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Enwhen:
Bro don't be too harsh on girls , God created them in different ways.... Like u have said , some will not allow u to rest until u tell them where the relationship is going to.., why some will not want to bother u , expecting you to say it from your heart to see the seriousness because they may think that bothering u might just end up with a yes whereas deep in your earth it's no... Most times when girls gathered and start hyping their bf , you that doesn't know how to lie may think your own bf is not doing enough and not ready to take it to the next level and these set of girls become insecure in the relationship and want a quit... I have studied various girls with different characters and environmental influence on them. As such , I never seen a girls character that I can't predict .... But not guys because they are very difficult to understand, reason I don't blames girls who find it difficult to truely understand their bfs, but for the smart once , it not a big deal for them .

There' isn't anything harsh in what I said. I believe she should have talked to her man. Have one on one talks and don't just assume anything until confirmed. This is something one little talk will solve but instead she opted to trying to manipulate the man. Trying to have more power over the guy by creating a false discomfort in the relationship and using to break up just so that her man will come begging. And there by establishing the fact her man can't live without her which isn't true. Too bad the plan didn't fall through.

Enwhen:
Read again to understand my write up ... It doesn't mean begging , its trying to let her know his plans for her and his present condition of which if she still persists, he can also say goodbye to her with celebration...the reason for trying to explain to her is that , in some relationship , the guy happens to be the only pilot flying the relationship , as such, the girls in most cases will feel insecured of the relationship for fear of heart break because they have no idea on the direction and magnitude of the relationship as such wants to call it off , so if truely you have a plan for her , you have to call her , tell her your present condition and your future plans for her , if she still persists , then u can let her go ....simple... Because if u don't do this , if u just allow her to go like that , there is high probability that she will come back begging nd if u have explained to her before she called it it off, if she comes back begging that would be capital NO for her, but if not , with the cry and begging u may just want to accept her back because when she called it off(when she loses a nut from her iQ) u didn't explain things to her...

What happened to her sitting him down and asking him where this relationship is headed?
You see we keep expecting men to do all the things in a relationship as if he knows or he's supposed to know what to do. Why didn't she come over and had a deep talk with her man. Why are they even in a relationship? Isn't relationship meant for compliment? Don't you compliment your partner in a relationship where he/she is ailing?
She had something troubling her, and instead of voicing out to her man she expected him to somehow know what's up with her like he's some robot or god. She has nursing that breakup six months before it occurred. Him going to ask her why the sudden change is to make a fool of himself. He should just off for where that bitch n deh his deh.

Ubunja
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MissGhosted:
omar09. I will answer ya mail but talk rubbish an ill expose ur rubber as$
Blinking001 leave me alone bad mannered he goat. Ode! With ya bent teeth. If u like don go an delete dat ugly pic

Come lemme give you small cum, e be like your head done deh knock... Before you ode.

Enwhen:
I feel for you... Please try to explain all these tasks you are going through to her , that you truely serious and sees a future btw u both with proof, if she didn't accept to grow with you, ...Bro, go buy wine , get a good meal and celebrate that God just save u from a desperate woman , of whom if u had married by now because of what u are going through , she could have abandoned u , or keep telling u that she tired of the suffering and maybe starts fucking outside to get money for herself only.... This your situation presently is what many guys use as a test for their future wives, infact some fake girls presently still beat this test by secretly fucking outside while claiming to be faithful and understandable... But for yours , if she can't stay, pls let her go...and save yourself big future problem.

Bro this is another way of saying he should go begging. Is she the only thing in his life?
Pls stop being a sissy. How can a girl wake up to tell you this thing (r|ship) ain't working and the first thing to cross your mind is to beg her? Doesn't it occur to you that she has thought through it, before dishing it out?

@vowsng forget her, she won't pay your bills her emotional instability won't pay your bills. Focus on what you have right now which is your work. She is not the best thing to happen since slice bread, she is replaceable don't forget that.

Westaslave2:
cum abi ejaculate now

Cum. I don't know what you are saying.

Riele:
Unseriousness should be your problem .

Whatever made you think you were smart to post this.

Lightangel65:
Is there a problem with that, not every man is foolish to be attracted to a woman

I think MrBrownJay1 is referring to the fact he sounds like a nerd. My thoughts tho.

MrCork:
...but why should Omar09 leave u alone? Do u no wot balance DIET is?..
. U counter monikokulatic scalagowatick dietamolowink!!(wot ever that means)

Mad ooo

MissGhosted:
I nor reach but u still dm.

Me dm you? I know say you want dm me. No whams dm, I go answer.

pansophist:
Yes, men are the lucky ones (and also the unlucky ones, depending on if he worked on himself and be a top-dog), but most men do not know that. I have said this before, but I will repeat it with examples. Men are the ones in the top (20%), and the majority under (80%), women are in the middle. The men in the top have access to most women below, the men under have no access to women unless via oloshos ( prostitutes), rape, and soapy (masturbation)

Ned Nwoko is 62, married to a lady about 40 years younger, that's how lucky men can get. If a man is successful, he can be in the sexual market for a long time, far longer than a woman will be. A sixty-two years old woman can not get a boy of 22, unless its just a Bleep mate, which she will engage within secrecy. Also, her hypergamy will not allow her, as, by nature, women want men who are better than them in every way (taller, richer, smarter, high status, etc).

In reverse, you see how crazy women become when they can't get a good man as they turn 30, some even commit suicide lol, it's hard. Their eggs are drying up, and that is a death sentence to most. All women will enjoy the peak of attraction, with men begging for their commitment, but it has an expiry date, and if they will not snatch one before then, it goes horribly from there.

#Word

MissGhosted:
oga omar, leave me alone. Na by force to reply ur dm? Shuu. Abegi find another person i nor want belle.

For your mind ni, you reach girls weh I deh DM bah? Go nd sit down jareh

MissGhosted:
dis retard dwarf with genital warts. Mrcork go and borrow small sense ya stupidity wan kill me. How person go mumu like this. Ugly beast. Ode baboon.

You still bitter?

irumole1975:
pussy is the ultimate controller in life. men can do anything just to worship pussy. Just today I spent #35,700 to buy phone for a girl when I only had 41,620 exactly in my account. I had to collecting extra 1k to take the phone to her in iyana ipaja. no thank you from her. And all she has ever given me is a hug. I don't know what to do with the 4k Left in my account na. I'm crying rn

Subscribe for her ni..

Forward77:
Y0u’re not anywhere close to being a virgin.
Y0u have obviously exhausted y0ur marginal utility and now y0u’re not getting the attention y0u so much craved because y0u have now become an evening Newspaper.
Don’t take it personal, God is with you.

She's 16.

gypsey:
Cellibate? why in the hell would anyone want or choose to be cellibate?
I have Already had sex with Nearly 150 women in my life time, Some of them i cannot even remember their faces or names.

Some men chase after their goals while others chase after women....
We can never be the same. So different strokes for different folks. Not judging tho, but you might wanna rethink on your priorities in life.

My two cents.

DenreleDave:
U r back again to cause wahala.. Shebi u Don Wed, why are u finding trouble from ur husband house again

If I talk now, someone will say I haf cum.

solex2346:
Just packed to this area but there is a woman not very far from my house who used to greet me even if i dont see her,i swear! there was a day she was coming from somewhere,when she sighted me she was so shocked to the extent that the front door where she was sitting suddenly opened probably she did not close it properly wen she entered,my concern is that; Does that mean she is interested in me or is just her own normal way to people? Am also begin to love this woman. this is not a joke and not a framed story. I swear with the day i was born this is real.

Follow my word to word advice.
Meet her ask her out on a date like this "Hi, (you wait for her to reply), I am new to the neighborhood and I was thinking we should get to know each other over a drink." take her number there fix a date, take out on a drink and then build on it. That's all. Also remember to tell her you like her a lot and you want to be friends with her. Don't ever tell her you love her. It's a big turn off.

Buy and register your glo Sim with me.

She wants space, give her that space and don't return to her no more. You are not a pawn in her hand. It won't be easy, but do it.

You will find another one.

Martinez39:
Never be a bona-fide member of the friend zone. I would advise you do like me: never makes friends with a female or make them close buddies. I am not saying you should hate them but never bring a female into the friend circle. If you have to, relate well with them (but no too much talk) and only keep them as professional colleagues or business partners where necessary. Aside from these, treat all females like mere acquaintances/strangers, do not bring them in the friend circle, and treat women like you would treat your fellow man.

So, either she wants to be in a relationship or not. Don't buy into this "let's be friends" nonsense. No need hanging around as friends.

Just learned something here. "keep them as professional colleagues or business partners... "
Kudos bro.

Defenderalert:
Stop obsessing over how to mess up the lives of our youth with your crap MiseduGAY. As you can see you are just wasting your time.

Go and push wheelbarrowssincs you are jobless because that cougar you are wishing for will never come. Its time to retire from gigoloism. Hahahaha Too many young agile men available. No one wants to be cougar to droopy face. Lol

Oh my God, can you quit already? WTF is wrong with you?

greatnaija01:
Why cant you start as A FRIEND? If you LOVE her, then keep working at it from what she gives u, maybe you have not improved yourself well enough to EARN her respect and LOVE....

you have to check yourself and see if you are actually what she NEEDS? feelings are not all about you, consider her too....

WHAT REALLY ARE YOUR REASONS FOR LOVING HER... are they selfish? or generous? meaning... is it only you that would benefit or she will benefit more too. Also, whats the rush.... are you sure you just dont want to get under her clothes?

PLS CHECK YOURSELF FIRST..... Ladies are very intuitive... they do not just act or take major decisions on FEELINGS.

I don't agree with this your talk. He wants to be more than friends to her, so he has to wait and start out as friends? That's how men get friendzoned and used/manipulated into doing the biddings of these females all in the name of earning her respect and love. The fact he went ahead with what he wanted in the first place is good and don't talk him down

Sl2348:
Pls advice me too, there's this gurl I asked out and she told me to give her some time to think about it. Some days later when we met I asked her if she now has a reply and her answer was that it's in my hands.
I took that as a yes and now see her as my gf. I provided for d things she asked me but this gurl will never come to my house.
Guys, what do you think is wrong so far?

Bro she doesn't want to, don't force her, just move to next girl and next one till you find the one. Don't waste your time with her else you'd regret it.
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Ubunja
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Defenderalert:
By the grace of God you will bear sons exactly like Ubunja.

Lol.. You like ubunja don't you?

Defenderalert:
What hate? I prayed for your daughter to meet and get laid by Ubunja replicas. Hows that hate?

A better man indeed. Ubunja is clearly a Frustrated bachelor looking for who to join him

Brah did you in any way do business be it offline and online with ubunja and it didn't go well?

Ubunja I don't know you've got a secret fan and that's his way of telling you he's a follower and he's following your teachings. Lol

24kmagic:
Women are the problem, not the men. Men simply go with the flow. You have the power in your hands to get the man of your dreams all to yourself.

At times when I see a girl and her boyfriend walking down the street, what I usually ask myself is na wetin this guy tell this girl whe make her gri for am?

There's this guy I know, he managed to finish secondary school only. Since then, he's been at home forming street guy. No job, no skill, no certificate. All what he knows is play bet9ja, smoke and fvck. At at 30 ooo. Funny thing is he got many girls falling for him. The question is why? Even in sch, we all know that the so called classy girls were reserved for the cultists. In the event that these girls end up with such guys, how far do you think that union will last?

Taste = 0

Ask an average lady what she wants in a relationship.

Good preek
Money

Once a guy knows you're with him for any of these two things, you're already his slave. And you know how masters treat slaves.

Take the Babcock girl story as an example. The boy is a drug addict on rehabilitation, but he still has her mumu bottom cos of good preek. Even on a hospital bed, she couldnt miss an oporrunity to taste his preek. Should that pretty girl even be involved with a drug addict in the first place? Do you think a marriage between these two people will last the test of time knowing that good preek was the foundation? Most of the ladies are just confused beings. Expect more devorce cases as time goes on.

So many things to type but let me stop here.

After making a bad decision they blame men for the consequences. Funny thing is men don't really care about anyone. All we men know is anything that benefits us, if you don't benefit us, you won't even see us around you let alone shaming. Tomorrow that Babcock girl will start blaming men for her misfortune when no one forced her to make that video chopping preek.

OlaitanAkanbi:
Please no one should blame
All this girls now na billing oh
I assisted her and she think say she scam me lol

Can you assist me, my subscription is almost out?

OlaitanAkanbi:
Today I invited a girl we have being chatting for 2years on facebook so we met today I really love this girl no be small but .
This girls once they see you are fresh they will empty you by fire by force with billing

We just met today she came with here friend I took you to my house
She said she was hungry I told her to cook she said No
I took her to buy food for she and her friend almost 1,500naira
She said she won’t to sub I bought card 1,000naira
After eating the food with her friend she said she will be going home soon
She no even use pass 1hour for my house
She then told me I will give she and her friend transport money she just started complaining she want to do hair
I was like which kind wahala be this
And I really like this girl oh
I then give she and her friend 3kfor transport
Can you believe this girl said the money is too small that she and her friend will use ( O-pay) bike home
I give her 5k
She then start asking for money for hair I told her next time she come that am cashlesss
She said ok
Na so she go oh I delete her number instant



Mind my English oh
Is true love real I beg
Every girl out here is always billing

After client don already pay na en him don realize him be fool. Nansense and forming staunch man.

seanwilliam:
hmm

Which one be hmm?

I don't know about you seanwilliam, but I wanna start out on some new wheels.

Lalasticlalac short fine oh.