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Many people who have a sexual attraction to children also have a sexual interest in others, including people their own age or older. Terms such as ‘paedophilia’ are generally used in the media and society to refer to any sexual interest in children, but this is not always correct.

You may also encounter other terms, such as ‘paraphilia’, when looking up information on sexual disorders. The following information, while not intended to be used diagnostically, may be helpful in explaining some of the terms.

What is a ‘paraphilia’?

A paraphilia is a sexual arousal to something regarded as unusual. There appears to be no single commonly accepted definition and it is acknowledged that what is regarded as sexually ‘unusual’ varies across time, place and cultural norms. Paraphilia may be preferred as a term by some therapists as it can be seen as less judgmental than other terms, such as ‘sexual deviance’. However, there remains some debate about the terminology.

What is ‘paedophilia’?

The tenth edition of the International Classification of Mental and Behavioural Disorders (ICD-10) classifies paedophilia as a disorder of sexual preference. A disorder of sexual preference involves unusual sexual urges and fantasies that are strong and recurrent, and which lead the person to act out the urges or be distressed by them. To be classified as a disorder, the problem has to have been present for at least six months.

Paedophilia relates to a specific disorder where there is a preference for sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children. Therefore, it would not usually be the correct description for someone with a sexual preference for under-age teenagers (see hebephilia, below).

The term ‘paedophilia’ should not be used to describe young people under the age of 16 who have a sexual preference for younger children. ICD-10 criteria stipulate that the person with the disorder is at least 16 years old and at least five years older than the child or children who are the focus of their sexual preference.

Hebephilia and ephebophilia

Hebephilia is the term used to describe a preferential sexual interest in pubescent (i.e. early adolescent) individuals, rather than adult partners. As with paedophilia, it is not a term that would be applied to under-16s. A related term is ephebophilia, used to describe a preferential sexual interest in adolescent individuals (usually mid-late teens).

Hebephilia and ephebophilia are not formally defined as specific clinical disorders, but if the focus of the sexual preference leads to problematic behaviour and/or emotional distress, and if these problems are persistent (more than 6 months), they would likely meet ICD-10 criteria for disorders of sexual preference. This would need to be assessed by a professional.

Thank you for elaborating.

Born2winKingOG:
15 years this day's look like 19.


although I don't support pedophile.


always a fan of milf till day I die


mature meat

It's not paedophilia, it's Hebephilia. Stay updated.

Ladycewhy:
Yes you heard me right, men don't like you, they like your biological makeup ,they may like the fact that you have a vagina , womb and breasts but as a fellow human being , they don't like you.

Let's look back at history, in the days of old, Virgin girls were a thing for sacrifices and blood gift to the gods, then came the snatching of babies frome their mothers all in the name of twins was an abomination, then there was the selling of their daughter all in the name of bride price and the only time she was allowed to return to her father's house was in a body bag.

Still in doubt if men like you as a human first?

Ok then came the widow maltreatment, then there was a concensus to mutilate the vagina of women just to keep them under control, then came the refusal to allow them go to school. Still in doubt?

Do you still doubt the anti women campaign going on in this forum and even on the streets? Have you checked the ratio of ritual killing and see that women are the most victims?Have you heard the phrase " daughters of eve, fish brain, after devil fear women?" Well I am sure you atleast get the picture .

It's not that men don't like women. They love them so much, but does not trust her, so it yields to a destructive kind of insecurity. The average man wants to possess a woman and it's like that because of insecurity. Once he is frustrated in trying to do so, he goes out of his way to try and hamper her. I have also come to learn that a man can let himself be civilized beyond such primitivity...

So you guys are the ones who plundered ECONET? Where's ECONET today?

ExAngel007:
A man is trending on Facebook after he expressed his thoughts towards a 14-year-old neighbour.

The user named Nsi Kak revealed that his neighbours are travelling and are trusting him with their 14-year-old daughter who can't travel with them because she has to go to school.

He went on to sexualize the girl by describing what "she's carrying front and back".

He added that he doesn't trust himself and prays that he will not "Oxlade" the girl while alone with her.

By Oxlade, the Facebook user was making reference to the singer whose sex tape recently leaked.

See his post below.

"Funny how this our neighbor is trusting me with their 14 years old daughter. Pt
Ma'am, with this thing she's carrying front and back? Hehehe, I don't trust myself.

They're traveling to village for one of their relative traditional/white wedding, they prolly gonna come back on Sunday or Monday, they can't take her along because of school.
And me? I'm staying home throughout this week because of some personal reasons. Is God not wonderful?

She was just smiling upandown, I just pray I shouldn't Oxlade this girl shea."

He Later Apologized

Hey, I apologise.

I'm wondering why this very post is getting all this reaction, it was JUST a post.

Firstly, we don't have any 14 years old girl in our compound.

Secondly, none of our neighbors is traveling anywhere.

Thirdly, I'm not at home.

I wasn't looking for any visibility or anything, I love my low key, that's the reason why I deleted the post, the fame and dragging was too much.

But y'all have something in mind, 50% of you guys that said trash about me, I feel it hypocrite.

Maybe it because I used 14 years old girl, I was just trying create something related to Oxlade recent trend. I had nothing bad in mind.

I'm sorry guys, peace should reign. ❤️

He would have had the sex if he didn't make this post. And that would have been the best way for this particular girl to get penetrated or defiled. Most girls are perhaps, defiled unbelievably early. It is scarce to see 16 years old virgin.

What I'm trying to say is that, the act is not a big deal, the girl in question may even be sexually active. Many bleep small girls and many small girls are not sexually pure. I will only stop here so that I don't get very obscene. Even if I'm obscene, it's because we live in an obscene reality

Aforxzy:
Are you okay.?

I'm so so mad
Why did you become polite? Thought you said I must be marrrd?

Aforxzy:
Hediot.
The kind of rubbish people write makes one doubt their sanity... Paedophile.
Now he's denying everything he wrote..
Attention seekers koshi

Lemme hear word! Were they not lashing U at 14?

Perhaps, he's not a paedophile. He is a hebephile as in Hebephilia. Google the word and check the difference.

Paedophilia is sexual attraction to prepubescent girls. Hebephilia is sexual attraction to pubescent girls.

I am currently 28 yrs and I should marry at 33 or so. I will marry four 15 yrs old girls. Four of them o. Kill me!

Hmm... At 100 level you're falling into septic tank and dying. What will you be doing in final year then? The corpse should be rotten by then. Omashe o!

Please be careful always, folks.

stacyadams:



Seriously u building an airplane?

Yes. And some other engineering prototypes. If you want to see them, please quote me again and I will drop my WhatsApp line. Or you could drop yours.

Das1mama:
Same question has always being in my memory for long cos am still a victim.... Take for instance a child(baby) that stops breast feeding will be replaced by d same or a replica of the substance for instance breast milk is a liquid and can be replaced by same liquid substance such as tea, water etc... Am not here to discourage anyone of his or her belief like some suggested reading through scripture right? My question is how does smoke corelate with a book? Like i said am here to learn and get solution to it myself... I want to quit but i need a replacement.

Drink coffee like a bastard.

Gadafii:
First of all, I won't be in ur shoes,because I won't be that stupid to call a girl like that my girl friend, she's definitely getting filled by that guy, but you couldn't decrypt that before now.

I am ever in ur shoes, which I will never be, I will make sure I don't disturb her about her posts no more, Bleep her so well and bad while looking for a better girl, that's if you are lucky oo, because like this no better girls outside anymore.

One time, a girl I was FWB with had the nerve to give a guy her number right in front of me, while we went out together, one mind wanted me to challenge the guy for violating my space, the other mind asked me to cool off, the guy wasn't my problem but the babe, she's pretty and endowed and that gets into her head because of the attention she gets from Hot guys.

I just left them, she came around when she was done with the guy, she saw my expression, not a funny one, then she asked why my face was like that, I just smiled and said nothing, then we went back home, the way I take bleep her that evening, she weak, then I asked her why she gave out her number right in front of me, she was apologizing and begin, but then I asked my self, why was I even getting worked up because of a girl that doesn't have self dignity, girl that's not even mine alone, girl I don't have serious relationship with, na so I unmount her and asked her to clean up and go home, sorted her transport and zero my mind from her.

So op, bone that girl and continue to draw oil from her if and when u can, stop getting
worked up and and stop asking about her posts, view and pass, she's not ur girl but for the streets

Hehehehe... Mad o!

Hardcore!

Obeyp:
Hello guys. So my girlfriend made this post for her friend. Have warned her about her closeness with this guy she should have limit that am not comfortable. Today she posted this on his birthday.

"See who's 20 happy birthday to one of the most amazing, talented se annoying sweet, caring person I know you know good people are hard to come by right?? Imagine having laughter, peace of mind, intelligence "good accent" na that one the burst my brain see.

"You have come through for me in ways i can't imagine and even explain and your genuine love and pure intentions you have with me it's everything for me thank you loving me the way you do. and always giving me a listening ear when i need someone to talk to how you take my burdens and problems like yours is what's really amaze me and also how you treat people's emotions it's just so pure thank you dear friend happy birthday my love wishing you the best year yet full with prosperity abundant blessings happiness � happy birthday babe have a blast and you know i love youuuuuu "

If you were in my shoes how will you feel.

Modified* I went and collected the iPhone I bought for her recently. I ended the relationship she should stay with her friend he should buy her a phone let them be together. I don't want any relationship stress. Have moved on.

You get mind buy under 30 girl iPhone when I dey find just 30k to buy controllers for the airplane I have been building? E be like say god wan kwonish you like this o. Boys the get mind sha o...

Chijeep:
Not really Surprised


I know them very well,
I know their father and mother,
Sorry I mean I know their parents.
I know their brothers and sisters
sorry I know their siblings
I know their uncle and aunt
sorry I mean I know their relatives
I know where they live, eat, drink and sleep
Sorry I mean I know their location
THEY LIVE IN BOLTON WANDERERS

Stop smoking that thing.

Very evil shit! They want you to know all those, yet they won't pay you. Or am I mistaken?

When the certificate is given to those who deserve it... This is how the cosmetic correction of a child with Crouzon syndrome was done. He even showed a significant improvement in vision and breathing.

Source: Weird and Amazing Things

alBHAGDADI:


Below are 10 Bible verses that teach against dishonest ways like internet fraud aka Yahoo Yahoo, Ponzi scheme, money rituals, sports betting, etc.

The verses clearly show why the Bible is a relevant book and will always be relevant in the world.


*Jeremiah 17:11 KJV

11 As the partridge sitteth on eggs, and hatcheth them not; so he that getteth riches, and not by right, shall leave them in the midst of his days, and at his end shall be a fool

* Proverbs 20:17 KJV

17 Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.

*Leviticus 19:13 KJV

13 Thou shalt not defraud thy neighbour, neither rob him: the wages of him that is hired shall not abide with thee all night until the morning.

*Proverbs 28:22 KJV

22 He that hasteth to be rich hath an evil eye, and considereth not that poverty shall come upon him.

*1 Timothy 6:9-10

9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.

10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

* Micah 2:1-3 KJV

1 Woe to them that devise iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand.

2 And they covet fields, and take them by violence; and houses, and take them away: so they oppress a man and his house, even a man and his heritage.

3 Therefore thus saith the Lord; Behold, against this family do I devise an evil, from which ye shall not remove your necks; neither shall ye go haughtily: for this time is evil.

* Proverbs 10:2 KJV

2 Treasures of wickedness profit nothing: but righteousness delivereth from death.

*Proverbs 16:8 KJV

8 Better is a little with righteousness than great revenues without right.

*Ephesians 4:28 KJV

28 Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.


Beloved, to avoid falling into dishonest ways, be mindful of the kind of content you consume, especially on the internet. Look at music videos today, what do you think they teach the youth? They fill them up with list and a desire to be rich because the lifestyle portrayed in those music videos can only be achieved through riches.

What do you think made four teenagers to behead a young girl for money rituals? Do you think they just woke up one morning and the thought came into their head? No, they were moved by the lust implanted in them by society, music and movies.

You see musicians flaunting money, mansions and cars in their videos, and dancing in the middle of 20 unclad girls; they were contracted by Satan to receive the world into wanting that kind of lifestyle. The scenes in their videos store in the subconscious mind of we humans without us knowing. Gradually, we start to desire such a life. When we see a dishonest means to achieve it, we jump at it without considering the consequence.

A while ago, Nigerians all screamed ENDSARS. Now SARS is gone, what we have left is an increase of Yahoo Boys without anyone checkmating them. Snakes are dangerous, but if you kill all of them in the wild, there will be a swell in the population of rodents such that the city won't know peace.

Young man, there is dignity in labour. Work hard, get more jobs. Any attempt to make money that doesn't see you taking up two or more jobs is just a dishonest attempt at becoming rich to fulfil lust.

I like this one. Playing that role.

2 And they covet fields, and take them by violence; and houses, and take them away: so they oppress a man and his house, even a man and his heritage.

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Go ahead and post it. But I have a prayer and it is this:

When the matter cast and the woman is divorced, let your fiance marry her and let her do the same willingly. In that way, the "disgrace" will become a blessing to them.

I wish your fiance can receive this wisdom. Go ahead and post it. You may as well reconcile with your man. Because it's always better to deal with the thief you know. And he will really love and respect you for being virtous enough to "forgive." And you will save the other woman's face.

Perhaps, you could equally cheat one day in marriage. The married woman in question must have jeered at the idea of cheating-in-marriage many years ago too. There is a real cause when people cheat. Cheats needs accommodation and forgiveness.

Be good!

Viltron:
It's a little long.

A girl I loved so much in our first year in uni. I was caring and all. She turned me down then in the most brutal way - with stern warnings never to try such rubbish again.

I took it like a man and even pleaded for her to forget it lets continue our friendship since we were on the same course and partners.

We were in the same city but she never visited me once. But I use to go to her place

On my birthday she didn't show up.

I went to see her along with my best friend then, who was studying in a different state, and one other friend. Gave her good money to cook. We ate.

Months later, I discover she and my best friend had been seeing each other since our meeting. To the point she'd been traveling to see him before things turned sour between them

When I discovered, she's started apologizing and begging, crying how she'd like us to date. By this time I was no longer in the school - I had changed uni. To a different state.

More than 10 years on, she's still professes love to me and wishes I marry her, but I made a vow to myself never to have anything to do with her after she and my best friend betrayed me.

Now she and my friend are sworn enemies

If you were in my shoes, what would you do.

she's a typical bitch. But try her of she's trustworthy. It's sweeter when women are desperate. I hardly ignore desperate women.

Alusiizizi:


Death by fire looks much more horrific than it actually is and in most cases the actual cause of death is smoke inhalation. Only when the fires are set skillfully is the dying process painful and enduring.

So what should have been the ideal way to painfully exterminate her within a not-so-long period of time?

P.S: I seriously think death is not the ideal way to punish an enemy. I would choose severe mutilation of core body parts so that while they heal from the injury, they will live in terror of what I have done to them. They will also realize that hell is here on earth, and that the devil is human (a lesson which we all need). Perhaps, someone can experience severe agony only when alive

Lack of character has killed many people and will still kill more. It's bad to do half-hearted mischief. It kills. Why not divorce a man you don't trust? Instead you are living with him and buying properties secretly and you expect that your toxic partner won't find out.

It's no surprise than villains tend to live longer. This is because we are aware of all the evils we are going to do. It is decided. And we go miles to accomplish it without mixing it with fairness or kindness. That is character. Though a bad character. Unlike the double minded folks. The husband is a low-functioning villain though... But he tried his best.

Alusiizizi:


The man didn't do anything wrong. I would have done worse.

But what could be worse than setting her ablaze. Please teach me!

He has don well. Malicious women deserves malignant partners. Now go and quote me in Merriam Webster dictionary.

Kriss216:
Exactly!


There's nothing special about Nigerian girls. Believe me

Remove procreation, what's the importance of a Nigerian girl in a man's life? Nothing!

I feel sad any time I see a man saying he loves a Nigerian girl. Give such a man 6 months max, he will come to his senses and realized there's nothing special about these daughters of Eve.

God didn't create Nigerian girls to be loved. They're created specifically for leisure.

Iyalaya eh!

1Sharon:


He called your name and so what?

You want to harm an old man and wanted OP to stab the man in his story?

What will you now tell Nigerian police?

I will get away.

That’s Vermin Supreme, and he’s ran in every Presidential election since 1992. If elected, he promises a pony for every American (presumably like the one in the picture), and to go back in time to kill Hitler before World War II begins. He also has a secret plan to end the inevitable zombie apocalypse. And yes, that’s a boot on his head.

Vermin Love Supreme (born 1960 or in 1961), he is an American performance artist, politician, and activist who has run as a candidate in various local, state, and national elections in the United States. He serves as a member of the Libertarian Party's judicial committee. Supreme is known for wearing a boot as a hat and carrying a large toothbrush, and has said that if elected President of the United States, he will pass a law requiring people to brush their teeth.

P.S: this passes for the political section as well as the joke section, but since it's real, let's leave it in politics.

I don't believe in fetishes and diabolical shit but just 2 evenings ago, something happened which surprised me, but I wasn't shocked as my opponent had expected me to be.

I was passing through a compound, a place where no one knew me, though it's a place I have passed at least 40 times. But I can vouch that no one there knew my name.. It was past 8pm when I passed 2 evenings ago.

There's this obnoxious old guy who lives there, though I have never seen his face, but only his form as I usually pass there at night, and all alone, and quietly. While I passed on that evening, I deliberately flashed him, because I saw that he limps on one leg.

Oboi... The next thing I heard was my name. Seriously, I laughed as I shuffled my eyes within their sockets but I didn't turn. He called again, but I was indifferent and kept moving on.

I was surprised, but being a Psychopath, it's impossible for me to be shocked by unexpected circumstances. That has helped me a lot.

If I catch that man at any corner I will make sure I break his other leg. If I don't do it, I will change my name.

PS: if I were OP I would have cut that man with a knife (I don't go about my day's business without a blade) for persuading me. It's something I have done numerous times. Nigeria is a jungle and if you live here, please arm yourself in one way or the other.

Ethanuella:
Hmmmn,
The way these youngsters do despicable things for money ehhh.

In the next decade, houses and cars would become really cheap, because all these boys would end up selling them to to cure madness/ailment, or when they go broke (juju failure/end of ritual).

The amount of impotent, barren, and mentally unstable people that will flood this country in the next decade will be alarming.

Just continue your legitimate hustle. God will crown your efforts

Mark my words: a leader arises who shall attempt to clear the streets of mad people. First, he will try to rehabilitate them. Secondly, an attempt will be made to treat them. Thirdly, those who can't be remedied due to organic brain disorder shall be killed and given up to schools of anatomy as cadaver! Shebi it is Nigeria? It will happen.