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favoryte33:
He told u earlier on dat u guys aren't COMPARTIBLE. This is a trait of selfishness. I don't go about looking for compartibility coz true luv should embrasse our differences as long as we're ready 2 give up our ego. pls,do not go beg him.he doesn't deserve u

First off, there's no such thing as true love. If there was, there won't be break up and divorces. Secondly, if you don't seek COMPATIBILITY, you will continue to be in a wrong relationship.

ubunja:
it's Laughable. If you need money to get women then it means you have a low self esteem. Money should be a weapon of last resort. Like a super power. You know if you're a super hero and you try to solve problems without invoking your super powers. That's how money should be invoked. Many women can be got without opening your wallet. But because money is the greatest shortcut to pussy most men would rather use money and move on. They don't give themselves the time to employ mind power, willpower and game to get pussy. Which is a shame because when they use money they then get invested and cry tomorrow when, after spending, they don't get the "promised" pussy.

When a lion goes to find a meal and has singled out its prey, usually a kid antelope, he doesn't go ahead and bite it in it's neck to kill it after separating it from it's mother. The lion plays with the little antelope for a while. That's Lions and not Lioness.

czarr:
I don't agree, the reason ubunja is popular here is because alot of guys can relate to what he says, people are not stupid. So I don't believe he sells fallacies.

Ubunja's works are true. I watched out for the green light today. I was observing a girl and she was giving me the greenlight. In fact she had to say hi to me when she found out I'm never gonna say anything. She said "hi". I took her number and fixed a date. The chosen really works. It's jut guys who don't know how to apply Ubunja's works that complain.

ubunja:
Wonder what you're learning when you belive this:

The only way to attract any Lady is to make money and improve ur look. The more successful you are the more apha you become, u cant fake ur ego forever anything aside this is story for the Gods. My 2 cent

Why do people think money makes them alpha males?
That's a very wrong ideology. Money doesn't make you alpha but vulnerable to leeches.
Your mindset is what makes you alpha. Your ability to overcome the power of a pussy is what makes you an alpha. It's not about how many girls you have but how you can control the few you have.

Ubunja why do these people reason otherwise?
Why don't they wanna learn?
MONEY ISN'T ALL. MONEY ANSWERS ALL.

maximusprime2000:
Guys I’ll give you some advice…don’t read crap by “Pick up Artists” (PUA). I know it will be tempting.

When guys are searching for answers about women, they often seek it out from men instead of the group that really knows how to get to know women….the women themselves like Esther villa
I can tell you that those guys are full of craps. They will try to make money on your insecurities, sells you books that will only work on hoez and brag about conquests they simply don’t have.

Manipulating women will not get you where you want to be. Women are smart, and likely the girl you think you are manipulating is also playing you too. What a childish game.

Girls I knew often made fun of guys who use that PUA stuff…they can see them coming a mile away. Sometimes they went along with it to give their friends a “play by play” later, sometimes they shot them down.

No one cares if you want a one night stand, many women do too. But playing games with them is immature - and to be honest - completely unnecessary. You’ll only make yourself an object of ridicule.

Look for women who simply want the same thing you do…whether that’s a one night stand or a long-term relationship…and be honest with them.

One thing I noticed is that a lot of guys who are trying to learn “game” are actually nice guys who are just sort of awkward with women and seek the wrong sources. I don’t blame them for that…but be a better man than these methods ask you to be.

The bonus is that you’ll stop seeking how to manipulate women, and start looking for ways to connect with them. Women are amazing creatures - fun, sexy, and intelligent - but you’ll never get to know the half of it, if you go down this road. Think better of them, and yourself.

I for one, I don't use those PUA thing. But the way you are praising these women it's as if any guy with one is with a jackpot worth of hundred million dollars. Lol.

Martinez39:
Why are disturbing ubunja the great? ANY RICH MAN WHO WIFE UP A USED PRODUCT IS A FOOLISH MAN.

Brah... I need your opinion on something. It's a private matter anyway.

CAPSLOCKED:
ME!

you sef

ubunja:
lol but had she specifically turned down sex repeatedly?

Yup. Even at most point she makes me feel guilty for asking. So you know.

ubunja:
that tactic works like clockwork.
But a guy has to be prepared to lose the girl. But like everything, it's when you're prepared to walk away that things start going your way.

Use that line only this time she asked me what I wanted from her, I knew deep down she wanted to date me, I just told her let's be fvck buddies. Long story short, she dumped me.

But guess who's sending text every now and then?

Michellekabod2:
exactly!
Thanks for this

You are welcome.
Cheers!

Michellekabod2:
same here,we don't care what you call us,your words are a passing gas

I have come to realize that what people think of me doesn't matter and what I think of others shouldn't matter to them but me. It's a free world, one should live it as pleased.

etrange:
Going by that, what do we now call the men? Saints?

That's the point. Whatever you call doesn't matter one bit. We don't care.

Timekeeper:
Honestly I don't get why a guy and a lady in relationship should have anytin like privacy talk more of married couples. To me, my GF should be able to access my phone and I can do likewise.

If you understand the word PEACE OF MIND, you wouldn't type this.

ty4real123:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT AGE 22 TO 28 YEARS OLD
Don't make our mistakes. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire. Have kids early so you can grow with them. At my age I don't have kids yet and it's my greatest regret.

You can not detect for people what they should and shouldn't do.
That you are at your age whatever it is and don't have kids, you should check the medics to know what is wrong.
Yes not everyone will be a millionaire or a billionaire, you should not advice people to enter something as risky as marriage without a plan. And a plan without capital is like words spoken into air expecting it to move a stone.

Right now she's married to another guy, she has given birth to two kids and all grown. The guy that married her was still schooling by then but they worked on their success together.

You should never compare yourself with anyone let alone women. A girl who is 5yrs younger than you has gone 10yrs further than you into achieving her career.

I failed, so please If you can feed yourself 3 or 4 times a day, it means you can feed your wife and you have to believe it. Marry early and don't wait.
Don't make our mistakes because I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me but they're happy in their marriage.

This analogy is very wrong @bolded. If you can afford to feed yourself 3 times a day does not mean you can feed an extra mouth. Mathematically you will half your meal per square which will leave you both hungry. And when a baby comes in, you will half both her meal and yours to make up for the baby. I just don't want to go into the mathematics of this.

Trust me, it isn't about money, though it count but rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom.
Please young men, take my advice seriously. Let the little you have speak for you. Settle down early because God can change your life in a blink. With a good wife by your side you will succeed.
No matter how hard life is, no matter the situation, no matter what the devil or demons will do, start your life early and stay blessed.
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE IS ENOUGH

It isn't about money yes, but it's better going through all that in your mansion without anybody disturbing you for rent and using your car to ply any route without asking for petrol.

In all, there's no wisdom in all you said. It would have had a little wisdom if the proposed women want to marry poor men and I don't blame them, cause I don't like being poor and wouldn't marry poor. And you shouldn't because you are privileged to have a smart phone spill your foolishness on the internet. The internet never forgets.

Cheers!

hazard7:
Till next time I remain your friendly redpiller " The hazardous hazard".
Cheers!!!

I am waiting for the next write up. Tag me on it. Cause I want to know from your POV difference between being Selfish and True Confidence.

Sometimes I come off to people as selfish, but I am not.

ubunja:
obviously. But it would be a greater tragedy if they were not lying...

I scrolled past these after reading it for the first time. Came back again read it. It still didn't make sense till I returned to it the third time and it hit me! You were talking of the simps! Gosh!

CAPSLOCKED:
ALLOW THAT ONE TO DE ARGUE BLINDLY.
SO EVEN IF MEN SHAME WOMEN, WOMEN SHOULD BE GIVEN FREE PASS TO SHAME THEMSELVES?
WE'RE TRYING TO FIX ONE ISSUE, KABOD2 IS IS SAYING WE SHOULDN'T TALK ABOUT PREVENTING THE NEXT ISSUE BECAUSE THE FIRST ALREADY EXISTS.

Men! At least she's a little sensible.

Michelle55:
Still not enough reason to dive into the guy's timeline like that.. Whatever happens to having a heart to heart conversation with your partner?

I'm not surprised you didn't catch the sarcasm there.

Jodha:
I'm not looking for a rich man to fund a life of adventure...
A relationship is like a partnership between two people...we can do it together...
I don't just want to spend the rest of my life subjected to a series of events...
Tufiakwa...life is supposed to be spontaneous..

This point right here contradicts every other point you made here.

Relationship being like a partnership suggests that when one is not spicing it up the other helps out.
That you are using what you posted as a yardstick to show how boring men are shows your IQ is of decimal not up to zero.
No matter how boring marriage is, does it require that low key whoring?
Whatever happened to "till death do us part".
Well marriage isn't about bed of roses or fun or not boring sweetheart you are on a long thing. If your input doesn't equal that of your intending spouse, the end result will be boring.

Sometimes try to hide the level of your IQ. Because if this is the way you rant offline I'm afraid you've chased that knight in shining amour husband of yours and you would have to forever to get married if it's your goal.

Hey don't bother replying this cause I won't reply you. I can't stoop to your level.

Cheers mate!

Michellekabod2:
do men slut-sham ladies?yes or no?
Do you see everything wrong in females slut-shaming themselves in a feud but nothing wrong when men slut sham ladies? Yes or no? (From your comments whenever a man wrongs or bully a lady you let it pass and create of strawman with the women-are-their-own-worst-enemies mantra).
Is the ultimate goal of trying to be chaste to impress a man or a woman?yes or no?
No need for strawmaning

It's still MEN'S FAULT

hazard7:
Women do not like to be told the truth but they always claim they like honest men. That's is cognitive dissonance.

If you see the way they were reasoning it, men you'd baffle. I later told them it's just a rule, you can either live by it or break it, your choice. Still they said I'm bitter and started giving me advice and some shit... Lol

Michellekabod2:
you read my post? What's the strawman for? Do you guy slut-sham ladies? Yes or no?
Comparing natural phenomenon like aging or menstruation to a choice to inhibit ones own sexuality to avoid shamming from your likes is the same? SMH

When a man calls a woman olosho, it's to tell his fellow man how to go about the girl either he plays safe or he sex her.

We don't just wake up one morning and start slut shaming women.

Women slut shame or ridicule or cast women who are better than them. But when we slut shame as you would put it, it is to tell a brother to either be careful or in case he wants to get laid. We don't fight about it. But tbh I've been around women who call their fellow women whores simply because they look better than them and they couldn't compete with the 'LovePeddler'.

CAPSLOCKED:
SHIFTING THE BLAMES TO MEN AGAIN FOR ALL OF WOMEN'S CRIMES. I'VE NEVER SEEN WOMEN ACCEPT BLAMES OR TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANYTHING WITHOUT THROWING IT TO MEN.

WOMEN SHAME THEMSELVES, THEREFORE MEN.
WOMEN CRITICIZE AND CAST EACHOTHERS. THEY'RE HARDLY TRUE FRIENDS WITH EACHOTHERS. THEREFORE MEN.

ARE WOMEN TOYS THAT CAN'T THINK FOR THEMSELVES AND CREATE THE ATMOSPHERE THAT WILL BE COMFORTABLE FOR THEM IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT MEN THINK OR SAY ABOUT THEM?

ON ANY CONTROVERSIAL WOMAN TOPIC, A MALE WOMAN HATER RUNNING THERE TO BASH ONLY NEEDS TO ARRIVE LATE FOR ANOTHER WOMAN TO DO HIS JOB FOR HIM. THEN Y'ALL TURN AROUND TO BLAME MEN.

WHY DO YOU HAVE TO STICK TO MEN'S TRUTH INSTEAD OF YOURS? WITHOUT MEN'S ATTENTION, ADMIRATION AND ADORATION, WETIN GO HAPPEN? Y'ALL DIES?

For thinking this out loud, it's men's fault. It is not your fault but men's fault. I think abortion is men's fault. Ageing is men's fault. And for God's sake menstruation has "men" prefixed to it! It's all men's fault.

Martinez39:
Don't mind them. Men are beginning to wise up. Women are always ruthlessly using men, why can't men, at least, get a very good deal out of who they want to marry? Women want the best financial option yet they are angry when men want the best option in terms of looks and pussy. They are not to be taken seriously.

The day men make this their guide, that day will be glorious. But I'm afraid we won't get to witness that day.

Ekeletu:
I later sent d cad. She hasn't called me or chat me up since then. My plan is to Bleep her and dump her.

Lol mad oh.

Ubunja Martinez39 I should tell him or leave him?

bukatyne:
You want to divorce a girl and marry her brother's wife?

I can imagine the convo with your in-laws:

You: Papa, good evening sir, after considering all, I am no longer interested in your daughter as there is some else my heart desires.

Papa: is that so? And who may I ask?

You: Your son's wife.

I don't know if the family is under a curse to marry spouses that are fickle or you are sent as an agent to ruin them.

Tbh people take life as if they get have do-overs. There is no do-overs in life.

Why will someone marry whom he thought was the one. And imagine he got a submissive wife every guy wants.
In short I don commot hand for people matter.
These stupid threads are now irritating me.

Martinez39:
Just seeing this. Here you go.

I kind of posted this 12 rule on a WhatsApp group. You needed to see bashing from the women. One had to ask me why I only posted for women and that I should post for men ni... Imagine as if I do men.

They brought in the usual you have sister and a mother.

Lol

Idk after prostituting their youthful age, they want to retire on men and a few men don't want that, now they are saying we are hurt and we should let go.

sheDD:
guy my admiration 4 you just sapped. Throwing cussing words z not a nice. Resounding silence or even more tactical response to her criticism would have been more suitable, that shows you know wot u wrote up there and earned it.
#Shalom

This is very contradicting. Pick a stand man.

Jewessgratitude:
When i started reading this piece, i thought the op knew what he was doing until I saw No.s 1, 4, 9 and 10. That was when I knew he lacked sense.

@No. 1
How can you say a lady of 30 is in her bad years and all the silly things you talked about her up there?
Does the woman body fade with age? Then you dont know anything. Those are just mere speculations.
Have you not seen a 14, 16, and 20 yr olds with loose and faded body? They are everywhere. So your judgements are just myopic.
For your info, a 30 and 40 year old lady can still give birth to the healthiest baby.
My elder sis had her last child in her 40s and the boy is smarter than you and is very strong and intelligent.

As for the "pig fat" aspect you talked about, ive seen men whose choice is a that pig fat. They can't date a slim or moderate size lady unless shes fat. So another senseless rule of yours.

A woman should change her likes for what the man likes to show respect?
Is she into slavery or marriage.
So if she doesnt like beans because it purges her, she should continue eating it cos her hubby likes it until she stools to death?
Couples will always find a way to sort out to their preferences.
Op have a rethink and delete this post.

Everything you wrote here is your dumb opinion.

You see this write up here, goes to prove what ubunja said; women reason emotionally whilst men reason logically.

Have you not seen a 14, 16, and 20 yr olds with loose and faded body? They are everywhere. So your judgements are just myopic.

You think it's one hell of achievement for a 14,16 and 20 year olds to have loose body at their age? Cause the way you say it, it sounds like a gold medal won at the Olympics. For a girl that age to have a loose body shows how promiscuous she is and I bet you, she will disgust you when she's 30. Stop being emotional at every point made. Oh my bad that's your biology.

So if she doesnt like beans because it purges her, she should continue eating it cos her hubby likes it until she stools to death?

This is the lamest point ever made to counter a point. Silly how you didn't know this isn't really applicable to harmful foods to the woman. Lemme elaborate. You meet a man and there's a particular brand of toothpaste he uses, he doesn't like changing the brand to another, and subconsciously you see yourself buying the same brand of toothpaste, not that he asked you to start using it or anything, but you subconsciously see yourself doing it. Another is the sex styles you should like the styles he likes. Damn it! How dumb are you?

hazard7:
Marriage is a wonderful institution. You will agree with me that there is nothing as sweet as having the right partner that gives you peace of mind. But sadly, our society has become "A Bonobo Masturbation Society" where marriages priority has been misplaced and turned into something else entirely. Not to worry at the end of this piece you will learn how to pick the right mate.
PREVIEW
You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this enlightenment is for you. I will not review whether or not you should get married but I will review how to pick the right wife.
Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.
Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of an enlighten businessman for it to work. You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) –you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you
will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.
Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the
best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school boy. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will marry just because he loves a girl. It takes rational,clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
WHEN TO GET MARRIED:
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn a reasonable amount of money and think of what he wants in a wife. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with(but if you are one of the rare men under 30 that is matured enough to know what he wants then do what you feel like otherwise continue reading).
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.
With all that done and dusted, let's talk about my favourite part of the enlightenment.
TOP 12 RULES ON PICKING THE RIGHT WIFE
1) SHE MUST BE YOUNG
The woman should be 25 years of age MAXIMUM. 22 is even better and 19 is the best age. A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.
It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Women do not age well. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a beta male who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children. At
30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
(But, hazard I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid) sorry dude but her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
2) SHE HAS TO COME FROM AN INTACT FAMILY WITH ORIGINAL FATHER AND MOTHER
No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes are 70%/100 not healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with no original father or mother have too much emotional baggage and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.
3) SHE MUST NOT BELIEVE IN DIVORCE
If she mentions the word ‘divorce', praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a good mate. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more. To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.
4) SHE MUST BE IMAGE CONCIOUS
Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It's unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman
blowing up to whale proportions.
A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife
daily, you don't want to be seeing her as a cow for the rest of your life.
5)SHE MUST BE FAMILY ORIENTED NOT CAREER ORIENTED
This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Enlighten man doesn't need two
incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.
Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters. (But hazard I don't want children -then don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family).
(But hazard I want a career woman) it doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you met she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?
The women who work in this "affluenza" age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.
No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.
6)SHE MUST BE A "GOOD"GIRL
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a olosho past, and she
cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking.
You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
(But hazard are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are Whores?Yes).
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced. If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get married to a woman like this. Remember party girls are for fun,good girls for marriage.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
7)SHE MUST RESPECT YOU
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your
money and your children for another man. You have got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect always.
SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN FROM ANOTHER MAN AKA SINGLE MOMS
In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions. Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture. Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a alpha,get pregnant, and look for a Beta male to raise the bastard.
or..
She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
9)SHE SHOULD CHANGE HERSELF FOR YOU
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Your favourite food will become her new favourite food and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
A woman who doesn't change for you is a woman who does not respect you. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what women do.
10)SHE SHOULD NOT BE MATERIALISTIC
Nigerian women this days have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace leeching. They have been
indoctrinated and instructed to believe that they are entitled to a man's money. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them
are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who all the thing they know about is money,money and money. If a woman cannot spend money wisely,then she don't deserve it. You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.
11)SHE SHOULD BE A SMILER
She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.
A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any
job she has etc. You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride. Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.
12)SHE MUST GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND
This is my favourite and most important law. "Even if you don't follow the rest of the law,you must follow this one".
I don't care how beautiful and elegant the woman is,if she can not give you peace of mind then I advise you to ditch her. She is not worth it.
A woman who gives her man peace of mind is like a radiant diamond that is outstanding among ten thousand others.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting but a woman who give her man peace of mind is worth more than gold.
CONCLUSION
If you have read this enlightenment thus far,you have demonstrated you are a person of high value and you want to improve your marital affairs. All I have to say is Congrats, cause this are the best rules you will ever see or get and they are well proven and tested. Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.
If you aren't going to get married go ahead and have a beer.
Good luck and a happy new year.

So much selflessness in one man! Kudos bro. And ubunja thanks for the mention.

Peace of mind is what I value most and this made me ditch the two girls I was dating.

Spread the word ese

maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.
Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

E tire me pass you.

healthserve:
It's too much. Its stupidity

I see the pun here. Bravo sir.