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DenreleDave:
I know many guys here that act as if they hate everything about Riele but all na wash.. Upon all the insult they exchange on daily basis, they will still be the one sending pm to her. Another one was even complaining dt she doesn't reply WhatsApp message. They will come here to abuse and insult ladies, we will even support the bashing but later them go go behind our backs to send them pm, hypocrites...

I heard Martinez39 of red pill organizations was even begging Riele to reply his pm...

Mrcork was also begging pettyprincess for her number too

Even the great omar09, caplocked, lilwet do the same thing. They come here to form and later later, go and be begging one kind lady la dat..

Riele, u keep bashing people sogbo but u no I told u to be careful

I like that you joined my name amongst the great.

Riele:
If you're suffering from low self esteem , this thread is not for you .

Here Are The Reasons Not To Date A Nigerian Man :-

1) . Most Of Them Are Big Time Cheaters :- If you're not careful , they'll put the blame on you .

2) . Most Of Them Are Hypocrites .

3) .Most Of Them Are Irresponsible and lack sense .

4) . They Are All Whores .

5) .Most Of Them Lack Personal Hygiene .

#bitter_truth .

You know some people are better off a semen. And you are one of them. Did you try to show your mom her mistake of marrying one?

uninspired07:
It’s true though. Maybe I should leave the young ones to learn.

Yeah if he had packed up when the thrusting was getting stronger, I wouldn't have met his works.

uninspired07:
If I may ask, why did you tell him not to collect his phone back?

In love and in war everything is fair. Since he was stupid enough to buy her a phone, he shouldn't be stupid to try and get it back. It's also a part of letting go if the past. And also for security reasons. The girl might start shouting and boys who don't know nothing would beat him to pulp. Plus the girls is now claiming she bought the phone with her cash. So why stress?

uninspired07:
This is a lie. I have all your teaching but it won’t work on any Lagos based Nigerian girl. They don’t give a fvck about all the mind games. They just want to see you doing good. Then, you can apply all the red pill principles.

Women hate losers who are doing bad financially. Ubunja, you’re not a Nigerian so you can never know our women more than we do.

Get off your High Horse is SA & come down here to see that our women are beasts when it comes to money issues. Money is all they care about & not some rubbish red pill strategies!!!

Nigerian girls are not South African or Zimbabwean girls. Our girls are the most materialistic in the Africa nay the world. Get off your high horse!!!

To everyone is their own understanding of the redpill. I understood from all ubunja teaching that I can live without a woman. And that it is not a do or die affair I get a girlfriend. It is not a mind game but rather a shield to their mind games. Can you believe it if I tell you that my mum age 55 still uses some manipulation tricks on my father age 64?

Its just a tool that is handy. I have a guy right in my street because he bought a phone for his girlfriend and the girl dumped him immediately after receiving the phone of 55k wanted to round up boys to go collect the phone from her. Of not that I stepped in told him not belittle himself he would have lost his life as to no one knows if the girl has boys install for him.

Like I said to everyone their own understanding.

uninspired07:
You have a point. Personally, I have a catalogue of all Ubunja’s teachings & lessons from wider & better red pill forums. How to deal with girls is not my problem. My immediate need is money. When money comes, any girl I come in contact with will suffer a lot because i won’t value her.

What I am saying in essence is, per Nigerian girls, chase money first & other things will follow. I can’t imagine applying red pill philosophy to any girl at this my age. I am too advanced & mature to use ubunja’s teachings to deal with Nigerian girls of my level as it will not work. All a Nigerian girl needs to see is that you’re doing well financially & she might not collect money from you. She just wants to know that you’re comfortable. In that kinda scenario, all the red pill orientation in this world will not work on her.

The kinda girls that red pill can work on are secondary, Jambites & part 1 year girls. Even part 1 Nigerian girls are on instamessage & CodedRuns doing Olusho work.

The situation in Nigeria is not normal at all.

Since you have learned how to deal with women, a good number of men don't know how to deal with women. So allow them to learn. If you think ubunja has done too much, and you need to hustle you might as well use the business and investment forum here or better still face the real world.

uninspired07:
Ubunja, while I appreciate your efforts to miseducate guys about women, it might have missed your attention that the problem of Nigeria & its women are peculiar.

The recent upsurge in complaints is rooted in the harsh economy of this country & the unrealistic standards of our women. There’s no amount of red pills that will work as long as our young men are financially incapacitated. There is just no way to talk to or date a Nigerian woman without spending. All the grunting you see on NL romance section stems from the inability of our men to even approach this ladies. We know it would come at great cost & we hate it because there is just no money.

In 2020, men—not young men still in school—should endeavor to get money & quit whining about these women as nothing will change. Their psyche has already been distorted by the flashy lifestyles of our celebrities who make normal Nigerians look lazy. There’s great poverty & tribulation in the land caused by that modern day Pharoah Buhari who’s refused to die (may God forgive me) & leave Nigerians alone.

I support the motion by the OP that men should quit whining & go look for money. There’s no other solution to the problem at hand.

Bro I get your point here. There should be more mised. Money is a great factor. I don't have it now. And to be honest with I tried getting girls without the cash true it was girls who are still growing and yet to know the value of cash. But without this mised I would have continued in my foolish ways trying to get this women and woo them. The mised is not to get women, but it is an enlightening book on how women think. You don't have the money, get the mised so that when the money comes, you'd know how to manage it. Men who have that money are suffering heartbreak. Money doesn't shield you from such. If you have the cash and don't know how to behave these leeches will suck you dry and hop to the next guy and maybe the guy knows his onion, they tend to stay. Money answers all things but money isn't all.

SLAP44:
If you rushed into this thread like me thinking she turned into a snake or a stone statue, click like

Swear to God I thought she was gonna be demon in disguise.

To all those that gave a savage answer to the simp, from the depth of my heart I say thank you.
Thank you
CAPSLOCK
Denreledave
donstan18
MrBrownJay1
Maak400
Godfullsam
lilwetdick

You guys..... Lol

bukatyne:
Ok.
Which is why it is good to search for your soul mate early before the cynicism in relationships due to several meaningless empty ones.

Lol... I don't believe in it anyway. It's all about compatibility. Nothing more nothing less.

sassysure:
Its not a teenage stuff.
I will boldly tell u that.
I never gave that a thought till like 3 yrs into my marriage.
Guy, when u marry whom u are very compatible with, no matter the storm, u two are indestructible.

So long as we are humans, no matter how strong we bond, we can never be indestructible. Still soulmate is for them teenagers.

bukatyne:
If you are someone spiritual enough to be led to a lady, then you would chase her extra.

If you feel that there are plenty fishes in the sea and you can point and kill, no need wasting a lot of time.

I believe in soul mates and that one person perfect for you. Most people rely on God to lead them to the person. Picking your soul mate from 3 billion people is an herculean task.

Of course, you can marry others and the marriage will be OK.

I like the way you put it. But I have stopped believing in soulmate stuff. I think it's teenagers who are still learning the strings of relationships.

bukatyne:
You said when you sense a whiff of disinterest or indifference, you flee to protect your ego.

That was why I highlighted that statement and responded to it.

Nobody has talked about groveling before a woman to make her accept you nor do I buy the idea of using gifts to woo a woman except you are looking for an elebi.

If you think immediately you ask a woman out, she must say yes, then you must have an overbloated sense of yourself which is pride or a mask to cover your perceived inadequacies which is low self-esteem.

If you want a lady, be ready to invest your time in wooing her and if she insists no, you can move on.

Sometimes, you need to go extra to pursue a lady especially if you are the type that believes in God's perfect will for marriage.

I don't approve of the bolded. Why would you go extra to pursue a lady? It is a bad idea. Yes women love the chase and any man they get in the chase usually are not worth it to them. I prefer being unpredictable. She resists you move on and let her wallow in the thoughts of if you'd come chasing again or not.

AstroG:
Merry Christmas to
My Fellow Redpillers
Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
MJBOLT
Michellekabod2
Fummyastic
RedCreme2(ah know say u done deactivate)
Fountainofyouth
Awkaetitibabe
Y'all made my Year so incredibly sweet and marvelous,see y'all in 2020

Aight imma go ahead and copy you.

Merry Christmas to

My Fellow Redpillers
Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
MJBOLT
Michellekabod2
Fummyastic
RedCreme2(ah know say u done deactivate)
Fountainofyouth
Awkaetitibabe

Y'all made my Year so incredibly sweet and marvelous,see y'all in 2020

Biggie225:
I often visit nairaland especially romance section...There I come across ubunja write-ups ,though am experienced when it comes to women...I can confirm that
All his write-ups all 100% correct... To all young guys here ,not only how to handle women.Inculcate those knowledge to all spheres ofyour life,you see yourself Excell in all your endeavors .
Courage, confidence,boldness and ruthlessness.These four attributes outlined above makes a real man.... Respect to ubunja ..
My nairalander of the year 2019.

My Nairalander of the year goes to Ubunja.

skywalker240:

yeah foolishly filled with Wisdom
Martinez39 na my guy sha.

No be only your guy oh. The guy with ubunja format my brain. Now no emotion to dash out.

skywalker240:
when i read what u just typed, i was about to conclude that u're among those awon "ubunja is talking shit" crew. then i scrolled up again to see the moniker of the so-called idiot (or so i tot ) and den i told myself i knw sarcasm wen i see one

You had to view the name twice to realize it was sarcasm.

**sarcasm right now: you have failed us! You peasant fool!

emeijeh:
Aha!
Guys, should we tell him?

Nah don't. Let him hurt some more

bodaola:
Swear to the God you serve that you have never cheated on your boyfriend or spouse. Lie and Die

Ese this is not about the person you quoted rather about you. You don't like to be cheated on so don't cheat. If you can't keep a relationship you can't keep a marriage. And thank God you decided to be single.

bodaola:
Last week. I invited a girl to my house and one thing one thing we started smooching... When the smooching is going on. She said, i Dont want to do this. I said why, she said... My wedding is 28 of December.

In shock i was like, so you will soon be a married woman. She said yes. Even should me I.V on her phone. I was wowed.
Then i tend removing my mind off this. Not until she said she's already Hot that she needs my dick now... She pounce on it and we ride on. While we were fuvking, her Fiance called and she instructed me to keep quiet. Then i did.
During the Convo, the guy asked her where is she. She then replied she's at aunty Hannah's place. She came to bargain about the wedding planner shit. Then the guy said OK and dropped the call.
We continue fuvking, but my mind was off it. At that time, i began to feel heartbreak. I felt the pain. I began to think my girlfriend is fuvking another guy apparently. Mehn! As we are talking now! I just broke up with my girlfriend. I can't allow any woman do this to me in future.

See, i Dont think I will get married. I sorry mum, I will do baby mama thing. No! Women are thieves!

Wise decision ese. Tbh I'm getting tired of this section and the way men complain. Looks like I will switch over to family or education section.

You knew she was going to get married and you still pounced that pussy. That's low bro. No self respect whatsoever.

franchasng:
Please divorce him, you deserve some peace and freedom
Go to any welfare or customary court nearby and file for a divorce, that's the best thing to do. How can he seize your phone Who the hell is he
You are a very pretty lady, you will get a fresher, hotter husband, even that your colleague will be glad to wife you and he will love you to pieces. Pls divorce that man before he kills you

The savage in this reply.

MichealKin50:
Hello good evening everyone. For those of you who contributed in my previous thread, thanks so much.
This is the part 2 of it.
Today I didn't go to work so I invited my girl over. She came. I told her I was lying about cheating on her. I brought a Bible and sworn that since e met I have not have sex with another person.
She told me she was lying as well. That she didn't want me to feel guilty so she lied that she cheated on me.
I told her to swear with the Bible she refused.
Friends help me because I really love this girl. But then, I don't want to end up with a cheater.
She left my place in anger. I am confused.

I am not sure I have seen your previous post.
But how do you people play with such sensitive stuff like this? Damn. You don't start what you can't finish.

Trex4:
But the thing is we were very close to the fact that people thought we were dating.... And also she went with me to our dinner night.....

Brah forget about that thing. She telling you she isn't ready the first time should have made you to back out and look for another girl. Simple. If you think I am lying, or I don't know what I am saying, go and get her, but you won't get her, if eventually you get her, you'd see that it was not worth the chase. Don't waste your time, it's not as if she's gold and would treat you right.

Trex4:
Martinez please advice me. I'm going to delete this post soon but I have a girl I've been looking at since July. She told me she was single and wanted me just as a friend when I asked her out. Since then I still hanged on and helped her in some ways that made both of us close. Then I tried asking her out again in December and she said she already has a boy friend, that she accepted him recently and hopes our friendship isn't strained. Please what do I do Now? As I'm really down

Well, the girl didn't just accept the boyfriend recently, she had a boyfriend and you are just the fall guy and she did this to milk you. You should have bounced when she told you she wanted you as a friend. What stopped her from accepting you initially, should be your breaking point.

lilwetdick:
in the highlighted, so a redpiller job is to leeche off women and not to create his own wealth

if the redpiller is not broke why does he need a woman to empty her husband bank account for him?
is the redpiller not just a gigolo a lazy man that sleep with easy women for their money

also so redpiller sleep with other people's wife, is it that they have no power to find their own mate?

according to redpillers, women are nothing but in many of your epistles, you guys have written how women are the gateway to reproduction

women are nothing but day in and day out, your fellow redpiller complain and cry about women here on romance and family section

how come women are nothing and you guys know to create redpill threads upon threads on ways to see their pants

if women are nothing, why bother about them?

Just so we are cleared on the bolded, anyone who complains of women are not redpill. Redpill is a movement created to enlighten men that the pussy is not worth spending your cash on. You wanna buy your girl a gift buy it because you want to and not because she manipulated you to buy. It is to enlighten on us never to spend an amount part with. This doesn't apply to women alone but every aspect of one's life. It teaches us to accord respect to whom respect is due. A man who has a working relationship has no use for the redpill and tbh this redpill movement has benefited the women as much as men (women who reason).

REDLORD1:
Validation, Love and attention and to change a redpiller from who he is.

I didn't see this reply coming. Even I am stunned.

TonyeBarcanista:
Bros, honestly, you are crying over nothing.

Your wife is a woman and you should understand her own position. She doesn't want her relative help to enjoy same privilege as her and her children before things get out of hand. Also, she isn't comfortable with the affection you are showing the girl. You were even wrong to quarrel her and say nasty things to her. Your good intention was spoilt by your action.

Guy, na you find trouble! Even me sef de suspect say your eye de chook for the babe as you don de reason her as second mother.

BTW we have seen relative househelp "chanced" madam in their homes or get pregnant for the oga for house.

Guy, apologise to your wife, and ask her to send the girl to her people.

Anything to trend. I get it. Lame ass you.

GreenMist21:
why u following me?

What happened to your miseds? You outer stupid advice to dish?

GreenMist21:
Who re u plsssss?

Don't you dare!

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