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Salvado1:
Pls dere was a girlfriend of mine who I really loved so much although she loved me too in de beginning but as time goes on she became so uncaring she never tends to call me anymore I wil be de only one calling her but wen I told her y she is no longer calling she said dat she will be calling but she will never call so as time goes on wen I call her she will be sounding so boring on phone as if am disturbing her sometimes I call her she won't pick up my call I start wondering what I did to her I try de little way I can to make her happy but at de end of de day she will still continue to be so uncaring, so one day I started thinking about de situation so I became so annoyed of it nd I texted her dat 'its over' since October 2019 I hav never called her nd she hav never called me or even texted me even to ask me y I texted her such message she just kept silent ever since, but am still missing her so much can't stop thinking about her am planning to start calling her again nd tell her to forget about de message I sent to her.My people ur advice is highly needed pls..

Kids.

We4all:
I don't think proposing to a lady should take that much of an effort. The truth is, most guys don't go through the hassles. They just assume that the lady already knows and preparations will start. But since you want to make yours memorable, then let me suggest something for you.

Firstly, make it private and don't involve either friends. Make a less than one minute video of yourself talking about how much she means to you and how much you love and cherish her. Keep the video saved on your phone.

Ask her out to a very private and quiet outdoor setting. Make sure she comes with her phone. While both of you are seated, talk less, hold hands and stare more at her. After a few minutes, excuse yourself that you need to go use the bathroom.

While you're lurking around the corner, send the video via WhatsApp. Since she may not open it immediately, give her a call and ask her to come online that you want to share something with her.

She will rush to open the video. As she is watching your blockbuster 'movie', walk towards her and quietly sit down. When she is done watching it, stand up, grab her hands and pull her close. Then look into her eyes, call her by her first name and ask: "Would you like to share the rest of your life with me"?

Since it's what she has been praying and fasting about, she will definitely say yes. Stare deeply into her eyes and say: " I promise to make you the happiest woman on earth ". Then end it with a passionate hug.

Jesus Christ! All just to ask her "will you marry me"? Dayum!

Mikel4xrist:
Ive finally found a woman who I want to marry. The problem is, how do I propose to her.
I've been googling on different ideas, but I havent gotten one that is convincing enough.
Please advice me guys, how do I do this... I love her so much...
this is one article I saw on the topic
https://www.24rentz.co/10-mind-blowing-ways-to-propose-to-a-nigerian-girl/

Hey moose we have been through hurdles of life, when it was rosy and when we were amidst the thorns.
I was able to go through the thin of life because you were by my side.

I wanna do all of these again but this time not as your boyfriend and you as my girlfriend. I wanna do it this time as your husband and you as my wife.
Will you marry me?

Jones47:
Exactly my fears!! Yet she still tells me to fear not, that I'm the one she loves'
I just confuse!!!

Who professes love without showing it? Mr man focus on yourself before you get hurt. No one can love two or more people at the same time. It's either one is being deceived or is truly loved.
Stop being a wimp and focus on what you can get out of life. A woman is not a part of it.

Jodha:
I chose not to ignore... it's my decision...
This yhur comment ain't necessary either...yhu should have ignored...

I didn't ignore because I know that's true and I like it. You shouldn't have been here in the first place, all you are after is chasing clout and trying to make yourself noticed in this forum by making stu.pid comments here.

Well you caught my eye, I have noticed you. Dum.b dum.b

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
those who needs the meat for breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner

Cholesterol is very dangerous to the body.

Jodha:
Gibberish

You didn't have to comment. You could have ignored.

Beosten:
I married a very mature, educated woman. But as a person who grew up fighting many battles -- financial, spiritual, physical threats from land grabbers etc -- there is almost no sphere of life I have no adequate knowledge of.

I'm a very libral person and will never force my opinion on anyone. So, my wife always gets away with taking decisions that will affect both of us--affect both of us in the sense that they were life threatening decisions; I will only get hurt for losing a loved one. In all the cases where she went against my advice, she regretted, wept profusely and I spent a fortune because of her folishness.

I love this woman more than anything on this planet. But it seems she is not ready to learn her lessons anytime soon. There are some decisions that even if you consult Socrates and Plato about, they would ask you to go ahead; but I have this gift of astral premonition and presaging dreams, and can tell, from miles away, the decisions that will backfire.

So, should I start forcing my will on her to avert dangers?

Don't you dare force your will on her. I think you should stop stepping in when she's doesn't listen to and the consequences come. Allow her make her choice, and also allow her bear the consequences. Stop stepping in, you are not God. Even God allows us to bear our consequences.

Jodha:
It's not me...

OK. It's just that the you cuss is almost as the way MISSGHOSTED do cuss

czarr:
even nairaland dey enjoy the show na... They don't want to interfere

Damn!

Jodha:
Yhu retar.d ...
Yhu don't wanna go down that road wimmi...
Who would be so foolish to step on the tail of a sleeping tigress...
Do not bite more than yhu can chew..
Yhu are warned...

I am. Looking for MISSGHOSTED. And you kinda like write like her.

Jodha:
Yhu retar.d ...

Yhu don't wanna go down that road wimmi...
Who would be so foolish to step on the tail of a sleeping tigress...

Do not bite more than yhu can chew..

Yhu are warned...

I am. Looking for MISSGHOSTED. And you kinda like write like her.

czarr:
you lie ooo, I no go ever avoid you, you woke a sleeping lion when you and ur kind derailed my thread, so I plan on making your life fucking miserable on nairaland almost as miserable and ugly as u are in real life.... See you later my loff

How the hell do you guys write the word "Fuc.king" without nairaland censoring it and or putting either a space or dot in between those letters?

I need urgent answers pls

ubunja:
yah but whatsApp groups are very limited numbers wise. Already guys on my whatsapp who wanna join the group are around 300 now. Unless on Telegram as someone suggested to me. But in any case, the blog will be a great gathering place once all systems on it are perfectly running.

Use Telegram.

ubunja:
I also don't get it. Hope Ubunja will explain one day.

Just so you Ubunja don't know why it's called a miseducation, here is why.

Normally we were taught as little boys to be nice selfless and gentle. Those teachings are the Educations.

Now we have decided to forget those teachings because one man has taken it upon himself to teach us something opposite of what we learned and so the word MISEDUCATION

ubunja:
I'll be on WhatsApp later on tonight. My WhatsApp is always flooded with messages. I now allocate special times to log in otherwise I wouldn't manage it.

OK.

ubunja:
The Miseducations have their own home on the internet this year. For the honest truth seeker, get you monthly dose of Africa's hottest Red Pill threads at www.miseducations.com

This is a blog for nothing but Miseducations. It's still growing but come and grow it with us as we learn, share and strengthen each other.

Here are some of the Threads posting in the first 3 months, in no particular order, 6 threads a month:

What Exactly Are Green Lights.

Shortcuts To The Booty.

For Extremely Tall Guys Like Me.

Figuring Out The Type Of Women That Like You.

Adam And Eve 3: Mr & Mrs Unpredictable.

Every Woman Is A Lesbian At Heart.

Watch & Learn: The Art Of People Watching.

The Joys Of A Pick Me Chick.

Kings Of Reverse Psychology.

Treat A Woman The Way She Treats Herself.

Releasing Your Girl's Inner Ho.

How Women Get Away With Lies.

Ice Kings: The Colder Your Are The Hotter You Are To Women.

Etc.

*And my first book - Parasitique will be released for free on the blog shortly.


Any inquiries my WhatsApp contacts are on my profile.

And my profile will always remain on NL.

All Miseducations on NL will stay on NL forever. They will never be deleted.

And best believe I'll still be an active commentator on NL.

But all new threads will appear on the blog.

Peace and Love this 2020.

Ubunja.

Bro come online on WhatsApp I got screenshot of testimony to give you.

ubunja:
The Miseducations have their own home on the internet this year. For the honest truth seeker, get you monthly dose of Africa's hottest Red Pill threads at www.miseducations.com

This is a blog for nothing but Miseducations. It's still growing but come and grow it with us as we learn, share and strengthen each other.

Here are some of the Threads posting in the first 3 months, in no particular order, 6 threads a month:

What Exactly Are Green Lights.

Shortcuts To The Booty.

For Extremely Tall Guys Like Me.

Figuring Out The Type Of Women That Like You.

Adam And Eve 3: Mr & Mrs Unpredictable.

Every Woman Is A Lesbian At Heart.

Watch & Learn: The Art Of People Watching.

The Joys Of A Pick Me Chick.

Kings Of Reverse Psychology.

Treat A Woman The Way She Treats Herself.

Releasing Your Girl's Inner Ho.

How Women Get Away With Lies.

Ice Kings: The Colder Your Are The Hotter You Are To Women.

Etc.

*And my first book - Parasitique will be released for free on the blog shortly.


Any inquiries my WhatsApp contacts are on my profile.

And my profile will always remain on NL.

All Miseducations on NL will stay on NL forever. They will never be deleted.

And best believe I'll still be an active commentator on NL.

But all new threads will appear on the blog.

Peace and Love this 2020.

Ubunja.

Finally wailers, white knight et al get to rest their mouth. Lol. I salute you sir. And bro, come online on WhatsApp I got screenshot of testimony from me to you.

ubunja:
here comes another money guy.

Funny how betas think money will make them Alphas. I just laugh at them. You make the money and you get swiped off that money by the very person you love.. It does pain.

Eyeness:
you are the one that knows what you are looking for. The mother of your children will teach them to use foul language, but it is okay, as long as she cooks and cleans very well.

Exactly. It's cute when girls use the f word. I like it n it turns me on.

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ubunja:
I don't think I can write more content for women because there was virtually no feedback from women. Only one lady got back with anything constructive and even she has since deactivated. I see no point in writing for mutes. A big part of the Miseducations is the feedback guys give. It puts the writeup into context for others to understand. But women didn't comment with their own experiences even though the writeup was for them so it was effort wasted as far as I see it.

That is their entitlement speaking. They feel you should continue to write and they are not obligated to give feedbacks.

Eyeness:
Happy new year in advance ladies!!!

While we get ready for 2020 with new resolutions, and a lot of hope, there are some things we have to leave behind in 2019. An example of that is dead end, toxic relationships with men that for some reason you are still holding unto like an old toy from your childhood.

2020 means a new approach, new start and better methods to achieving your goals. After all, repeating the same mistake and still expecting a different and better outcome each time is utter madness.
On to the main gist

So who is a pickmesha?

A Pickmeisha, also commonly known as 'PICCCCCCCCK MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE', is a woman who is desperate to be picked by a man, at all expense to her self esteem and her wellbeing.

Most women have been a Pickmeisha at some point in their lives, most likely when they ran into some Nigerian male demon also known as a bleepboy , that cursed them for at least 18 long months of a situation-ship with his penis from hell that probably left the poor woman senseless after being influenced by the hormones serotonin and oxytocin. Pickmesha's are naive in the ways of the world of dating and relationships, either in their first relationship, or

Pickmeisha is a woman who sees ANY man as the prize, not herself. Therefore she will do anything and put up with epic levels of nonsense in the hopes that he will pick her (aka pick-me-isha). Examples of pick me behavior:

1. Allowing him to disrespect you

2. Parenting his children from another woman when you are not his wife yet

3. Cooking or cleaning for a man you are not married to

4. Borrowing him money for God knows what purpose, without demanding or proof of good credit from him, keeping evidence of paying him the money and stating the purpose on the transfer, or checking to see that it is used for what he says he is using it for. If his mother is sick meke sure the money goes to her medical bills.

5. Forgiving him for cheating , and not leaving him with a message that he will not be able to afford the price of cheating on you with again.

6. Doing sexual acts for him that you don't enjoy, just because he asked for it or because he said he would leave you if you didn't do it. Allowing him to have sex with you and ejaculate while you have never experienced an orgasm while doing the act with him

7. Letting him string you along into a relationship, and friends with benefit with no commitment

8. Dating broke dudes who you are trying to help/encourage by providing 50:50.(Then you are not only Pickmeisha but you are also Brenda the builder or Bob the Builder. Don't try to build with a man.)

9. Having a kid(s) with a guy you aren't married to/hasn't committed to you

10. Making excuses for his bad behavior again and again while ignoring that inner voice that tells you that you dont have to put up with this.

11. Allowing a man you just met online to invite you to his house without taking you out for a date. That speaks of loose morals, poor home training, and lack of discipline on your part. What else are you coming to his house to do, preach the gospel?

12. Opening your legs for a man just because he only bought you either suya, catfish peppersoup, sharwama, ice cream, pizza, or for some of you indomie and egg each of which cost under 5k. Sorry to tell you this, but if this is you, stop being so cheap and think about your life. Acquire some standards in 2020.

13. They make posts to bash other women, just because they are so thirsty for male attention and approval and will suffer from even lower self esteem without it. this is different from bashing someone for wrong doing. But women should uplift each other and not the other way round.

14. Doesn't look after her appearance, leaves the house without bathing, wearing a hairnet on and bathroom slippers.

15. Putting aside her life's plan aside, sacrificing herself, not developing herself just to further a man's dreams, education or career, married or not, without critically appraising whether the benefits outweigh the risks.

16. Using her school fees, pocket money, or money from her sugar daddy to buy her boyfriend a new phone or car which he will still use for his side chicks.

17. Fights with other women, especially physically, over a man.

18. Uses foul language A LOT.

19. Doesn't financially provide for herself or have her own source of income despite being an adult, schooling is not an excuse.

20. she is desperate and will do anything to have any man, especially one that has told her either by words or by actions that he doesn't want to be around her or even like her even pursuing and proposing to him.


Pickmeshas are always on the losing end of the stick,, they end up working twice as hard and getting emotional and physical crumbs and they grumble and end up bitter when they see their friends in happier marriages or with better men.

Pickmesha's lack game and strategy and go into relationships blindly and erratically. they still believe in fairytales, and struggle love, hoping for prince charming after he made made her jump through hoops and cross seven seas and end up crying when he leaves her for another woman but not without sucking her dry and running away with her money and investments, leaving her in debt, or leaving her pregnant or with children to take care of.

From 2020, this will not be your story anymore, things are gonna change in your. Watch out for my monicker, together we will transform to quality queens and princesses in 2020.

funmisticqueen Funmmyastic merc2 ishlove dominique farano lavylilly faithful118 fountainofyouth lefulefu wetdick makydeddie iyatola thegeneralqueen mimimile93

If my girls doesn't use the f words, she ain't real.
As for number 3, if you don't cook or clean for me, how then am I assured you'd do it when we are married? If you don't cook or clean, how then would I get married to you?

AfroKnight:
Two definitions.

1. A broke guy is one who doesn’t have the amount of money need for a particular purchase or service, at a given time. That way, many men are broke at certain points.

That is the old definition though.

The prevalent but honest truth these days is,

2. A broke guy is a man who habitually resists the manipulative inducement to waste money on a hungry, indigent girl who has standards she herself cannot afford, without the financial input of a man.

Sir sense will not kee you, you hear?

hazard7:
I know the red pill is essential not just for ladies but life in general. Just dat some betas are using it the wrong way instead of using its knowledge to improve their lives,

Thank God you get my point!

hazard7:
Hello everyone its your boy hazard. I want to talk about why a modern man will sit down and the only thing he thinks about is bashing women. Its so un masculine.
THE RISE OF EFFEMINATE MEN
During the days of our not so modern ancestors,we men were arranged in order to serve our tribe. Some were hunters,warriors etc. We did not need to worry about what girls like bisi,lilyvall,riele were thinking about us cause we were well concentrated on our purpose. Women were submissive and respected men and they perform their duties without complain. Then something happened...........
MODERNITY HAPPENED
Technology is one of the best thing to ever happen to man. But it came with its own demerits it changed the dynamics of society. It brought the era of wimpy men,white knights,red pillers,black pillers,feminists etc. I wonder where a man will have the energy to talk of girls all day long, did you think the likes of julio ceasar, napolean etc were worried about what women think of them(are u f***king kidding me) 1000 years ago you will be worried about surviving than getting laid. When I go out all I see is boys claiming to be men, wimps that bash women online but are magas to them online seriously it has got to stop.
THE NOTION THAT ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES AND GOLD DIGGERS
Seriously that is just plain stupid, have u dated all the women in the world? There is a saying that "who you are is what you attract" and that is just so true. When a man carry money that he should use on his mom,sis or friends on a girl that is not interested and she cheats on him, he starts saying women are whores, that is just a poor mentality of an effeminate man( but hazard,most nigerian girls like money a lot and mainly whores and gold diggers?) sure most nigerian girls are gone into oloshos and sex trafficking business but its not all I have dated girls that added value to my life in so many ways that I can't count plus u can't blame them becos both the economy and society lead it to this. Now as a guy ask yourself is there not much to life than women and don't tell me foods,drink,games and family(definitely) because they are just bonuses.
The one thing that is important is your mission(life's purpose) try to find it.
SUMMARY
Next time u were thinking of coming to nairaland to bash women.ask yourself what do u gain from it a sense of self esteem,does it solve the fact that u are broke? Common it is unbecoming of a man to do nothing but wail all day along about women. Get out there and learn game if u are bad with women, invest ur money in stock exchange if you are broke(but its risky) but don't forget that all in all.
The only thing that should be important to u as a man is
"Your life purpose". Enough bashing and if u want to know to become a masculine man just dm me. Thanks
Happy new year in advance!!!

I think this is one hell of a message needed to be spread amongst men. I get tired of reading this "I did this for her and she.... My girlfriend did this to me after 6 months of dating... I can't take this any longer..." stories on here. In fact I started thinking most of them if not all are fake but I do know those stories do happen in life. I mean c'mon it's life we are talking about here. I believe in prioritizing one's happiness. And no human will give you that except you!
But tbh the redpill is really essential not cause of them women, there are men out there who have spent money on their fellow men whom they are not supposed to do for and got nothing after it. It's stupid. Reading the the redpill and thinking it's applicable to only women is lies. It's applicable to life as a whole. It depends on the reader's POV

Most readers on here read the miseds and decided to wage war on the opposite sex. To me that's stupid. Why wage war on people whom you will depend on reproducing, releasing stress and of course depression. The redpill is not about gender war, and will never be. It is about you knowing how to deal with life, knowing that if you didn't get something doesn't mean it's the end and it's not a do or die affair. Just wait for the perfect time. Or create one. It's not war thing to those who took it to be. Adore one another as yourself.

Ps: I focused on the redpill cause you mentioned it there, and I am one who take s my pill everyday.

The rest of the mg is bomb. I wish they'd listen.

healthserve:
Damn I'm good.
I think we need to co-write this new coming year Ubunja
Cc Crackhaus Martinez39 do you disagree?

Cherry on ese. Make a blast.

crackhaus:
The guy should move on, it's not rocket science.
If his intention however was only to taste her coochie, then he can stick around BUT do no romantic talks or stvpid emotional exchanges. Just stay, maintain a cordial friendship, and wait till the day there's a chance to demolish her pum pum.

But this one he's already talking about love, staying put will cause nothing else but unnecessary pain and the girl will just take him for a ride - nothing hurts me more than seeing a woman take a man for a ride.
So better scram and go love someone else.

The first option, I was being sarcastic ni..

emmy584:
I met this girl on facebook whom we both know each other not very much. We started chatting together for a while and things gradually started taking another dimension. We both fell in love with each other in a way that we can't stay without communicating with ourselves. As we all know, in every relationship there is bound to be a misunderstanding in one way or the other and ours wasn't different. There was a day as we were talking on phone, all of a sudden she became provoked and told me not to call her anymore and whenever I tried calling is either she busy the call or never picks. Her sudden attitude started affecting me emotionally because I fell deeply in love with her. On a good day, she finally picked and told me that we need to talk. These was when she told me that she has a boyfriend and I was for some minutes dumbfounded. She went further telling me that she really loves me and she doesn't want to hurt me that's why she couldn't bring it to her mind to tell me when we first met online. I asked her if she loves the other guy and she said yes she does. Please I need an advice on what to do because I truly love her and I don't want to lose her.

You could Fight for her love, do everything possible in your power to get her. She will one day recognize your efforts. It's not an easy task, rather a herculean one. Or you could just move on without her which is the easiest way out.

Martinez39
Ubunja
CAPSLOCK
crackhaus
AstroG

ubunja:
did you hear that sound?
That was my jaw hitting the floor. Man you killed the woman dead. And only 1 in a million men can respond that way. You sir are the Master of Us. Too nice.

I still have a long way to go. I have kings!

ubunja:
just read on how he justifies himself

exactly.

ubunja:
most guys here need to just chill. And the guy has even said he gained knowledge from other forums yet here he is discouraging other men from gaining knowledge on a local forum. It's hilarious.

I call that being selfish.

Skepticus:
You come off like you have a personal issue with ubunja. I've seen your back and forth banters with him and his responses and his quips laced with dismissive sarcasms to you, is enough to make a respectable man hold his own.

BUT NO, the mangina that you truly are never fails to show up as you are triggered and your emotional rants show that you are just another opinionated loser out there.

Ubunja spelt it to you in clear terms to stick to what you believe in as he isn't forcing his ideas on others. Just suck it up and walk away. You have nothing to prove here.

Ubunja's MISEDUCATIONS were written to inform men on the guise and manipulations that women use on men out there and these manipulations are very familiar to all women across the globe with scenario relatable to African women. So, they are not useless. He gives advice on how to go around it and help men get back their Frame of Masculinity. What you decide to do with the knowledge as a man is left to you.

Back to what you said about Nigerian girls being more money-hungry than other girls on the planet shows that you know nothing about Nigerian ladies (or Lagos girls as you specified), gold digging modus operandi of women worldwide and even, materialism.

He even mentioned year 1 and below girls being the only ones easy to get around and even saying that some are already on In message and Codedruns Guy, get your head out of your narrow minded ass to learn more about the nature of women. You know nothing about these women, walahi. Do you think all the males who come to complain here of their girlfriends and wives are all poor and struggling guys/men? A good number of them have resources (the so called money that you have been yapping about) and still get treated like dirt. Shouldn't that tell you something that money (though, very necessary) doesn't shield you from being manipulated. From your church girl to the high-class gold digger, down to the dirty cheap street hooker, all operate in the same game of manipulations but on different frequency and have ways of being related with, without "buying them" like more than 95% of men these days do when they have no frame, no game and generally, no sense of identity/self worth (Just carrying pènises and money around, calling themselves, men).

Don't be another slave waiting to make money to serve the entitled and undeserving cunts of the sisterhood.

Las las, everybody go dey alright

You just unraveled what I wanted to let him know. Kudos bro.