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When you read about what divorce has done to so many homes in the world, you'll want to be sincere with yourself in this matter. Marriage is for life. That's why you've got to be very careful when you want to say ''yes'' to any man.

You know this guy better than we all do. Weigh the pros and cons of marrying the guy. Do a proper homework on this man before going to the altar. No doubt,you family members meant well for you.

Goodluck.

@larger, well said man, well said.

Stay away from them for a while?, NO, stay away for a season.

I concur, Seun should re-consider activating the PM stuff on the forum. Lets put it to[b] vote [/b] and see the result.

o boy o boy o boy o boy, revvvvon Rev!

Hmn, so how come we've not heard much about this new drug to date?

2cantango:
Ssshhhh ono, don't talk so loud, he might hear you now quick, say something that you like about a Nairalander. . . hurrrrrrrryyyy

Something good about a Nairaland user?!

Well, I'm a fan of the politics section. That's where I always love to be until I met 2C at the family section. And a lot of things have changed since then.

At the Politics section, Owo is my brother and friend. Jakumo always gets my ribs cracking with his hillarious posts. I never seemed to make a headway with Akolawole. And davidylan is a wonderful guy too. Kenflavour's been away for a while. He's good, he got me puching the air once over Alamieyeseigha's loot. Conscience too has been missing in action for a long while. I hope he gets back pretty soon.

At the Religion section, nferyn is one of the greatest atheist of our time. I hope he'll turn to the true God soon, and know the power this great God wields. Flower got me tripping with her beautiful entries. And dablessed, she's so so so pretty. We chat a couple of times. Wonderful lady she is.  

And at the Family Section, 2Cantango came in from the blues. My greatest desire for her is for God to do a miraculous work of transforming the man(her husband) to what the both of them wants -  a loving and caring husband and father. And above all else, for him to return to 2C and the boy, a changed man. Nothing is too difficult for God to do. Nawah and Alheri, blessed women. I've learnt quite a number of things from them.

Other folks include[b] Rhodalyn[/b], she brings in this childish touch to threads and I feel like she should be handled with care, so fragile and altogether pretty. And there's nicetohave, holyman, snazzydawn (she's dissapeared of late) and a host of other wonderful people. Great folks on Nairaland, great folks.

@2C, you just made me feel like a baby once again after so many years. You're good, really good.

Now, I can't confess a thing. But that's sad.

2cantango:
ono we're going to get into trouble for not staying on topic i'll catch you in confessions.

Now, how in da worldz are we going to get into trouble What trouble? Tell me more. Seun will ban us?

Now, 2C, I really like us to chat. Is that too much for me to ask you? Surely there are things other than divorce that I want to chat with you about.

So, go get it 2C, I'm waiting.

2cantango:
no ono he's not right.

Quote from: ono on Today at 06:02:52 PM
@nubian, you're a good guy. Remain good.

Maybe I need to take a closer look at nubian, right 2C? or am I missing something here?

2cantango:
@ono: LOL, I see you modified your post and you've done it again while i'm posting this
we all have layers. . different things that make us who we are.
I'll post this quick before you modify again

Well, I choose my words 2C, that's why I keep changing them every now and then, so that I won't get anyone offended and pass the wrong message across.

No doubt, different things make us who we are. I agree with you on that one. But it's thesame[b] yardstick God will use to judge/measure everyone's actions against his commandments on the last day[/b]. It doesn't matter what you've passed through in life and your experiences. It doesn't matter if you're white or black. He's going to use thesame yardstick.

And if you're found wanting, you know what will happen: There's going to be weeping and gnashing of teeths.

@2C, really? I thot nubian's right!

@nubian, you're a good guy. Remain good.

@2C, read my reply again. You're too fast. Take it easy, Lady, easy.

@2C, layers?! Hmn, expatiate, pulleaasea.

Hmn, what do folks think 'bout me? I'm all 'ears'

But one thing's sure: I love everyone on Nairaland and I prayed for dablessed, 2C and Rosby today.

@toshmann, bros, either way (site or sight) you are right,

buhahahaha

I confess you got it all wrong 2C
I confess I still want to chat with you 2C


So, what d'you think? I'm online now.

I confess I'll like to chat with you 2C, if you don't mind.

I confess I stumbled in here looking out for 2C
I confess I really meant no harm at all
I confess I just want everyone I've come across (through any of my entries) on NL to be happy

I will tell you all a true life story here.

I know a Baptist pastor who's currently into soul winning activities via sending encouraging words to people by e-mail. I receive his words of encouragement daily and have been better for it.

According to one of his mails to us, late last year, he got married to the woman of his dreams some years back.  A very beatiful and loving woman.He wasn't a pastor when they got married. But after a couple of years, a strange ailment from nowhere brought this woman down. This woman woman was diagnosed with osteoporosis - a very chronic and devastating disease of the bones typical among the women folks in the US. She was dying. Her once beautiful and flowing hair started falling off, she lost weight. It was a terrible experience for this man.

But, all throught the years, with love and care for this woman, he stood by her. He's an old man now. No issue from the woman, yet he stood by her. He told us in that mail that if Christ can come and die for our sins, bear the shame, the beating and spitting, the cross for the sins of the whole world, why will he not stand by his beautiful wife, who was suffering for something she did not know anything about. In fact her sufferings even made him to want to stay with her all through her lifetime. It's through her sufferings that he set up this words of encouragement ministry.

Now, from what I've been reading here, none of you guys/ladies/men will want to do such a thing. You will pack your baggage at the slightest provocation. You forget that you vowed to take care of this woman/man all through his/her lifetime, in pain and in peace.

It is selfishness that's the root of all divorce cases. It's intolerance, inability to forgive and forget, inability to condescend so low as to say, I'm sorry for all I've done to your grieving spouse. -  something that Christ did for you while you were yet in sin. In any case, the Word of God said all these will happen in the last days. So, I'm not very surprised. Men(and women alike) shall be lovers of their own selves, boastful, proud, haters of things that are good etc etc l

Those of you who say I've put myself in Gods position should be reminded that even men will judge angels on the last day. Not ordinary men, but men filled with the Holy Spirit of God.   

1 Corinthians 6:3
Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?

And please, my entries apply to Christians only. You've got to be ''renewed'' to know what I'm saying in here.

@chinani,
I'm happily married. And I know the feeling.

@dupe,
I'm not God. Maybe you need to read my earlier entries on this divorce matter. And remember, the present is the key to the past

@chief2b,
You're not a christian, so, my reasoning does not apply to you. Goodluck. But be reminded that you turned that woman to a drug addict. Just the way Bobby Brown turned Whitney Houston to one and is trying to dump her now.

I will like to hear what the folks with Bsc have got to say, in the face of all these challenges thrown at them.

t4cash:
You may find "hot" men and women on nairaland though

Yeah, there are quite a number of them.

It's not clear at all. My dad has beaten my mum in time past. And I'm a key witness. That's why I'm against it. He gave his life to Christ and all that beating stopped.

Because my mum got beaten by my dad did not make her leave home. She stayed and prayed for his salvation. My mum is a Godly woman and I'm very proud of her. My dad went to be with the Lord in 2004, at the ripe age of 79years. After his salvation, he became the greatest dad in the world for me and my brothers and sisters.

The message here is that no matter what you are passing through in your marriage, you have no excuse to want to leave your spouse. You are in thesame boat and you've got to swim or sink together if that boat capsizes. Except you're not married to that man/woman, you cannot leave him/her.

Seriously though, Free shouldn't have used a church for this very funny joke.

Madam Nawah, there's really nothing painful in this thing o. And I'm not a sadist.