16am On Jan 13, 2020
Timekeeper:
I have apologized right... Pls it's okay
You deh run? grin grin
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 5:50pm On Jan 12, 2020
armadeo:
I wont go as far as flipping the switch, what I would say is a generally suspicious nature and absolute lack of trust except for those who have earned thier position in the circle.
This motto has served me well so far
As you trust, always believe in their ability to fvck you up anytime any day.
Forum Games › Re: ~<<The Last Person To Post In This Thread Wins>>~ by Omar09(m): 5:28pm On Jan 12, 2020
Johnny19:
Allow me win nah... Must you reply me?
Hi
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 4:01pm On Jan 12, 2020
Martinez39:
No he is not. Both of them are already in a relationship. He, being a nice guy, is doing all these things out of commitment, kindness of heart, and true love while making the usual mistake of nice guys — thinking that others are just basically like them and would reciprocate kind gestures. Nice people who are still naive and have no experience of the nature of humans in general can't mentally grasp or reason wicked and mean behaviours hence they assume most ordinary people are basically nice like them. The guy in the video was confused and confounded when the panel implied his would be finished and left for dry when his girlfriend leaves him. That's why nice people, like the guy in the video, are usually taken unaware and get serious burnt. The kindness of nice people are seen as foolish to those that understand human nature but nice people see their niceness as the good and proper way of doing things.

That's why when a nice guy has been burnt, the first set question that comes to his mind admist his feeling of hurt is "why?" (this is because he finds many cruel and mean acts unthinkable, unnecessary, and petty) and "but I have been good and helpful to that person?" (he made the mistake of thinking others are basically like him and would reciprocate kind gestures & treatment). The guy in the video is heading that path.
This world is not ideal for the nice and gentle but for the strong and brutal survivalists.
Cc. emmaodet, armadeo
But once a nice guy flips that humanity switch, he goes to an extreme. Because this switch was flipped by nature in her crudest way ever. I just hope he wakes up. And I wish I will be at the other side to welcome him. I'd so make him feel bad he'd wish he never lived in the first place. But that's just the way he basics of him realizing his potential.


Look at me fantasizing. Lol
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 3:54pm On Jan 12, 2020
Martinez39:
With themselves. Watch the video. They have been together for five years.
And they met at a grocery store. How romantic.
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 9:42pm On Jan 11, 2020
AlataSuesue:
Poor incels grin

Na woman matter go kill of all una, no matter how much you whine, women would always and forever have y’all balls in their hands. By the way this RedPill movement doesn’t fit you Nigerian niggers. You are all too razz and local for it.
Moving on.
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 9:41pm On Jan 11, 2020
Martinez39:
grin grin grin Women!

In the very short video below (which you have to watch till the very end to understand), we can see how being a simp and fool for love has led a man into a terrible position where he is being used and can be discarded without a sweat. cheesy Also, notice the woman's answers at the very end and see why you can't trust women just because you love her. Boys, watch this very short video and tell us the great foolish things you have done because you were in love, just simping, or being a white knight.

Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, pansophist, AstroG, healthserve, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, lukui, HARDDON


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rksYbGA1QS8
She couldn't even answer the questions directly and wanted to make it look like the man's fault ( I mean the man questioning her) and what is his business between them. Lol.

We are doomed.
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 9:39pm On Jan 11, 2020
Martinez39:
My bad, I will tag you next time.
It's ok
Romance › Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Omar09(m): 8:53pm On Jan 11, 2020
Martinez39:
grin grin grin Women!

In the very short video below (which you have to watch till the very end to understand), we can see how being a simp and fool for love has led a man into a terrible position where he is being used and can be discarded without a sweat. cheesy Also, notice the woman's answers at the very end and see why you can't trust women just because you love her. Boys, watch this very short video and tell us the great foolish things you have done because you were in love, just simping, or being a white knight.

Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, pansophist, AstroG, healthserve, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, lukui, HARDDON


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rksYbGA1QS8
I am furious you didn't tag me along side the others.

But damn that mayo so wants that brown cookie
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Abort My Unborn Child Because Of Nursing Council Exam by Omar09(m): 8:46pm On Jan 11, 2020
Olalan:
OP sorry to burst your bubble your spouse family seem irresponsible.......a grandmother following her grand child is the height of moral bankruptcy. It's time you have a rethink about your spouse and her family that's if you don't also share same moral outlook.
BTW when you both were having series of unprotected sex what where you guys expecting?
They were expecting candy.
Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by Omar09(m): 8:22pm On Jan 11, 2020
sonmvayina:
I wish it were..
Trying to make things right with her will mean you own up to her fault of pushing you to look outside.

This is what she gets pushing you outside. She caused it. Get a new wife.

Oh n BTW you should expect same from her.
Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by Omar09(m): 6:05pm On Jan 11, 2020
sonmvayina:
I have never been in a relationship where I had to beg my girlfriend for sex, in fact they always did the asking.. So when I got married I told my wife, I don't know to beg, and that if she says no, I won't disturb her..
This is really the worst place to post movie scripts like this. Try posting it on a producers wall.
Romance › Re: HELP! I Got Pregnant From My Gateman For My Husband by Omar09(m): 5:56pm On Jan 11, 2020
Mbeki:
I got married to my husband at the age of 27. We decided not to have kids in our first year of marriage. We both loved the idea, as it gave us enough time to organise our future.

I felt lucky to marry him because I'm loved by every member of his family. He is equally rich so I had all a lady could ever need in marriage.

The year was finally over so it was time for us to have kids. We tried making babies for the first 6 months without success. So we had to consult a medical practitioner. On getting to his office he counselled us, told us to be patient and asked us to return after three months.

We returned to him as instructed. He did some series of test and recommended some drugs. But after some time we got tired of relying on doctors and decided to wait on God.

A friend of mine who knew what was going on gave me an advice that changed my whole story. She asked me to have carnal knowledge with my gate man. At first I refused, but she insisted that's the quickest way to get a child. Since I don't want to lose my husband to another lady, I agreed to her words.

At first seducing my gate man was difficult, but after I promised to increase his salary he finally accepted. I only slept with him twice, next I got pregnant. My husband was at work when I put to bed. He was excited when he heard the news, unknown to him the baby was not his.

Nemesis caught up with me when I finally put to bed. It started at the hospital when my husband was called to see his baby. I notice the look on his face, but I kept mum hoping he will react. But he kept quiet, smiled, and took me home.

Last night he broke his silence and request for a DNA test. My heart almost came out of my mouth. It dawned on me that I've been caught, but I insisted he's his child. After much argument we agreed to see a doctor in a week time.

I'm totally confused. I thought I was doing him good by giving him a child, but my good has become evil. I don't know if I'm to secretly plan with the doctor or run away before he finds out. Anyone with similar experience should pls tell me what to do.
Run away and take the baby with you.
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Did I Overreact? by Omar09(m): 3:51pm On Jan 11, 2020
HARDDON:
Coming from a soul that loves freaky and engage in all manners of sexual viles.

Guess when you wano marry, after all the deeds, you'd put up the no-sex before marriage before the poor guy so you can trick him into the bonds without him knowing you come saddled with warmhole linking earth and some planets out there!

Life is very beautiful. Isn't it?
Bloody beautiful in its amazing red.
Romance › Re: She Loved Me! Treated Her Like Trash,now I Want Her Back. by Omar09(m): 6:54pm On Jan 10, 2020
Gabrie300:
I will try with my possible best to summarize everything
Your possible best isn't good enough.
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Enjoy Mouth Action? by Omar09(m): 6:50pm On Jan 10, 2020
Gina2019:
I was discussing with a colleague of mine about mouth action.
She said her boyfriend loves the act..And she's doesn't like giving him mouth action cuz it's disgusting.
Guys, why do u like mouth action?
Why do you eat?
Romance › Re: The Sisterhood Lasso Effect... What Is The Lasso Effect? by Omar09(m): 6:48pm On Jan 10, 2020
IamPlato:
What Is
Its A Shame How Some Men Will Do Things Only to Impress Ladies, some Wouldn't Mind Supporting ridiculous opinions As Long As Its A Female Raising It (i Have Seen Them).
I have seen this in action. Men always do this. I just don't understand. The worse is they would do it even though the possibility of that girl giving them pussy is far fetched yet they will rather support a girl with a stupid opinion than stand with what's right.
Romance › Re: Should I Play Along Or Report This Lady To Her Husband by Omar09(m): 5:51pm On Jan 10, 2020
ogabentley:
I have been good friends for 5 years with a couple who live in one of the 4 self contain apartment where i reside.
We do hang out during weekends and sometimes in the evenings. recently Frank travelled and his wife asked me to come over and fix their Dstv that it wasnt working. it was an easy fix just needed to place a wire which was out of the decoder and it was done.
as i started to leave, she asked me why i had never made advances at her.
"i told her because you are married"
"married yes, but i do see the way you stare at me, i know you want me" she replied.
then she let the wrapper she tied fall off her body, i was shocked seeing a married woman stark naked before my very eyes.
i told her it wasnt right and hurridly left before someone sees me
since then i havent spoken to her.
what should i do, should i tell her husband?
Noice porn script. I like it.
Romance › Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Omar09(m): 5:12pm On Jan 10, 2020
ubunja:
that Shera is unstoppable. The word she created to describe women who chase men, "Pick Meisha", has just made it into the Urban Dictionary. She's making waves.

But don't worry, Shera's tricks and games only work if you want to use money to get women. That's why I'm strongly against using money. Even she herself has said it many times.

But that having been said, I need guys to watch her videos. I don't want an echo chamber. Guys must make time to understand the Gold Digger's game. But most of these vids will piss many guys off. But guys still need to listen.
I'm checking her out. What's her handle on YouTube?
Romance › Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Omar09(m): 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
ubunja:
it would have been better if you knew the difference between procreational sex and recreational sex. Read up on that.

That a woman has more receptors for sex is not the point because a woman gets LESS sex when she enters a relationship or marries. Single women have the most sex that is satisfying to them. When a woman marries she sacrifices sexual fulfilment for making babies. She does not marry for sex. Get that point right and everything will fall into place and the picture will be clearer.

Women marry for business. No matter how good you fvck a woman she'll still want the formal marriage. Because the sex benefits her nothing. She can get MORE out there. What she needs is the moola.

This thread is meant for women that's why guys are having problems understanding me.
Bro from that guy's write up, you'd see that he doesn't even know what he's saying. He makes a point in sentence and contradicts it in the next sentence. He goes in he comes out. He's arguing with himself making you the third wheel in a relationship. Let him be. Smh...
Romance › Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Omar09(m): 5:09pm On Jan 09, 2020
ubunja:
exactly.

Bad Boys and Players, the men who get plenty of sex always marry virgins and prudes. Because its the meeting of Masculinity and Femininity. Masculinity chases sex, Femininity does not.

Its the guys who rarely get sex, the Nice Guys who marry sluts and hoes. Because Nice Guys themselves are Feminine, while sluts and hoes are Masculine. Again, it's the meeting of Femininity and Masculinity. But in an opposite way.

The things I explained in my writeup: Nice Guys Are Sluts, Bad Boys Are Good Guys - https://www.nairaland.com/4950350/ubunjas-miseducation-nice-guys-sluts
Read it. And using it. Still working. Not exaggerating.
Romance › Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Omar09(m): 5:00pm On Jan 09, 2020
MiddleDimension:
the first one, if course!

the second one: i still don't get it. well, i am not the one who can't live without sex. but if one begins to weaponise anything in a relationship, then that's not a romantic relationship anymore, that's a battle! if a battle or a game is what i want, i will not go into a relationship; i will join the military instead, or i will go into politics where 'games' are played. but i am not interested in 'games' or war, that's why i will never be a politician or a secret agent.

please note that it is not like i don't know how to play games, or wage war; infact, i am not affraid of that! and when i choose to do it, i will win.

but the point i am making is: why play hanky-panky when people can be simple, and honest thereby making their lives stress free.
Your math teacher will ask you to divide 920 with 4 and would ask you to use long division.
Romance › Re: Can A Woman Demand For Sex From Her Husband And How? by Omar09(m): 4:50pm On Jan 09, 2020
ubunja:
it's manly. It's what men do. Its Masculine and erases the ladylike qualities of a woman.

Between a girl who is shy even to kiss you and a girl who sucks your dick anytime without fear, which one would you marry with confidence and without fear?
Shy one. God! I'd go for the shy one.

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