They are irritating as well as attractive, in my own sense. I find myself obsessing over the most irritating ones. I was searching Google for trypophobia-inducing pictures when I stumbled upon this post. I will add my favorites.

IamSalt:



This one na oyinbo na, we no get that kind parents for Nigeria as dey above list na normal thing here.

Very disturbing....

"A narcissistic parent is a parent affected by narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder. Typically, narcissistic parents are exclusively and possessively close to their children and are threatened by their children's growing independence. This results in a pattern of narcissistic attachment, with the parent considering that the child exists solely to fulfill the parent's needs and wishes. A narcissistic parent will often try to control their children with threats and emotional abuse. Narcissistic parenting adversely affects the psychological development of children, affecting their reasoning and their emotional, ethical, and societal behaviors and attitudes. Personal boundaries are often disregarded with the goal of molding and manipulating the child to satisfy the parent's expectations.

Narcissistic people have low self-esteem and feel the need to control how others regard them, fearing that otherwise they will be blamed or rejected and their personal inadequacies will be exposed. Narcissistic parents are self-absorbed, often to the point of grandiosity. They also tend to be inflexible, and lack the empathy necessary for child raising." - Wikipedia


There are various types of toxic behaviors that narcissistic parents engage in which are known to have profoundly debilitating impact on their children.
After having been subjected to the aforementioned behaviors throughout their childhood, by the time these children become adults, they are apt to develop a wide variety of stress-related maladies.
Some of the more prominent behaviors of narcissistic parents are………..

they show off their children to outside world; however, they are cruel and unforgiving to their children behind closed doors.

they give their children no privacy.

they are unpredictable.

they are envious of their children.

they terrorize their children.

they are highly critical of their children who are never told they are good enough.

they never compliment their children.

they must be the center of attention.

they feed on their children's pain.

they are self-absorbed.

they frequently yell at their children.

they project.

they are exploitative.

they are more sensitive to the needs of strangers than they are to their own children's.

they "parentify"

they are infantile and petty.

they are rejecting.

they are shameless. They do not ask. They demand.

they manufacture no-win situations.

they are willful.

they diminish their children's accomplishments.

they rewrite history to suit their needs.

they take the position that they are never wrong.

they invalidate the children's feelings and make their kids feel as if they are crazy.

they are negativistic.

their abuse is always deniable.

they favoritize.

they always take on the role of victim.

they are manipulative.

they never accept blame or fault.

The Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board said it has handed over a 19-year-old candidate in the 2021-2022 Unified Tertiary and Matriculation Examination to the police for investigation over what it described as “result tampering.”

According to the board’s Registrar, Prof Ishaq Oloyede, who briefed journalists at JAMB’s headquarters in Abuja on Friday, the candidate, Chinedu John, had claimed he scored 380 in the examination conducted in June but was surprised to receive 265 from the board after the results were released.

He said following alleged “alteration” of the UTME score, the candidate’s father, John Ifenkpam, approached an Enugu-based lawyer, Ikeazor Akaiwe, who wrote to JAMB for another opportunity for the boy to retake the examination and demanded N1 billion as damages.

According to Oloyede, the lawyer said the N1 billion was to cover for the physical and emotional trauma the boy had been through from being offered “two separate scores.”

The candidate was said to have claimed that his UTME scores from 2019 till 2021 had been “altered” by the board, thereby denying him the opportunity to study his desired course — Medicine.

On Friday, the candidate, his father and lawyer travelled to Abuja from Enugu State following an invitation by the management of the board led by Oloyede.

Initially, the boy was given few minutes to “come clean” in a closed session with his father and lawyers about the results he was parading but insisted that his original score from the examination was 380.


After back and forth, the board tendered evidence to counter the claim by John and his legal representative.

At the Friday meeting, documentary evidence tendered by the board showed that John actually scored 265 and not the 380 he had claimed.

Oloyede accused the candidate of alteration, adding that he will be handed over to the police for investigation and subsequently prosecuted.

The registrar said John was among 11 other candidates who allegedly forged their results that the board would prosecute.

He said the original result issued to him would be withdrawn pending investigation.

Oloyede said, “We have 11 of them who tampered with their results. Two of them are already being prosecuted. The remaining ones we are going to withdraw their results and prosecute them. The main purpose is to sanitise the system, including our own staff.

“There was never any communication of 380 with this boy. Because this boy has accused JAMB, we are going to withhold his result until the investigation is concluded. We are going to request that our interactions with him be subjected to the public.”

His lawyer, Ikeazor, appealed to the board to instead give room for further investigation.

“I will not stand against investigation. Let there be investigation but what I will not agree to is to prejudge him,” he said.

Earlier, John had said, “The result I have been receiving is not the result I am entitled to. I wrote the first JAMB in 2019.

“The first time, they sent 328 and later, I saw 278 when I checked it. I printed it. I couldn’t meet up for admission that year. I wanted to study Medicine and Surgery at the University of Ibadan.

“In 2020, the same thing happened. I scored 343, but by the time I went to the portal to print, I saw 306. I used the 306 and it gave me admission in UI. But because I didn’t have Further Mathematics, I had to forfeit it.

“I decided to leave Medicine and Surgery for them in 2021 so I picked Petroleum Engineering. In 2021, JAMB issued me two results. I saw 380 the first time I checked and then the second time, I saw 265.”

But the board’s Public Relations Officer, Fabian Benjamin, claimed that the candidate confessed to the crime.


Source: https://punchng.com/19-year-old-candidate-who-sued-jamb-for-n1bn-handed-over-to-police/?amp

You deserve bullets then. Any lecturer that does that is fine for shooting. Unprofessional sons of crazy bitches!

Gentlerespect76:
I do more.

Sometimes you just come face to face with a situation where you need to just act; even to treat them as children they are. Being an undergraduate doesn't mean you behave like an animal. I have at times taken unconventional steps and even received applauses from students. It happens at the spur of the moment. If you are not in the shoe don't complain because you don't know what obtains today on our campuses

Modified:

Please, I will not argue with anyone concerning my position above. Those who will tag and spill gibberish here are children whom Nairaland has given a platform to misbehave; so no problem, shed your tears in peace. What I know is that no parent will kick because walking the narrow path is every parent's desire for their children 'cause it leads to success.

sharpwriter:

Where did you all got this lies that ashawo is the oldest profession? Prove it.

Farming, hunting and stealing are the oldest professions. This because they are the natural professions of survival. Without those occupations none would live. Farming, stealing and hunting are therefore as old as man just as they are the natural professions.

Numerouno94:


Lol, it's actually annoying. The level of moral decadence in our society is alarming; someone openly bragging nd acknowledging that shes a hoe. I blif Sodom nd Gomorrah will b a saint wen compared to the society of 2day.

Then you have no idea what Sodom and Gomorrah was!

Thanks for bringing it to our notice that it's the world's oldest profession. Very correct! Just that farming, hunting and stealing are older.

FamTomx2:


She might be right, because It's even the world's oldest profession..

A job that sustains a lot of Nairaland's females

Oharina:
I believe him, cos disappearing tricks can not be archieved when there are many eyes focused on you. It is very secretive fit to archieve.

This is the lies that makes it sell. If people can't see you then how do we know that you can teleport abi disappear? That shit is scam!

SlayerForever:
I've been told before that disappearing is not an easy feat to achieve, even for highly spiritual men.

I don't believe that shit!

MUMU!

Mikecold:
This Okonkwo was an Airforce man (Christian)

Wulah was a navy man (Northern Christian)

Datong was a military man(Northern Christian


Rag tag bandits attacked a well fortified defense academy and didn't take anything other than some high ranking service men who are Christian's.


Christian's spread across different service arms, bandits had time and knew who to pick abi

Lollittaa:

Good night @6:15

Like, good night in advance. Okay. Good night now, for real. Bye

Lollittaa:

what! What do you want me to say?

Just something inspiring. Or even a smiley face. Good night...

Lollittaa:

just shut it!!!!! I've had it up to here with the things you're vomiting! Gosh! What is wrong with you?

Hey honey, I trust you're doing fine or at least, fair, this afternoon... Say something.

Everybody desires extraneous love - that which can be found within the confines of romantic relationships. These feelings whirl up quicker even in the woman. This is because of her maternal nature too.

Along the line, she may meet a man who is available to take her on along the lines of her feelings. If the man is one who is solely driven by libertine prospect, then the relationship which the minor experiences would be punctuated with so many extreme or even dangerous intrigues - which won't make a better part of her development (unfortunately).

In dealing with minors, one ought to be really careful and ethical. Being very animal with them has a long way to go in polluting their mind and even their images of themselves.

I could go on and on, but I will stop here by simply drawing attention to the fact that most girls experience sex, first, in their minor years. It's always been happening...

If we're too worried about the sexual purity of women, then we have to set the economy such that it will enable early marriage - like boys being able to marry at 18 years. By implication, many will take largely to factory work so that they can fend for their families.

It implies a simplistic economy with no much pressure of unrealistic prosperity upon a man. He knows that at 18, 19 or 20 he can work in a factory and even raise a family. In this way, he has married a younger girl as well. But when men can not marry because of high economic expectations upon them, they will begin to receive the call of posterity - which manifests in the desire to marry but not being economically able, he may retrogress in the direction of sexual promiscuity. And here, the minors are at risk. Perhaps, he can easily be desired by younger girls and if he be a man of repugnant character, he will use and abuse.

Lollittaa:
Image123 I hope you don't mind onojaford dating your busty 15 year old sister?

This whole thing is overrated. People date minors. Even certain minors desire adults. It's been happening and keeps happening. I think we need to shift attention to real socioeconomic problems like: New leadership systems, revised education system geared towards industry, and regulation of property rents. We could have a richer nation. Anybody should date whoever they desire. Perhaps, Old man to young woman is the perfect match.

FalseProphet1:
This op is in her mid 30s, broke, frustrated and mad at men for using her during her youthful age without committing, she's a feminist so kindly ignore her.

This I have seen.

You're indeed an honest FALSE PROPHET. Clap for yourself...

Lollittaa:

you must think me one of your spec because of my moniker right? I'm definitely not a teen. There's nothing for you

I know you are far from being a teen. Intuitively, I like your "person." And you're quite confrontational. We are humans. We need friendships. Irrespective of our desires. Friendship for its sake can be really soothing. I can tell...

Lollittaa:
If you still allow a man deceive you today, as a woman, you're a big FOOL.
Men are very sneaky, they're natural predators. They don't even have to try. They know they're at the top of the food chain. And nothing is more dangerous than a man who knows his position on top the ladder.
The only person who's just as dangerous is a woman who knows what men know.
Educate yourself and stop being foolishly emotional. In the past, culture and tradition made men sit up and take responsibility for their actions. Nowadays, wokeness has affected everything. Men are no longer willing to bother with the barest minimum.
Up your game woman!
Up your game and don't be a FOOL.
Men are merciless when they want to be. You have to be just as ruthless, else by the time they're done with you, you'll look older than your mother.

Well, I tend to understand now that some personal experiences must have made you arrive at these conclusions, views and disposition about men. Whatever they are, I hope you resolve them and probably, find trust someday. Meanwhile, I would love to email you.

Lollittaa:
If you still allow a man deceive you today, as a woman, you're a big FOOL.
Men are very sneaky, they're natural predators. They don't even have to try. They know they're at the top of the food chain. And nothing is more dangerous than a man who knows his position on top the ladder.
The only person who's just as dangerous is a woman who knows what men know.
Educate yourself and stop being foolishly emotional. In the past, culture and tradition made men sit up and take responsibility for their actions. Nowadays, wokeness has affected everything. Men are no longer willing to bother with the barest minimum.
Up your game woman!
Up your game and don't be a FOOL.
Men are merciless when they want to be. You have to be just as ruthless, else by the time they're done with you, you'll look older than your mother.

Good God! Are you into misandry, honeeeyy?

Lollittaa:
onojaford see your spec

The truth is that I have never even seen a picture of Bob since last year. That's because I can't care about him honey...

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Lollittaa:

Grand delusion, idoma boy. Your head is in the sand. People like you who should never be allowed close to little girls and boys.

I'm not gay.
Yoruba girl...

Lollittaa:

unfortunately for you, fortunately for me, I have never ever experienced such and never will.

I'm really eased on your behalf then.

Lollittaa:

judging by your write up, I know you're a pro. But Mark my words, you will receive a just recompense very soon.

Everything that happens to a man, whether "good" or "evil" is just and well deserved. If society, one day, decides to condemn me for my tastes, I shall not be ashamed neither will I whimper. It is only my joy that my works has served and will keep serving multitudes. Jesus was condemned, Allan Turing was condemned, Galileo Galilei was condemned. Socrates was condemned. So who am I not to be condemned? Hehehe... Meanwhile, I will stop showing myself online with respect to my venereal preference. This is because I think it is ostentatious and quite unnecessary for me to do so on the internet; as doing so would not even earn me a teenage wife or even win me the admiration of a few others. I will be at peace with fellow Nairalanders like you. Cos eventually, you are loving and rosy. I need not piss you further as you like myself, come here just for entertainment. Common...

Lollittaa:

don't type my name with fingers you used to caress little girls. Or else thunder will...

You could be charged for false accusation. Who knows...

Lollittaa:

unfollow me this moment! I don't care what makes you happy

You're just being too sentimental honey. Calm your nerves.

I'm beginning to nudge that someone molested you while you were in your minor years. Did such an unfortunate event ever happen to you? Tell me the truth so that we can begin some psychoanalytic procedures to the end of your healing. Tell me...

Lollittaa:
Food??
Sex??

Writing fiction
Developing robotic systems
Welding
Mathematics
Reading Arthur Schopenhauer
Winning the tender affection of very teenage girls
Programming in Java as well as PHP
A minimalistic bedroom like mine.

P.S: I detest food that fills and satisfies me. Because of this streak, I eat only pastas or noodles. I'm never feeding well. For sex, I hate it without consent and would never indulge it in such scenario. Sex for me is an adventure when a woman desires me, no matter how old or young she is. I can only try to arouse in her that desire. But if it goes south, then I'm better off.

Lollittaa:
Lollittaa here. I'm new. Welcome me!

Lolitta oh Lolitta!
Woman with eyes as piercing as the sun at high noon
With skin as fair as the yellow lotus
And lips as voluptuous as peppered pork.

Welcome...

lilvicky68:

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Lollittaa:
bloody perverts like Image123 and onojaford would have been having their arsses drilled in a prison, were this a sane country.

Lol... Hello honey. I don't know why it has been that I'm one man who will always get away with his "illegalities." Maybe it's because I do them naturally and I don't judge myself. Charlie Chaplin was, perhaps, a paedo.

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